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"The concept of Fab is great and I’ve experienced some fun since I joined last year. But the levels of equality are massively disproportionate and take away the spirit of the site. For instance, a very high percentage or profiles I read are of women complaining about men telling them they’re not just looking for a quick shag and how they expect a message that says more than “fancy a fuck” etc. I fully appreciate that a large proportion of men on this site are nothing but annoying pests. I totally get that and am in complete agreement about it. But I for one am not like that. I took the time to create an interesting and (fairly) amusing profile and every single message I send to people is personalised (not just copied and pasted) polite and friendly. Do I get (m)any replies? No, not really. In fact, hardly ever. So women… make your minds up. You can’t have it both ways." You have a good profile - maybe take a few more pics to tempt the ladies?? Good Luck. | |||
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"The concept of Fab is great and I’ve experienced some fun since I joined last year. But the levels of equality are massively disproportionate and take away the spirit of the site. For instance, a very high percentage or profiles I read are of women complaining about men telling them they’re not just looking for a quick shag and how they expect a message that says more than “fancy a fuck” etc. I fully appreciate that a large proportion of men on this site are nothing but annoying pests. I totally get that and am in complete agreement about it. But I for one am not like that. I took the time to create an interesting and (fairly) amusing profile and every single message I send to people is personalised (not just copied and pasted) polite and friendly. Do I get (m)any replies? No, not really. In fact, hardly ever. So women… make your minds up. You can’t have it both ways. I agree with the above OP, I too take my time with messages I send, personalising each one. Im okay if they get deleted with no reply, it would be a pain to reply "no thanks" to every message. What annoys me is a block straight away, I mean what is the point???" so you don't message them again. they probably weren't offended by the message even, just they weren't interested. | |||
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"The concept of Fab is great and I’ve experienced some fun since I joined last year. But the levels of equality are massively disproportionate and take away the spirit of the site. For instance, a very high percentage or profiles I read are of women complaining about men telling them they’re not just looking for a quick shag and how they expect a message that says more than “fancy a fuck” etc. I fully appreciate that a large proportion of men on this site are nothing but annoying pests. I totally get that and am in complete agreement about it. But I for one am not like that. I took the time to create an interesting and (fairly) amusing profile and every single message I send to people is personalised (not just copied and pasted) polite and friendly. Do I get (m)any replies? No, not really. In fact, hardly ever. So women… make your minds up. You can’t have it both ways. I agree with the above OP, I too take my time with messages I send, personalising each one. Im okay if they get deleted with no reply, it would be a pain to reply "no thanks" to every message. What annoys me is a block straight away, I mean what is the point??? so you don't message them again. they probably weren't offended by the message even, just they weren't interested. " I get that they are not interested, thats fine. If thats the case just ignore the message, delete, I get the hint and wont bother them again. Its just the one thing that really gets to me on here is a straight block, grinds my gears!!! | |||
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"The concept of Fab is great and I’ve experienced some fun since I joined last year. But the levels of equality are massively disproportionate and take away the spirit of the site. For instance, a very high percentage or profiles I read are of women complaining about men telling them they’re not just looking for a quick shag and how they expect a message that says more than “fancy a fuck” etc. I fully appreciate that a large proportion of men on this site are nothing but annoying pests. I totally get that and am in complete agreement about it. But I for one am not like that. I took the time to create an interesting and (fairly) amusing profile and every single message I send to people is personalised (not just copied and pasted) polite and friendly. Do I get (m)any replies? No, not really. In fact, hardly ever. So women… make your minds up. You can’t have it both ways." I'm sure you didn't mean is op but your post sounds like you think your entitled to a response because you put some effort in . it doesn't work like that you put the effort in because you want a positive out come beneficial to you . in other words the message was wrote for your personal gain. so with that in mind no one owes you a response as the effort was for your benefit as much as for there benefit . everyone is free to respond r not on here no one owes anyone anything because everyone ultimately is doing what they are doing for personal gain . | |||
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"The concept of Fab is great and I’ve experienced some fun since I joined last year. But the levels of equality are massively disproportionate and take away the spirit of the site. For instance, a very high percentage or profiles I read are of women complaining about men telling them they’re not just looking for a quick shag and how they expect a message that says more than “fancy a fuck” etc. I fully appreciate that a large proportion of men on this site are nothing but annoying pests. I totally get that and am in complete agreement about it. But I for one am not like that. I took the time to create an interesting and (fairly) amusing profile and every single message I send to people is personalised (not just copied and pasted) polite and friendly. Do I get (m)any replies? No, not really. In fact, hardly ever. So women… make your minds up. You can’t have it both ways." I'm in complete agreement. | |||
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"Most men on here expect to jump into bed as soon as they exchange one message, like a spoilt child, but with the exception of a few that don't." How true. I often find if I can't meet as and when they say they aren't interested. When a woman says she can't meet at short notice , 9/10 this is due to childcare. Men don't ever seem to factor that when they ask. I'd love to just be able to meet as and when but unfortunately that is never the case for me. | |||
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"So women… make your minds up. You can’t have it both ways." Actually I think you will find they can, and that is the reason a lot of them joined fab | |||
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"The concept of Fab is great and I’ve experienced some fun since I joined last year. But the levels of equality are massively disproportionate and take away the spirit of the site. For instance, a very high percentage or profiles I read are of women complaining about men telling them they’re not just looking for a quick shag and how they expect a message that says more than “fancy a fuck” etc. I fully appreciate that a large proportion of men on this site are nothing but annoying pests. I totally get that and am in complete agreement about it. But I for one am not like that. I took the time to create an interesting and (fairly) amusing profile and every single message I send to people is personalised (not just copied and pasted) polite and friendly. Do I get (m)any replies? No, not really. In fact, hardly ever. So women… make your minds up. You can’t have it both ways. I agree with the above OP, I too take my time with messages I send, personalising each one. Im okay if they get deleted with no reply, it would be a pain to reply "no thanks" to every message. What annoys me is a block straight away, I mean what is the point??? so you don't message them again. they probably weren't offended by the message even, just they weren't interested. I get that they are not interested, thats fine. If thats the case just ignore the message, delete, I get the hint and wont bother them again. Its just the one thing that really gets to me on here is a straight block, grinds my gears!!! " Can I ask does it grind you that they block you? It would not bother me as it saves me blocking them....that makes thing easier...you won't make the mistake of messaging them again | |||
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"The concept of Fab is great and I’ve experienced some fun since I joined last year. But the levels of equality are massively disproportionate and take away the spirit of the site. For instance, a very high percentage or profiles I read are of women complaining about men telling them they’re not just looking for a quick shag and how they expect a message that says more than “fancy a fuck” etc. I fully appreciate that a large proportion of men on this site are nothing but annoying pests. I totally get that and am in complete agreement about it. But I for one am not like that. I took the time to create an interesting and (fairly) amusing profile and every single message I send to people is personalised (not just copied and pasted) polite and friendly. Do I get (m)any replies? No, not really. In fact, hardly ever. So women… make your minds up. You can’t have it both ways. I agree with the above OP, I too take my time with messages I send, personalising each one. Im okay if they get deleted with no reply, it would be a pain to reply "no thanks" to every message. What annoys me is a block straight away, I mean what is the point??? so you don't message them again. they probably weren't offended by the message even, just they weren't interested. I get that they are not interested, thats fine. If thats the case just ignore the message, delete, I get the hint and wont bother them again. Its just the one thing that really gets to me on here is a straight block, grinds my gears!!! Can I ask does it grind you that they block you? It would not bother me as it saves me blocking them....that makes thing easier...you won't make the mistake of messaging them again " I did not look at it like that, its kinda of true. A very good way of looking at it. You have eased the grinding of my gears. Thanks | |||
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"The concept of Fab is great and I’ve experienced some fun since I joined last year. But the levels of equality are massively disproportionate and take away the spirit of the site. For instance, a very high percentage or profiles I read are of women complaining about men telling them they’re not just looking for a quick shag and how they expect a message that says more than “fancy a fuck” etc. I fully appreciate that a large proportion of men on this site are nothing but annoying pests. I totally get that and am in complete agreement about it. But I for one am not like that. I took the time to create an interesting and (fairly) amusing profile and every single message I send to people is personalised (not just copied and pasted) polite and friendly. Do I get (m)any replies? No, not really. In fact, hardly ever. So women… make your minds up. You can’t have it both ways." If you were on this piece of land ...well ... you would most certainly get a reply from me ... | |||
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