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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When you look at profiles here and look at your own profile do you feel a little bewildered especially if like me your no super model or bad boy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"never "
so no profiles ever make you think how can I live up to that

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Never here either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

Attraction is subjective

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no point comparing yourself to others on here.

Just be the best you that you can be

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Nope I know I'm better

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"never so no profiles ever make you think how can I live up to that"

as a female you don't need to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope never

I am who I am

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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"Nope

Attraction is subjective "

Its no different then your normal life, You win some you lose some

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But I do as you ladies are very sexy and voluptuous and I'm a short arsed fugly lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I am who I am, either someone likes it or they don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People would be a lot happier if they STOPPED comparing themselves to other people.

You're not anyone else and you can't be anyone else.

In fact, I wouldn't even want to be anyone else.

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

there is always someone who is way better looking... but then there are other profiles which make me think I'm not all that bad. but why take it too serious? it is at the end of the day a site on which you mostly see people you are never going to meet in real life and even if you do- its only sex.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Nope never

I am who I am "

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"But I do as you ladies are very sexy and voluptuous and I'm a short arsed fugly lol"

i'm a short arse and not voluptuous.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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No because I'm me and no one else is.

There's no point comparing yourself OP. Be the best you you can be and be happy with who you are.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"People would be a lot happier if they STOPPED comparing themselves to other people.

You're not anyone else and you can't be anyone else.

In fact, I wouldn't even want to be anyone else."

Wise words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there is always someone who is way better looking... but then there are other profiles which make me think I'm not all that bad. but why take it too serious? it is at the end of the day a site on which you mostly see people you are never going to meet in real life and even if you do- its only sex."

So very true

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I am what I am

And what I am needs no excuses

I deal my own deck

Sometimes the ace, sometimes the deuces

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm on a bit of a downer folks hence the thread usually I'm optimistic and can roll with the punches and take rejection well lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am what I am

And what I am needs no excuses

I deal my own deck

Sometimes the ace, sometimes the deuces"

and beat my own drum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes, sure.

Just don't message them?

There's someone for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"never so no profiles ever make you think how can I live up to that"

no...why would they?

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

No not now.When I first joined I did feel a bit out of my depth as I was not used to showing my body. I can admire others bodies but I don't feel inadequate.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

No

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"I'm on a bit of a downer folks hence the thread usually I'm optimistic and can roll with the punches and take rejection well lol "

suppose it's different for many guys in a way coz women have guys chucking themselves at you all day every day. but, end of the day, they probably would fuck anything so if we thought about it like that it could be kinda of a downer too.

best not to think of anything really. i just go for the best looking guys or filthiest i can find and am happy with that.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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No

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm on a bit of a downer folks hence the thread usually I'm optimistic and can roll with the punches and take rejection well lol

suppose it's different for many guys in a way coz women have guys chucking themselves at you all day every day. but, end of the day, they probably would fuck anything so if we thought about it like that it could be kinda of a downer too.

best not to think of anything really. i just go for the best looking guys or filthiest i can find and am happy with that."

wish I could find a few ladies that would like me chucking myself they're way lol

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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" but, end of the day, they probably would fuck anything so if we thought about it like that it could be kinda of a downer too.

"

I'm not sure that's a true generalisation...

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

No just get occasional boob envy

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"No just get occasional boob envy "

What with your arse you've nothing to be envious of

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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" but, end of the day, they probably would fuck anything so if we thought about it like that it could be kinda of a downer too.

I'm not sure that's a true generalisation... "

i said probably. i think many guys would fuck anything decent. they just like variety don't they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, never

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

No. I happen to know I am ace even if I'm not among the prettiest, tallest, youngest, cutest, nice-figured, well turned out and whatever else people might look for girls on here. I also know that it might take time to find someone who also thinks I'm ace. That's time I'm willing to spend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. I happen to know I am ace "

This for me. When I see a profile as awesome as you describe, I don't reflect on myself....I just message them for sex.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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" but, end of the day, they probably would fuck anything so if we thought about it like that it could be kinda of a downer too.

I'm not sure that's a true generalisation...

i said probably. i think many guys would fuck anything decent. they just like variety don't they?"

It's the fuck anything part that I wasn't sure about. Men like variety but quite a few men I know like variety that's not that varied, if that makes sense? So it's not really anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I'm happy as I am. Some people like me some don't.

Same with profiles.

Same as normal life. People are people.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

No, I am truthful to myself and to others on here, my profile is not the best but it's not the worst either, it's not lovey dovey as I need to be true to myself more importantly, I couldn't pretend to be someone I'm not as yes I can be a sharp witted bitch at times, so love me or loath me it's your choice whether to contact me or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tend to go for similiar physique as we believe the slim ppl will want like for like.

We are easy going, when others are up themselves in their profiles, we move on.

So we never feel out of our depth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Believe me it dont matter it ur a 2 out of 10 if you can make someone laugh you jump up to a 8 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You just need balloons and streamers and a party hat for your cock and you'll feel better

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You just need balloons and streamers and a party hat for your cock and you'll feel better "
I did put a bow on it at Xmas lol

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"No, I am truthful to myself and to others on here, my profile is not the best but it's not the worst either, it's not lovey dovey as I need to be true to myself more importantly, I couldn't pretend to be someone I'm not as yes I can be a sharp witted bitch at times, so love me or loath me it's your choice whether to contact me or not "

Your only problem is your to fucking far away. Move ffs move

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Believe me it dont matter it ur a 2 out of 10 if you can make someone laugh you jump up to a 8 lol"
hi cheers nice to hear from someone from the town of my birth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really, I think I'm a good catch haha

Jokes aside here is how I see it, "1st you need to love yourself qualities & faults" it shows in ur profile & how I present urself in conversations "in other ways u give of a confident positive energy"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did at first until I accepted who I am. Now I don't

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, I am truthful to myself and to others on here, my profile is not the best but it's not the worst either, it's not lovey dovey as I need to be true to myself more importantly, I couldn't pretend to be someone I'm not as yes I can be a sharp witted bitch at times, so love me or loath me it's your choice whether to contact me or not

Your only problem is your to fucking far away. Move ffs move"

where too lol u going to get me a job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, my profile is ace.

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.


"You just need balloons and streamers and a party hat for your cock and you'll feel better "
Does it explode if you pull it.? The party poppers not your cock.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"We tend to go for similiar physique as we believe the slim ppl will want like for like.

We are easy going, when others are up themselves in their profiles, we move on.

So we never feel out of our depth."

I never quite know what makes other people 'up themselves'?

Can you enlighten me?

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By *Ollyinone.Man
over a year ago

Warks.


"Nope

Attraction is subjective "

Completely agree. Don't give up, think of it as the same as going home alone from a nightclub, your not upset or disheartened and now you can have a kebab without worrying if mayo is on your face

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"No, I am truthful to myself and to others on here, my profile is not the best but it's not the worst either, it's not lovey dovey as I need to be true to myself more importantly, I couldn't pretend to be someone I'm not as yes I can be a sharp witted bitch at times, so love me or loath me it's your choice whether to contact me or not

Your only problem is your to fucking far away. Move ffs movewhere too lol u going to get me a job"

Only if you change your name to foxy and cut your nob off

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"No, I am truthful to myself and to others on here, my profile is not the best but it's not the worst either, it's not lovey dovey as I need to be true to myself more importantly, I couldn't pretend to be someone I'm not as yes I can be a sharp witted bitch at times, so love me or loath me it's your choice whether to contact me or not

Your only problem is your to fucking far away. Move ffs movewhere too lol u going to get me a job

Only if you change your name to foxy and cut your nob off "

Nearly wasted a mouthful of wine there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, I am truthful to myself and to others on here, my profile is not the best but it's not the worst either, it's not lovey dovey as I need to be true to myself more importantly, I couldn't pretend to be someone I'm not as yes I can be a sharp witted bitch at times, so love me or loath me it's your choice whether to contact me or not

Your only problem is your to fucking far away. Move ffs movewhere too lol u going to get me a job

Only if you change your name to foxy and cut your nob off "

lol my knob is my fall back toy in times of trouble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I never quite know what makes other people 'up themselves'?

Can you enlighten me? "

Yes, it's when they have an inflated view of themselves, their opinions, importance and their personality.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well one thing in the positive lots of new views but no one taking the plunge yet lol

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"No, I am truthful to myself and to others on here, my profile is not the best but it's not the worst either, it's not lovey dovey as I need to be true to myself more importantly, I couldn't pretend to be someone I'm not as yes I can be a sharp witted bitch at times, so love me or loath me it's your choice whether to contact me or not

Your only problem is your to fucking far away. Move ffs movewhere too lol u going to get me a job

Only if you change your name to foxy and cut your nob off

Nearly wasted a mouthful of wine there "

Ping pong anyone

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"No, I am truthful to myself and to others on here, my profile is not the best but it's not the worst either, it's not lovey dovey as I need to be true to myself more importantly, I couldn't pretend to be someone I'm not as yes I can be a sharp witted bitch at times, so love me or loath me it's your choice whether to contact me or not

Your only problem is your to fucking far away. Move ffs movewhere too lol u going to get me a job

Only if you change your name to foxy and cut your nob off lol my knob is my fall back toy in times of trouble"

There lays your problem. Cut the fucker off your on fab you'll not need it

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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" but, end of the day, they probably would fuck anything so if we thought about it like that it could be kinda of a downer too.

I'm not sure that's a true generalisation...

i said probably. i think many guys would fuck anything decent. they just like variety don't they?

It's the fuck anything part that I wasn't sure about. Men like variety but quite a few men I know like variety that's not that varied, if that makes sense? So it's not really anything. "

not sure, unless you mean they have a type and stick to that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely look at other women's profiles.

I don't feel anything, when I do.

Although I'm not remarkable for my age, I'm not bad.

Plus, I'm a great fuck

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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" but, end of the day, they probably would fuck anything so if we thought about it like that it could be kinda of a downer too.

I'm not sure that's a true generalisation...

i said probably. i think many guys would fuck anything decent. they just like variety don't they?

It's the fuck anything part that I wasn't sure about. Men like variety but quite a few men I know like variety that's not that varied, if that makes sense? So it's not really anything.

not sure, unless you mean they have a type and stick to that?"

Yes, sort of. I just don't think men fuck anything - it's such a simplified reductionist view.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I rarely look at other women's profiles.

I don't feel anything, when I do.

Although I'm not remarkable for my age, I'm not bad.

Plus, I'm a great fuck "

Prove it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rarely look at other women's profiles.

I don't feel anything, when I do.

Although I'm not remarkable for my age, I'm not bad.

Plus, I'm a great fuck

Prove it "

To everyone on here??

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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" but, end of the day, they probably would fuck anything so if we thought about it like that it could be kinda of a downer too.

I'm not sure that's a true generalisation...

i said probably. i think many guys would fuck anything decent. they just like variety don't they?

It's the fuck anything part that I wasn't sure about. Men like variety but quite a few men I know like variety that's not that varied, if that makes sense? So it's not really anything.

not sure, unless you mean they have a type and stick to that?

Yes, sort of. I just don't think men fuck anything - it's such a simplified reductionist view."

ok, think i get you.

i think some guys do come off as desperate but they don't seem to be fucking anyone so that wouldn't confirm it anyway.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


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I never quite know what makes other people 'up themselves'?

Can you enlighten me?

Yes, it's when they have an inflated view of themselves, their opinions, importance and their personality."

But how exactly is what I am asking? I've been accused plenty of times, but I most certainly don't have my head up my arse, it just seems others think I do because I wont meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, because I'm fucking mint

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

We used to but then we'd maybe get winked or messaged by someone we'd looked at & thought "Not a prayer" so what we see/think obviously isn't the same as what they see/think.

We are all different to each other, not better or worse than each other.

S

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I rarely look at other women's profiles.

I don't feel anything, when I do.

Although I'm not remarkable for my age, I'm not bad.

Plus, I'm a great fuck

Prove it

To everyone on here?? "

Nooooo only 1 really nice biker bloke

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Nahhhhhhhh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not all of us guys are desperate but it would be nice if now and then when you ask someone a question or compliment them that they engaged u with a response even if it's thanks but sorry not for me as seeing they've read your message and just deleted it or worse still just blocked u can be very demoralising

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

No cos im me and not trying to be sum one els or the same as anyone els so no need to even try to compeet and be like them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do you feel out of your depth here to a point but may you all have fun

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"Not all of us guys are desperate but it would be nice if now and then when you ask someone a question or compliment them that they engaged u with a response even if it's thanks but sorry not for me as seeing they've read your message and just deleted it or worse still just blocked u can be very demoralising "

didn't have you in mind with that comment, have seen it on the forums today but not by anyone regular.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

No,can't say we ever have ,

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I never quite know what makes other people 'up themselves'?

Can you enlighten me?

Yes, it's when they have an inflated view of themselves, their opinions, importance and their personality.

But how exactly is what I am asking? I've been accused plenty of times, but I most certainly don't have my head up my arse, it just seems others think I do because I wont meet them "

Yes, to be frank and honest, your profile fits that criteria.

There's so much in it that many can think but we wouldn't say it in our profile. One example off yours is, "so if that does not comprehend with you", sounds like you're above the reader.

But I prefer not to get into an argument or debate. If you are doing well on the meet/shag scene, good on you. But, it's a profile we would have passed on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You just need balloons and streamers and a party hat for your cock and you'll feel better Does it explode if you pull it.? The party poppers not your cock. "

They both do

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"

I never quite know what makes other people 'up themselves'?

Can you enlighten me?

Yes, it's when they have an inflated view of themselves, their opinions, importance and their personality.

But how exactly is what I am asking? I've been accused plenty of times, but I most certainly don't have my head up my arse, it just seems others think I do because I wont meet them

Yes, to be frank and honest, your profile fits that criteria.

There's so much in it that many can think but we wouldn't say it in our profile. One example off yours is, "so if that does not comprehend with you", sounds like you're above the reader.

But I prefer not to get into an argument or debate. If you are doing well on the meet/shag scene, good on you. But, it's a profile we would have passed on."

Oh well if that is the case then so be it lol like attracts like I suppose! It also just means if you do not understand what I am speaking about I am not for you, but it is interesting how others interpret words on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rarely look at other women's profiles.

I don't feel anything, when I do.

Although I'm not remarkable for my age, I'm not bad.

Plus, I'm a great fuck

Prove it

To everyone on here??

Nooooo only 1 really nice biker bloke "

Nice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I'm me and my profile is honest and my pictures are genuinely me. People either like me or they don't, that's all there is to it.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I rarely look at other women's profiles.

I don't feel anything, when I do.

Although I'm not remarkable for my age, I'm not bad.

Plus, I'm a great fuck

Prove it

To everyone on here??

Nooooo only 1 really nice biker bloke

Nice? "

I use the term loosely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rarely look at other women's profiles.

I don't feel anything, when I do.

Although I'm not remarkable for my age, I'm not bad.

Plus, I'm a great fuck

Prove it

To everyone on here??

Nooooo only 1 really nice biker bloke

Nice?

I use the term loosely "

I might fuck you to death

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I rarely look at other women's profiles.

I don't feel anything, when I do.

Although I'm not remarkable for my age, I'm not bad.

Plus, I'm a great fuck

Prove it

To everyone on here??

Nooooo only 1 really nice biker bloke

Nice?

I use the term loosely

I might fuck you to death "

Oh well it's been a good life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you look at profiles here and look at your own profile do you feel a little bewildered especially if like me your no super model or bad boy"

I don't look at my own profile. Other people do.

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"When you look at profiles here and look at your own profile do you feel a little bewildered especially if like me your no super model or bad boy"

that's why I rarely look at means profiles on the m section of the toped fab. I looked at Elburro's profike and two thoughts crossed my mins a) how has he got so many varis B) how am I supposed to compeate with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've said before I sometimes feel sexually out of my depth as in my experience. I haven't done half the things others post about on here so I do wonder if I'm a little boring by comparison.

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"I've said before I sometimes feel sexually out of my depth as in my experience. I haven't done half the things others post about on here so I do wonder if I'm a little boring by comparison.

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we have all got to start somewhere.

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By *eachPreacherMan
over a year ago

Kent/London

I feel out of my depth most of the time, mostly due to my age, lack of experience and bad social skills

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've said before I sometimes feel sexually out of my depth as in my experience. I haven't done half the things others post about on here so I do wonder if I'm a little boring by comparison.

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Boring?

This is why I don't list all my likes and dislikes.

I enjoy discovering what we both want with/from each other if I'm going to meet someone. Why I want a social etc.

Reading some profiles is like reading an audition piece. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence wins every time my friend

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Nope.

We happen to like ourselves and are confident enough to believe others will like us too.

There's some great profiles on here for a variety of reasons too, subjective, obviously.

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By *aptivatingWoman
over a year ago

Chester

Not at all, I actually like myself - I mean REALLY like myself. I also feel absolutely no need to compare myself with others. I am who I am, and if that's liked and appreciated, great - if not, no worries, move along. If you haven't got this, then I'd say it's time to do some work on you and get it, because you really are worth it - we all are.

Sexual tastes and desire vary wildly - imagine going to the worlds biggest buffet, you aren't going to fill your plate with the same as your neighbour, in fact I think very few people would come away with similar foods. Obviously the same goes for people we fancy - you don't fancy exactly the same people your neighbour does. That works both ways with people fancying you too, so just be the best you, you can be and stop worrying about what others bring to the table - unless you're planning on taking a bite .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm aleays shocked how many people actually find me attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've said before I sometimes feel sexually out of my depth as in my experience. I haven't done half the things others post about on here so I do wonder if I'm a little boring by comparison.

Boring?

This is why I don't list all my likes and dislikes.

I enjoy discovering what we both want with/from each other if I'm going to meet someone. Why I want a social etc.

Reading some profiles is like reading an audition piece. . "

Maybe boring isn't quite the right word & I don't constantly compare it's more of a musing....

For example I was reading the thread about 'what's in your meet kit bag' ~ well for starters I don't have a specific bag, I just throw a few things into the bag I'm using that day & turn up. I also don't really have a to do / bucket list I just kind of wing it & see how it goes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've said before I sometimes feel sexually out of my depth as in my experience. I haven't done half the things others post about on here so I do wonder if I'm a little boring by comparison.

Boring?

This is why I don't list all my likes and dislikes.

I enjoy discovering what we both want with/from each other if I'm going to meet someone. Why I want a social etc.

Reading some profiles is like reading an audition piece. .

Maybe boring isn't quite the right word & I don't constantly compare it's more of a musing....

For example I was reading the thread about 'what's in your meet kit bag' ~ well for starters I don't have a specific bag, I just throw a few things into the bag I'm using that day & turn up. I also don't really have a to do / bucket list I just kind of wing it & see how it goes...

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I turned up with a plan once. The only time I planned everything. It was great.

But after the first 15mins I got lost in the moment, I just went with her flow.

It feels much more natural that way.

But if you start to compare yourself in here with others, it's just another possible negative thought to deal with.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Out of my depth?

Nope, not at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've said before I sometimes feel sexually out of my depth as in my experience. I haven't done half the things others post about on here so I do wonder if I'm a little boring by comparison.

Boring?

This is why I don't list all my likes and dislikes.

I enjoy discovering what we both want with/from each other if I'm going to meet someone. Why I want a social etc.

Reading some profiles is like reading an audition piece. .

Maybe boring isn't quite the right word & I don't constantly compare it's more of a musing....

For example I was reading the thread about 'what's in your meet kit bag' ~ well for starters I don't have a specific bag, I just throw a few things into the bag I'm using that day & turn up. I also don't really have a to do / bucket list I just kind of wing it & see how it goes...

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Then you're spontaneous, that's not boring, tbh, the meticulously planned sexual encounter and the ticklist of experiences is all a bit creepy and clinically OCD to me.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Not at all,very happy with who I am and happy with Fab and how it works for me

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

I've never cared what other people think of me and I don't make comparisons....life's too short to worry about this kind of stuff.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No because I know there is or never will be anyone else on here that is me.

Unless of course someone has stolen pictures and set a new profile (Grrrrrr)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of my depth? Not often. Massively out of a lot of peoples' leagues? Hell yes. But, I'm an old bird and have had long enough to learn to like who I am if not always like how I look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is why I don't compare myself.

When you start comparing yourself to others you are essentially looking for faults in yourself. I don't really see the appeal in it myself..

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By *nfamyMan
over a year ago

Goole


"When you look at profiles here and look at your own profile do you feel a little bewildered especially if like me your no super model or bad boy"

One's Woman meat is another one's murder ( pun intended )

It's like real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of my depth? Not often. Massively out of a lot of peoples' leagues? Hell yes. But, I'm an old bird and have had long enough to learn to like who I am if not always like how I look. "

You're well out of my league and i love how you look x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"never so no profiles ever make you think how can I live up to that"

No. Why would I want to "live up" to someone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Om happy in my own skin

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

Op have you made the best profile that you can to show yourself in a way that makes you happy?

If not then do something about it.

If you've done everything to your profile that makes it what you want it to be then sod everyone else!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But I do as you ladies are very sexy and voluptuous and I'm a short arsed fugly lol"

The majority of people are average OP. It is more a matter of packaging/presentation. Yes, we both get intimidated by some others, whether because they are "too" beautiful or sexually aggressive or simply because they are alien to us. And I know I've intimidated others in the past, even though I am nothing special. The irony is that most people, even the drop-dead gorgeous ones have insecurities and self-doubt to manage. Plenty of hotties of all description on this thread questioning their pulling power!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all need to piss and have a shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But I do as you ladies are very sexy and voluptuous and I'm a short arsed fugly lol"

If u don't fancy yourself.. why would anyone else.

Confidence is the word of the day

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

No...we don't compare ourselves to anyone

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By *ubSirVient-DefinitionCouple
over a year ago

dukinfield

I, like most guys on here, use to feel massively out of depth. Then Bbcnyc wen UNLOS and now we all feel better about ourselves.

Miss him a bit like.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe it's juste lol I'm getting a bit older the grey hairs are sprouting and the bags under the eyes from not sleeping well are making me look old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope just do my own thing. If I'm rejected, so what, move on plenty of interesting people I here

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"When you look at profiles here and look at your own profile do you feel a little bewildered especially if like me your no super model or bad boy"

Bad Boys Running Wild - Scorpions

www.youtube.com/watch?v=SyzOvcKp95U

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"never

so no profiles ever make you think how can I live up to that"

Not so much other women for me, I've never looked at another women on here and though I couldn't live up to that but I do look at men and think there's no point mailing him he's way out of my league, I've even turned down men who have mailed me first because I have felt they can do better, and if they can do better the only reason they would mail me is because second best is better than a walk for some and I don't want to be anybodies make so shag, I may not be slim and good looking but I still have self respect

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When you look at profiles here and look at your own profile do you feel a little bewildered especially if like me your no super model or bad boy

Bad Boys Running Wild - Scorpions

www.youtube.com/watch?v=SyzOvcKp95U"

love the scorpions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all

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By *sh1962Man
over a year ago

Stonehouse


"When you look at profiles here and look at your own profile do you feel a little bewildered especially if like me your no super model or bad boy"

I know exactly what you mean especially when only views you get are blokes !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No not now.When I first joined I did feel a bit out of my depth as I was not used to showing my body. I can admire others bodies but I don't feel inadequate."

It was the same for me, this time 2 years ago I wouldn't have even considered taking half of the pics of myself or letting him take them of me that I have done let alone post them online..,,then I did and thought oh shit no way was so so self conscious.....now not SO much

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