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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

some people think they are SO intellectual but actually they seem to have no awareness of what other people may be struggling with.

Some people have barriers, learning, barriers, communication barriers, but despite this they are still determined to join with others.

Have a care, don't be thoughlessly cruel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there a thumbs up smiley?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Sometimes I dont think its being thoughlessly cruel though I think its being deliberatly cruel just for the sake of it and its not nice to see

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

through thoughtlessness or maliciousness it certainly give clues as to who to avoid.

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

I agree, there is no call to be cruel to anyone. I hope if i every say anything that is taken a cruel i would be pulled up on it. I know it can be hard to get across a point sometimes without people taking it the wrong way. would never set out to be cruel or malicious to anyone, if i have nothing constructive to say, its better to say nout

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have absolutly no idea what this is about but i do know it is something i have witnessed too many times and i really couldn't agree more so i need a massive thumbs up emote

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

agree fully if you have nothing constuctive to put on a thread or you dont like it move on to next thread no need to shoot people down

feel the love people theres enuff badness in the world

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"agree fully if you have nothing constuctive to put on a thread or you dont like it move on to next thread no need to shoot people down

feel the love people theres enuff badness in the world"

too right xxx

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By *opeye-OliveCouple
over a year ago

worcester

We should unite against all Trolls

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

They are usually quickly identified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree even though I'm a sarcy sod at times but I'm not malicious, I have crossed a line unwittingly once in a while but I'll always apologise, there is a difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see people every day being rude and thoughtless and it really annoys me. You only have to have a look on Twitter to see it!. I like to treat everyone like I would like to be treated. Is that so hard?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I have crossed a line unwittingly once in a while but I'll always apologise, there is a difference

Yup, you sure did with that fecking cock sock you were wearing earlier!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I have crossed a line unwittingly once in a while but I'll always apologise, there is a difference

Yup, you sure did with that fecking cock sock you were wearing earlier!

Sorry fella but I couldn't welch out on a dare, it's gone now so people can sleep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

although may i just say sometimes situations a people can be misread as i did and sent an apologising pm as i read someone wrong

so i do try to keep an open mind

although sometimes its blatent cruelty i have to say sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am never cruel for the sake of it or nasty or make snide comments and I don't take the piss out of people for a laugh. Sometimes I get a little passionate about subjects and I will put my point forward, but I don't get any enjoyment out of belittling anyone. I have seen it on the forums and have challenged it at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I have crossed a line unwittingly once in a while but I'll always apologise, there is a difference

Yup, you sure did with that fecking cock sock you were wearing earlier!

Sorry fella but I couldn't welch out on a dare, it's gone now so people can sleep

For entertainment value alone it was well worth it pal. Kept the forums giggling for a whole day so my hat's off to ya. Well done.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

I always say that I don't "do" nice.

I am one of the sarkiest, cheekiest gits that I know (see, I am not naming and shaming soapy, wishy or kev)!!!

However, whatever I say, either on here, on phone or face to face is NEVER said with any malicious intent.

At the end of the day this site is for entertainment, does not pay my mortgage and bills etc, so all is taken lightly.

**if any of the above did not make sense then I blame wishywashy.... cos I can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Despite it being all in cyberspace, when cruelty is directed in your direction ...it hurts.

Whether you know them or not.

I will stick to my old moms adage of if you have nothing nice to say...say nothing at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"agree fully if you have nothing constuctive to put on a thread or you dont like it move on to next thread no need to shoot people down

feel the love people theres enuff badness in the world"

Exactly- some people are horrid to others in forums. Why cant they just ignore a forum thread rather than belittle a persons response?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

It says more about them than anything else..

Their self perceived superiority comes from an overwhelming lack of achievement... That they need to belittle someone else to elevate themselves....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"**if any of the above did not make sense then I blame wishywashy.... cos I can

Hey, I got a tough skin, and I pretty much like to amble my merry little way along and not take life too seriously at all (apart from the politics threads which I particularly enjoy

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I watch a lot of space type stuff on TV and it a sure fire way of realising just how insignificant this little ball of ours is, but it is OUR ball and we all gotta share it.

I think we've all learned something during the last 48 hours on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"**if any of the above did not make sense then I blame wishywashy.... cos I can

Hey, I got a tough skin, and I pretty much like to amble my merry little way along and not take life too seriously at all (apart from the politics threads which I particularly enjoy

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I watch a lot of space type stuff on TV and it a sure fire way of realising just how insignificant this little ball of ours is, but it is OUR ball and we all gotta share it.

I think we've all learned something during the last 48 hours on here.

I have learnt that baby shite yellow dont suit kev

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just seems to be a lot of unhappy people lately.

moaning about everything including single guys.

no matter who it is people have feelings and things going on away from the site which can be difficult at the best of times.

you come here for a laugh and to try and perk yourself up and all you see is bashing from people who dont really know you at all.

i really feel for people who have serious problems and are trying to cope.

for some this place is the only thing which keeps them going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can honestly say that when i lost very close people last year, i was astounded at peoples generosity and offers of a shoulder to cry on.

Without that caring aspect from those in the forums, i would have found it very hard to cope.

I would come on and try and forget and have a smile at something or other.

Most of us in here know how great people can be ..and i know that at times it can get a little confrontational.

But on the whole...it aint a bad place to be

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"I can honestly say that when i lost very close people last year, i was astounded at peoples generosity and offers of a shoulder to cry on.

Without that caring aspect from those in the forums, i would have found it very hard to cope.

I would come on and try and forget and have a smile at something or other.

Most of us in here know how great people can be ..and i know that at times it can get a little confrontational.

But on the whole...it aint a bad place to be

And now its officially Friday!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey....ive lost a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh i posted defenses to others posts lots of time, looked like i was some righteous ranter to some, thats cos i bloody well am-other times u will just hear me looking for a shagNlaugh

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"Blimey....ive lost a day

oops

well its MY Friday anyways...

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Blimey....ive lost a day

oops

well its MY Friday anyways..."

does jezebal world have a different calendar then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Blimey....ive lost a day

oops

well its MY Friday anyways..."

Phewwwww

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"Blimey....ive lost a day

oops

well its MY Friday anyways...

does jezebal world have a different calendar then

it would appear so!

I was convinced that was the reason for the grumpiness today. So much for that theory eh?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Blimey....ive lost a day

oops

well its MY Friday anyways...

does jezebal world have a different calendar then

it would appear so!

I was convinced that was the reason for the grumpiness today. So much for that theory eh?"

can i live in _ezebel world?? are there special immigration laws?

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"Blimey....ive lost a day

oops

well its MY Friday anyways...

does jezebal world have a different calendar then

it would appear so!

I was convinced that was the reason for the grumpiness today. So much for that theory eh?

can i live in _ezebel world?? are there special immigration laws?"

Nope anyone is welcome. They just have to play nice

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Blimey....ive lost a day

oops

well its MY Friday anyways...

does jezebal world have a different calendar then

it would appear so!

I was convinced that was the reason for the grumpiness today. So much for that theory eh?

can i live in _ezebel world?? are there special immigration laws?

Nope anyone is welcome. They just have to play nice

i'm lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Blimey....ive lost a day

oops

well its MY Friday anyways...

does jezebal world have a different calendar then

it would appear so!

I was convinced that was the reason for the grumpiness today. So much for that theory eh?

can i live in _ezebel world?? are there special immigration laws?

Nope anyone is welcome. They just have to play nice

i'm lovely

yes you are lovely.

in my eyes you can do no wrong xx

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

"Blimey....ive lost a day

oops

well its MY Friday anyways...

does jezebal world have a different calendar then

it would appear so!

I was convinced that was the reason for the grumpiness today. So much for that theory eh?

can i live in _ezebel world?? are there special immigration laws?

Nope anyone is welcome. They just have to play nice

i'm lovely

yep u r lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Blimey....ive lost a day

oops

well its MY Friday anyways...

does jezebal world have a different calendar then

it would appear so!

I was convinced that was the reason for the grumpiness today. So much for that theory eh?

can i live in _ezebel world?? are there special immigration laws?

Nope anyone is welcome. They just have to play nice

i'm lovely

yep u r lovely

so are u...

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

"Blimey....ive lost a day

oops

well its MY Friday anyways...

does jezebal world have a different calendar then

it would appear so!

I was convinced that was the reason for the grumpiness today. So much for that theory eh?

can i live in _ezebel world?? are there special immigration laws?

Nope anyone is welcome. They just have to play nice

i'm lovely

yep u r lovely

so are u..."

aww ty so r u xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Blimey....ive lost a day

oops

well its MY Friday anyways...

does jezebal world have a different calendar then

it would appear so!

I was convinced that was the reason for the grumpiness today. So much for that theory eh?

can i live in _ezebel world?? are there special immigration laws?

Nope anyone is welcome. They just have to play nice

i'm lovely

yep u r lovely

so are u...

aww ty so r u xx"

I just said it to get sex tho..

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

Tell me....

Where the hell did Thursday go????

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

"Blimey....ive lost a day

oops

well its MY Friday anyways...

does jezebal world have a different calendar then

it would appear so!

I was convinced that was the reason for the grumpiness today. So much for that theory eh?

can i live in _ezebel world?? are there special immigration laws?

Nope anyone is welcome. They just have to play nice

i'm lovely

yep u r lovely

so are u...

aww ty so r u xx

I just said it to get sex tho.."

lol told ya you have to try harder than that

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Is this about the forum? Cos i see it daily in real life,where it matters.My Mum forgets words, my son has a serious speach defect and autism.i have seen shop keepers,bus drivers, people in the street treat both with contempt ,ridicule and impatience, simply because they cannot understand them immediately.

That hurts, what someone says online pales into insignificance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this about the forum? Cos i see it daily in real life,where it matters.My Mum forgets words, my son has a serious speach defect and autism.i have seen shop keepers,bus drivers, people in the street treat both with contempt ,ridicule and impatience, simply because they cannot understand them immediately.

That hurts, what someone says online pales into insignificance.

I understand what ur saying...but of course its online, but again i think of many as real people, and i dont like anyone indeed bringing people down as if it was simply ok to do so behind a keyboard-only time I believe in bringing ppl down is to let them know theyve been out of order, and its nothing to do with the fact I might wanna shag them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a form of bullying to belittle someone or to make them feel unwelcome for coming in or for having a different opinion..... And its my friday too chams tonight playing out on a school night how naughty am I.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Blimey....ive lost a day

oops

well its MY Friday anyways...

does jezebal world have a different calendar then

it would appear so!

I was convinced that was the reason for the grumpiness today. So much for that theory eh?

can i live in _ezebel world?? are there special immigration laws?

Nope anyone is welcome. They just have to play nice

i'm lovely

yep u r lovely

so are u...

aww ty so r u xx

I just said it to get sex tho..

lol told ya you have to try harder than that

Oh dont worry at chams i will be totally sweet n hard working with my eyes and if my hands are allowed to wander i will of course massage ur body entirely in pervistic sensuous manners

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

That hurts, what someone says online pales into insignificance.

I suppose in most cases, it is ignorance on the part of the people who come out and say what they do!

People stereotype others who don't fit the "norm", or who don't fit their perception of what everyone should be like, in their own eyes.

A recent case in my neighbourhood late last year showed up this prejudice; a local guy was going through hell, as locals, for no reason, started calling him a "paedo". Problem was, he had some learning difficulties, had a lower mental age than normal, still dressed a bit shabbily, and wore really thick glasses.

Yet, people wrongly _iewed him in their warped little minds; it was resolved in the long run, thanks to some more liberally minded people who supported him and the local Police took a firm hand with the idiots.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Tell me....

Where the hell did Thursday go????

Invictus cancelled it 'cos he's run out of moan forms apparently.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

That hurts, what someone says online pales into insignificance.

not sure i get your point,deliberatly posting to bring someone down is as sad as letting something u read online get u down.

Be yourself and accept none of this matters, when getting a shag upsets u ,then u have problems

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

"Tell me....

Where the hell did Thursday go????

Invictus cancelled it 'cos he's run out of moan forms apparently.

Tsk! Tsk!

And there was I thinking he was the epitome of being organised!

A few short sharp words are in order with his bosses about his sloppy work!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tell me....

Where the hell did Thursday go????

Invictus cancelled it 'cos he's run out of moan forms apparently.

Tsk! Tsk!

And there was I thinking he was the epitome of being organised!

A few short sharp words are in order with his bosses about his sloppy work!

Well it has been a while since we have had a bank holiday. So is Today Invinctus Day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tell me....

Where the hell did Thursday go????

Invictus cancelled it 'cos he's run out of moan forms apparently.

Now where he gone ?

jeez....i cant keep up with the going poof of members lately

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"some people think they are SO intellectual but actually they seem to have no awareness of what other people may be struggling with.

Some people have barriers, learning, barriers, communication barriers, but despite this they are still determined to join with others.

Have a care, don't be thoughlessly cruel."

The main reason why i piss about

I never knowing judge anyone

the reason being i have only ever walked in my shoes

I have only ever lived MY life and formed my opinions

And sometimes my opinions change because i learn something new

I ain't perfect no one is

And the only ones that think they are are the ones that ain't

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"some people think they are SO intellectual but actually they seem to have no awareness of what other people may be struggling with.

Some people have barriers, learning, barriers, communication barriers, but despite this they are still determined to join with others.

Have a care, don't be thoughlessly cruel.

The main reason why i piss about

I never knowing judge anyone

the reason being i have only ever walked in my shoes

I have only ever lived MY life and formed my opinions

And sometimes my opinions change because i learn something new

I ain't perfect no one is

And the only ones that think they are are the ones that ain't "

nice post..

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

"some people think they are SO intellectual but actually they seem to have no awareness of what other people may be struggling with.

Some people have barriers, learning, barriers, communication barriers, but despite this they are still determined to join with others.

Have a care, don't be thoughlessly cruel.

The main reason why i piss about

I never knowing judge anyone

the reason being i have only ever walked in my shoes

I have only ever lived MY life and formed my opinions

And sometimes my opinions change because i learn something new

I ain't perfect no one is

And the only ones that think they are are the ones that ain't "

well said that man

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

very well put

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