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"Wife has gone away for the weekend
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"Could mean any number of things. I own my own house, I'm not married but my sister lives here, I have a child with an ex that spends most of the week here as well You could just take 5 minutes and ask them though? " They could take 2 minutes and put it on their profile though  | |||
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"Could mean any number of things. I own my own house, I'm not married but my sister lives here, I have a child with an ex that spends most of the week here as well You could just take 5 minutes and ask them though? They could take 2 minutes and put it on their profile though "Lol I did, people don't read that stuff though. | |||
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"Could mean any number of things. I own my own house, I'm not married but my sister lives here, I have a child with an ex that spends most of the week here as well You could just take 5 minutes and ask them though? They could take 2 minutes and put it on their profile though
Lol I did, people don't read that stuff though. "I did | |||
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"Wife has gone away for the weekend "Kids have gone away for the weekend. That is what I always think | |||
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"Could mean any number of things. I own my own house, I'm not married but my sister lives here, I have a child with an ex that spends most of the week here as well You could just take 5 minutes and ask them though? They could take 2 minutes and put it on their profile though "I don't think people should have to. Some people assume that people who don't accommodate are cheating, others live in the real world | |||
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"Could mean any number of things. I own my own house, I'm not married but my sister lives here, I have a child with an ex that spends most of the week here as well You could just take 5 minutes and ask them though? They could take 2 minutes and put it on their profile though
I don't think people should have to. Some people assume that people who don't accommodate are cheating, others live in the real world"They don't have to as in much as the women here don't have to ask them for their reasons; it is easier for me to look at the next profile than play '20 questions' with them. I know, it'll be my 'loss' | |||
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"Wife has gone away for the weekend
That is what I thought"Same old, same old | |||
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"Could mean any number of things. I own my own house, I'm not married but my sister lives here, I have a child with an ex that spends most of the week here as well You could just take 5 minutes and ask them though? They could take 2 minutes and put it on their profile though
I don't think people should have to. Some people assume that people who don't accommodate are cheating, others live in the real world"I agree with you there. If I like the look of someone I'll ask. | |||
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"Could mean any number of things. I own my own house, I'm not married but my sister lives here, I have a child with an ex that spends most of the week here as well You could just take 5 minutes and ask them though? They could take 2 minutes and put it on their profile though
I don't think people should have to. Some people assume that people who don't accommodate are cheating, others live in the real world"The majority assume those who can't accommodate are cheating, but we all know that Assume makes an 'ass out of u and me' | |||
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"Could mean any number of things. I own my own house, I'm not married but my sister lives here, I have a child with an ex that spends most of the week here as well You could just take 5 minutes and ask them though? They could take 2 minutes and put it on their profile though
I don't think people should have to. Some people assume that people who don't accommodate are cheating, others live in the real world
They don't have to as in much as the women here don't have to ask them for their reasons; it is easier for me to look at the next profile than play '20 questions' with them. I know, it'll be my 'loss' "If the next profile doesn't mention anything about not being married, do you ask them, or assume they aren't? | |||
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"Could mean any number of things. I own my own house, I'm not married but my sister lives here, I have a child with an ex that spends most of the week here as well You could just take 5 minutes and ask them though? They could take 2 minutes and put it on their profile though
I don't think people should have to. Some people assume that people who don't accommodate are cheating, others live in the real world
They don't have to as in much as the women here don't have to ask them for their reasons; it is easier for me to look at the next profile than play '20 questions' with them. I know, it'll be my 'loss' "So is this a case of too much information being the deal breaker ? Are those that play their cards closer to their chest more likely to get a meet ? | |||
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"The majority assume those who can't accommodate are cheating" The majority? Based on what? A few posts in some threads? | |||
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"Could mean any number of things. I own my own house, I'm not married but my sister lives here, I have a child with an ex that spends most of the week here as well You could just take 5 minutes and ask them though? They could take 2 minutes and put it on their profile though
I don't think people should have to. Some people assume that people who don't accommodate are cheating, others live in the real world
They don't have to as in much as the women here don't have to ask them for their reasons; it is easier for me to look at the next profile than play '20 questions' with them. I know, it'll be my 'loss'
If the next profile doesn't mention anything about not being married, do you ask them, or assume they aren't? "I am not interested in married men and say so on my profile. And since I don't initially write to anyone, I only read their profile if they write to me first. Has worked very well for me over the last 2 years | |||
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"The majority assume those who can't accommodate are cheating The majority? Based on what? A few posts in some threads?" Based on the forums, yes, and messages I receive. It's common knowledge that's what the majority think. | |||
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"The majority assume those who can't accommodate are cheating The majority? Based on what? A few posts in some threads? Based on the forums, yes, and messages I receive. It's common knowledge that's what the majority think." Of course | |||
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"Could mean any number of things. I own my own house, I'm not married but my sister lives here, I have a child with an ex that spends most of the week here as well You could just take 5 minutes and ask them though? They could take 2 minutes and put it on their profile though
I don't think people should have to. Some people assume that people who don't accommodate are cheating, others live in the real world
They don't have to as in much as the women here don't have to ask them for their reasons; it is easier for me to look at the next profile than play '20 questions' with them. I know, it'll be my 'loss'
If the next profile doesn't mention anything about not being married, do you ask them, or assume they aren't?
I am not interested in married men and say so on my profile. And since I don't initially write to anyone, I only read their profile if they write to me first. Has worked very well for me over the last 2 years "What you complaining about then  | |||
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"Could mean any number of things. I own my own house, I'm not married but my sister lives here, I have a child with an ex that spends most of the week here as well You could just take 5 minutes and ask them though? They could take 2 minutes and put it on their profile though
I don't think people should have to. Some people assume that people who don't accommodate are cheating, others live in the real world
They don't have to as in much as the women here don't have to ask them for their reasons; it is easier for me to look at the next profile than play '20 questions' with them. I know, it'll be my 'loss'
If the next profile doesn't mention anything about not being married, do you ask them, or assume they aren't?
I am not interested in married men and say so on my profile. And since I don't initially write to anyone, I only read their profile if they write to me first. Has worked very well for me over the last 2 years
What you complaining about then "I wasn't 'complaining'; I was just curious | |||
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"Could mean any number of things. I own my own house, I'm not married but my sister lives here, I have a child with an ex that spends most of the week here as well You could just take 5 minutes and ask them though? They could take 2 minutes and put it on their profile though
I don't think people should have to. Some people assume that people who don't accommodate are cheating, others live in the real world"I always find it amusing that many that pick on the can't accommodate cannot accommodate themselves. Always struck me as a put up or shut up type of thing. S | |||
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"Could mean any number of things. I own my own house, I'm not married but my sister lives here, I have a child with an ex that spends most of the week here as well You could just take 5 minutes and ask them though? They could take 2 minutes and put it on their profile though
I don't think people should have to. Some people assume that people who don't accommodate are cheating, others live in the real world
I always find it amusing that many that pick on the can't accommodate cannot accommodate themselves.
Always struck me as a put up or shut up type of thing.
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" I always find it amusing that many that pick on the can't accommodate cannot accommodate themselves. Always struck me as a put up or shut up type of thing. S" True, but this particular thread is pondering the reason why someone might be able to accomodate but only for a short period of time on a particular day. | |||
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"Do they live in hostels the other 5 days of the week?" Judgemental much? | |||
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"The majority assume those who can't accommodate are cheating The majority? Based on what? A few posts in some threads?" I would say based on the many answers over the years that most think it is because they are cheaters. Even if they gave a reason of not wanting to meet at home/ have flatmates/ have kids over etc etc it is still assumed they are cheaters by most. Of course if you are a single female or couple saying those things it is accepted better | |||
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"Do they live in hostels the other 5 days of the week? Judgemental much? " Judgemental...on this site ? You don't say | |||
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"The majority assume those who can't accommodate are cheating The majority? Based on what? A few posts in some threads? I would say based on the many answers over the years that most think it is because they are cheaters. Even if they gave a reason of not wanting to meet at home/ have flatmates/ have kids over etc etc it is still assumed they are cheaters by most. Of course if you are a single female or couple saying those things it is accepted better "Exactly. So people who can't accommodate are automatically disrespected and assumed to be lying. But that comes with the usual negative and narrow minded attitude from a lot of people on here. | |||
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"Could mean any number of things. I own my own house, I'm not married but my sister lives here, I have a child with an ex that spends most of the week here as well You could just take 5 minutes and ask them though? " They could (and should) do that, but then if they find out the real reason then they can't post sarcastic comments.....each to their own I say;and if it is because his wife/partner or whom ever is away.....so what? | |||
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"Do they live in hostels the other 5 days of the week? Judgemental much? " They live in judgement hostels? What are those? | |||
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"The majority assume those who can't accommodate are cheating The majority? Based on what? A few posts in some threads? I would say based on the many answers over the years that most think it is because they are cheaters. Even if they gave a reason of not wanting to meet at home/ have flatmates/ have kids over etc etc it is still assumed they are cheaters by most. Of course if you are a single female or couple saying those things it is accepted better
Exactly. So people who can't accommodate are automatically disrespected and assumed to be lying. But that comes with the usual negative and narrow minded attitude from a lot of people on here."I don't think it is a bad thing to have your own ways of picking out a meet and if thats some peoples way then that isn't negative for them. When we met we didn't accommodate in the end either so we didn't expect anyone else to but did still try and filter out married men by other ways. | |||
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"I paraphrased the title. But I see this type of status on some men's profiles. Some are like, "house free from 4-6 on Thursday". Does make me wonder but not enough to enter into a dialogue with them about it so I just ignore their message" Ahhh the 2 hour time slots! They do make me think the poster is a bit desperate .. They are akin to those I see saying 'meet now in the third layby along the a55' | |||
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"Could mean any number of things. I own my own house, I'm not married but my sister lives here, I have a child with an ex that spends most of the week here as well You could just take 5 minutes and ask them though? They could (and should) do that, but then if they find out the real reason then they can't post sarcastic comments.....each to their own I say;and if it is because his wife/partner or whom ever is away.....so what?" Should? Damn, I wasn't aware that there are things that I should do on this site. Just glad that, so far, it hasn't become a 'must' | |||
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" I always find it amusing that many that pick on the can't accommodate cannot accommodate themselves. Always struck me as a put up or shut up type of thing. S True, but this particular thread is pondering the reason why someone might be able to accomodate but only for a short period of time on a particular day." Which I think is because some people have suspicious minds, and automatically assume the person is cheating. | |||
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"I paraphrased the title. But I see this type of status on some men's profiles. Some are like, "house free from 4-6 on Thursday". D" Ah I always think wife has gone out to the bingo or something when I see that. W had one man on another site years ago who asked us to turn up and have sex in his house while his wife was out shopping on a Saturday afternoon but we all had to be done by 4 O'clock as she never stays out later than that  | |||
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"Could mean any number of things. I own my own house, I'm not married but my sister lives here, I have a child with an ex that spends most of the week here as well You could just take 5 minutes and ask them though? They could take 2 minutes and put it on their profile though
I don't think people should have to. Some people assume that people who don't accommodate are cheating, others live in the real world
They don't have to as in much as the women here don't have to ask them for their reasons; it is easier for me to look at the next profile than play '20 questions' with them. I know, it'll be my 'loss'
If the next profile doesn't mention anything about not being married, do you ask them, or assume they aren't?
I am not interested in married men and say so on my profile. And since I don't initially write to anyone, I only read their profile if they write to me first. Has worked very well for me over the last 2 years
What you complaining about then
I wasn't 'complaining'; I was just curious "Has your curiosity been satisfied now? You know what happened to the curious cat, don't you | |||
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"I paraphrased the title. But I see this type of status on some men's profiles. Some are like, "house free from 4-6 on Thursday". D Ah I always think wife has gone out to the bingo or something when I see that. W had one man on another site years ago who asked us to turn up and have sex in his house while his wife was out shopping on a Saturday afternoon but we all had to be done by 4 O'clock as she never stays out later than that "Good on him, showing his initiative in using his "me time" wisely | |||
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"I paraphrased the title. But I see this type of status on some men's profiles. Some are like, "house free from 4-6 on Thursday". D Ah I always think wife has gone out to the bingo or something when I see that. W had one man on another site years ago who asked us to turn up and have sex in his house while his wife was out shopping on a Saturday afternoon but we all had to be done by 4 O'clock as she never stays out later than that "You've been brainwashed to think that way, because of one incident. | |||
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"I paraphrased the title. But I see this type of status on some men's profiles. Some are like, "house free from 4-6 on Thursday". D Ah I always think wife has gone out to the bingo or something when I see that. W had one man on another site years ago who asked us to turn up and have sex in his house while his wife was out shopping on a Saturday afternoon but we all had to be done by 4 O'clock as she never stays out later than that "My two hour shopping trips always take three hours | |||
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"The majority assume those who can't accommodate are cheating The majority? Based on what? A few posts in some threads? I would say based on the many answers over the years that most think it is because they are cheaters. Even if they gave a reason of not wanting to meet at home/ have flatmates/ have kids over etc etc it is still assumed they are cheaters by most. Of course if you are a single female or couple saying those things it is accepted better
Exactly. So people who can't accommodate are automatically disrespected and assumed to be lying. But that comes with the usual negative and narrow minded attitude from a lot of people on here.
I don't think it is a bad thing to have your own ways of picking out a meet and if thats some peoples way then that isn't negative for them.
When we met we didn't accommodate in the end either so we didn't expect anyone else to but did still try and filter out married men by other ways. "What about filtering out married women? | |||
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"Could mean any number of things. I own my own house, I'm not married but my sister lives here, I have a child with an ex that spends most of the week here as well You could just take 5 minutes and ask them though? They could take 2 minutes and put it on their profile though
I don't think people should have to. Some people assume that people who don't accommodate are cheating, others live in the real world
They don't have to as in much as the women here don't have to ask them for their reasons; it is easier for me to look at the next profile than play '20 questions' with them. I know, it'll be my 'loss'
If the next profile doesn't mention anything about not being married, do you ask them, or assume they aren't?
I am not interested in married men and say so on my profile. And since I don't initially write to anyone, I only read their profile if they write to me first. Has worked very well for me over the last 2 years
What you complaining about then
I wasn't 'complaining'; I was just curious
Has your curiosity been satisfied now? You know what happened to the curious cat, don't you "I am curious to know; what happened to the curious cat? | |||
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" Ah I always think wife has gone out to the bingo or something when I see that. W had one man on another site years ago who asked us to turn up and have sex in his house while his wife was out shopping on a Saturday afternoon but we all had to be done by 4 O'clock as she never stays out later than that
You've been brainwashed to think that way, because of one incident. "Or it just reminds them of something that once happened to them? | |||
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"I paraphrased the title. But I see this type of status on some men's profiles. Some are like, "house free from 4-6 on Thursday". D Ah I always think wife has gone out to the bingo or something when I see that. W had one man on another site years ago who asked us to turn up and have sex in his house while his wife was out shopping on a Saturday afternoon but we all had to be done by 4 O'clock as she never stays out later than that
Good on him, showing his initiative in using his "me time" wisely "I am sure he found someone who suited his choice of playing. He just didn't suit us | |||
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"I paraphrased the title. But I see this type of status on some men's profiles. Some are like, "house free from 4-6 on Thursday". D Ah I always think wife has gone out to the bingo or something when I see that. W had one man on another site years ago who asked us to turn up and have sex in his house while his wife was out shopping on a Saturday afternoon but we all had to be done by 4 O'clock as she never stays out later than that
You've been brainwashed to think that way, because of one incident. "I am sure it did, as I am very easily brainwashed  | |||
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"The basement has been bleached and they're ready to accommodate "I like this answer the best | |||
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"I paraphrased the title. But I see this type of status on some men's profiles. Some are like, "house free from 4-6 on Thursday". D Ah I always think wife has gone out to the bingo or something when I see that. W had one man on another site years ago who asked us to turn up and have sex in his house while his wife was out shopping on a Saturday afternoon but we all had to be done by 4 O'clock as she never stays out later than that
My two hour shopping trips always take three hours "I have to be honest that was the biggest surprise of the offer, that the wife is back on time after shopping | |||
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"Could mean any number of things. I own my own house, I'm not married but my sister lives here, I have a child with an ex that spends most of the week here as well You could just take 5 minutes and ask them though? Judge judge judge is all people on here seem to do these days .does it really affect your life or is it just another thing to get narked about They could take 2 minutes and put it on their profile though " | |||
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"The majority assume those who can't accommodate are cheating The majority? Based on what? A few posts in some threads? I would say based on the many answers over the years that most think it is because they are cheaters. Even if they gave a reason of not wanting to meet at home/ have flatmates/ have kids over etc etc it is still assumed they are cheaters by most. Of course if you are a single female or couple saying those things it is accepted better
Exactly. So people who can't accommodate are automatically disrespected and assumed to be lying. But that comes with the usual negative and narrow minded attitude from a lot of people on here.
I don't think it is a bad thing to have your own ways of picking out a meet and if thats some peoples way then that isn't negative for them.
When we met we didn't accommodate in the end either so we didn't expect anyone else to but did still try and filter out married men by other ways.
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"I paraphrased the title. But I see this type of status on some men's profiles. Some are like, "house free from 4-6 on Thursday". D Ah I always think wife has gone out to the bingo or something when I see that. W had one man on another site years ago who asked us to turn up and have sex in his house while his wife was out shopping on a Saturday afternoon but we all had to be done by 4 O'clock as she never stays out later than that
Good on him, showing his initiative in using his "me time" wisely
I am sure he found someone who suited his choice of playing. He just didn't suit us "He was after a 2 hour 'quickie'
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" I always find it amusing that many that pick on the can't accommodate cannot accommodate themselves. Always struck me as a put up or shut up type of thing. S True, but this particular thread is pondering the reason why someone might be able to accomodate but only for a short period of time on a particular day." True but the standard answer always makes me think more about the person pointing than the one they are pointing at.
Me, I'd assume, kids, parents, house/flat mates. Regarding the "I've got two hours to fill" we wouldn't be going there, no matter what the reason
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" True but the standard answer always makes me think more about the person pointing than the one they are pointing at. " This is something most people miss but so very true of how often most quickly respond. | |||
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"Could mean any number of things. I own my own house, I'm not married but my sister lives here, I have a child with an ex that spends most of the week here as well You could just take 5 minutes and ask them though? They could take 2 minutes and put it on their profile though
I don't think people should have to. Some people assume that people who don't accommodate are cheating, others live in the real world" | |||
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" Ah I always think wife has gone out to the bingo or something when I see that. W had one man on another site years ago who asked us to turn up and have sex in his house while his wife was out shopping on a Saturday afternoon but we all had to be done by 4 O'clock as she never stays out later than that
You've been brainwashed to think that way, because of one incident.
Or it just reminds them of something that once happened to them?"And makes them think it's the same with everyone else who says it. | |||
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" Ah I always think wife has gone out to the bingo or something when I see that. W had one man on another site years ago who asked us to turn up and have sex in his house while his wife was out shopping on a Saturday afternoon but we all had to be done by 4 O'clock as she never stays out later than that
You've been brainwashed to think that way, because of one incident.
Or it just reminds them of something that once happened to them?
And makes them think it's the same with everyone else who says it. "No need to get hung up about it, it was just my own thoughts, no one has to agree | |||
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"Could mean any number of things. I own my own house, I'm not married but my sister lives here, I have a child with an ex that spends most of the week here as well You could just take 5 minutes and ask them though? They could take 2 minutes and put it on their profile though
I don't think people should have to. Some people assume that people who don't accommodate are cheating, others live in the real world
They don't have to as in much as the women here don't have to ask them for their reasons; it is easier for me to look at the next profile than play '20 questions' with them. I know, it'll be my 'loss' "By all means do that then. Women on here have the pick of the bunch anyway. Don't understand why you have to come on and complain about it though, unless you were hoping for another single guy bashing thread. There are 101 reasons why some people can't accommodate but it's easy to assume they're cheating. | |||
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"Could mean any number of things. I own my own house, I'm not married but my sister lives here, I have a child with an ex that spends most of the week here as well You could just take 5 minutes and ask them though? They could take 2 minutes and put it on their profile though
I don't think people should have to. Some people assume that people who don't accommodate are cheating, others live in the real world
They don't have to as in much as the women here don't have to ask them for their reasons; it is easier for me to look at the next profile than play '20 questions' with them. I know, it'll be my 'loss'
By all means do that then. Women on here have the pick of the bunch anyway. Don't understand why you have to come on and complain about it though, unless you were hoping for another single guy bashing thread. There are 101 reasons why some people can't accommodate but it's easy to assume they're cheating."You need to calmly read the title and the OP before shooting from the hip Who is complaining? | |||
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"Do they live in hostels the other 5 days of the week?" Family/partner (or parents?) away for the weekend. | |||
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"Wife has gone away for the weekend
That is what I thought"I never think that, what kind of an idiot would invite a meet off here to their home even if their wife is away | |||
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"I had the house to myself last night - kids and wife were away. My wife had house to herself when I was away for work. Not sure what's unusual at all about that statement." Did you put that on your status? | |||
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"Wife has gone away for the weekend
That is what I thought
I never think that, what kind of an idiot would invite a meet off here to their home even if their wife is away "You'd be surprised
There are guys who would squeeze you in during the 2 hours she is out getting groceries for the family | |||
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"Could mean any number of things. I own my own house, I'm not married but my sister lives here, I have a child with an ex that spends most of the week here as well You could just take 5 minutes and ask them though? They could take 2 minutes and put it on their profile though
I don't think people should have to. Some people assume that people who don't accommodate are cheating, others live in the real world
They don't have to as in much as the women here don't have to ask them for their reasons; it is easier for me to look at the next profile than play '20 questions' with them. I know, it'll be my 'loss'
By all means do that then. Women on here have the pick of the bunch anyway. Don't understand why you have to come on and complain about it though, unless you were hoping for another single guy bashing thread. There are 101 reasons why some people can't accommodate but it's easy to assume they're cheating.
You need to calmly read the title and the OP before shooting from the hip
Who is complaining?"Who's shooting? Just making a comment, same as everyone else on here. | |||
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"I had the house to myself last night - kids and wife were away. My wife had house to herself when I was away for work. Not sure what's unusual at all about that statement. Did you put that on your status?" No, but then I personally don't meet random people for sex. | |||
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" Ah I always think wife has gone out to the bingo or something when I see that. W had one man on another site years ago who asked us to turn up and have sex in his house while his wife was out shopping on a Saturday afternoon but we all had to be done by 4 O'clock as she never stays out later than that
You've been brainwashed to think that way, because of one incident.
Or it just reminds them of something that once happened to them?
And makes them think it's the same with everyone else who says it.
No need to get hung up about it, it was just my own thoughts, no one has to agree "I'm not hung up about. I was answering their question they posed after my comment. | |||
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"Could mean any number of things. I own my own house, I'm not married but my sister lives here, I have a child with an ex that spends most of the week here as well You could just take 5 minutes and ask them though? They could take 2 minutes and put it on their profile though
I don't think people should have to. Some people assume that people who don't accommodate are cheating, others live in the real world
They don't have to as in much as the women here don't have to ask them for their reasons; it is easier for me to look at the next profile than play '20 questions' with them. I know, it'll be my 'loss'
By all means do that then. Women on here have the pick of the bunch anyway. Don't understand why you have to come on and complain about it though, unless you were hoping for another single guy bashing thread. There are 101 reasons why some people can't accommodate but it's easy to assume they're cheating.
You need to calmly read the title and the OP before shooting from the hip
Who is complaining?
Who's shooting? Just making a comment, same as everyone else on here."Did you type that in you moments of consciousness?: "Don't understand why you have to come on and complain about it though..." | |||
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" Ah I always think wife has gone out to the bingo or something when I see that. W had one man on another site years ago who asked us to turn up and have sex in his house while his wife was out shopping on a Saturday afternoon but we all had to be done by 4 O'clock as she never stays out later than that
You've been brainwashed to think that way, because of one incident.
Or it just reminds them of something that once happened to them?
And makes them think it's the same with everyone else who says it.
No need to get hung up about it, it was just my own thoughts, no one has to agree
I'm not hung up about. I was answering their question they posed after my comment. "I don't always think like that, sometimes I think the wife has gone shopping and not bingo. The poster you were answering was right though, when we see the 2 hour slot thing we get reminded of what we were offered and think of it but even though we think of it, we are aware that not everyone who offers meets with a time slot has a wife who is at bingo. After reading these and other forums for a while...it isn't really a surprised that I have had to explain this though | |||
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