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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm just new to fab and came out a 3 year relationship wanted to try this because heard a few good things about it can meet good people not just sex but friends to not got a clue how to approach people or how it works any advice for a fab virgin haha?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Patience, willingness to accept rejection, a well written profile and good pictures, respectfullness and consideration, and low expectations are all key.

Get along to socials or clubs. Any messages you send make sure you tailor them to the person you're writing to and not just send one liners or generic messages that could have been sent to anyone.

Take all of the above into account and perhaps spend some time looking at other forum threads asking for similar advice OP and you won't go far wrong.

Good luck

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

Welcome aboard the good ship Fab Lounge

Having the right attitude to what Fabswingers is about, it's the key to success.

Basically, don't be a dick !

And enjoy yourself

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm just new to fab and came out a 3 year relationship wanted to try this because heard a few good things about it can meet good people not just sex but friends to not got a clue how to approach people or how it works any advice for a fab virgin haha? "

Hello, how to go about it varies for everyone but basically message people you like the look of as long as you fit with what they want. Treat them how you would like to be treated. Don't take it seriously or let knock backs affect your confidence. If it looks too good to be true it definitely is. Enjoy .

Good luck.

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By *hunkyThighsMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

Don't become fab straight

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By *ex LutherMan
over a year ago

Closer than you think


"I'm just new to fab and came out a 3 year relationship wanted to try this because heard a few good things about it can meet good people not just sex but friends to not got a clue how to approach people or how it works any advice for a fab virgin haha? "

Welcome you're profile and pics across well and you've not fallen into the newbie trap of posting cock pics and boasting about what you will or can do

As others have posted be patient and respectful, remember we need the ladies of fab more than they need us!!

Good luck and I hope you have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to fab. My top tip is relax n just go with the flow. Join in with the forums and don't expect sex. Xxx

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By *ubSirVient-DefinitionCouple
over a year ago

dukinfield

As above, just avoid needy post like 'I've been here 3.257 days and I've not had a fuck this place is a waste' or 'what's wrong with me why won't women answer my stalking....I mean messages'

Oh and don't talk about the whole bran flakes thing. That really doesn't go down well here.

As Jim Jeffries says "try not to be a cunt" and you'll get on fine pal.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Read more than you write.

A lot more.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Read more than you write.

A lot more."

This is probably the best advice you'll ever get in two neat sentences OP

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Don't become fab straight "

Nice tits

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Read more than you write.

A lot more."

Pfft

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Welcome to fab. My top tip is relax n just go with the flow. Join in with the forums and don't expect sex. Xxx"

Thanks a lot I know u have tae starry getting to know people 1st before all the sex see if the connection and chemistry is there x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As above, just avoid needy post like 'I've been here 3.257 days and I've not had a fuck this place is a waste' or 'what's wrong with me why won't women answer my stalking....I mean messages'

Oh and don't talk about the whole bran flakes thing. That really doesn't go down well here.

As Jim Jeffries says "try not to be a cunt" and you'll get on fine pal. "

Hahahah thanks a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 13/02/17 16:41:13]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"[Removed by poster at 13/02/17 16:41:13]"

Which word did you get wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 13/02/17 16:41:13]

Which word did you get wrong? "
I put the is together with patience lol

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