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"never " so no profiles ever make you think how can I live up to that | |||
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"never so no profiles ever make you think how can I live up to that" as a female you don't need to. | |||
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"Nope Attraction is subjective " Its no different then your normal life, You win some you lose some | |||
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"Nope never I am who I am " | |||
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"But I do as you ladies are very sexy and voluptuous and I'm a short arsed fugly lol" i'm a short arse and not voluptuous. | |||
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"People would be a lot happier if they STOPPED comparing themselves to other people. You're not anyone else and you can't be anyone else. In fact, I wouldn't even want to be anyone else." Wise words | |||
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"there is always someone who is way better looking... but then there are other profiles which make me think I'm not all that bad. but why take it too serious? it is at the end of the day a site on which you mostly see people you are never going to meet in real life and even if you do- its only sex." So very true | |||
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"I am what I am And what I am needs no excuses I deal my own deck Sometimes the ace, sometimes the deuces" and beat my own drum | |||
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"never so no profiles ever make you think how can I live up to that" no...why would they? | |||
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"I'm on a bit of a downer folks hence the thread usually I'm optimistic and can roll with the punches and take rejection well lol " suppose it's different for many guys in a way coz women have guys chucking themselves at you all day every day. but, end of the day, they probably would fuck anything so if we thought about it like that it could be kinda of a downer too. best not to think of anything really. i just go for the best looking guys or filthiest i can find and am happy with that. | |||
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"I'm on a bit of a downer folks hence the thread usually I'm optimistic and can roll with the punches and take rejection well lol suppose it's different for many guys in a way coz women have guys chucking themselves at you all day every day. but, end of the day, they probably would fuck anything so if we thought about it like that it could be kinda of a downer too. best not to think of anything really. i just go for the best looking guys or filthiest i can find and am happy with that." wish I could find a few ladies that would like me chucking myself they're way lol | |||
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" but, end of the day, they probably would fuck anything so if we thought about it like that it could be kinda of a downer too. " I'm not sure that's a true generalisation... | |||
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"No just get occasional boob envy " What with your arse you've nothing to be envious of | |||
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" but, end of the day, they probably would fuck anything so if we thought about it like that it could be kinda of a downer too. I'm not sure that's a true generalisation... " i said probably. i think many guys would fuck anything decent. they just like variety don't they? | |||
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"No. I happen to know I am ace " This for me. When I see a profile as awesome as you describe, I don't reflect on myself....I just message them for sex. | |||
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" but, end of the day, they probably would fuck anything so if we thought about it like that it could be kinda of a downer too. I'm not sure that's a true generalisation... i said probably. i think many guys would fuck anything decent. they just like variety don't they?" It's the fuck anything part that I wasn't sure about. Men like variety but quite a few men I know like variety that's not that varied, if that makes sense? So it's not really anything. | |||
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"You just need balloons and streamers and a party hat for your cock and you'll feel better " I did put a bow on it at Xmas lol | |||
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"No, I am truthful to myself and to others on here, my profile is not the best but it's not the worst either, it's not lovey dovey as I need to be true to myself more importantly, I couldn't pretend to be someone I'm not as yes I can be a sharp witted bitch at times, so love me or loath me it's your choice whether to contact me or not " Your only problem is your to fucking far away. Move ffs move | |||
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"Believe me it dont matter it ur a 2 out of 10 if you can make someone laugh you jump up to a 8 lol" hi cheers nice to hear from someone from the town of my birth | |||
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"No, I am truthful to myself and to others on here, my profile is not the best but it's not the worst either, it's not lovey dovey as I need to be true to myself more importantly, I couldn't pretend to be someone I'm not as yes I can be a sharp witted bitch at times, so love me or loath me it's your choice whether to contact me or not Your only problem is your to fucking far away. Move ffs move" where too lol u going to get me a job | |||
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"You just need balloons and streamers and a party hat for your cock and you'll feel better " Does it explode if you pull it.? The party poppers not your cock. | |||
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"We tend to go for similiar physique as we believe the slim ppl will want like for like. We are easy going, when others are up themselves in their profiles, we move on. So we never feel out of our depth." I never quite know what makes other people 'up themselves'? Can you enlighten me? | |||
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"Nope Attraction is subjective " Completely agree. Don't give up, think of it as the same as going home alone from a nightclub, your not upset or disheartened and now you can have a kebab without worrying if mayo is on your face | |||
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"No, I am truthful to myself and to others on here, my profile is not the best but it's not the worst either, it's not lovey dovey as I need to be true to myself more importantly, I couldn't pretend to be someone I'm not as yes I can be a sharp witted bitch at times, so love me or loath me it's your choice whether to contact me or not Your only problem is your to fucking far away. Move ffs movewhere too lol u going to get me a job" Only if you change your name to foxy and cut your nob off | |||
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"No, I am truthful to myself and to others on here, my profile is not the best but it's not the worst either, it's not lovey dovey as I need to be true to myself more importantly, I couldn't pretend to be someone I'm not as yes I can be a sharp witted bitch at times, so love me or loath me it's your choice whether to contact me or not Your only problem is your to fucking far away. Move ffs movewhere too lol u going to get me a job Only if you change your name to foxy and cut your nob off " Nearly wasted a mouthful of wine there | |||
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"No, I am truthful to myself and to others on here, my profile is not the best but it's not the worst either, it's not lovey dovey as I need to be true to myself more importantly, I couldn't pretend to be someone I'm not as yes I can be a sharp witted bitch at times, so love me or loath me it's your choice whether to contact me or not Your only problem is your to fucking far away. Move ffs movewhere too lol u going to get me a job Only if you change your name to foxy and cut your nob off " lol my knob is my fall back toy in times of trouble | |||
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" I never quite know what makes other people 'up themselves'? Can you enlighten me? " Yes, it's when they have an inflated view of themselves, their opinions, importance and their personality. | |||
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"No, I am truthful to myself and to others on here, my profile is not the best but it's not the worst either, it's not lovey dovey as I need to be true to myself more importantly, I couldn't pretend to be someone I'm not as yes I can be a sharp witted bitch at times, so love me or loath me it's your choice whether to contact me or not Your only problem is your to fucking far away. Move ffs movewhere too lol u going to get me a job Only if you change your name to foxy and cut your nob off Nearly wasted a mouthful of wine there " Ping pong anyone | |||
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"No, I am truthful to myself and to others on here, my profile is not the best but it's not the worst either, it's not lovey dovey as I need to be true to myself more importantly, I couldn't pretend to be someone I'm not as yes I can be a sharp witted bitch at times, so love me or loath me it's your choice whether to contact me or not Your only problem is your to fucking far away. Move ffs movewhere too lol u going to get me a job Only if you change your name to foxy and cut your nob off lol my knob is my fall back toy in times of trouble" There lays your problem. Cut the fucker off your on fab you'll not need it | |||
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" but, end of the day, they probably would fuck anything so if we thought about it like that it could be kinda of a downer too. I'm not sure that's a true generalisation... i said probably. i think many guys would fuck anything decent. they just like variety don't they? It's the fuck anything part that I wasn't sure about. Men like variety but quite a few men I know like variety that's not that varied, if that makes sense? So it's not really anything. " not sure, unless you mean they have a type and stick to that? | |||
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" but, end of the day, they probably would fuck anything so if we thought about it like that it could be kinda of a downer too. I'm not sure that's a true generalisation... i said probably. i think many guys would fuck anything decent. they just like variety don't they? It's the fuck anything part that I wasn't sure about. Men like variety but quite a few men I know like variety that's not that varied, if that makes sense? So it's not really anything. not sure, unless you mean they have a type and stick to that?" Yes, sort of. I just don't think men fuck anything - it's such a simplified reductionist view. | |||
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"I rarely look at other women's profiles. I don't feel anything, when I do. Although I'm not remarkable for my age, I'm not bad. Plus, I'm a great fuck " Prove it | |||
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"I rarely look at other women's profiles. I don't feel anything, when I do. Although I'm not remarkable for my age, I'm not bad. Plus, I'm a great fuck Prove it " To everyone on here?? | |||
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" but, end of the day, they probably would fuck anything so if we thought about it like that it could be kinda of a downer too. I'm not sure that's a true generalisation... i said probably. i think many guys would fuck anything decent. they just like variety don't they? It's the fuck anything part that I wasn't sure about. Men like variety but quite a few men I know like variety that's not that varied, if that makes sense? So it's not really anything. not sure, unless you mean they have a type and stick to that? Yes, sort of. I just don't think men fuck anything - it's such a simplified reductionist view." ok, think i get you. i think some guys do come off as desperate but they don't seem to be fucking anyone so that wouldn't confirm it anyway. | |||
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" I never quite know what makes other people 'up themselves'? Can you enlighten me? Yes, it's when they have an inflated view of themselves, their opinions, importance and their personality." But how exactly is what I am asking? I've been accused plenty of times, but I most certainly don't have my head up my arse, it just seems others think I do because I wont meet them | |||
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"I rarely look at other women's profiles. I don't feel anything, when I do. Although I'm not remarkable for my age, I'm not bad. Plus, I'm a great fuck Prove it To everyone on here?? " Nooooo only 1 really nice biker bloke | |||
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"Not all of us guys are desperate but it would be nice if now and then when you ask someone a question or compliment them that they engaged u with a response even if it's thanks but sorry not for me as seeing they've read your message and just deleted it or worse still just blocked u can be very demoralising " didn't have you in mind with that comment, have seen it on the forums today but not by anyone regular. | |||
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" I never quite know what makes other people 'up themselves'? Can you enlighten me? Yes, it's when they have an inflated view of themselves, their opinions, importance and their personality. But how exactly is what I am asking? I've been accused plenty of times, but I most certainly don't have my head up my arse, it just seems others think I do because I wont meet them " Yes, to be frank and honest, your profile fits that criteria. There's so much in it that many can think but we wouldn't say it in our profile. One example off yours is, "so if that does not comprehend with you", sounds like you're above the reader. But I prefer not to get into an argument or debate. If you are doing well on the meet/shag scene, good on you. But, it's a profile we would have passed on. | |||
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"You just need balloons and streamers and a party hat for your cock and you'll feel better Does it explode if you pull it.? The party poppers not your cock. " They both do | |||
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" I never quite know what makes other people 'up themselves'? Can you enlighten me? Yes, it's when they have an inflated view of themselves, their opinions, importance and their personality. But how exactly is what I am asking? I've been accused plenty of times, but I most certainly don't have my head up my arse, it just seems others think I do because I wont meet them Yes, to be frank and honest, your profile fits that criteria. There's so much in it that many can think but we wouldn't say it in our profile. One example off yours is, "so if that does not comprehend with you", sounds like you're above the reader. But I prefer not to get into an argument or debate. If you are doing well on the meet/shag scene, good on you. But, it's a profile we would have passed on." Oh well if that is the case then so be it lol like attracts like I suppose! It also just means if you do not understand what I am speaking about I am not for you, but it is interesting how others interpret words on here | |||
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"I rarely look at other women's profiles. I don't feel anything, when I do. Although I'm not remarkable for my age, I'm not bad. Plus, I'm a great fuck Prove it To everyone on here?? Nooooo only 1 really nice biker bloke " Nice? | |||
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"I rarely look at other women's profiles. I don't feel anything, when I do. Although I'm not remarkable for my age, I'm not bad. Plus, I'm a great fuck Prove it To everyone on here?? Nooooo only 1 really nice biker bloke Nice? " I use the term loosely | |||
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"I rarely look at other women's profiles. I don't feel anything, when I do. Although I'm not remarkable for my age, I'm not bad. Plus, I'm a great fuck Prove it To everyone on here?? Nooooo only 1 really nice biker bloke Nice? I use the term loosely " I might fuck you to death | |||
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"I rarely look at other women's profiles. I don't feel anything, when I do. Although I'm not remarkable for my age, I'm not bad. Plus, I'm a great fuck Prove it To everyone on here?? Nooooo only 1 really nice biker bloke Nice? I use the term loosely I might fuck you to death " Oh well it's been a good life | |||
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"When you look at profiles here and look at your own profile do you feel a little bewildered especially if like me your no super model or bad boy" I don't look at my own profile. Other people do. | |||
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"When you look at profiles here and look at your own profile do you feel a little bewildered especially if like me your no super model or bad boy" that's why I rarely look at means profiles on the m section of the toped fab. I looked at Elburro's profike and two thoughts crossed my mins a) how has he got so many varis B) how am I supposed to compeate with that | |||
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"I've said before I sometimes feel sexually out of my depth as in my experience. I haven't done half the things others post about on here so I do wonder if I'm a little boring by comparison. " we have all got to start somewhere. | |||
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"I've said before I sometimes feel sexually out of my depth as in my experience. I haven't done half the things others post about on here so I do wonder if I'm a little boring by comparison. " Boring? This is why I don't list all my likes and dislikes. I enjoy discovering what we both want with/from each other if I'm going to meet someone. Why I want a social etc. Reading some profiles is like reading an audition piece. . | |||
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"I've said before I sometimes feel sexually out of my depth as in my experience. I haven't done half the things others post about on here so I do wonder if I'm a little boring by comparison. Boring? This is why I don't list all my likes and dislikes. I enjoy discovering what we both want with/from each other if I'm going to meet someone. Why I want a social etc. Reading some profiles is like reading an audition piece. . " Maybe boring isn't quite the right word & I don't constantly compare it's more of a musing.... For example I was reading the thread about 'what's in your meet kit bag' ~ well for starters I don't have a specific bag, I just throw a few things into the bag I'm using that day & turn up. I also don't really have a to do / bucket list I just kind of wing it & see how it goes... | |||
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"I've said before I sometimes feel sexually out of my depth as in my experience. I haven't done half the things others post about on here so I do wonder if I'm a little boring by comparison. Boring? This is why I don't list all my likes and dislikes. I enjoy discovering what we both want with/from each other if I'm going to meet someone. Why I want a social etc. Reading some profiles is like reading an audition piece. . Maybe boring isn't quite the right word & I don't constantly compare it's more of a musing.... For example I was reading the thread about 'what's in your meet kit bag' ~ well for starters I don't have a specific bag, I just throw a few things into the bag I'm using that day & turn up. I also don't really have a to do / bucket list I just kind of wing it & see how it goes... " I turned up with a plan once. The only time I planned everything. It was great. But after the first 15mins I got lost in the moment, I just went with her flow. It feels much more natural that way. But if you start to compare yourself in here with others, it's just another possible negative thought to deal with. | |||
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"I've said before I sometimes feel sexually out of my depth as in my experience. I haven't done half the things others post about on here so I do wonder if I'm a little boring by comparison. Boring? This is why I don't list all my likes and dislikes. I enjoy discovering what we both want with/from each other if I'm going to meet someone. Why I want a social etc. Reading some profiles is like reading an audition piece. . Maybe boring isn't quite the right word & I don't constantly compare it's more of a musing.... For example I was reading the thread about 'what's in your meet kit bag' ~ well for starters I don't have a specific bag, I just throw a few things into the bag I'm using that day & turn up. I also don't really have a to do / bucket list I just kind of wing it & see how it goes... " Then you're spontaneous, that's not boring, tbh, the meticulously planned sexual encounter and the ticklist of experiences is all a bit creepy and clinically OCD to me. | |||
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"When you look at profiles here and look at your own profile do you feel a little bewildered especially if like me your no super model or bad boy" One's Woman meat is another one's murder ( pun intended ) It's like real life | |||
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"Out of my depth? Not often. Massively out of a lot of peoples' leagues? Hell yes. But, I'm an old bird and have had long enough to learn to like who I am if not always like how I look. " You're well out of my league and i love how you look x | |||
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"never so no profiles ever make you think how can I live up to that" No. Why would I want to "live up" to someone else? | |||
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"But I do as you ladies are very sexy and voluptuous and I'm a short arsed fugly lol" The majority of people are average OP. It is more a matter of packaging/presentation. Yes, we both get intimidated by some others, whether because they are "too" beautiful or sexually aggressive or simply because they are alien to us. And I know I've intimidated others in the past, even though I am nothing special. The irony is that most people, even the drop-dead gorgeous ones have insecurities and self-doubt to manage. Plenty of hotties of all description on this thread questioning their pulling power! | |||
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"But I do as you ladies are very sexy and voluptuous and I'm a short arsed fugly lol" If u don't fancy yourself.. why would anyone else. Confidence is the word of the day | |||
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"When you look at profiles here and look at your own profile do you feel a little bewildered especially if like me your no super model or bad boy" Bad Boys Running Wild - Scorpions www.youtube.com/watch?v=SyzOvcKp95U | |||
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"never so no profiles ever make you think how can I live up to that" Not so much other women for me, I've never looked at another women on here and though I couldn't live up to that but I do look at men and think there's no point mailing him he's way out of my league, I've even turned down men who have mailed me first because I have felt they can do better, and if they can do better the only reason they would mail me is because second best is better than a walk for some and I don't want to be anybodies make so shag, I may not be slim and good looking but I still have self respect | |||
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"When you look at profiles here and look at your own profile do you feel a little bewildered especially if like me your no super model or bad boy Bad Boys Running Wild - Scorpions www.youtube.com/watch?v=SyzOvcKp95U" love the scorpions | |||
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"When you look at profiles here and look at your own profile do you feel a little bewildered especially if like me your no super model or bad boy" I know exactly what you mean especially when only views you get are blokes ! | |||
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"No not now.When I first joined I did feel a bit out of my depth as I was not used to showing my body. I can admire others bodies but I don't feel inadequate." It was the same for me, this time 2 years ago I wouldn't have even considered taking half of the pics of myself or letting him take them of me that I have done let alone post them online..,,then I did and thought oh shit no way was so so self conscious.....now not SO much | |||
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