FabSwingers.com forum: Is there any point

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Being a single male on here? On average how many messages do womem and couples get? Its like being in a club with 1000 blokes and one bird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've here 3 weeks, I got my first very after 5 months.

Instead of focusing on the site so much take a step back. You don't have to message everyone in the area.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"You've here 3 weeks, I got my first very after 5 months.

Instead of focusing on the site so much take a step back. You don't have to message everyone in the area."

5 months?

Took me less than a fortnight

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Being a single male on here? On average how many messages do womem and couples get? Its like being in a club with 1000 blokes and one bird

Nice tits btw

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By *aveandSue1Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

Know what you mean. We've made our profile out to say that we don't want to hear from single guys.

On any one day we can get up to 50requests to meet even though in big letters it says don't contact us.

Can understand the guys contacting but afraid there's just too many around.

Wish you the best of luck in finding some fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but 99% of the messages they get are not what there looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would also probably help if your profile was a little but more personal because you're blending in with 10,000 other guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You've here 3 weeks, I got my first very after 5 months.

Instead of focusing on the site so much take a step back. You don't have to message everyone in the area.

5 months?

Took me less than a fortnight

I don't have your game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being a single male on here? On average how many messages do womem and couples get? Its like being in a club with 1000 blokes and one bird

Currently I have over 400 messages in my inbox

My advice is make your message stand out and be unique from the boring mundane messages most of us get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes there is point. It's up to you to make the most of what fab has to offer

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I rarely message anyone but when i do usually gets delted but without even looking at my profile. Seem to me fab is full of normal none swingers who want to be swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I rarely message anyone but when i do usually gets delted but without even looking at my profile. Seem to me fab is full of normal none swingers who want to be swingers. "

I delete my sent box. Any reply is a bonus then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just to add i was offered a meet after only 8 hours of being here but declined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I rarely message anyone but when i do usually gets delted but without even looking at my profile. Seem to me fab is full of normal none swingers who want to be swingers. "

I don't class myself as a swinger

I'm here to meet new people and have great sex

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By *andVBCouple
over a year ago

Wrexham

"I rarely message anyone but when i do usually gets delted but without even looking at my profile. Seem to me fab is full of normal none swingers who want to be swingers. "

How do you know they've not looked at your profile? Lots use stealth mode like sneaky ninjas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I rarely message anyone but when i do usually gets delted but without even looking at my profile. Seem to me fab is full of normal none swingers who want to be swingers. "

How do you know they haven't viewed your profile?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I rarely message anyone but when i do usually gets delted but without even looking at my profile. Seem to me fab is full of normal none swingers who want to be swingers.

I don't class myself as a swinger

I'm here to meet new people and have great sex"
same lol but its not happening. Also been accused of being a messer

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

"Being a single male on here? On average how many messages do womem and couples get? Its like being in a club with 1000 blokes and one bird

Your profile says your just looking at the moment so.....

Maybe it's the mixed messages that are causing a problem (Besides others)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I rarely message anyone but when i do usually gets delted but without even looking at my profile. Seem to me fab is full of normal none swingers who want to be swingers.

How do you know they've not looked at your profile? Lots use stealth mode like sneaky ninjas

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agreed but like everyone? Doubt that ill be lucky to get 5 views per day and usually off gay/bi men

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I rarely message anyone but when i do usually gets delted but without even looking at my profile. Seem to me fab is full of normal none swingers who want to be swingers. "

They may have looked at you in stealth mode. The may have mass deleted all messages. If you feel it's pointless then delete your profile and you'll know for certain there is one less male in the competition pool.

Or, make yourself memorable, join in and get to know people and don't expect it all to land on your plate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I rarely message anyone but when i do usually gets delted but without even looking at my profile. Seem to me fab is full of normal none swingers who want to be swingers.

How do you know they've not looked at your profile? Lots use stealth mode like sneaky ninjas

agreed but like everyone? Doubt that ill be lucky to get 5 views per day and usually off gay/bi men"

Do you really need fab to get a shag? Dont you go to pubs and such? Dont you chat women up? My point is people were meeting and fucking long before fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I rarely message anyone but when i do usually gets delted but without even looking at my profile. Seem to me fab is full of normal none swingers who want to be swingers.

Or, make yourself memorable, join in and get to know people and don't expect it all to land on your plate.

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yea but i dont want to come across as a beg or desperate or annoy people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I rarely message anyone but when i do usually gets delted but without even looking at my profile. Seem to me fab is full of normal none swingers who want to be swingers.

How do you know they've not looked at your profile? Lots use stealth mode like sneaky ninjas

agreed but like everyone? Doubt that ill be lucky to get 5 views per day and usually off gay/bi men"

anyone can look...just make sure you hide your cock pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I rarely message anyone but when i do usually gets delted but without even looking at my profile. Seem to me fab is full of normal none swingers who want to be swingers.

I don't class myself as a swinger

I'm here to meet new people and have great sex same lol but its not happening. Also been accused of being a messer"

Well those who accuse you of that block and move on from them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I rarely message anyone but when i do usually gets delted but without even looking at my profile. Seem to me fab is full of normal none swingers who want to be swingers.

How do you know they've not looked at your profile? Lots use stealth mode like sneaky ninjas

agreed but like everyone? Doubt that ill be lucky to get 5 views per day and usually off gay/bi men

Do you really need fab to get a shag? Dont you go to pubs and such? Dont you chat women up? My point is people were meeting and fucking long before fab"
im obviously not good looking haha

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By *andVBCouple
over a year ago

Wrexham

"Being a single male on here? On average how many messages do womem and couples get? Its like being in a club with 1000 blokes and one bird

Your profile says your just looking at the moment so.....

Maybe it's the mixed messages that are causing a problem (Besides others)

Also, this! Your username and the first line of your profile suggest you're not particularly interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You've here 3 weeks, I got my first very after 5 months.

Instead of focusing on the site so much take a step back. You don't have to message everyone in the area.

5 months?

Took me less than a fortnight

We can't all be as... friendly as you Joseph.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Being a single male on here? On average how many messages do womem and couples get? Its like being in a club with 1000 blokes and one bird

Your profile says your just looking at the moment so.....

Maybe it's the mixed messages that are causing a problem (Besides others)

Also, this! Your username and the first line of your profile suggest you're not particularly interested."
im just being honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being a single male on here? On average how many messages do womem and couples get? Its like being in a club with 1000 blokes and one bird

Be patient.

You are on a site with 1000 blokes to one bird.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Being a single male on here? On average how many messages do womem and couples get? Its like being in a club with 1000 blokes and one bird

Be patient.

You are on a site with 1000 blokes to one bird.

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does anyone know the actual figure?

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"You've here 3 weeks, I got my first very after 5 months.

Instead of focusing on the site so much take a step back. You don't have to message everyone in the area.

5 months?

Took me less than a fortnight

I would have deleted my profile and never returned if I had to wait a fortnight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being a single male on here? On average how many messages do womem and couples get? Its like being in a club with 1000 blokes and one bird

I'm finding it very difficult to get a reply to my messages, but the way I see it is, I'm having sex with people off this site, any meets I may get in the future with people on here are a bonus (for a lack of a better word).

So I've decided to cut down massively on messaging and just enjoy the forums and chat rooms. If I don't meet anyone, so be it. I'll worry about it when I hit a dry spell

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Being a single male on here? On average how many messages do womem and couples get? Its like being in a club with 1000 blokes and one bird

Be patient.

You are on a site with 1000 blokes to one bird.

does anyone know the actual figure?"

9723 - 1 as of last night at 21:33

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You've here 3 weeks, I got my first very after 5 months.

Instead of focusing on the site so much take a step back. You don't have to message everyone in the area.

5 months?

Took me less than a fortnight

I would have deleted my profile and never returned if I had to wait a fortnight "

Me too,only took me 2 days

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Being a single male on here? On average how many messages do womem and couples get? Its like being in a club with 1000 blokes and one bird

Be patient.

You are on a site with 1000 blokes to one bird.

does anyone know the actual figure?

9723 - 1 as of last night at 21:33"
seriously though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being a single male on here? On average how many messages do womem and couples get? Its like being in a club with 1000 blokes and one bird

Your profile says your just looking at the moment so.....

Maybe it's the mixed messages that are causing a problem (Besides others)

Also, this! Your username and the first line of your profile suggest you're not particularly interested. im just being honest"

firstly, you can't actually tell if someone has looked at your profile a lot of the time..secondly, it does sound very half hearted,as you say..'just browsing'..and thirdly, you can block men from messaging you, no need to put a crappy sounding remark about it,that in itself would put me off,doesn't really make you sound like a very friendly approachable person..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being a single male on here? On average how many messages do womem and couples get? Its like being in a club with 1000 blokes and one bird

Be patient.

You are on a site with 1000 blokes to one bird.

does anyone know the actual figure?"

Would it make a difference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm obviously fucking awesome then.

Go bi, lots more options.

Disclaimer...tongue firmly in cheek.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You've here 3 weeks, I got my first very after 5 months.

Instead of focusing on the site so much take a step back. You don't have to message everyone in the area.

5 months?

Took me less than a fortnight

I would have deleted my profile and never returned if I had to wait a fortnight

Me too,only took me 2 days

Guys. Some of us had sex before we joined.

You know how ridiculous your arguments are don't you?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Being a single male on here? On average how many messages do womem and couples get? Its like being in a club with 1000 blokes and one bird

Your profile says your just looking at the moment so.....

Maybe it's the mixed messages that are causing a problem (Besides others)

Also, this! Your username and the first line of your profile suggest you're not particularly interested. im just being honest"

But you're not, are you? You're saying that just browsing isn't giving you instant results. You're not just browsing if you're expecting to get a shag. I don't say I'm window-shopping and expect to come home with a bag of stuff that just miraculously presented itself to me for free.

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

I am single I love looking at all the lovely naked women on here,that if they saw you on the streets they would not give you the time of the day,so nice looking at all the nice fannys,thanks ladies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Being a single male on here? On average how many messages do womem and couples get? Its like being in a club with 1000 blokes and one bird

Your profile says your just looking at the moment so.....

Maybe it's the mixed messages that are causing a problem (Besides others)

Also, this! Your username and the first line of your profile suggest you're not particularly interested. im just being honest

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a reply wouldnt go a miss let alone a shag or maybe some interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You've here 3 weeks, I got my first very after 5 months.

Instead of focusing on the site so much take a step back. You don't have to message everyone in the area.

5 months?

Took me less than a fortnight

I would have deleted my profile and never returned if I had to wait a fortnight

Me too,only took me 2 days

Guys. Some of us had sex before we joined.

You know how ridiculous your arguments are don't you?

I get more shags from going pub than i do on here...not a complaint btw just a fact

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"You've here 3 weeks, I got my first very after 5 months.

Instead of focusing on the site so much take a step back. You don't have to message everyone in the area.

5 months?

Took me less than a fortnight

We can't all be as... friendly as you Joseph.

It's easy once you know how

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're real problems will start when you get a meet. And verified.

You've met them.

well I ain't meeting you then

You've got to many verifications not for me. From someone with more veris then you

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"I rarely message anyone but when i do usually gets delted but without even looking at my profile. Seem to me fab is full of normal none swingers who want to be swingers.

How do you know they've not looked at your profile? Lots use stealth mode like sneaky ninjas

agreed but like everyone? Doubt that ill be lucky to get 5 views per day and usually off gay/bi men"

You said you didn't send many messages, so how many views do you expect? (and btw the number of females / couples using stealth mode seems to be extremely high)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're real problems will start when you get a meet. And verified.

You've met them.

well I ain't meeting you then

You've got to many verifications not for me. From someone with more veris then you

Haha I can relate to that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You've here 3 weeks, I got my first very after 5 months.

Instead of focusing on the site so much take a step back. You don't have to message everyone in the area.

5 months?

Took me less than a fortnight

I would have deleted my profile and never returned if I had to wait a fortnight

Me too,only took me 2 days

Guys. Some of us had sex before we joined.

You know how ridiculous your arguments are don't you?

I get more shags from going pub than i do on here...not a complaint btw just a fact"

Erm, Where do you drink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being a single male on here? On average how many messages do womem and couples get? Its like being in a club with 1000 blokes and one bird

Is this a trick question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on here nearly 3 weeks and not had a meet yet. If you want to leave then leave. It isn't instashag I'm afraid.

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I've been on here nearly 3 weeks and not had a meet yet. If you want to leave then leave. It isn't instashag I'm afraid.

Your in box just exploded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been on here nearly 3 weeks and not had a meet yet. If you want to leave then leave. It isn't instashag I'm afraid.

But there's nothing to see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been on here nearly 3 weeks and not had a meet yet. If you want to leave then leave. It isn't instashag I'm afraid.

Your in box just exploded

Haha I'll get myself a secretary

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've been on here nearly 3 weeks and not had a meet yet. If you want to leave then leave. It isn't instashag I'm afraid.

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who said anything about leaving?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being a single male on here? On average how many messages do womem and couples get? Its like being in a club with 1000 blokes and one bird

Just out of interest...where is this club you speak of...?!?

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"I rarely message anyone but when i do usually gets delted but without even looking at my profile. Seem to me fab is full of normal none swingers who want to be swingers.

How do you know they've not looked at your profile? Lots use stealth mode like sneaky ninjas

agreed but like everyone? Doubt that ill be lucky to get 5 views per day and usually off gay/bi men

anyone can look...just make sure you hide your cock pics

I liked the cock pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being a single male on here? On average how many messages do womem and couples get? Its like being in a club with 1000 blokes and one bird

Just out of interest...where is this club you speak of...?!?

I think it's called the chief executive club

#glassceiling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been on here nearly 3 weeks and not had a meet yet. If you want to leave then leave. It isn't instashag I'm afraid.

who said anything about leaving?"

I'm I the only one thinking you 2 are a perfect match

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been on here nearly 3 weeks and not had a meet yet. If you want to leave then leave. It isn't instashag I'm afraid.

who said anything about leaving?"

My apologies thought you'd asked if there was any point being on here?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been on here nearly 3 weeks and not had a meet yet. If you want to leave then leave. It isn't instashag I'm afraid.

But there's nothing to see

Exactly move along

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've been on here nearly 3 weeks and not had a meet yet. If you want to leave then leave. It isn't instashag I'm afraid.

who said anything about leaving?

My apologies thought you'd asked if there was any point being on here?

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hmm i kinda did. But i dont plan on leaving not yet anyway

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Being a single male on here? On average how many messages do womem and couples get? Its like being in a club with 1000 blokes and one bird

What does it matter, I thought you were "Justbrowsing"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Being a single male on here? On average how many messages do womem and couples get? Its like being in a club with 1000 blokes and one bird

What does it matter, I thought you were "Justbrowsing"

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give me a better username

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been on here nearly 3 weeks and not had a meet yet. If you want to leave then leave. It isn't instashag I'm afraid.

Your in box just exploded

Haha I'll get myself a secretary

My message is the yellow one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just to add i was offered a meet after only 8 hours of being here but declined"

So you declined a meet and your complaining??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being a single male on here? On average how many messages do womem and couples get? Its like being in a club with 1000 blokes and one bird

What does it matter, I thought you were "Justbrowsing"

give me a better username

How about '100%straightnotafterabumming' ?

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"You've here 3 weeks, I got my first very after 5 months.

Instead of focusing on the site so much take a step back. You don't have to message everyone in the area.

5 months?

Took me less than a fortnight

I would have deleted my profile and never returned if I had to wait a fortnight

Me too,only took me 2 days

Guys. Some of us had sex before we joined.

You know how ridiculous your arguments are don't you?

I get more shags from going pub than i do on here...not a complaint btw just a fact"

Similar here but Vanilla clubbing, over the time we've been on here the score is 5-2 meet play wise in favor of clubbing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being a single male on here? On average how many messages do womem and couples get? Its like being in a club with 1000 blokes and one bird

What does it matter, I thought you were "Justbrowsing"

Nah he's "JustWhining"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being a single male on here? On average how many messages do womem and couples get? Its like being in a club with 1000 blokes and one bird

What does it matter, I thought you were "Justbrowsing"

give me a better username

Choose a username that probably best describes you

Mine is Seductivekisser for obvious reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been on here nearly 3 weeks and not had a meet yet. If you want to leave then leave. It isn't instashag I'm afraid.

Your in box just exploded

Haha I'll get myself a secretary

My message is the yellow one.

I have no yellow messages currently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being a single male on here? On average how many messages do womem and couples get? Its like being in a club with 1000 blokes and one bird

What does it matter, I thought you were "Justbrowsing"

give me a better username

Choose a username that probably best describes you

Mine is Seductivekisser for obvious reasons "

Because you are a seductive kisser?

Am i close?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been on here nearly 3 weeks and not had a meet yet. If you want to leave then leave. It isn't instashag I'm afraid.

Your in box just exploded

Haha I'll get myself a secretary

My message is the yellow one.

I have no yellow messages currently

Are they the reduced messages...i love a bargain

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just to add i was offered a meet after only 8 hours of being here but declined

So you declined a meet and your complaining??"
i declined a meet because i value my sexual health.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being a single male on here? On average how many messages do womem and couples get? Its like being in a club with 1000 blokes and one bird

What does it matter, I thought you were "Justbrowsing"

give me a better username

Choose a username that probably best describes you

Mine is Seductivekisser for obvious reasons

Because you are a seductive kisser?

Am i close?"

Well you will find out soon won't you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Being a single male on here? On average how many messages do womem and couples get? Its like being in a club with 1000 blokes and one bird

What does it matter, I thought you were "Justbrowsing"

Nah he's "JustWhining"

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obviously where else wpuld i come to whine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being a single male on here? On average how many messages do womem and couples get? Its like being in a club with 1000 blokes and one bird

Lol you right is hard mate. But what I do is build good relations with those I've meet & just enjoy repeat meets

already knows what turns them on & got banter with, saves chasing new meets every often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being a single male on here? On average how many messages do womem and couples get? Its like being in a club with 1000 blokes and one bird

What does it matter, I thought you were "Justbrowsing"

Nah he's "JustWhining"

obviously where else wpuld i come to whine?

Not here soon it would seem as you want to run away..

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

You ought to post in the Introductions forum and ask for profile advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been on here nearly 3 weeks and not had a meet yet. If you want to leave then leave. It isn't instashag I'm afraid.

Your in box just exploded

Haha I'll get myself a secretary

My message is the yellow one.

I have no yellow messages currently

That's odd, I copy and pasted to every member within 400 miles. You must have got one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think there is any point doing anything worthwhile if you have defeatist attitude...

That's all I've got...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being a single male on here? On average how many messages do womem and couples get? Its like being in a club with 1000 blokes and one bird

Lol you right is hard mate. But what I do is build good relations with those I've meet & just enjoy repeat meets

already knows what turns them on & got banter with, saves chasing new meets every often

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being a single male on here? On average how many messages do womem and couples get? Its like being in a club with 1000 blokes and one bird

Well if u was near me, just judging from ur body pics but I would!

pmsl

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By *ilary and DonaldCouple
over a year ago

chingford

I know we are of a different dynamic to the singletons on here but I'm suspicious of anyone with a vague profile wishing to meet.

There are some excellent profiles on here, singles & couples, and they seem to be the ones getting the most out of the site. I don't think this is a coincidence.

I don't think it's the volume of mail but the quality. Anyone who is serious about meeting will have adequate filters in place to assure the mail they are receiving is from someone compatible to their wishes. Therefore the discarded mail is not up to scratch or the profile is lacking something.

You will ultimately get out of this site what you put in.

Op your pictures are not the worst we've seen by a long way so maybe think what else you need to do to make yourself stand out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I rarely message anyone but when i do usually gets delted but without even looking at my profile. Seem to me fab is full of normal none swingers who want to be swingers.

How do you know they've not looked at your profile? Lots use stealth mode like sneaky ninjas

agreed but like everyone? Doubt that ill be lucky to get 5 views per day and usually off gay/bi men"

Go on cam in the chat rooms and ur get a lot more views! Lol. Most of my meets have been from building a rapport on cam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You've here 3 weeks, I got my first very after 5 months.

Instead of focusing on the site so much take a step back. You don't have to message everyone in the area.

5 months?

Took me less than a fortnight

I would have deleted my profile and never returned if I had to wait a fortnight

Me too,only took me 2 days

Guys. Some of us had sex before we joined.

You know how ridiculous your arguments are don't you?

I get more shags from going pub than i do on here...not a complaint btw just a fact

Erm, Where do you drink.

Rossendale

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

OP you make of the site what you want to make of it - sometimes that means re-setting expectations or perhaps being more realistic about what you are expecting to get out of it.

As others have pointed out you've been here no time at all compared to some that don't have meets, and it does take patience and realising that you're just one fish in a whole sea of them all swimming in roughly the same direction.

The only things you can change/influence are your profile, your pictures and your approach - the key is working out which need adjusting

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"You're real problems will start when you get a meet. And verified.

You've met them.

well I ain't meeting you then

You've got to many verifications not for me. From someone with more veris then you

Thats why most people hide them....no drama then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're real problems will start when you get a meet. And verified.

You've met them.

well I ain't meeting you then

You've got to many verifications not for me. From someone with more veris then you

Thats why most people hide them....no drama then.

Yes but if I hide mine I get the usual you must have met guys or TV/TS etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Know what you mean. We've made our profile out to say that we don't want to hear from single guys.

On any one day we can get up to 50requests to meet even though in big letters it says don't contact us.

Can understand the guys contacting but afraid there's just too many around.

Wish you the best of luck in finding some fun."

Erm, no you haven't, you're actually looking for single men

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