FabSwingers.com forum: Verifications

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you feel that the veris people have left for you give a good impression of yourself & your personality?

I'm not particularly well verified, but I feel that the ones I have do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep. Next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll have to go and read mine, I can't remember what they wrote.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think it's up to ourselves to do that and for veris to highlight information about us that support others' judgements over whether we're reliable and wise to invest time etc into.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I should've said realistic or true to life instead of good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's not really much on mine about me and my personality. What is there is about right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I should've said realistic or true to life instead of good

still yep!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I should've said realistic or true to life instead of good

Mine are realistic about my personality, I think.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I think so. I have been considering just hiding them all though.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I think they give a good representation of who I was when with them. If people read a few of them they will get a sense of me. I've had on bad verification, which I loved, but it disappeared when the man left the site. Other people who didn't find me appealing haven't left verifications so those you can see are skewed to the positive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do as they have similar feedback.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Yes, they are realistic - a tad overexaggerated with voice descriptions but good overall. I have a couple of joke ones (my favourite sort) but my best one went unlos a bit ago so it's lost to me

I forgot how much I liked a couple of them until rereading; thanks OP for reminding me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always appreciate them, but maybe we are not as nice/sexy/fun as we seem!

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I didn't pay anyone to be nice so hopefully they are

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I'm completely misrepresented

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

I think some of mine come across that im more outgoing and confident that i think i am. But its their perspective so maybe i do

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I'm completely misrepresented

Sorry

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"I'm completely misrepresented

Sorry

At least two of them call me a cunt

*sniffs*

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Yes I think they do

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I'm completely misrepresented

Sorry

At least two of them call me a cunt

*sniffs*"

I'd never say that about you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm completely misrepresented

Well, one of your verifications does say that you're sane...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine do.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"I'm completely misrepresented

Well, one of your verifications does say that you're sane..."

Lies lies lies

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Yes they pretty much get us right there is one we don't show that was very over the top in its glowing praise for us which wouldn't have been to bad except it was only for a social.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm completely misrepresented

Well, one of your verifications does say that you're sane...

Lies lies lies"

I'm not shocked.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes they pretty much get us right there is one we don't show that was very over the top in its glowing praise for us which wouldn't have been to bad except it was only for a social. "

I know what you mean, a veri on my old profile said that I'm more delicious than free chocolate. I don't really know how to live up to that

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"Yes they pretty much get us right there is one we don't show that was very over the top in its glowing praise for us which wouldn't have been to bad except it was only for a social.

I know what you mean, a veri on my old profile said that I'm more delicious than free chocolate. I don't really know how to live up to that

Yes apparently in a crowded student bar all the guys could keep their eyes off of Alexis and we were sensual, charming, a breath of fresh air etc etc. Somehow that is not quite how we remembered in but it was a good night

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Mine are a pretty good representation of who I am in real life.

I don't try to pretend to be someone different in the swinging world - I'm just me. I think that's why my veris are accurate.

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

exaggerated but generally I'd say they are me. but then it's always looking for the things that aren't said, isn't it? a verification that tells me someone was on time I positive but still shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you feel that the veris people have left for you give a good impression of yourself & your personality?

I'm not particularly well verified, but I feel that the ones I have do."

Not really.

99% of veries of fab read the same

"She's stunning and he's a cool laid back guy" is the general veri for a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only have the one.

So yes. It's 100 percent accurate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I figure have one from a real meet and it was the couple whom got me to join in the first place. But I still hang out with them and enjoy a great social life with them.

I think it represents me well to a point... the question is can you figure out which part is exaggerated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have that many to read now as quite a few have since gone UNLOS but yes I think they are a good representation of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to think mine do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they do , and it's good to see a thread about veris which isn't full of people complaining about them

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Do you feel that the veris people have left for you give a good impression of yourself & your personality?

I'm not particularly well verified, but I feel that the ones I have do.

Not really.

99% of veries of fab read the same

"She's stunning and he's a cool laid back guy" is the general veri for a couple

But what if she is stunning (albeit typed through the post-orgasmic meet haze) and he is a laid back guy? Does its ubiquity make it less true? A lot of my veris say the same general things about me when you read them all. Just because people have agreed on what I am like visually and as a snapshot of me as a person a meet situation doesn't make it less true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got 2. One uses the word erudite, so I'll take that. The other is a piss take.

My old ones? They were about half and half between normal, straightforward ones which were fairly accurate and superlative flowery exaggerations which were absolutely not.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

One calls me a strumpet - I mean, cheek of it! But yes I think they're fairly accurate and you can see my personality in what's been written about me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have any verifications

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I love my veris

though there are some I cannot publish....

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I think mine pretty much sum me up, straight forward, likes a giggle, open and easy going, so yeah I'll take that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't have any verifications from MrBee

FIFY.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Well, I haven't got many but yes, I think they sum me up pretty well. Or at least sum up the kind of person I try to be. I'd never describe myself as handsome but what the hell, I'll take it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope mine are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They can only ever describe the person they met on a sex site. One aspect.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"They can only ever describe the person they met on a sex site. One aspect. "

I don't think that's true for some of us, nearly all of my veri's were from repeat meets who I spent more time with than just a few hours fucking in silence

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By *itmanAndHerrCouple
over a year ago

st helens

I've never thought of verifications as representations of our characters. More the experience to expect from an encounter with us.

Unfortunately some of our nicest verifications have disappeared as the members have suspended their profiles for various reasons.

It must be a bit of a bummer if you only have one or two veris and those people delete their profile knocking you down to 0. Would you also lose your green tick in this situation?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"They can only ever describe the person they met on a sex site. One aspect. "

How you meet doesn't define who you are or how you behave. Most of my verifications are for socials so they do describe me in a large group social setting. Others are more intimate and describe the friendships I have made. Some refer to meeting for sex.

They are all different with the common denominator being meeting from here but they don't describe one aspect of me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They can only ever describe the person they met on a sex site. One aspect.

I don't think that's true for some of us, nearly all of my veri's were from repeat meets who I spent more time with than just a few hours fucking in silence

Agreed. None of the verifications I show mention sex at all. There's a few which are a bit more graphic, but those were from a repeat meet & for my eyes only.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I've never thought of verifications as representations of our characters. More the experience to expect from an encounter with us.

Unfortunately some of our nicest verifications have disappeared as the members have suspended their profiles for various reasons.

It must be a bit of a bummer if you only have one or two veris and those people delete their profile knocking you down to 0. Would you also lose your green tick in this situation?"

No, the tick remains.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"Do you feel that the veris people have left for you give a good impression of yourself & your personality?

I'm not particularly well verified, but I feel that the ones I have do."

I think mine are spot on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They can only ever describe the person they met on a sex site. One aspect.

They are all different with the common denominator being meeting from here but they don't describe one aspect of me.

Fair point. I was just answering for myself though really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think so yes, but I'm a totally different person outside cos of my anxiety. What comes across as a bubbly vibrant girl is really a raving lunatic.

xxx

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By *itmanAndHerrCouple
over a year ago

st helens

"I've never thought of verifications as representations of our characters. More the experience to expect from an encounter with us.

Unfortunately some of our nicest verifications have disappeared as the members have suspended their profiles for various reasons.

It must be a bit of a bummer if you only have one or two veris and those people delete their profile knocking you down to 0. Would you also lose your green tick in this situation?

No, the tick remains."

Ah yes. Just noticed they doffer stay in your verifications summary count.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"They can only ever describe the person they met on a sex site. One aspect.

They are all different with the common denominator being meeting from here but they don't describe one aspect of me.

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