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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have been mailed by a female a few times. But the account has no photos plus she's 19 years younger than me.

And she wants to meet.

But am worried if she's a man plus am I kinda not a bit to old fat for her.

If she reads this I hope she understands.

But I just don't know what to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore her sounds like trouble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask for a phone call.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Skype

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I've got 1 similar but showing 1 pic. If it's real she's a body to die for and 20 odd years younger than me. Like you say something just doesn't add up

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I'm a great believer in trusting your gut instinct. If you suspect it's not actually a woman then you are 100% right to listen to that doubt . Ask them to pop on cam or talk on phone.if they are going to meet you and genuine they'll have no issues doing that . If they decline or go UNLOS you have your answer .

If they are genuine then ask them why the want someone older ect to put your mind at rest .But above all have faith in yourself ..why wouldn't folks be happy to meet you !! Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I normally chat 1st get photos etc anyway just worried about making a fool of myself

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Gut instinct and do some of your own digging around.. ofcourse you cant garantee that they will attend.. but if its too good to be true.. it normally is.. but good luck op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it seems too good to be true, it usually is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have been mailed by a female a few times. But the account has no photos plus she's 19 years younger than me.

And she wants to meet.

But am worried if she's a man plus am I kinda not a bit to old fat for her.

If she reads this I hope she understands.

But I just don't know what to do."

I am a great believer in the adage that if it seems too good to he true, then it isn't. You must be having doubts, or else you wouldn't have posted. I suggest a phone conversation or Skype very soon to put your mind at rest, or to stop any more of your time being wasted, if that is the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go with your gut instinct.

Ask if you can Skype cam or FaceTime or even a phone call just to verify it is a femal and not a make posing as a female

If they refuse then tell them sorry it won't be going any further and move on

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Have been mailed by a female a few times. But the account has no photos plus she's 19 years younger than me.

And she wants to meet.

But am worried if she's a man plus am I kinda not a bit to old fat for her.

If she reads this I hope she understands.

But I just don't know what to do."

Chat a lot first, get a gist for the tone not just what is said.

S

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

I will add though that we have played with a 25yr old so it does happen.

S

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By *et-shortyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

What have you to lose?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask for a phone call. "

this, simple and will answer all your concerns one way or another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh abd buy another sim, worth a £ to keep your usual playphone secret...

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