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At what age are you classed as mature?

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Just a query thread more than anything. I've just been referred to as a mature lady. ....which I really didn't think of myself as being. I'd say 55 plus is mature? Any guidance appreciated x

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Well cars are classed a vintage after 20 years, so you might describe yourself as that instead?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mature in years or in mind. They'll be vastly different.

I'm neither. I refuse to mature

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Mature in years or in mind. They'll be vastly different.

I'm neither. I refuse to mature "

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone in his very early 20s stated on here the other day that he views mature women as being 25+ so it depends on prospective I guess.

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

I'm the biggest kid going and regularly just have a laugh or climb up shit. It's just who I am. I don't view myself as mature. At 25 you've legally only been sexually active for 9 years. Don't think that constitutes enough experience to be classed mature

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"Mature in years or in mind. They'll be vastly different.

I'm neither. I refuse to mature "

Maturing is overrated. ..I'll leave wine, whisky and cheese to mature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mature in years or in mind. They'll be vastly different.

I'm neither. I refuse to mature

Maturing is overrated. ..I'll leave wine, whisky and cheese to mature "

Exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been called mature on here quite a few times. We've also been referred to as an older couple more than once (one time it was by someone one year younger than me ).

So I guess nature is whatever you want it to be. Though I personally tend to agree with your OP that I've always thought it was in the 55+ range. *shrugs*

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"I'm the biggest kid going and regularly just have a laugh or climb up shit. It's just who I am. I don't view myself as mature. At 25 you've legally only been sexually active for 9 years. Don't think that constitutes enough experience to be classed mature "

I still climb trees

S

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"I've been called mature on here quite a few times. We've also been referred to as an older couple more than once (one time it was by someone one year younger than me ).

So I guess nature is whatever you want it to be. Though I personally tend to agree with your OP that I've always thought it was in the 55+ range. *shrugs*"

Pull your finger out, you've only got three weeks

S

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By *Ollyinone.Man
over a year ago

West Mids


"Just a query thread more than anything. I've just been referred to as a mature lady. ....which I really didn't think of myself as being. I'd say 55 plus is mature? Any guidance appreciated x "

When you stopping laughing at videos of people falling over on the internet and instead have genuine concern for thier wellbeing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm the biggest kid going and regularly just have a laugh or climb up shit. It's just who I am. I don't view myself as mature. At 25 you've legally only been sexually active for 9 years. Don't think that constitutes enough experience to be classed mature

I still climb trees "

So do I, it's great fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whsn you can no longer look at your stairs without "bracing yourself" to climb them

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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire

This is interesting ... As you get older I think what you class as mature gets older too. That said someone told me I looked 52 the other day and then a 35 year old said I love the older woman.... X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your perception of age changes as you grow up.

I'm 37 and at 16 I thought my mum was old at that age, anything older was just oooollllddd! Lol

But now I still feel like I'm 21 and people over 60 seem old but all depends on the person, their outlook on life, life style and actual style.

I know people my age that look 10 years older!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a query thread more than anything. I've just been referred to as a mature lady. ....which I really didn't think of myself as being. I'd say 55 plus is mature? Any guidance appreciated x "

And the inverse of that is immature at under 55?

Surely maturity has little to do with age but rather to do with attitudes, respect, self awareness and the mind.....

Do I class myself as mature? If it's to do with feeling old, stodgy, inflexible, grumpy, glass half empty and traditional...then I'm a wee pup

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I've been called mature on here quite a few times. We've also been referred to as an older couple more than once (one time it was by someone one year younger than me ).

So I guess nature is whatever you want it to be. Though I personally tend to agree with your OP that I've always thought it was in the 55+ range. *shrugs*

Pull your finger out, you've only got three weeks

S"

I've got 2 weeks & 3 days, but I'm having a self imposed midlife crisis

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

Shit I'm 47 this year but I still feel like a 20 year old but with more experience

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"I've been called mature on here quite a few times. We've also been referred to as an older couple more than once (one time it was by someone one year younger than me ).

So I guess nature is whatever you want it to be. Though I personally tend to agree with your OP that I've always thought it was in the 55+ range. *shrugs*

Pull your finger out, you've only got three weeks

S

I've got 2 weeks & 3 days, but I'm having a self imposed midlife crisis "

I just convince myself that soon everyone will live to 140, so I have another 15yrs before I worry

S

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I've been called mature since I was about 5. I'll soon be 52 and will just be old.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"I've been called mature since I was about 5. I'll soon be 52 and will just be old.

"

Just transpose the digits

S

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I've been called mature since I was about 5. I'll soon be 52 and will just be old.

Just transpose the digits

S"

I'll still be mature and I don't think I can pass myself off as 25, even in the dark.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a query thread more than anything. I've just been referred to as a mature lady. ....which I really didn't think of myself as being. I'd say 55 plus is mature? Any guidance appreciated x "

Who cares?!

Why is it relevant or important?

Man is the only creature who divides daily life into segments and lives breathes and sleeps by that and that alone.

Age is a (cheesy cliche alert) number. You are, what and who you think you are.

In mind and body.

fuck em!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a query thread more than anything. I've just been referred to as a mature lady. ....which I really didn't think of myself as being. I'd say 55 plus is mature? Any guidance appreciated x

Who cares?!

Why is it relevant or important?

Man is the only creature who divides daily life into segments and lives breathes and sleeps by that and that alone.

Age is a (cheesy cliche alert) number. You are, what and who you think you are.

In mind and body.

fuck em!

"

the OP was only asking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whsn you can no longer look at your stairs without "bracing yourself" to climb them "

Well that's me fucked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you really mean mature, or just old?

I'm middle-aged, make no claims to maturity. My mother is "old", 88 is old by anyone's standards

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

No I mean when you get messages saying they like "mature women" to me that suggests older....far more older than I. I don't feel at almost 35 that I am in the nature woman age group

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"Just a query thread more than anything. I've just been referred to as a mature lady. ....which I really didn't think of myself as being. I'd say 55 plus is mature? Any guidance appreciated x

Who cares?!

Why is it relevant or important?

Man is the only creature who divides daily life into segments and lives breathes and sleeps by that and that alone.

Age is a (cheesy cliche alert) number. You are, what and who you think you are.

In mind and body.

fuck em!

"

I was more curious than anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I mean when you get messages saying they like "mature women" to me that suggests older....far more older than I. I don't feel at almost 35 that I am in the nature woman age group "

This...yep i am just about to turn 44 so defo middle aged...but when i get messages saying "hey, are you into fucking younger guys?" ....and they are 39/40 it makes me go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I mean when you get messages saying they like "mature women" to me that suggests older....far more older than I. I don't feel at almost 35 that I am in the nature woman age group "

Maybe those who use it don't understand the difference yet.....

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"No I mean when you get messages saying they like "mature women" to me that suggests older....far more older than I. I don't feel at almost 35 that I am in the nature woman age group

This...yep i am just about to turn 44 so defo middle aged...but when i get messages saying "hey, are you into fucking younger guys?" ....and they are 39/40 it makes me go "

Precisely when a 30 yr old asks if I like younger guys it really makes me a tad perplexed. Now if they were 25 maybe but 9/10 years isn't a lot.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Over 30.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

It depends, I'm mature, because I understand people and how the world works and how to read situations.

Growing old is mandatory, growing up is optional.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh id say 55 too - gives me 4 months to still act daft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a query thread more than anything. I've just been referred to as a mature lady. ....which I really didn't think of myself as being. I'd say 55 plus is mature? Any guidance appreciated x

Who cares?!

Why is it relevant or important?

Man is the only creature who divides daily life into segments and lives breathes and sleeps by that and that alone.

Age is a (cheesy cliche alert) number. You are, what and who you think you are.

In mind and body.

fuck em!

the OP was only asking "

There was no nastiness, attached to the reply. Just opinion.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Over 30. "

Bollox

S

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By *andVBCouple
over a year ago

Wrexham


"Over 30. "

But, but, but... everyone always tells me I'm immature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a query thread more than anything. I've just been referred to as a mature lady. ....which I really didn't think of myself as being. I'd say 55 plus is mature? Any guidance appreciated x

Who cares?!

Why is it relevant or important?

Man is the only creature who divides daily life into segments and lives breathes and sleeps by that and that alone.

Age is a (cheesy cliche alert) number. You are, what and who you think you are.

In mind and body.

fuck em!

I was more curious than anything. "
Not said to offend, far from it. Perhps, it's far more relevant to ladies, as everyone knows, ladies mature fastsr than men anyway

You'll likely find that us men, don't actually care about being labelled, so it's of little interest. Whereas, ladies, apparently, so I've been told, are obsessed by age, size, or simply being classified by a word.

Mature, aged, elderly, old fashioned (two words, i know) .

anyway, just stirring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whsn you can no longer look at your stairs without "bracing yourself" to climb them

Well that's me fucked. "

And me. I dream of bungalows!

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By *obwithkiltMan
over a year ago

Belton

In my head I will forever be 26...not that it was a memorable year or anything I just feel like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50+. You don't even start learning until you're 35, then when you've become mature, it's too late to use the knowledge......dammit!

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Some days I'm more mature than others, this is both the way my body feels and my mind might be working I do feel like 30 ish at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

AT LEAST 15 years older than me. Whatever my age

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Over 30. "

You take that back

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

47+

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Over 30.

You take that back "

I will do in about three years time. Until then, yep over 30.

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

Your only as young as you feel,or the person your felling dont like labeling people lol

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"Over 30.

You take that back

I will do in about three years time. Until then, yep over 30. "

I'm never maturing. Sounds cheesy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aging is mandatory, growing up/maturing is optional

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

My body is mature but my mind hasn't caught up yet.

Mature but young at heart.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"My body is mature but my mind hasn't caught up yet.

Mature but young at heart."

Same here!

My body is 48 but most of the time I'm about 12! When I'm having rumpy pumpy I'm about 22!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The moment your first wrinkle appears you are classed as mature. Be it 18 or 42, I'm wrinkle free thankfully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm male. I refuse to be mature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The moment your first wrinkle appears you are classed as mature. Be it 18 or 42, I'm wrinkle free thankfully "

In which case I'm not there yet...smiling gives you wrinkles, resting bitch face keeps you pretty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The moment your first wrinkle appears you are classed as mature. Be it 18 or 42, I'm wrinkle free thankfully

In which case I'm not there yet...smiling gives you wrinkles, resting bitch face keeps you pretty "

Bollocks, I've been giggling all my life, it only gave me a six pack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is the word "mature" code for fat old wrinkly hag with no sense of fun left?

Then that's not me then - I'm not that wrinkly yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The moment your first wrinkle appears you are classed as mature. Be it 18 or 42, I'm wrinkle free thankfully

In which case I'm not there yet...smiling gives you wrinkles, resting bitch face keeps you pretty

Bollocks, I've been giggling all my life, it only gave me a six pack "

Then it must be that incredibly expensive face cream with bee venom...or the fountain of youth that gets sprayed over me!

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Your only as young as you feel,or the person your felling dont like labeling people lol"

Suits me

H is pissed though

S

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