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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I really must be the unluckiest guy off fab site, been in Manchester a month already and been on the site nearly every day trying to reach out and message to see where it would get me, I do alright in person and attract attention anywhere I go but I'm just unable to visit clubs, just not comfortable in having to go by myself, fuck sake I think iv tried a lot been respectful and never gave abuse unlike some do. Doesn't feel so good ATM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't take Fab personally mate. Your success on a site like this doesn't equate with your attractiveness. Not in real life anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You launch similar threads a lot and receive similar information and advice.

If what you are doing isn't working, do something different (definition of insanity etc etc etc).

If you don't fancy a club (which by the way is frankly daft as they're good fun) try an organised social. I believe there's one not far from Manchester at the end of the month if you search the socials forum.

Or, continue doing precisely what you have always done, get the same disappointing results and launch a few more threads to get the same advice to ignore again. Pause. And repeat.

Physician, heal thy self.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But I really would like to atleast get to experience this and satisfy the way I know I can. Would you say it's got to do something being Asian because not many people want Asian?

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By *andH83Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

How is your profile different to any others on here ? How are you standing out ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You launch similar threads a lot and receive similar information and advice.

If what you are doing isn't working, do something different (definition of insanity etc etc etc).

If you don't fancy a club (which by the way is frankly daft as they're good fun) try an organised social. I believe there's one not far from Manchester at the end of the month if you search the socials forum.

Or, continue doing precisely what you have always done, get the same disappointing results and launch a few more threads to get the same advice to ignore again. Pause. And repeat.

Physician, heal thy self. "

I know what you saying is the way forward but it's been a month already and I have to go back to the East Midlands where it's boring, Manchester is great I love the place.

Obviously I have met few people recently but never once of fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How is your profile different to any others on here ? How are you standing out ? "

I think women are more fussy than anything

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By *andH83Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"How is your profile different to any others on here ? How are you standing out ?

I think women are more fussy than anything "

Not really, but at the end of the daytime your not there type then your not there type! you have two pictures and a couple of sentences strung together a lot of women need abit more stimulation, see some depth to the person too!

It might be just fucking to some but doesn't mean all of the romance of it should be thrown out the window!

What are you expect In month? Are you a walking Greek god send down from heaven to satisfy all women of Manchester ?

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By *andH83Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I'm a trapstar I make stacks every day"

I mean common really ???

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By *s.KerryTV/TS
over a year ago

Blackpool


"How is your profile different to any others on here ? How are you standing out ?

I think women are more fussy than anything "

I can't really see that comment will help you either

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How is your profile different to any others on here ? How are you standing out ?

I think women are more fussy than anything

Not really, but at the end of the daytime your not there type then your not there type! you have two pictures and a couple of sentences strung together a lot of women need abit more stimulation, see some depth to the person too!

It might be just fucking to some but doesn't mean all of the romance of it should be thrown out the window!

What are you expect In month? Are you a walking Greek god send down from heaven to satisfy all women of Manchester ?"

Haha no definitely don't think anything like that but it's not really my first time being in Manchester i come back alot and always give it a go but maybe your right I'm not people cup of tea,

lol should of seen my profile before, it was terrible. Got few advice from the forum and tried to make it better but let's be honest it's still crap lol I'm just not that great at being literal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""I'm a trapstar I make stacks every day"

I mean common really ???"

I know it's absolutely stupid

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By *andH83Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Your not being literal , your tying to be "real"

Talking like a cuzzie. Most one understand that but I know you know we both on a level!

I met all walrus of life in gyms so I know guys! Cut the crap and the flash the cash talk

Talk about you, make a joke about your self etc. Put some

Pictures up drsssrd as well as naked! A few pics smiling etc

Loads of Asian chaos on here do pretty well for them selves if seen a fair few profiles with verifications on them.

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By *andH83Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

*al walks of life not walrus

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your not being literal , your tying to be "real"

Talking like a cuzzie. Most one understand that but I know you know we both on a level!

I met all walrus of life in gyms so I know guys! Cut the crap and the flash the cash talk

Talk about you, make a joke about your self etc. Put some

Pictures up drsssrd as well as naked! A few pics smiling etc

Loads of Asian chaos on here do pretty well for them selves if seen a fair few profiles with verifications on them."

Atleast you can understand what kind of person I am. I'm from Leicester not far away from Birmingham but tbh even tried that one aswel but when I try to make it any better I can't, I'm dumb on paper but smarter in other areas, it's all I know

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't want to go to a club alone and probably get into bother and don't know many people from Manchester

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By *andH83Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Why would you get into bother ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*al walks of life not walrus "

Predictive text is your enemy.

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By *andH83Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"*al walks of life not walrus

Predictive text is your enemy."

Ducking or fucking

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why would you get into bother ?"

I love to socialise don't get me wrong and a great personality on me, but if I don't know anyone and I walked in a club I'd feel abit out of place and people looking at me which probably makes me even more uncomfortable and too nervous to even attempt to talk to anyone "women "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"*al walks of life not walrus

Predictive text is your enemy.

Ducking or fucking "

I'm dyslexic without it I wouldn't make sense lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*al walks of life not walrus

Predictive text is your enemy."

I thought it was some slang I'd not heard before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*al walks of life not walrus

Predictive text is your enemy.

Ducking or fucking "

Enema*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyway thanks for the good comments

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I don't think you're fab cursed. I didn't understand some of your profile. And your forum comment about larger women being better at blowjobs because they are more eager to please? If you message women off the back of that thread, don't be too surprised when it isn't responded to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think you're fab cursed. I didn't understand some of your profile. And your forum comment about larger women being better at blowjobs because they are more eager to please? If you message women off the back of that thread, don't be too surprised when it isn't responded to."

Didn't mean it like that just not very literal so predictive text helps bloody hell I must really sound a dick! It far from being disrespectful to anyone

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By *andH83Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I don't think you're fab cursed. I didn't understand some of your profile. And your forum comment about larger women being better at blowjobs because they are more eager to please? If you message women off the back of that thread, don't be too surprised when it isn't responded to."

Oh dear oh dear not good !! Ouch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try a non sex site and look for a GF, if it's upsetting you.. There is a very negative side to casual sex sometimes. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really must be the unluckiest guy off fab site, been in Manchester a month already and been on the site nearly every day trying to reach out and message to see where it would get me, I do alright in person and attract attention anywhere I go but I'm just unable to visit clubs, just not comfortable in having to go by myself, fuck sake I think iv tried a lot been respectful and never gave abuse unlike some do. Doesn't feel so good ATM "

I can see why how it could get you down. But don't. Fab isn't the bee all and end all.

And your in Manchester. It awesome.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Try a non sex site and look for a GF, if it's upsetting you.. There is a very negative side to casual sex sometimes. XXX"

I don't think I want a gf but imagine this.... I end up spending a lot of time at night on fab always staying up late then saying to myself that it now no more just delete it and give up but every night I end up going back on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I really must be the unluckiest guy off fab site, been in Manchester a month already and been on the site nearly every day trying to reach out and message to see where it would get me, I do alright in person and attract attention anywhere I go but I'm just unable to visit clubs, just not comfortable in having to go by myself, fuck sake I think iv tried a lot been respectful and never gave abuse unlike some do. Doesn't feel so good ATM

I can see why how it could get you down. But don't. Fab isn't the bee all and end all.

And your in Manchester. It awesome. "

manchester has beautiful women everywhere they all beautiful and hot

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Alarm just went off I best get off

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"I don't want to go to a club alone and probably get into bother and don't know many people from Manchester "

Personally I'd steer well clear.

This statement alone makes me think 'psycho' someone who would get angry at a drop of the hat, or by someone just looking at them.

Travelling from Leicester to Manchester for work and then claims to be a trapstar ie drug dealer.

Then posts an update asking for a spliff.

Please don't change your profile at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your status suggests you think this site is fabdealers.com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a single guy profile before and I'd never met anyone using it alone. The best I got was a lady who I met at a club messaged me for some one on one time it takes work and patience to succeed.

Having said that a profile that sells you really helps, however one that makes you sound like a dealer isn't so great and will likely spoil your chances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How is your profile different to any others on here ? How are you standing out ?

I think women are more fussy than anything "

Yeah I too curse these fussy women , life would be easier for all us men if they'd just drop their standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really must be the unluckiest guy off fab site, been in Manchester a month already and been on the site nearly every day trying to reach out and message to see where it would get me, I do alright in person and attract attention anywhere I go but I'm just unable to visit clubs, just not comfortable in having to go by myself, fuck sake I think iv tried a lot been respectful and never gave abuse unlike some do. Doesn't feel so good ATM "

Go to kage at partners then

a big group meet up and go together on the last Sunday of the month.

Usualy meet up picadilly garden/arndale food court.

Details csn be found on the fet life site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the OP's profile is one of the worse I have ever seen -

reference to drugs is a definite turn off for me

reference to money is a definite turn off too

where is the eroticism? personality?chivalry?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And just as a general observations I suspect statuses appealing for drugs and giving a mobile number are an instant block for many people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How is your profile different to any others on here ? How are you standing out ?

I think women are more fussy than anything

Yeah I too curse these fussy women , life would be easier for all us men if they'd just drop their standards "

Nah life would be easier if women where as horny as men on average lol.

Grindr get 1000 messaged in a few days if you're a moderatley attrsctive dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I can see why how it could get you down. But don't. Fab isn't the bee all and end all.

And your in Manchester. It awesome.

manchester has beautiful women everywhere they all beautiful and hot "

Well. That's certainly a matter of opinion, .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best thing you can do op is remove your status!.. not cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The comments on the status are hilarious given how many girls profiles have 420 references

It probbaly improves his chances as much as it hurts them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The comments on the status are hilarious given how many girls profiles have 420 references

It probbaly improves his chances as much as it hurts them "

I think there's a difference between being 420 friendly and thinking a swinging site is the best place to buy drugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The comments on the status are hilarious given how many girls profiles have 420 references

It probbaly improves his chances as much as it hurts them

I think there's a difference between being 420 friendly and thinking a swinging site is the best place to buy drugs"

Again the sheer number of girls profiles asking for people to deliver would go against that.

Rest of the site is radically differnt to the forums.

Especially when it comes to age ranges how many sub 24 year old women do you know who post on the forums?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And another one bites the dust (kat) xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Today's UNLOS has been sponsored by Rizla 'THE choice for the discerning stoner'

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hahahaaaa xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont think he needed fab if hes managing alright off it

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