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Your parents should respect the fact your older now too and hopefully will treat you as such and with a little give and take it can work  | |||
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"Yup, for the same reasons as you. Dad had a brain tumor and he's home cared for now, mum couldn't do that alone and the old bugger would have to go into care so my gf and i moved across here and moved in to help. It's not actually too bad. Make sure to have a space for you to run off to, perhaps decorate your room there to your liking and make a nest
Your parents should respect the fact your older now too and hopefully will treat you as such and with a little give and take it can work "Thanks for that. The room is already decorated how I would like it as I helped when they moved in the house and has a japanese theme. My mum still acts like im a kid but she cant really help it as she forgets a lot due to her meds and is dying so i can forgive her those things. My dad knows im an adult which is good and luckily will happily sit in silence. I know I will have to lay some ground rules like my mum will too as she likes things her way. Not many places to run off to as out in the middle of nowhere but the house is big enough really. | |||
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"Just say you're meeting up with friends." I dont have any there, until I can find a job I cant really go out and socialise. That's the tricky part! | |||
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"Moved back in with my Mam once I got out of the forces, was there for 6 months before I got a place of my own and the be fair it was great, she was a wonderful lady and the best Mam anyone could hope for. God rest her soul. Enjoy your time with your parents, you never know how long you've got. "Aw im sorry to hear your mum passed! My mum is terminal now which is why im happy to go and sort the house at a later date so I can actually have this time with her. Hugs x | |||
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"Just say you're meeting up with friends. I dont have any there, until I can find a job I cant really go out and socialise. That's the tricky part! " Day meets? Tell them your job hunting  | |||
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"Just say you're meeting up with friends. I dont have any there, until I can find a job I cant really go out and socialise. That's the tricky part! Day meets? Tell them your job hunting "Haha sneaky.. might work for a few tbh!! I hadn't even thought of that! You angel x | |||
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"Moved back in with my Mam once I got out of the forces, was there for 6 months before I got a place of my own and the be fair it was great, she was a wonderful lady and the best Mam anyone could hope for. God rest her soul. Enjoy your time with your parents, you never know how long you've got.
Aw im sorry to hear your mum passed! My mum is terminal now which is why im happy to go and sort the house at a later date so I can actually have this time with her.
Hugs x"Thank you.. That's terrible about your Mum, my heart goes out to you. X | |||
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"I moved back for 6 months after 10 years. Be mindful that you don't regress! It's hard to demand your adult rights if you're getting your washing and ironing done and not making your own food :p" I'll be doing a lot of the cooking and helping with cleaning its kinda why Im going back.. I just need to not get used to being chauffeured round by my dad lol!! | |||
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"Moved back in with my Mam once I got out of the forces, was there for 6 months before I got a place of my own and the be fair it was great, she was a wonderful lady and the best Mam anyone could hope for. God rest her soul. Enjoy your time with your parents, you never know how long you've got.
Aw im sorry to hear your mum passed! My mum is terminal now which is why im happy to go and sort the house at a later date so I can actually have this time with her.
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"I moved back for 6 months after 10 years. Be mindful that you don't regress! It's hard to demand your adult rights if you're getting your washing and ironing done and not making your own food :p I'll be doing a lot of the cooking and helping with cleaning its kinda why Im going back.. I just need to not get used to being chauffeured round by my dad lol!! " No way! Dad's taxis are a life long perk haha | |||
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"I moved in with my mum for a bit. I had a meet one night and the guy said he was 2 minutes away so I said bye to my mum and headed outside and up the road for him to pick me up. 2 minutes passed... figured the guy wouldn't be long.. Waited a bit longer and he texted saying he couldn't find my road and his sat nav died and his phone was about to die etc etc. I'd been out of the house for 20 minutes, so if I went home my mum and her friend would ask why... it was the middle of winter and I just stood on my street corner for like 40 minutes. When I got home mum said "that was quick" and I stuttered out some bullshit excuse like the guy (a 'POF date') pulled over and lined up some so I told him to take me home..... I just hid in my room and hoped she was already d*unk enough to not remember that in the morning..." Omg thats awful!! Remind me if im meeting anyone to tell them to charge their phone prior to coming out or im not meeting them haha!! Now the question is did she remember? | |||
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"I moved back for 6 months after 10 years. Be mindful that you don't regress! It's hard to demand your adult rights if you're getting your washing and ironing done and not making your own food :p" this. My boyfriend's mum makes cake and soup and stuff and does our washing. She's a saint! I still feel the need to tell her we are going out, though.. not for permission, just so she doesn't worry  | |||
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"I moved back for 6 months after 10 years. Be mindful that you don't regress! It's hard to demand your adult rights if you're getting your washing and ironing done and not making your own food :p I'll be doing a lot of the cooking and helping with cleaning its kinda why Im going back.. I just need to not get used to being chauffeured round by my dad lol!! No way! Dad's taxis are a life long perk haha " Haha I know.. hoping he will also teach me to drive too.. never lived close enough for him to do so, or my brother as the place isnt great for public transport or taxis! | |||
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"I moved back for 6 months after 10 years. Be mindful that you don't regress! It's hard to demand your adult rights if you're getting your washing and ironing done and not making your own food :p this. My boyfriend's mum makes cake and soup and stuff and does our washing. She's a saint! I still feel the need to tell her we are going out, though.. not for permission, just so she doesn't worry "Haha even living away my mum wants to know if im going out and when im home! Luckily I make awesome cakes and a good cook, mum's already put in a request for me to cook on saturday night! | |||
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"I moved in with my mum for a bit. I had a meet one night and the guy said he was 2 minutes away so I said bye to my mum and headed outside and up the road for him to pick me up. 2 minutes passed... figured the guy wouldn't be long.. Waited a bit longer and he texted saying he couldn't find my road and his sat nav died and his phone was about to die etc etc. I'd been out of the house for 20 minutes, so if I went home my mum and her friend would ask why... it was the middle of winter and I just stood on my street corner for like 40 minutes. When I got home mum said "that was quick" and I stuttered out some bullshit excuse like the guy (a 'POF date') pulled over and lined up some so I told him to take me home..... I just hid in my room and hoped she was already d*unk enough to not remember that in the morning... Omg thats awful!! Remind me if im meeting anyone to tell them to charge their phone prior to coming out or im not meeting them haha!! Now the question is did she remember?" Oh it was utter shit, he blocked me about an hour after he said his phone was dying... I reckon he drove past, saw the fat chick with crip sticks and changed his mind. If she remembered, she didn't say anything. It's not like her to miss an opportunity to ridicule me so it's likely she forgot | |||
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"I moved back for 6 months after 10 years. Be mindful that you don't regress! It's hard to demand your adult rights if you're getting your washing and ironing done and not making your own food :p this. My boyfriend's mum makes cake and soup and stuff and does our washing. She's a saint! I still feel the need to tell her we are going out, though.. not for permission, just so she doesn't worry "Haha be honest. It's definitely for permission. Sneaking back in early hours hoping she isn't sat in the front room with a disapproving look on her face | |||
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"I moved in with my mum for a bit. I had a meet one night and the guy said he was 2 minutes away so I said bye to my mum and headed outside and up the road for him to pick me up. 2 minutes passed... figured the guy wouldn't be long.. Waited a bit longer and he texted saying he couldn't find my road and his sat nav died and his phone was about to die etc etc. I'd been out of the house for 20 minutes, so if I went home my mum and her friend would ask why... it was the middle of winter and I just stood on my street corner for like 40 minutes. When I got home mum said "that was quick" and I stuttered out some bullshit excuse like the guy (a 'POF date') pulled over and lined up some so I told him to take me home..... I just hid in my room and hoped she was already d*unk enough to not remember that in the morning... Omg thats awful!! Remind me if im meeting anyone to tell them to charge their phone prior to coming out or im not meeting them haha!! Now the question is did she remember? Oh it was utter shit, he blocked me about an hour after he said his phone was dying... I reckon he drove past, saw the fat chick with crip sticks and changed his mind. If she remembered, she didn't say anything. It's not like her to miss an opportunity to ridicule me so it's likely she forgot" What the fuck!?! Sorry but if he did he is a horrendous twat! Im not small at all and i actually had a meet when on crutches once - im clumsy - the guy actually said it made him like me more as he felt protective and wanted to make me feel good.. if he knew you were on crutches saw profile and pics and did that then he was most like some fantasist having a wank! big hugs xx | |||
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"Dammit I cant even sneak out of the house as my dog will rat me out as he will howl if i leave him alone! Bugger" you can take the dog on a social? you also then have the excuse that you are taking the dog for a walk. | |||
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"Dammit I cant even sneak out of the house as my dog will rat me out as he will howl if i leave him alone! Bugger you can take the dog on a social? you also then have the excuse that you are taking the dog for a walk." Socials yes though i may end up being given my mums dog too haha.. might make for a memorable social lol! Middle of the night booty call not so much lol | |||
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"We used to meet weekends at my parents house as it was halfway between home and Belle's uni. Just said seeing friends or going clubbing. Just a version of the truth. " someone suggested the friends one but I dont know anyone there and my clubbing days are way behind me haha | |||
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"We used to meet weekends at my parents house as it was halfway between home and Belle's uni. Just said seeing friends or going clubbing. Just a version of the truth. someone suggested the friends one but I dont know anyone there and my clubbing days are way behind me haha " Im sure yr be fine..and it will all work out..blessings for yr ma..and you and ya. Dad..... Yr heart is def in the right place..so the universal powers will see yr ok.. | |||
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"We used to meet weekends at my parents house as it was halfway between home and Belle's uni. Just said seeing friends or going clubbing. Just a version of the truth. someone suggested the friends one but I dont know anyone there and my clubbing days are way behind me haha Im sure yr be fine..and it will all work out..blessings for yr ma..and you and ya. Dad..... Yr heart is def in the right place..so the universal powers will see yr ok.. "Thanks.. if then universal powers could sort a lottery win too then id be more than happy. | |||
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"Dammit I cant even sneak out of the house as my dog will rat me out as he will howl if i leave him alone! Bugger you can take the dog on a social? you also then have the excuse that you are taking the dog for a walk. Socials yes though i may end up being given my mums dog too haha.. might make for a memorable social lol! Middle of the night booty call not so much lol " aw, i'd love social at the park with a load of dogs now i think about it. good luck, someone must have ideas! | |||
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"Dammit I cant even sneak out of the house as my dog will rat me out as he will howl if i leave him alone! Bugger you can take the dog on a social? you also then have the excuse that you are taking the dog for a walk. Socials yes though i may end up being given my mums dog too haha.. might make for a memorable social lol! Middle of the night booty call not so much lol aw, i'd love social at the park with a load of dogs now i think about it. good luck, someone must have ideas!" Haha maybe I could make it the new thing in my area, instead of a group social in a pub where you could be overheard a big group dog walk.. taking dogging to the literal haha | |||
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"Dammit I cant even sneak out of the house as my dog will rat me out as he will howl if i leave him alone! Bugger you can take the dog on a social? you also then have the excuse that you are taking the dog for a walk. Socials yes though i may end up being given my mums dog too haha.. might make for a memorable social lol! Middle of the night booty call not so much lol aw, i'd love social at the park with a load of dogs now i think about it. good luck, someone must have ideas! Haha maybe I could make it the new thing in my area, instead of a group social in a pub where you could be overheard a big group dog walk.. taking dogging to the literal haha "it'd be fun. i would seriously go to something like that.  | |||
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"Dammit I cant even sneak out of the house as my dog will rat me out as he will howl if i leave him alone! Bugger you can take the dog on a social? you also then have the excuse that you are taking the dog for a walk. Socials yes though i may end up being given my mums dog too haha.. might make for a memorable social lol! Middle of the night booty call not so much lol aw, i'd love social at the park with a load of dogs now i think about it. good luck, someone must have ideas! Haha maybe I could make it the new thing in my area, instead of a group social in a pub where you could be overheard a big group dog walk.. taking dogging to the literal haha
it'd be fun. i would seriously go to something like that. "I'll see how a social goes first then look at doing one.. dogs are such a good ice breaker especially for nervous people but talking about your dog is usually easy for most. Plus my dog is gorgeous I already get guys coming over in pubs when I take him in so its a win!!! Thank you for such a good idea x | |||
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"We used to meet weekends at my parents house as it was halfway between home and Belle's uni. Just said seeing friends or going clubbing. Just a version of the truth. someone suggested the friends one but I dont know anyone there and my clubbing days are way behind me haha Im sure yr be fine..and it will all work out..blessings for yr ma..and you and ya. Dad..... Yr heart is def in the right place..so the universal powers will see yr ok..
Thanks.. if then universal powers could sort a lottery win too then id be more than happy. "They don't help luck..thats lucks job..lol Tho I once asked to have money... Never got a big win..but since ive never been skint .  | |||
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"We used to meet weekends at my parents house as it was halfway between home and Belle's uni. Just said seeing friends or going clubbing. Just a version of the truth. someone suggested the friends one but I dont know anyone there and my clubbing days are way behind me haha Im sure yr be fine..and it will all work out..blessings for yr ma..and you and ya. Dad..... Yr heart is def in the right place..so the universal powers will see yr ok..
Thanks.. if then universal powers could sort a lottery win too then id be more than happy.
They don't help luck..thats lucks job..lol
Tho I once asked to have money...
Never got a big win..but since ive never been skint . "Haha I will do that.. even a small lottery win so I could take my mum to hawaaii would be awesome! | |||
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"Dammit I cant even sneak out of the house as my dog will rat me out as he will howl if i leave him alone! Bugger you can take the dog on a social? you also then have the excuse that you are taking the dog for a walk. Socials yes though i may end up being given my mums dog too haha.. might make for a memorable social lol! Middle of the night booty call not so much lol aw, i'd love social at the park with a load of dogs now i think about it. good luck, someone must have ideas! Haha maybe I could make it the new thing in my area, instead of a group social in a pub where you could be overheard a big group dog walk.. taking dogging to the literal haha
it'd be fun. i would seriously go to something like that.
I'll see how a social goes first then look at doing one.. dogs are such a good ice breaker especially for nervous people but talking about your dog is usually easy for most.
Plus my dog is gorgeous I already get guys coming over in pubs when I take him in so its a win!!!
Thank you for such a good idea x"your group social idea is better though, loads of dogs. haha. you're welcome though. | |||
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"Dammit I cant even sneak out of the house as my dog will rat me out as he will howl if i leave him alone! Bugger you can take the dog on a social? you also then have the excuse that you are taking the dog for a walk. Socials yes though i may end up being given my mums dog too haha.. might make for a memorable social lol! Middle of the night booty call not so much lol aw, i'd love social at the park with a load of dogs now i think about it. good luck, someone must have ideas! Haha maybe I could make it the new thing in my area, instead of a group social in a pub where you could be overheard a big group dog walk.. taking dogging to the literal haha
it'd be fun. i would seriously go to something like that.
I'll see how a social goes first then look at doing one.. dogs are such a good ice breaker especially for nervous people but talking about your dog is usually easy for most.
Plus my dog is gorgeous I already get guys coming over in pubs when I take him in so its a win!!!
Thank you for such a good idea x
your group social idea is better though, loads of dogs. haha. you're welcome though."Ah but you were my muse and inspiration for it so credit where its due | |||
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"I'd be up for the dog gathering social..... Although I'm sure the hound would get far more attention than I would....he's an absolute cutey "They say dogs look like their owners though so dont dispair! Mine is just nuts (currently sleeping under the bed and hitting his head each time he moves) so not sure what that says about me! | |||
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"I moved in with my mum for a bit. I had a meet one night and the guy said he was 2 minutes away so I said bye to my mum and headed outside and up the road for him to pick me up. 2 minutes passed... figured the guy wouldn't be long.. Waited a bit longer and he texted saying he couldn't find my road and his sat nav died and his phone was about to die etc etc. I'd been out of the house for 20 minutes, so if I went home my mum and her friend would ask why... it was the middle of winter and I just stood on my street corner for like 40 minutes. When I got home mum said "that was quick" and I stuttered out some bullshit excuse like the guy (a 'POF date') pulled over and lined up some so I told him to take me home..... I just hid in my room and hoped she was already d*unk enough to not remember that in the morning... Omg thats awful!! Remind me if im meeting anyone to tell them to charge their phone prior to coming out or im not meeting them haha!! Now the question is did she remember? Oh it was utter shit, he blocked me about an hour after he said his phone was dying... I reckon he drove past, saw the fat chick with crip sticks and changed his mind. If she remembered, she didn't say anything. It's not like her to miss an opportunity to ridicule me so it's likely she forgot What the fuck!?! Sorry but if he did he is a horrendous twat! Im not small at all and i actually had a meet when on crutches once - im clumsy - the guy actually said it made him like me more as he felt protective and wanted to make me feel good.. if he knew you were on crutches saw profile and pics and did that then he was most like some fantasist having a wank! big hugs xx"I didn't hide anything, he was just a prick | |||
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"I moved in with my mum for a bit. I had a meet one night and the guy said he was 2 minutes away so I said bye to my mum and headed outside and up the road for him to pick me up. 2 minutes passed... figured the guy wouldn't be long.. Waited a bit longer and he texted saying he couldn't find my road and his sat nav died and his phone was about to die etc etc. I'd been out of the house for 20 minutes, so if I went home my mum and her friend would ask why... it was the middle of winter and I just stood on my street corner for like 40 minutes. When I got home mum said "that was quick" and I stuttered out some bullshit excuse like the guy (a 'POF date') pulled over and lined up some so I told him to take me home..... I just hid in my room and hoped she was already d*unk enough to not remember that in the morning... Omg thats awful!! Remind me if im meeting anyone to tell them to charge their phone prior to coming out or im not meeting them haha!! Now the question is did she remember? Oh it was utter shit, he blocked me about an hour after he said his phone was dying... I reckon he drove past, saw the fat chick with crip sticks and changed his mind. If she remembered, she didn't say anything. It's not like her to miss an opportunity to ridicule me so it's likely she forgot What the fuck!?! Sorry but if he did he is a horrendous twat! Im not small at all and i actually had a meet when on crutches once - im clumsy - the guy actually said it made him like me more as he felt protective and wanted to make me feel good.. if he knew you were on crutches saw profile and pics and did that then he was most like some fantasist having a wank! big hugs xx
I didn't hide anything, he was just a prick"Hopefully he gets necrotising fasciitis in his penis and they have to cut it off to stop it spreading haha  | |||
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"I moved back when I split with the Mrs It lasted 3 months but I moved out for their own safety I adore my parents. They are my all. They will never know how close they came to finding their permanent resting place under the back patio "Oh dear oh dear.. hopefully it wont come to that.. will just be weird not having the independence of my own home i guess.. and being in a decidely small bedroom! | |||
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"So i'm moving to my parents on Friday whilst I find a new place and to help look after my mum.. Ive just realised a few things, no more walking to the bathroom naked, no more sleeping naked, I won't be able to use my wand as its a noisy bugger and in reality I moved out when I was 17 and only went home after uni for a year so its been a long time to have not lived with them. I think I may be commited soon.. oh and trying to come up with excuses to go on socials and meets is going to be fun, if I say its a date my mum thinks they should picl you up and come in and say hello, can just imagine it 'hi ive come to get your daughter so i can screw her in every hole for the next few hours.. bye' Has anyone else had to move in with parents temporarily at a later age? How did you stay sane? " Yeah I did, with my Mum in my mid-twenties before I went back to university. It was ok. I still walked around naked. My mum and step-dad got used to it pretty quickly. I had casual partners over sometimes. Not the *really* casual ones, but the 'this is a friend with benefits' type (emphasis on the *friend* there). I suspect that my mother finding a partner who was close to *my* age meant that actually sex was just something we all did (not together, obvs). So if you heard sex noises coming from the other bedroom in the house, you just rolled over and went to sleep. Actually, I don't get on with my mother that well, but she was alright when it came to respecting my boundaries as an adult. | |||
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"So i'm moving to my parents on Friday whilst I find a new place and to help look after my mum.. Ive just realised a few things, no more walking to the bathroom naked, no more sleeping naked, I won't be able to use my wand as its a noisy bugger and in reality I moved out when I was 17 and only went home after uni for a year so its been a long time to have not lived with them. I think I may be commited soon.. oh and trying to come up with excuses to go on socials and meets is going to be fun, if I say its a date my mum thinks they should picl you up and come in and say hello, can just imagine it 'hi ive come to get your daughter so i can screw her in every hole for the next few hours.. bye' Has anyone else had to move in with parents temporarily at a later age? How did you stay sane? Yeah I did, with my Mum in my mid-twenties before I went back to university. It was ok. I still walked around naked. My mum and step-dad got used to it pretty quickly. I had casual partners over sometimes. Not the *really* casual ones, but the 'this is a friend with benefits' type (emphasis on the *friend* there). I suspect that my mother finding a partner who was close to *my* age meant that actually sex was just something we all did (not together, obvs). So if you heard sex noises coming from the other bedroom in the house, you just rolled over and went to sleep. Actually, I don't get on with my mother that well, but she was alright when it came to respecting my boundaries as an adult." That's pretty cool.. my mum still thinks I shouldnt even sleep in a bed with a guy unless we are on the marriage path.. though its fine for my brothers haha.. I dont think my mum has seen me naked since i was a child and def dont want my dad to see it! Ive had to see my mum like that but it was purely on a medical purpose as she had major surgery and the staples ripped open.. not sure what was more traumatising seeing my mum naked or seeing into her stomach!! | |||
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"Yeah sometimes it's right awkward living back with your parents. Luckily my mother didn't question me too much and I could just do what I wanted. It's a good job you're not a bloke though or you'd be accused of being married. "Haha I most likely will, then I will invite them over to meet my mum.. they would shit a brick at that!! | |||
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" That's pretty cool.. my mum still thinks I shouldnt even sleep in a bed with a guy unless we are on the marriage path.. though its fine for my brothers haha.. " Sounds like a great opportunity to educate her about sexism and double standards!  | |||
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" That's pretty cool.. my mum still thinks I shouldnt even sleep in a bed with a guy unless we are on the marriage path.. though its fine for my brothers haha.. Sounds like a great opportunity to educate her about sexism and double standards! "Haha nah she is irish catholic its never going to happen.. her meds make her forget half the things we talk about these days too! | |||
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" That's pretty cool.. my mum still thinks I shouldnt even sleep in a bed with a guy unless we are on the marriage path.. though its fine for my brothers haha.. Sounds like a great opportunity to educate her about sexism and double standards!
Haha nah she is irish catholic its never going to happen.. her meds make her forget half the things we talk about these days too! "Man, sorry to hear that. I went to Catholic school so I know how tough that can be. You're a better person than I am, I wouldn't put up with it because I'm a dick. | |||
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" That's pretty cool.. my mum still thinks I shouldnt even sleep in a bed with a guy unless we are on the marriage path.. though its fine for my brothers haha.. Sounds like a great opportunity to educate her about sexism and double standards!
Haha nah she is irish catholic its never going to happen.. her meds make her forget half the things we talk about these days too!
Man, sorry to hear that. I went to Catholic school so I know how tough that can be. You're a better person than I am, I wouldn't put up with it because I'm a dick."Tbf my mum wasnt even allowed to be out past 10pm when she was dating my dad in her 20's and when she missed her curfew got kicked out so I have it easy compared. My mum is really sweet and i think she just still see's me as her baby girl so I love her for that. | |||
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"We (myself and youngsters) moved in with my mum in November 2015 due to various reasons, her ill health being one. Whilst my sex life may have suffered a bit, my children have blossomed at their new school. The School have been brilliant in getting help for my youngest who has severe speech issues due to his Dyspraxia. My mum was ill last September and i was there to ring 999 and get her into Hospital, if she'd lived on her own it would have taken awhile before i realised she was so poorly. She also has poor mobility. We are lucky in that we have our own living room and play room, bathroom and my mum has her own living room, so we are not on top of each other. We get on, she doesn't interfere with how i raise the children and if i go out she's happy to babysit. Of course you mention you live with your mum and everyone thinks you're uncool, but i've never been cool anyway. I had my own house for 13 years but couldn't afford to rent out when we moved, so i'm mostly dissapointed i'm off the property ladder. " Aww im sorry to hear about your mum but it seems it was meant to be that you were there to get her the help she needed asap! I completely forget my parents have a conservatory they rarely use i can make that my living room if needed. Oh im the same never been cool so it wont hurt my cred haha, same with the housing ladder, I doubt I will get on it until I get my inheritance, as much as I want that to be later in life I know its impending | |||
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" That's pretty cool.. my mum still thinks I shouldnt even sleep in a bed with a guy unless we are on the marriage path.. though its fine for my brothers haha.. Sounds like a great opportunity to educate her about sexism and double standards!
Haha nah she is irish catholic its never going to happen.. her meds make her forget half the things we talk about these days too!
Man, sorry to hear that. I went to Catholic school so I know how tough that can be. You're a better person than I am, I wouldn't put up with it because I'm a dick.
Tbf my mum wasnt even allowed to be out past 10pm when she was dating my dad in her 20's and when she missed her curfew got kicked out so I have it easy compared.
My mum is really sweet and i think she just still see's me as her baby girl so I love her for that. "I am sure you dont mind putting your social life on hold whilst your mother is ill, after all we must not forget what they put on hold to bring us up...its time to devote the love and care to your parents that they have showed you. Best wishes and good luck . | |||
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" That's pretty cool.. my mum still thinks I shouldnt even sleep in a bed with a guy unless we are on the marriage path.. though its fine for my brothers haha.. Sounds like a great opportunity to educate her about sexism and double standards!
Haha nah she is irish catholic its never going to happen.. her meds make her forget half the things we talk about these days too!
Man, sorry to hear that. I went to Catholic school so I know how tough that can be. You're a better person than I am, I wouldn't put up with it because I'm a dick.
Tbf my mum wasnt even allowed to be out past 10pm when she was dating my dad in her 20's and when she missed her curfew got kicked out so I have it easy compared.
My mum is really sweet and i think she just still see's me as her baby girl so I love her for that.
I am sure you dont mind putting your social life on hold whilst your mother is ill, after all we must not forget what they put on hold to bring us up...its time to devote the love and care to your parents that they have showed you.
Best wishes and good luck ."I've looked after my parents in the past, not to the same level as the OP is describing but having a social life to fall back on was what kept me sane. Never underestimate how hard it is to move from the role of daughter to carer. | |||
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" That's pretty cool.. my mum still thinks I shouldnt even sleep in a bed with a guy unless we are on the marriage path.. though its fine for my brothers haha.. Sounds like a great opportunity to educate her about sexism and double standards!
Haha nah she is irish catholic its never going to happen.. her meds make her forget half the things we talk about these days too!
Man, sorry to hear that. I went to Catholic school so I know how tough that can be. You're a better person than I am, I wouldn't put up with it because I'm a dick.
Tbf my mum wasnt even allowed to be out past 10pm when she was dating my dad in her 20's and when she missed her curfew got kicked out so I have it easy compared.
My mum is really sweet and i think she just still see's me as her baby girl so I love her for that.
I am sure you dont mind putting your social life on hold whilst your mother is ill, after all we must not forget what they put on hold to bring us up...its time to devote the love and care to your parents that they have showed you.
Best wishes and good luck .
I've looked after my parents in the past, not to the same level as the OP is describing but having a social life to fall back on was what kept me sane.
Never underestimate how hard it is to move from the role of daughter to carer."Never said in my post is would be easy. That is why I wished her luck and best wishes!!! | |||
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" That's pretty cool.. my mum still thinks I shouldnt even sleep in a bed with a guy unless we are on the marriage path.. though its fine for my brothers haha.. Sounds like a great opportunity to educate her about sexism and double standards!
Haha nah she is irish catholic its never going to happen.. her meds make her forget half the things we talk about these days too!
Man, sorry to hear that. I went to Catholic school so I know how tough that can be. You're a better person than I am, I wouldn't put up with it because I'm a dick.
Tbf my mum wasnt even allowed to be out past 10pm when she was dating my dad in her 20's and when she missed her curfew got kicked out so I have it easy compared.
My mum is really sweet and i think she just still see's me as her baby girl so I love her for that.
I am sure you dont mind putting your social life on hold whilst your mother is ill, after all we must not forget what they put on hold to bring us up...its time to devote the love and care to your parents that they have showed you.
Best wishes and good luck .
I've looked after my parents in the past, not to the same level as the OP is describing but having a social life to fall back on was what kept me sane.
Never underestimate how hard it is to move from the role of daughter to carer.
Never said in my post is would be easy. That is why I wished her luck and best wishes!!!"I think she just meant dont put social life on hold full stop.. i will need some escape at times which my dad will provide its just the explaining where im off and why when i come back is my makeup gone and hair a mess haha :p | |||
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" That's pretty cool.. my mum still thinks I shouldnt even sleep in a bed with a guy unless we are on the marriage path.. though its fine for my brothers haha.. Sounds like a great opportunity to educate her about sexism and double standards!
Haha nah she is irish catholic its never going to happen.. her meds make her forget half the things we talk about these days too!
Man, sorry to hear that. I went to Catholic school so I know how tough that can be. You're a better person than I am, I wouldn't put up with it because I'm a dick.
Tbf my mum wasnt even allowed to be out past 10pm when she was dating my dad in her 20's and when she missed her curfew got kicked out so I have it easy compared.
My mum is really sweet and i think she just still see's me as her baby girl so I love her for that.
I am sure you dont mind putting your social life on hold whilst your mother is ill, after all we must not forget what they put on hold to bring us up...its time to devote the love and care to your parents that they have showed you.
Best wishes and good luck .
I've looked after my parents in the past, not to the same level as the OP is describing but having a social life to fall back on was what kept me sane.
Never underestimate how hard it is to move from the role of daughter to carer.
Never said in my post is would be easy. That is why I wished her luck and best wishes!!!
I think she just meant dont put social life on hold full stop.. i will need some escape at times which my dad will provide its just the explaining where im off and why when i come back is my makeup gone and hair a mess haha :p"Little make up bag and a compact hair brush. | |||
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"You need a wing girl. Someone you can introduce to your parents and can pretend you're popping over to have a glass of wine. She can tell them about her dick of a partner who drives her mad at times. Then, when she calls in the middle of the night, crying, you have a reason to be leaving the house. " Ooooh good idea | |||
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