FabSwingers.com forum: why name and shame

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

just seen a profile where some girl naming and shaming a man who stood her up, why dont people have more dignity and just leave it as a lesson learned? Naming and shaming against the rules anyway aint it?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

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"just seen a profile where some girl naming and shaming a man who stood her up, why dont people have more dignity and just leave it as a lesson learned? Naming and shaming against the rules anyway aint it?

Yes it is against the rules and I would report them, for doing this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but this thread may also earn you a forum ban if it's misconstrued by the forum police

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wounded pride often brings out the worst in people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes but this thread may also earn you a forum ban if it's misconstrued by the forum police"

Why/ what have I done wrong?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Dignity is definitely seldom displayed by many. It's like their life itself is defined by a shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes but this thread may also earn you a forum ban if it's misconstrued by the forum police

Why/ what have I done wrong?"

Nothing..... as far as I can see. You have not named and shamed. But it is up to the mods to interpret and they are human so not always perfect in their judgement.

I don't think you will be sent to the naughty step...but you should report the profile for breaking rules.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Dignity is definitely seldom displayed by many. It's like their life itself is defined by a shag."

Good point.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes but this thread may also earn you a forum ban if it's misconstrued by the forum police

Why/ what have I done wrong?

Nothing..... as far as I can see. You have not named and shamed. But it is up to the mods to interpret and they are human so not always perfect in their judgement.

I don't think you will be sent to the naughty step...but you should report the profile for breaking rules."

I did just report it, I just think its better to save face and not show you are bothered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wounded pride often brings out the worst in people "

It is against rules though. Bad form.

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