FabSwingers.com forum: A universal truth?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I must have been propositioned by about 10 guys yesterday and though I'm not averse to the idea of playing with a man I am much more interested in playing in a group setting than a 'one-on-one' scenario.

I had thought my profile shows this clearly but still the odd guy sends me an unsolicited message. Do a lot of other guys get this too?

I see from a lot of aggressive statuses and profile descriptions that this happens exponentially more to women on this site but I wondered if it is something everyone has experienced.

I try to be polite but imagine this can be difficult if it happens hundreds of times.

How do others deal with it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I must have been propositioned by about 10 guys yesterday and though I'm not averse to the idea of playing with a man I am much more interested in playing in a group setting than a 'one-on-one' scenario.

I had thought my profile shows this clearly but still the odd guy sends me an unsolicited message. Do a lot of other guys get this too?

I see from a lot of aggressive statuses and profile descriptions that this happens exponentially more to women on this site but I wondered if it is something everyone has experienced.

I try to be polite but imagine this can be difficult if it happens hundreds of times.

How do others deal with it?"

It happens to ALL of you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block men from mailing you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As my profile says I'm looking for other guys (to join the mrs and myself), I do get a lot of guys messaging for a quickie, I do explain why I'm looking for guys and indeed when we've had other guys join us, the play has gone a little wilder than expected but it's been very horny, I wouldn't seek out another guy to play with, some are very angry and aggressive if you don't drop what you're doing and go and suck their cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just ignore it

We gets tens of unsolicited messages every week

Only one guy from alk those has matched our criteria, but he couldn't meet when we could so that one didn't progress

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

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It's educational for guys to get a feel for lots of offers that aren't appropriate, so that you gain an understanding of how it typically is for the rest of us - and why we may take a while to deal with our inboxes.

Quick fix is to block the gender you don't want to hear from but if open to it under some conditions, to filter them better or search for those kind of situations Imo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get loads of them.

Generally just ignore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely the only time to complain is when you don't attract attention ,,,,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's educational for guys to get a feel for lots of offers that aren't appropriate, so that you gain an understanding of how it typically is for the rest of us - and why we may take a while to deal with our inboxes.

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Shame more don't get this. They might change the way they approach people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Surely the only time to complain is when you don't attract attention ,,,,,,

Heh, yes and no I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Quick fix is to block the gender you don't want to hear from but if open to it under some conditions, to filter them better or search for those kind of situations Imo. "

Yes. I totally agree with you there, not that I really needed to experience it to know that harassing someone is a dick move but I can certainly empathise with how frustrating it must be.

I suppose blocking a particular gender can be one solution (perhaps in my case) but if someone does want to meet males then it isn't a perfect solution I guess.

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