FabSwingers.com forum: Anti-Valentine's

By *ire_thorn OP Man
over a year ago

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How many of you dislike today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can live with it or without it.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont dislike it.

But its not really something im into personally.

I dont need a specific day to be romantic to a partner buy flowers or a meal out etc as i do that as and when i feel the mood to do it.

So i find valentines day just another way to make money commercially.

Thats my personal view

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"Dont dislike it.

But its not really something im into personally.

I dont need a specific day to be romantic to a partner buy flowers or a meal out etc as i do that as and when i feel the mood to do it.

So i find valentines day just another way to make money commercially.

Thats my personal view"

but traditionally it's the day to celebrate the Christian Sant Valentine. Abd I dare say its origins are older than the catholic fath as they often placed their own celebrations on or near other celebrations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bless ....

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By *ehind blue eyes38Man
over a year ago

Hunstanton

"Me!"

But what about the half price chocolate and roses tomorrow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's two for Tuesday and Kinky day !! What's not to like ??

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By *ouble_The_DelightCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Can take it or leave it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry mistyped that. I hate the day n we shouldn't even celebrate it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think Valentine's Day is an over hyped over sold commercialised version of the original day. It's just another way for big corporations and the capitalist class to keep us spending by making us feel inadequate and guilty.

(excuse the rant! Haha)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just another day

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

"It's just another day

No. It's my birthday

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By *ire_thorn OP Man
over a year ago

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"Personally I think Valentine's Day is an over hyped over sold commercialised version of the original day. It's just another way for big corporations and the capitalist class to keep us spending by making us feel inadequate and guilty.

(excuse the rant! Haha)"

Exactly

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By *ire_thorn OP Man
over a year ago

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"It's just another day

No. It's my birthday

Happy liberation day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just another day x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's just another day

No. It's my birthday

Happy birthday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

It's an old tradition taken and turned into a commercial monster, there's nothing romantic about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do.its just been overtaken by commercialism for the purpose of selling over-priced cards and flowers and gifts.youve got the rest of the year to tell the most important person in your life how you feel about them.you dont need a specific day.

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By *-angel-XWoman
over a year ago

hell

I do now I'm single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Load of old bollox (feel free to send me a valentines message ladies

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

So ridiculous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think my avatar sums up my feelings on the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to enjoy this day but since I don't have a GF/BFF anymore, I hate it as it means being on my own while everyone is enjoying themselves

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Makes no difference to us. I get a lovely bunch of flowers almost every month. Almost every night Ben brings me something, we're kind and caring to each other every day.

We don't need Valentines day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Makes no difference to us. I get a lovely bunch of flowers almost every month. Almost every night Ben brings me something, we're kind and caring to each other every day.

We don't need Valentines day. "

Aw that's lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only because it's a Tuesday...... I don't like Tuesdays!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only because it's a Tuesday...... I don't like Tuesdays!"

What's wrong with Tuesday's ?

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

It's a pointless, made up day invented just to make money!

Real romance is about the simple little things that you do for your partner every day. It has nothing to do with grand overblown gestures on a single day. Nothing to do with going out to dinner, crammed in so you can barely move your arms to eat. And most definitely nothing to do with spending a fortune on jewellery and/or flowers that will die in a few days.

For us romance is hubby bringing me a cup of coffee in bed and kissing me goodbye before he leaves for work. It's occasionally turning up to collect me from work and going out for a pub meal. It's having a hot water bottle ready for when I get home to soothe my bad back. It's coming with me to my SlimmingWorld meetings now and again so he understands how he can support me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(excuse the rant! Haha)"

I cant see how the capitalist class keep us spending and making you feel inadequate they don't force the money from your purse if you want to buy then buy if you don't then don't it your choice Nothing to do with the capitalist class!!! IT'S YOUR CHOICE.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love Valentines from someone who is, or might be a part of my life.

But I feel that they are totally inappropriate on Fab - they rather offend me to tell the truth!

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

i always felt valentines day was slightly tainted by the al Capone incident... i mean why did he have to pick that day..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't dislike it but it's meh for me. I'll be popping off to find reduced Valentine's Day chocolate, yeah, I'm that classy bird! Although I won't be in my pjs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a Valentine scrooge but it's not something I celebrate either.

So happy Valentines to those that do and happy Feb 14th to those that don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer steak and bj day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not anti it and I don't overly dislike it. I just think it's a bit pointless and don't bother with it. And while I'm a cynic a lot of people seem to get a lot of happiness from it so it's not a bad thing

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"It's a pointless, made up day invented just to make money!

My point. My feet get cold at night. Every night Ben puts a hot water bottle in the bed so my feet are warmed. Every morning he brings me coffee in bed.

Those are the things that matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Prefer steak and bj day

I really hate the concept of steak and bj day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like no oddly

I buy myself gifts and I spend the day being happy and nice to myself. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many of you dislike today"

It's my Dad's birthday and that's all it means to me. I'm neither romantic or religious xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant wait for the shops selling off all that cheap chocolate tomorrow....

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

"It's just another day

No. It's my birthday

Happy Valentines Birthday!

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Same as every other day, some good Feb 14th's and some shockers.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

"Prefer steak and bj day

I really hate the concept of steak and bj day"

Every day should be steak & bj day - Flik

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

"It's just another day

No. It's my birthday

Happy Birthday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's poppycock!

Ruby

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By *at1sevCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

"It's just another day

No. It's my birthday

Happy birthday to You!

Its my birthday as well!

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I used to enjoy this day but since I don't have a GF/BFF anymore, I hate it as it means being on my own while everyone is enjoying themselves

If a mother whos lost a child can survive mothers day, then i dont think being on your own today is all that bad do u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to enjoy this day but since I don't have a GF/BFF anymore, I hate it as it means being on my own while everyone is enjoying themselves

If a mother whos lost a child can survive mothers day, then i dont think being on your own today is all that bad do u "

False comparison. The fact that one person has it worse than another person doesn't mean that the other person isn't suffering.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

It's a commercial festival

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In these days of doom gloom. Killing. Terrorism. I welcome any day like this. Its a day to give love and I've had lots from my fellow fabbers which warms my heart. So I thank you for valentines day

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"In these days of doom gloom. Killing. Terrorism. I welcome any day like this. Its a day to give love and I've had lots from my fellow fabbers which warms my heart. So I thank you for valentines day "

St Valentine had his head chopped off, so I don't see any incongruity here

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I don't really have feelings either way ,Jack and I bought each other cards but its really just another day.

Lots of v smug people on Fb today though lol .

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In these days of doom gloom. Killing. Terrorism. I welcome any day like this. Its a day to give love and I've had lots from my fellow fabbers which warms my heart. So I thank you for valentines da

St Valentine had his head chopped off, so I don't see any incongruity here"

Gosh another one didn't get any cards today.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"In these days of doom gloom. Killing. Terrorism. I welcome any day like this. Its a day to give love and I've had lots from my fellow fabbers which warms my heart. So I thank you for valentines da

St Valentine had his head chopped off, so I don't see any incongruity here

Gosh another one didn't get any cards today. "

Wrong again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Prefer steak and bj day

Every day is bj day in our world ??

Steak? Yeah not so much lol

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

If people don't like it because they don't have a partner at the moment, surely it's ok to be happy for the people who have found love?

Also, you don't have to swept along by the commercial side, any act signifying your love is just as valuable.

Hope everyone has a great day, whether single or as a couple

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I used to enjoy this day but since I don't have a GF/BFF anymore, I hate it as it means being on my own while everyone is enjoying themselves

If a mother whos lost a child can survive mothers day, then i dont think being on your own today is all that bad do u

False comparison. The fact that one person has it worse than another person doesn't mean that the other person isn't suffering. "

Suffering. Seriously. Being alone on valentines day and losing a child, yeah coz theres no comparison. Clearly a statement from someone who hasnt

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By *ilary and DonaldCouple
over a year ago

chingford

I don't think spending thirty bob on a card is succumbing to commercialism.

The message I put in it made her smile.

That's what it's all about ain't it ?

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By *icenick1966Man
over a year ago

clowne

(excuse the rant! Haha)"

Spot on. Just an excuse to put the prices up

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Singles'_Day

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

(excuse the rant! Haha)

Spot on. Just an excuse to put the prices up"

Of what? Red roses and valentines cards?

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"Dont dislike it.

But its not really something im into personally.

I dont need a specific day to be romantic to a partner buy flowers or a meal out etc as i do that as and when i feel the mood to do it.

So i find valentines day just another way to make money commercially.

Thats my personal view

It's not something we tend to recognise & now you've brought religion into the mix its even more reason for us to ignore it.

I always though the initials were quite comical for such a day too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hubby told me he hasn't got me anything for Valentines Day, as he feels it's more important to tell me he loves me everyday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In these days of doom gloom. Killing. Terrorism. I welcome any day like this. Its a day to give love and I've had lots from my fellow fabbers which warms my heart. So I thank you for valentines da

St Valentine had his head chopped off, so I don't see any incongruity here

Gosh another one didn't get any cards today.

Wrong again

Oh well can't always be right. Can we?

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"I used to enjoy this day but since I don't have a GF/BFF anymore, I hate it as it means being on my own while everyone is enjoying themselves

If a mother whos lost a child can survive mothers day, then i dont think being on your own today is all that bad do u

False comparison. The fact that one person has it worse than another person doesn't mean that the other person isn't suffering.

Suffering. Seriously. Being alone on valentines day and losing a child, yeah coz theres no comparison. Clearly a statement from someone who hasnt"

Surely they are still suffering? Its just the level that's different?

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By *ilary and DonaldCouple
over a year ago

chingford

"My hubby told me he hasn't got me anything for Valentines Day, as he feels it's more important to tell me he loves me everyday.

That's all very well until the day he forgets, then will you be shouting at him "where's my card you cheap bastard" ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To love and be loved is a beautiful thing. Gonna spoil my man when he gets home from work tonight. ( yea I'm smug) long may it last.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My hubby told me he hasn't got me anything for Valentines Day, as he feels it's more important to tell me he loves me everyday.

That's all very well until the day he forgets, then will you be shouting at him "where's my card you cheap bastard" ?

Haha nooooo. Words mean so much more than a card.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" To love and be loved is a beautiful thing. Gonna spoil my man when he gets home from work tonight. ( yea I'm smug) long may it last. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I knew today was going to be bad when the lamp lost outside the school had more cards and flowers than me

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By *rishman75Man
over a year ago

Chessington/epsom

Waste of time ! I don't need one day to show my love for someone I use all 364 other ones . Still single though lol

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"It's a commercial festival"

I'm sure I once read somewhere that it was "Invented" by someone at Hallmark.

Anyway, surely everyday you wake up is special, whether you are with someone or not? Trouble is most people don't appreciate it as it's expected, & when you don't do it, well, too late then isn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to enjoy this day but since I don't have a GF/BFF anymore, I hate it as it means being on my own while everyone is enjoying themselves

If a mother whos lost a child can survive mothers day, then i dont think being on your own today is all that bad do u

False comparison. The fact that one person has it worse than another person doesn't mean that the other person isn't suffering.

Suffering. Seriously. Being alone on valentines day and losing a child, yeah coz theres no comparison. Clearly a statement from someone who hasnt"

I never said they were the same. I disagreed with what you seem to to be saying, namely that a person who hasn't lost a child isn't allowed to be miserable.

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I used to enjoy this day but since I don't have a GF/BFF anymore, I hate it as it means being on my own while everyone is enjoying themselves

If a mother whos lost a child can survive mothers day, then i dont think being on your own today is all that bad do u

False comparison. The fact that one person has it worse than another person doesn't mean that the other person isn't suffering.

Suffering. Seriously. Being alone on valentines day and losing a child, yeah coz theres no comparison. Clearly a statement from someone who hasnt

I never said they were the same. I disagreed with what you seem to to be saying, namely that a person who hasn't lost a child isn't allowed to be miserable. "

I never said that. Just said others have it sooooo much worse

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By *ilentgirlWoman
over a year ago

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"Dont dislike it.

But its not really something im into personally.

I dont need a specific day to be romantic to a partner buy flowers or a meal out etc as i do that as and when i feel the mood to do it.

So i find valentines day just another way to make money commercially.

Thats my personal view"

Yup that's how I feel, you show them all year around not just one day a year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to enjoy this day but since I don't have a GF/BFF anymore, I hate it as it means being on my own while everyone is enjoying themselves

If a mother whos lost a child can survive mothers day, then i dont think being on your own today is all that bad do u

False comparison. The fact that one person has it worse than another person doesn't mean that the other person isn't suffering.

Suffering. Seriously. Being alone on valentines day and losing a child, yeah coz theres no comparison. Clearly a statement from someone who hasnt

I never said they were the same. I disagreed with what you seem to to be saying, namely that a person who hasn't lost a child isn't allowed to be miserable.

I never said that. Just said others have it sooooo much worse "

That's not in dispute. What you did do, however, was dismiss anyone feeling lonely and depressed amid all the loved-up couples today.

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I used to enjoy this day but since I don't have a GF/BFF anymore, I hate it as it means being on my own while everyone is enjoying themselves

If a mother whos lost a child can survive mothers day, then i dont think being on your own today is all that bad do u

False comparison. The fact that one person has it worse than another person doesn't mean that the other person isn't suffering.

Suffering. Seriously. Being alone on valentines day and losing a child, yeah coz theres no comparison. Clearly a statement from someone who hasnt

I never said they were the same. I disagreed with what you seem to to be saying, namely that a person who hasn't lost a child isn't allowed to be miserable.

I never said that. Just said others have it sooooo much worse

That's not in dispute. What you did do, however, was dismiss anyone feeling lonely and depressed amid all the loved-up couples today."

Grow up and stop trying to act smart. Mr knowitall. No wonder your lonely

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

For all the hearts and flowers, the chocolates and Valentines, and the commotion and chatter about romance and plans and naughty delights, just remember 'tis but a day. It is one day out of the whole year dedicated to love birds, love nests, and dungeon delights. But just remember if you don't have another to share it with, you are not alone. And if you do, but they don't celebrate it with you, just remember this one thing:

As romantic as this notion is of hearts a flutter and Cupid's arrows coming to find you and bringing people together in lust or love, there is nothing wrong with being unpaired. Do not feel down. You are certainly not alone, and it is nothing to feel sad about. You are still loved, wanted, and cared for, even if it is from inside you, a higher power. It may not be romantic love or lust but there is someone out there who cares, even if it is just me as a friend.

Love has many different facets and is expressed in many ways. We should always show the ones we love that we care. It should not be a day on the calendar or the wares in a shop to remind us. So go forth, take good care of yourself, maybe do some random acts of kindness, open your heart and spread some positivity, for every day is Valentine's Day if you allow it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My hubby told me he hasn't got me anything for Valentines Day, as he feels it's more important to tell me he loves me everyday.

And how does that make you feel?

Do you think its a bit of a cop out for him?

Wouldnt you have preffered for him to suprise you with flowers or meal out or at least got you a card ?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"My hubby told me he hasn't got me anything for Valentines Day, as he feels it's more important to tell me he loves me everyday.

And how does that make you feel?

Do you think its a bit of a cop out for him?

Wouldnt you have preffered for him to suprise you with flowers or meal out or at least got you a card ?

Where's the love, Jesus?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For all the hearts and flowers, the chocolates and Valentines, and the commotion and chatter about romance and plans and naughty delights, just remember 'tis but a day. It is one day out of the whole year dedicated to love birds, love nests, and dungeon delights. But just remember if you don't have another to share it with, you are not alone. And if you do, but they don't celebrate it with you, just remember this one thing:

Beautifully put.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My hubby told me he hasn't got me anything for Valentines Day, as he feels it's more important to tell me he loves me everyday.

And how does that make you feel?

Do you think its a bit of a cop out for him?

Wouldnt you have preffered for him to suprise you with flowers or meal out or at least got you a card ?

Where's the love, Jesus?

Black Eyed Peas may know ?

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

There is more to it that the commercial side. Actions speak louder than words.

Bun will be working hard today. So, as a treat, just before she comes home, I will put some soothing music on, get the hot water running, and dribble in some bubblies.

That way everything will be ready for her to do the pots when she gets in.

MrB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not like Valentines Day because I've never got a card plus i think it a money pit day and not been like

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"There is more to it that the commercial side. Actions speak louder than words.

Bun will be working hard today. So, as a treat, just before she comes home, I will put some soothing music on, get the hot water running, and dribble in some bubblies.

That way everything will be ready for her to do the pots when she gets in.

MrB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to enjoy this day but since I don't have a GF/BFF anymore, I hate it as it means being on my own while everyone is enjoying themselves

If a mother whos lost a child can survive mothers day, then i dont think being on your own today is all that bad do u

False comparison. The fact that one person has it worse than another person doesn't mean that the other person isn't suffering.

Suffering. Seriously. Being alone on valentines day and losing a child, yeah coz theres no comparison. Clearly a statement from someone who hasnt

I never said they were the same. I disagreed with what you seem to to be saying, namely that a person who hasn't lost a child isn't allowed to be miserable.

I never said that. Just said others have it sooooo much worse

That's not in dispute. What you did do, however, was dismiss anyone feeling lonely and depressed amid all the loved-up couples today.

Grow up and stop trying to act smart. Mr knowitall. No wonder your lonely"

I'm lonely because I'm an ugly, overweight misanthrope with an overdeveloped sense of sarcasm and a crippling lack of self-confidence. And it's spelled "you're" in this context.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

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Grow up and stop trying to act smart. Mr knowitall. No wonder your lonely

I'm lonely because I'm an ugly, overweight misanthrope with an overdeveloped sense of sarcasm and a crippling lack of self-confidence. And it's spelled "you're" in this context. "

Get a room you two