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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do you other girls know if a guy is a true bbw admirer ? (for want of better words )..some guys do tend to message you any bullshit just in the hope of a shag. .pass on some tips please

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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If they are a frequent poster in the BBW thread I think they probably are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But loads don't use the forums so loads don't post in the bbw threads

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"But loads don't use the forums so loads don't post in the bbw threads"

It was one way of knowing if they are.

OP, if they have lots of veris from BBWs and attend club nights geared towards them, that's a good sign. I'm not sure how you would tell otherwise - people write crap to get flange. Just go with your intuition and avoid any who use slightly dickish terms?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See if the women who verified are BBW

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bbw lover, I think once you meet you would soon realise a true bbw lover compared to someone just wanting a shag. Talk to them beforehand to, check veris if they have any. Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you other girls know if a guy is a true bbw admirer ? (for want of better words )..some guys do tend to message you any bullshit just in the hope of a shag. .pass on some tips please "

It's a tough one I guess , as you say some guys will say anything .

Obviously it helps if he has met and been verified by bbws , and hasn't got a list of veris from slim and average ladies . Having said that , many men like women of all sizes ....

Assuming you have sent true to life pics and he is as reliable as he says he is , the only true way to tell is to meet him and see if his dick stays hard .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't ever know if anything anyone says is the truth in here. Just go with your gut instict, that's all I do x

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By *atrionaSavageWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I check prev veri's and read their profile. Ask what appeals about you to them, see what pics of yours they fabbed and see what they message you. Mainly you can tell then if they do love a BBW or just desperate for a shag. I usually message for a while before meeting and I've never been disappointed yet. Also bbw parties are a good indication too....

Cat x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met some really gorgeous men on here, slim, fit and good looking.

They treated me with respect and were lovely and polite.

I don't class myself as a bbw, I just say I'm fat because that's more honest.

Whether I was just a shag to them or they did prefer the bigger lady, I don't really care because they were my type and I got to have sex with them so it was a win win for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As most single women on here I do get lots of messages and from gym fit guys too! !...it is kind of a surprise why they'd be interested in gym shy woman like me lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And some brilliant ideas. ..most of which I put into place already. ..cheers lovely people xxx

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I too check out their previous veris. If they don't have veris from larger ladies like me and they are all from much slimmer ladies I assume they are just desperate to get their cock wet and anyone will do. Either that or a BBW is just something they want to tick off their list.

I'm only interested in those who genuinely find people of my shape and size attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you other girls know if a guy is a true bbw admirer ? (for want of better words )..some guys do tend to message you any bullshit just in the hope of a shag. .pass on some tips please "
love to fuck you

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

8 don't really think about it to be honest. If we second guessed everyone we ever spoke to we'd never meet anyone.

If they say the like me and I like them and I want to fuck them I don't care if they don't want to fuck other fat women.

Dating is different obviously bit this isn't a dating site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check how much his wife weighs

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By *eece38Man
over a year ago

Surbiton

Curves are amazing don't get me wrong it's a huge bonus and turn on for me anyway but it's more the individual x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Checking his verifications is pointless. They just show who he has met on here, and even then not necessarily all of them. Perhaps only slim women met him but he really fancies BBW's but they never reply.

What difference does it make anyway? If you fancy him and he's respectful then meet him. Seems to be way too much overthinking.

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

If they arrive at your door with a large cake and politely say "oh no no, eat it all...i insist, don't forget the crumbs"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't. But people who are just telling you what they think you want to hear usually out themselves. I also look at verifications, if they clearly have a type which is the opposite to me, I'm not going there. If their photos feature a certain type, ditto. If it's a couple and the female half has fake boobs or is tiny, then again, I'm not going to be meeting them or him. If they're forum users then reading the "slim women" and "gym girls" type threads can also be very informative about people's actual views. Just lots of little things that can help give an impression of where people's attractions lie, as well as what they'll say in private messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You don't. But people who are just telling you what they think you want to hear usually out themselves. I also look at verifications, if they clearly have a type which is the opposite to me, I'm not going there. If their photos feature a certain type, ditto. If it's a couple and the female half has fake boobs or is tiny, then again, I'm not going to be meeting them or him. If they're forum users then reading the "slim women" and "gym girls" type threads can also be very informative about people's actual views. Just lots of little things that can help give an impression of where people's attractions lie, as well as what they'll say in private messages."

You do get to learn who is after the "fat girl fuck" and who genuinely like curves, wobbly bits and fat bits! Not always easy but you can find them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All humans are only attracted to one set person type.

Hair colour

Body size

Age

Shoe size

Favourite cheese

Anyone that says they have more than one 'type' is talking out of their arse.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All humans are only attracted to one set person type.

Hair colour

Body size

Age

Shoe size

Favourite cheese

Anyone that says they have more than one 'type' is talking out of their arse.

"

Hell fire! ! ... That's a bold statement! !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You don't. But people who are just telling you what they think you want to hear usually out themselves. I also look at verifications, if they clearly have a type which is the opposite to me, I'm not going there. If their photos feature a certain type, ditto. If it's a couple and the female half has fake boobs or is tiny, then again, I'm not going to be meeting them or him. If they're forum users then reading the "slim women" and "gym girls" type threads can also be very informative about people's actual views. Just lots of little things that can help give an impression of where people's attractions lie, as well as what they'll say in private messages."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All humans are only attracted to one set person type.

Hair colour

Body size

Age

Shoe size

Favourite cheese

Anyone that says they have more than one 'type' is talking out of their arse.

Hell fire! ! ... That's a bold statement! !"

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Just check their username

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OK so I am not a BBW just a fat guy but, I look at like this ... if the other person is visibly pleasured by the parts of my body that I hate, then the chances are they are an admirer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK so I am not a BBW just a fat guy but, I look at like this ... if the other person is visibly pleasured by the parts of my body that I hate, then the chances are they are an admirer "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had one or two guys who post on the bbw threads and claim, pretty convincingly, that they are after curves and the larger woman who messaged me continuously when I first joined the forums trying to get a meet. They had plenty of good things to say about my body, and I don't think of myself as a larger woman.

I think plenty of people will say whatever in order to get a fuck - and they'll be convincing, too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm confused now. So many BBW threads where women say they don't want to be fetishised. Yet happy to say they are looking for admirers. Contradictory.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The proof is in the pudding!

As a huge fan of the bbw category we need a chance to prove ourselves with you ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had one or two guys who post on the bbw threads and claim, pretty convincingly, that they are after curves and the larger woman who messaged me continuously when I first joined the forums trying to get a meet. They had plenty of good things to say about my body, and I don't think of myself as a larger woman.

I think plenty of people will say whatever in order to get a fuck - and they'll be convincing, too."

Absolutely. I've had the ones who message me all complimentary and then will make a horrible comment on the forums that shows where there true views lie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had one or two guys who post on the bbw threads and claim, pretty convincingly, that they are after curves and the larger woman who messaged me continuously when I first joined the forums trying to get a meet. They had plenty of good things to say about my body, and I don't think of myself as a larger woman.

I think plenty of people will say whatever in order to get a fuck - and they'll be convincing, too.

Absolutely. I've had the ones who message me all complimentary and then will make a horrible comment on the forums that shows where there true views lie."

I love your new avatar btw.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I'd rather someone just liked me. Without feeling the need to focus on my wobbly bits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My physical type is tall and slim.

My ex husband was tall and slim.

I left him for someone who is only a few inches taller then me and has more of a rugby player build.

We don't have to like the same build all the time surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a preference but not a prejudice towards taller curvier women. People on here crticise men by saying they would sleep with anyone but have no prejudice against any body shape. I find a prejudice against any body shape shallow.

But to answer OPs question and as has been said before as long as you both have fun is there an issue?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I'm confused now. So many BBW threads where women say they don't want to be fetishised. Yet happy to say they are looking for admirers. Contradictory. "

Could it be that bbw's are all individuals who have different ways and desires... Shocking news story I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm confused now. So many BBW threads where women say they don't want to be fetishised. Yet happy to say they are looking for admirers. Contradictory.

Could it be that bbw's are all individuals who have different ways and desires... Shocking news story I know "

No it can't be that. All men only have one type. Women must be the same.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"All humans are only attracted to one set person type.

Hair colour

Body size

Age

Shoe size

Favourite cheese

Anyone that says they have more than one 'type' is talking out of their arse.

"

Absolute bollocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could it be that bbw's are all individuals who have different ways and desires... Shocking news story I know "

So what you are saying is bbw's are unique individuals, just like everyone else?

Makes sense to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All humans are only attracted to one set person type.

Hair colour

Body size

Age

Shoe size

Favourite cheese

Anyone that says they have more than one 'type' is talking out of their arse.

Absolute bollocks"

FFS does anyone on these forums

a) have a sense of humour

b) know what sarcasm is

Why is everyone always so fucking literal all the time?!

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"All humans are only attracted to one set person type.

Hair colour

Body size

Age

Shoe size

Favourite cheese

Anyone that says they have more than one 'type' is talking out of their arse.

Hell fire! ! ... That's a bold statement! !"

It's also utter bollocks

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