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"I don't understand this 'great amounts of choice'. Sure there may be 20,000 single men on the site but if 19,999 aren't my type there's still nothing for me to choose from. " You're correct, though you may likely have more choice than the fewer guys in a club night visit. | |||
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"Does the quality standard of the sex that we're getting rise, because of the competition amongst you guys? " I imagine if women are meeting men that they might not in the real world, the attraction levels are really high so would make better sex more likely. | |||
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"Does the quality standard of the sex that we're getting rise, because of the competition amongst you guys? " Doubt it as you dont know whos going to deliver what until you get down to it do you? You cant tell if you will have great sex with someone by looking at photo's or via messaging in my opinion. Some of the plainest shy women ive known have been the best in bed ive ever experienced. And some of the hot looking women with all the talk too were pretty crap lays. You cant predict whos going to be compatible with you sexually until you are with that person. Only my personal view from my experience. | |||
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"As women here have great amounts of choice, does it force the standards of sex delivered to users here up? Or is it as random and average as the wider world? Have you upped your game? Like you say the women have so much choice so they can have ridiculous standards. Even attractive men on here will dramatically lower their standards when it comes to NSA. This distorts the site I think." Dear tunnelling, do you lower your standards to get sex on fabs? If so how do you think your meets will feel when they read of this in the forum? | |||
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"Does the quality standard of the sex that we're getting rise, because of the competition amongst you guys? Doubt it as you dont know whos going to deliver what until you get down to it do you? You cant tell if you will have great sex with someone by looking at photo's or via messaging in my opinion. Some of the plainest shy women ive known have been the best in bed ive ever experienced. And some of the hot looking women with all the talk too were pretty crap lays. You cant predict whos going to be compatible with you sexually until you are with that person. Only my personal view from my experience. " I agree... Same for men. Someone may have a brilliant time with a guy but if I don't have chemistry with him then I will find it crap. | |||
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"As women here have great amounts of choice, does it force the standards of sex delivered to users here up? Or is it as random and average as the wider world? Have you upped your game? Like you say the women have so much choice so they can have ridiculous standards. Even attractive men on here will dramatically lower their standards when it comes to NSA. This distorts the site I think. Dear tunnelling, do you lower your standards to get sex on fabs? If so how do you think your meets will feel when they read of this in the forum? " I don't meet off this account and i don't compromise my standards ever. | |||
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"Does the quality standard of the sex that we're getting rise, because of the competition amongst you guys? Doubt it as you dont know whos going to deliver what until you get down to it do you? You cant tell if you will have great sex with someone by looking at photo's or via messaging in my opinion. Some of the plainest shy women ive known have been the best in bed ive ever experienced. And some of the hot looking women with all the talk too were pretty crap lays. You cant predict whos going to be compatible with you sexually until you are with that person. Only my personal view from my experience. " Totally agree with Jesus on this - hot pics and profile are no indication of what the spark will be and personality does it much more for me than just looks - some very good looking meets have been rubbish at the sex.... | |||
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"I don't understand this 'great amounts of choice'. Sure there may be 20,000 single men on the site but if 19,999 aren't my type there's still nothing for me to choose from. You're correct, though you may likely have more choice than the fewer guys in a club night visit. " True. Statistically more choice. | |||
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"Does the quality standard of the sex that we're getting rise, because of the competition amongst you guys? Doubt it as you dont know whos going to deliver what until you get down to it do you? You cant tell if you will have great sex with someone by looking at photo's or via messaging in my opinion. Some of the plainest shy women ive known have been the best in bed ive ever experienced. And some of the hot looking women with all the talk too were pretty crap lays. You cant predict whos going to be compatible with you sexually until you are with that person. Only my personal view from my experience. " Very true. But word can get around upon who delivers more bang for the buck, so to speak. I should add that verifications are not the best source of data. Btw, ebay users offloading old tat very rarely describe it as such. | |||
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"I don't understand this 'great amounts of choice'. Sure there may be 20,000 single men on the site but if 19,999 aren't my type there's still nothing for me to choose from. " Wow! You really are picky! | |||
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"I'm better at attracting women now I don't meet and I have learned to be better sexually from involvement in swinging, but don't use those skills often, so I'll no doubt lose them over time" The Forbidden fruit | |||
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" But word can get around upon who delivers more bang for the buck, so to speak. " Which is exactly why my verification's are off. I don't like the whole "who's slept with who". | |||
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"I'm better at attracting women now I don't meet and I have learned to be better sexually from involvement in swinging, but don't use those skills often, so I'll no doubt lose them over time The Forbidden fruit " Yep I guess so... But once tasted you realise it's a crab apple | |||
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"I'm better at attracting women now I don't meet and I have learned to be better sexually from involvement in swinging, but don't use those skills often, so I'll no doubt lose them over time The Forbidden fruit Yep I guess so... But once tasted you realise it's a crab apple " Will it contain a small worm too ? | |||
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"I don't understand this 'great amounts of choice'. Sure there may be 20,000 single men on the site but if 19,999 aren't my type there's still nothing for me to choose from. Wow! You really are picky! " I haven't counted them all. It was just an example. | |||
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"Women really don't have a great amount of choice. ...they have a hell of a lot of sorting through the crap to do though!" I helped that process by removing myself from the heap of shite. | |||
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"so to you men that come across as bitter and twisted enough to show contempt to the women on here in general, you need to take a step back from the keyboard " I prefer to know who they are | |||
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"I'm better at attracting women now I don't meet and I have learned to be better sexually from involvement in swinging, but don't use those skills often, so I'll no doubt lose them over time The Forbidden fruit Yep I guess so... But once tasted you realise it's a crab apple Will it contain a small worm too ? " aye but the worm shrinks as the years go by especially if keep doing photo shoots under waterfalls | |||
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"Some men on here really do have a low opinion of the women on here and will often shout it out in the forums that they 'are punching above their weight' because they have so much choice. I don't care how much choice I have on here if I don't find someone attractive then I am not going to fuck them, to put it bluntly. However, I have also gone over 9 months without anything on here because nobody excited me enough, so to you men that come across as bitter and twisted enough to show contempt to the women on here in general, you need to take a step back from the keyboard " Did you mean moi I am contributing to the debate and offering explanations for the op. | |||
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"Some men on here really do have a low opinion of the women on here and will often shout it out in the forums that they 'are punching above their weight' because they have so much choice. I don't care how much choice I have on here if I don't find someone attractive then I am not going to fuck them, to put it bluntly. However, I have also gone over 9 months without anything on here because nobody excited me enough, so to you men that come across as bitter and twisted enough to show contempt to the women on here in general, you need to take a step back from the keyboard Did you mean moi I am contributing to the debate and offering explanations for the op. " If the cap fits then wear it with pride, we all know what your opinion is about the females on here, you make it quite clear on every opportunity going! | |||
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"Some men on here really do have a low opinion of the women on here and will often shout it out in the forums that they 'are punching above their weight' because they have so much choice. I don't care how much choice I have on here if I don't find someone attractive then I am not going to fuck them, to put it bluntly. However, I have also gone over 9 months without anything on here because nobody excited me enough, so to you men that come across as bitter and twisted enough to show contempt to the women on here in general, you need to take a step back from the keyboard Did you mean moi I am contributing to the debate and offering explanations for the op. If the cap fits then wear it with pride, we all know what your opinion is about the females on here, you make it quite clear on every opportunity going! " No you just don't actually get the point I'm making because you aren't the sharpest tool in the box. I don't blame the women I think good on them, I blame the men because they usually hurt the women by just using them for stepping Stone verifications etc. And helping to falsely inflate their ego's which causes all the distortion on the site. | |||
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"falsely inflate their ego's" So you believe that women on here are not up to much but because we get compliments from men we think we're great If women don't want to meet you it won't be because they have an ego problem | |||
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"Does the quality standard of the sex that we're getting rise, because of the competition amongst you guys? " What's standard for one maybe fabulous for another and visa versa. Everyone had a different standard and different expectations..... This can vary week to week too...or if they're half pisssshed. | |||
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"Some men on here really do have a low opinion of the women on here and will often shout it out in the forums that they 'are punching above their weight' because they have so much choice. I don't care how much choice I have on here if I don't find someone attractive then I am not going to fuck them, to put it bluntly. However, I have also gone over 9 months without anything on here because nobody excited me enough, so to you men that come across as bitter and twisted enough to show contempt to the women on here in general, you need to take a step back from the keyboard Did you mean moi I am contributing to the debate and offering explanations for the op. If the cap fits then wear it with pride, we all know what your opinion is about the females on here, you make it quite clear on every opportunity going! No you just don't actually get the point I'm making because you aren't the sharpest tool in the box. I don't blame the women I think good on them, I blame the men because they usually hurt the women by just using them for stepping Stone verifications etc. And helping to falsely inflate their ego's which causes all the distortion on the site." There is no man on here I consider to be too good looking for me, above my class or out of my league. | |||
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"As women here have great amounts of choice, does it force the standards of sex delivered to users here up? Or is it as random and average as the wider world? Have you upped your game?" In general it would be hard to argue that it hasn't, but I can't say I blame those in demand as I'd do the same too. It doesn't mean I'm going to play ball though as I have my own agenda on the matter. | |||
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"Does the quality standard of the sex that we're getting rise, because of the competition amongst you guys? What's standard for one maybe fabulous for another and visa versa. Everyone had a different standard and different expectations..... This can vary week to week too...or if they're half pisssshed. " Sexual chemistry and compatibility plays a big part too. | |||
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"Some men on here really do have a low opinion of the women on here and will often shout it out in the forums that they 'are punching above their weight' because they have so much choice. I don't care how much choice I have on here if I don't find someone attractive then I am not going to fuck them, to put it bluntly. However, I have also gone over 9 months without anything on here because nobody excited me enough, so to you men that come across as bitter and twisted enough to show contempt to the women on here in general, you need to take a step back from the keyboard Did you mean moi I am contributing to the debate and offering explanations for the op. If the cap fits then wear it with pride, we all know what your opinion is about the females on here, you make it quite clear on every opportunity going! No you just don't actually get the point I'm making because you aren't the sharpest tool in the box. I don't blame the women I think good on them, I blame the men because they usually hurt the women by just using them for stepping Stone verifications etc. And helping to falsely inflate their ego's which causes all the distortion on the site." 'because you aren't the sharpest tool in the box' Resulting to personal insults to help make your case just makes you a rung lower on the ladder than I thought you were currently on: | |||
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"Does the quality standard of the sex that we're getting rise, because of the competition amongst you guys? I imagine if women are meeting men that they might not in the real world, the attraction levels are really high so would make better sex more likely." I haven't found that to be the case | |||
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"More choice = Spoilt for choice Less choice = Gett best of whats available. You pop to the super market to buy your usual selection of coffee. But they have some lovely new coffees to chose from all at the same price. You have more choice so will be spoilt for choice and be more selective. Or ..... Its sold out along with nearly all the other similar brands of coffee so you settle for choosing another brand from whats left on the shelf. Less choice and you will take the best of whats left available. Happens throughout the Animal kingdom too not just a Human trait." I'd go without. | |||
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"Does the quality standard of the sex that we're getting rise, because of the competition amongst you guys? What's standard for one maybe fabulous for another and visa versa. Everyone had a different standard and different expectations..... This can vary week to week too...or if they're half pisssshed. Sexual chemistry and compatibility plays a big part too." Chemistry is was does it for me. Its either there or its not. Unfortunately I havent been lucky enough to find that often | |||
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"falsely inflate their ego's So you believe that women on here are not up to much but because we get compliments from men we think we're great If women don't want to meet you it won't be because they have an ego problem " This is where the anonymity doesn't help because I can't back up my point more. I have no interest in meeting women who I think have falsely inflated egos because I don't need to. I just see it on here and say an average looking guy trying to meet and average looking woman on here and his chances are probably slim to none. | |||
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"More choice = Spoilt for choice Less choice = Gett best of whats available. You pop to the super market to buy your usual selection of coffee. But they have some lovely new coffees to chose from all at the same price. You have more choice so will be spoilt for choice and be more selective. Or ..... Its sold out along with nearly all the other similar brands of coffee so you settle for choosing another brand from whats left on the shelf. Less choice and you will take the best of whats left available. Happens throughout the Animal kingdom too not just a Human trait. I'd go without." Me too, or go to a different shop at least | |||
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"More choice = Spoilt for choice Less choice = Gett best of whats available. You pop to the super market to buy your usual selection of coffee. But they have some lovely new coffees to chose from all at the same price. You have more choice so will be spoilt for choice and be more selective. Or ..... Its sold out along with nearly all the other similar brands of coffee so you settle for choosing another brand from whats left on the shelf. Less choice and you will take the best of whats left available. Happens throughout the Animal kingdom too not just a Human trait. I'd go without. Me too, or go to a different shop at least " I already go to a few places for my "coffee" I think his analogy was more aimed at men though. | |||
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"falsely inflate their ego's So you believe that women on here are not up to much but because we get compliments from men we think we're great If women don't want to meet you it won't be because they have an ego problem This is where the anonymity doesn't help because I can't back up my point more. I have no interest in meeting women who I think have falsely inflated egos because I don't need to. I just see it on here and say an average looking guy trying to meet and average looking woman on here and his chances are probably slim to none. " What if none of us actually has a falsely inflated ego? What if every woman on here finds someone who thinks she's beautiful? What if some of us are just plain awesome here and off fab? I'm sure those possibilities won't even compute in your brain as your opinion of women is so low. | |||
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"Does the quality standard of the sex that we're getting rise, because of the competition amongst you guys? Doubt it as you dont know whos going to deliver what until you get down to it do you? You cant tell if you will have great sex with someone by looking at photo's or via messaging in my opinion. Some of the plainest shy women ive known have been the best in bed ive ever experienced. And some of the hot looking women with all the talk too were pretty crap lays. You cant predict whos going to be compatible with you sexually until you are with that person. Only my personal view from my experience. I agree... Same for men. Someone may have a brilliant time with a guy but if I don't have chemistry with him then I will find it crap. " That is so true | |||
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"falsely inflate their ego's So you believe that women on here are not up to much but because we get compliments from men we think we're great If women don't want to meet you it won't be because they have an ego problem This is where the anonymity doesn't help because I can't back up my point more. I have no interest in meeting women who I think have falsely inflated egos because I don't need to. I just see it on here and say an average looking guy trying to meet and average looking woman on here and his chances are probably slim to none. " Rubbish. Do you look at profiles and see who is fucking who, on here. | |||
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"Some men on here really do have a low opinion of the women on here and will often shout it out in the forums that they 'are punching above their weight' because they have so much choice. I don't care how much choice I have on here if I don't find someone attractive then I am not going to fuck them, to put it bluntly. However, I have also gone over 9 months without anything on here because nobody excited me enough, so to you men that come across as bitter and twisted enough to show contempt to the women on here in general, you need to take a step back from the keyboard Did you mean moi I am contributing to the debate and offering explanations for the op. If the cap fits then wear it with pride, we all know what your opinion is about the females on here, you make it quite clear on every opportunity going! No you just don't actually get the point I'm making because you aren't the sharpest tool in the box. I don't blame the women I think good on them, I blame the men because they usually hurt the women by just using them for stepping Stone verifications etc. And helping to falsely inflate their ego's which causes all the distortion on the site. 'because you aren't the sharpest tool in the box' Resulting to personal insults to help make your case just makes you a rung lower on the ladder than I thought you were currently on: " You need to wake up and actually read and let it sink in before rushing to judgement then. | |||
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"falsely inflate their ego's So you believe that women on here are not up to much but because we get compliments from men we think we're great If women don't want to meet you it won't be because they have an ego problem This is where the anonymity doesn't help because I can't back up my point more. I have no interest in meeting women who I think have falsely inflated egos because I don't need to. I just see it on here and say an average looking guy trying to meet and average looking woman on here and his chances are probably slim to none. " I couldnt give a rats ass if i get meets or not. If i happen to connect with someone and meet up then im cool with that. And if it doesnt happen then im cool with that too. I have a life outside here so this is more of a crack in the forums for me. | |||
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"Me too, or go to a different shop at least I already go to a few places for my "coffee" I think his analogy was more aimed at men though. " Ah sorry, I thought it was a 'women on Fab are up their own arses' thread | |||
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"falsely inflate their ego's So you believe that women on here are not up to much but because we get compliments from men we think we're great If women don't want to meet you it won't be because they have an ego problem This is where the anonymity doesn't help because I can't back up my point more. I have no interest in meeting women who I think have falsely inflated egos because I don't need to. I just see it on here and say an average looking guy trying to meet and average looking woman on here and his chances are probably slim to none. " Because there aren't any average looking women, all are stunning | |||
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"falsely inflate their ego's So you believe that women on here are not up to much but because we get compliments from men we think we're great If women don't want to meet you it won't be because they have an ego problem This is where the anonymity doesn't help because I can't back up my point more. I have no interest in meeting women who I think have falsely inflated egos because I don't need to. I just see it on here and say an average looking guy trying to meet and average looking woman on here and his chances are probably slim to none. Because there aren't any average looking women, all are stunning" That's what all the men will say | |||
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"falsely inflate their ego's So you believe that women on here are not up to much but because we get compliments from men we think we're great If women don't want to meet you it won't be because they have an ego problem This is where the anonymity doesn't help because I can't back up my point more. I have no interest in meeting women who I think have falsely inflated egos because I don't need to. I just see it on here and say an average looking guy trying to meet and average looking woman on here and his chances are probably slim to none. Because there aren't any average looking women, all are stunning That's what all the men will say " I don't think all the women are stunning and I don't think anyone truly believes that even if they say that to try to gain favour with women. What I do think is that everyone has different tastes; what may be average to one can be the sexiest thing going to another. | |||
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"Some men on here really do have a low opinion of the women on here and will often shout it out in the forums that they 'are punching above their weight' because they have so much choice. I don't care how much choice I have on here if I don't find someone attractive then I am not going to fuck them, to put it bluntly. However, I have also gone over 9 months without anything on here because nobody excited me enough, so to you men that come across as bitter and twisted enough to show contempt to the women on here in general, you need to take a step back from the keyboard Did you mean moi I am contributing to the debate and offering explanations for the op. If the cap fits then wear it with pride, we all know what your opinion is about the females on here, you make it quite clear on every opportunity going! No you just don't actually get the point I'm making because you aren't the sharpest tool in the box. I don't blame the women I think good on them, I blame the men because they usually hurt the women by just using them for stepping Stone verifications etc. And helping to falsely inflate their ego's which causes all the distortion on the site. 'because you aren't the sharpest tool in the box' Resulting to personal insults to help make your case just makes you a rung lower on the ladder than I thought you were currently on: You need to wake up and actually read and let it sink in before rushing to judgement then. " Trust me darling, this is not the only thread where you have made it quite clear about your low opinion about the women on here, brave in words, but not brave enough to show how wonderful you are in the photo's you have put up for all to admire | |||
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"falsely inflate their ego's So you believe that women on here are not up to much but because we get compliments from men we think we're great If women don't want to meet you it won't be because they have an ego problem This is where the anonymity doesn't help because I can't back up my point more. I have no interest in meeting women who I think have falsely inflated egos because I don't need to. I just see it on here and say an average looking guy trying to meet and average looking woman on here and his chances are probably slim to none. Because there aren't any average looking women, all are stunning That's what all the men will say " I M a woman saying that though | |||
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"I don't understand this 'great amounts of choice'. Sure there may be 20,000 single men on the site but if 19,999 aren't my type there's still nothing for me to choose from. " | |||
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"falsely inflate their ego's So you believe that women on here are not up to much but because we get compliments from men we think we're great If women don't want to meet you it won't be because they have an ego problem This is where the anonymity doesn't help because I can't back up my point more. I have no interest in meeting women who I think have falsely inflated egos because I don't need to. I just see it on here and say an average looking guy trying to meet and average looking woman on here and his chances are probably slim to none. Because there aren't any average looking women, all are stunning That's what all the men will say " The men can certainly say that, but where are the women who believe it? If anyone says I am stunning, from viewing this or my single profile, I question them, because you can hardly see anything of me .... so how can anyone know how stunning I am. Except when they read the verifications . Do you really think the women of fab need that much validation?? | |||
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"falsely inflate their ego's So you believe that women on here are not up to much but because we get compliments from men we think we're great If women don't want to meet you it won't be because they have an ego problem This is where the anonymity doesn't help because I can't back up my point more. I have no interest in meeting women who I think have falsely inflated egos because I don't need to. I just see it on here and say an average looking guy trying to meet and average looking woman on here and his chances are probably slim to none. Because there aren't any average looking women, all are stunning That's what all the men will say I M a woman saying that though" You are a rare breed | |||
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"I'll get messages telling me I'm stunning, yet I have no face pics on display. Does this inflate my ego? No, it just makes me realise the guy is a chancer sending copy & paste messages. Us women are even all stupid " Damn, you get them as well. I thought it was just me | |||
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"I'll get messages telling me I'm stunning, yet I have no face pics on display. Does this inflate my ego? No, it just makes me realise the guy is a chancer sending copy & paste messages. Us women are even all stupid Damn, you get them as well. I thought it was just me" I am no longer feeling special now, I thought I was the hottest woman on fab | |||
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"As women here have great amounts of choice, does it force the standards of sex delivered to users here up? Or is it as random and average as the wider world? Have you upped your game?" Thought I would return to your OP. I have met guys in the past when the sex wasn't as good as vanilla sex I have had ... so I didn't meet them again. When I met my OH the sex was so good, when it finally happened, that no one else comes close. | |||
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"I'll get messages telling me I'm stunning, yet I have no face pics on display. Does this inflate my ego? No, it just makes me realise the guy is a chancer sending copy & paste messages. Us women are even all stupid Damn, you get them as well. I thought it was just me" I know | |||
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"I'll get messages telling me I'm stunning, yet I have no face pics on display. Does this inflate my ego? No, it just makes me realise the guy is a chancer sending copy & paste messages. Us women are even all stupid Damn, you get them as well. I thought it was just me I am no longer feeling special now, I thought I was the hottest woman on fab " Sorry, I'm sure it's me | |||
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"I'll get messages telling me I'm stunning, yet I have no face pics on display. Does this inflate my ego? No, it just makes me realise the guy is a chancer sending copy & paste messages. Us women are even all stupid Damn, you get them as well. I thought it was just me I am no longer feeling special now, I thought I was the hottest woman on fab Sorry, I'm sure it's me " Ok Ok, I'll just believe they meant in my area (not the whole of fab that they did actually mean!) | |||
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"Does the quality standard of the sex that we're getting rise, because of the competition amongst you guys? What's standard for one maybe fabulous for another and visa versa. Everyone had a different standard and different expectations..... This can vary week to week too...or if they're half pisssshed. Sexual chemistry and compatibility plays a big part too." Completely. | |||
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"Some men on here really do have a low opinion of the women on here and will often shout it out in the forums that they 'are punching above their weight' because they have so much choice. I don't care how much choice I have on here if I don't find someone attractive then I am not going to fuck them, to put it bluntly. However, I have also gone over 9 months without anything on here because nobody excited me enough, so to you men that come across as bitter and twisted enough to show contempt to the women on here in general, you need to take a step back from the keyboard Did you mean moi I am contributing to the debate and offering explanations for the op. If the cap fits then wear it with pride, we all know what your opinion is about the females on here, you make it quite clear on every opportunity going! No you just don't actually get the point I'm making because you aren't the sharpest tool in the box. I don't blame the women I think good on them, I blame the men because they usually hurt the women by just using them for stepping Stone verifications etc. And helping to falsely inflate their ego's which causes all the distortion on the site. 'because you aren't the sharpest tool in the box' Resulting to personal insults to help make your case just makes you a rung lower on the ladder than I thought you were currently on: You need to wake up and actually read and let it sink in before rushing to judgement then. Trust me darling, this is not the only thread where you have made it quite clear about your low opinion about the women on here, brave in words, but not brave enough to show how wonderful you are in the photo's you have put up for all to admire " Missed this before, in your warped view where you don't seem to read properly maybe so. Like I said further up the thread I don't meet off here. | |||
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"falsely inflate their ego's So you believe that women on here are not up to much but because we get compliments from men we think we're great If women don't want to meet you it won't be because they have an ego problem This is where the anonymity doesn't help because I can't back up my point more. I have no interest in meeting women who I think have falsely inflated egos because I don't need to. I just see it on here and say an average looking guy trying to meet and average looking woman on here and his chances are probably slim to none. Rubbish. Do you look at profiles and see who is fucking who, on here. " I think there are a lot of discerning guys who do look at who's fucking who. I've been known to turn down /pass by because of who they have played with. I do check and ask. If they refuse then I politely say thanks but no thanks. | |||
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"Some men on here really do have a low opinion of the women on here and will often shout it out in the forums that they 'are punching above their weight' because they have so much choice. I don't care how much choice I have on here if I don't find someone attractive then I am not going to fuck them, to put it bluntly. However, I have also gone over 9 months without anything on here because nobody excited me enough, so to you men that come across as bitter and twisted enough to show contempt to the women on here in general, you need to take a step back from the keyboard Did you mean moi I am contributing to the debate and offering explanations for the op. If the cap fits then wear it with pride, we all know what your opinion is about the females on here, you make it quite clear on every opportunity going! No you just don't actually get the point I'm making because you aren't the sharpest tool in the box. I don't blame the women I think good on them, I blame the men because they usually hurt the women by just using them for stepping Stone verifications etc. And helping to falsely inflate their ego's which causes all the distortion on the site. 'because you aren't the sharpest tool in the box' Resulting to personal insults to help make your case just makes you a rung lower on the ladder than I thought you were currently on: You need to wake up and actually read and let it sink in before rushing to judgement then. Trust me darling, this is not the only thread where you have made it quite clear about your low opinion about the women on here, brave in words, but not brave enough to show how wonderful you are in the photo's you have put up for all to admire Missed this before, in your warped view where you don't seem to read properly maybe so. Like I said further up the thread I don't meet off here." Don't or can't Big difference lol | |||
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"I don't understand this 'great amounts of choice'. Sure there may be 20,000 single men on the site but if 19,999 aren't my type there's still nothing for me to choose from. " ha whats your type? | |||
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"Some men on here really do have a low opinion of the women on here and will often shout it out in the forums that they 'are punching above their weight' because they have so much choice. I don't care how much choice I have on here if I don't find someone attractive then I am not going to fuck them, to put it bluntly. However, I have also gone over 9 months without anything on here because nobody excited me enough, so to you men that come across as bitter and twisted enough to show contempt to the women on here in general, you need to take a step back from the keyboard Did you mean moi I am contributing to the debate and offering explanations for the op. If the cap fits then wear it with pride, we all know what your opinion is about the females on here, you make it quite clear on every opportunity going! No you just don't actually get the point I'm making because you aren't the sharpest tool in the box. I don't blame the women I think good on them, I blame the men because they usually hurt the women by just using them for stepping Stone verifications etc. And helping to falsely inflate their ego's which causes all the distortion on the site. 'because you aren't the sharpest tool in the box' Resulting to personal insults to help make your case just makes you a rung lower on the ladder than I thought you were currently on: You need to wake up and actually read and let it sink in before rushing to judgement then. Trust me darling, this is not the only thread where you have made it quite clear about your low opinion about the women on here, brave in words, but not brave enough to show how wonderful you are in the photo's you have put up for all to admire Missed this before, in your warped view where you don't seem to read properly maybe so. Like I said further up the thread I don't meet off here. Don't or can't Big difference lol " I played with a lot of babes and I could prove it but your not worth it. | |||
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"More choice for women which enables them to be able to cherry pic due to the the high ratio of male to female profiles. More available choice enables you to be more selective doesnt it." Feel free to join the ladies who have "picked my cherry" | |||
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"Even with all this choice I very rarely find someone I want to meet. Maybe my standards have risen but I don't think they have. I just think I look for something other than looks and i don't find it too often. " Same here | |||
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"Some men on here really do have a low opinion of the women on here and will often shout it out in the forums that they 'are punching above their weight' because they have so much choice. I don't care how much choice I have on here if I don't find someone attractive then I am not going to fuck them, to put it bluntly. However, I have also gone over 9 months without anything on here because nobody excited me enough, so to you men that come across as bitter and twisted enough to show contempt to the women on here in general, you need to take a step back from the keyboard Did you mean moi I am contributing to the debate and offering explanations for the op. If the cap fits then wear it with pride, we all know what your opinion is about the females on here, you make it quite clear on every opportunity going! No you just don't actually get the point I'm making because you aren't the sharpest tool in the box. I don't blame the women I think good on them, I blame the men because they usually hurt the women by just using them for stepping Stone verifications etc. And helping to falsely inflate their ego's which causes all the distortion on the site. 'because you aren't the sharpest tool in the box' Resulting to personal insults to help make your case just makes you a rung lower on the ladder than I thought you were currently on: You need to wake up and actually read and let it sink in before rushing to judgement then. Trust me darling, this is not the only thread where you have made it quite clear about your low opinion about the women on here, brave in words, but not brave enough to show how wonderful you are in the photo's you have put up for all to admire Missed this before, in your warped view where you don't seem to read properly maybe so. Like I said further up the thread I don't meet off here. Don't or can't Big difference lol I played with a lot of babes and I could prove it but your not worth it." Please! Your comeback of 'I have played with a lot of babes' is that it? I mean really? You don't even have any public pics, please don't make me think/believe you are some hot male of a hunk I am missing out on, now that I just couldn't cope with | |||
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"Don't or can't Big difference lol I played with a lot of babes and I could prove it but your not worth it." Grammar, the difference between knowing your shit and knowing you're shit | |||
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"Some men on here really do have a low opinion of the women on here and will often shout it out in the forums that they 'are punching above their weight' because they have so much choice. I don't care how much choice I have on here if I don't find someone attractive then I am not going to fuck them, to put it bluntly. However, I have also gone over 9 months without anything on here because nobody excited me enough, so to you men that come across as bitter and twisted enough to show contempt to the women on here in general, you need to take a step back from the keyboard Did you mean moi I am contributing to the debate and offering explanations for the op. If the cap fits then wear it with pride, we all know what your opinion is about the females on here, you make it quite clear on every opportunity going! No you just don't actually get the point I'm making because you aren't the sharpest tool in the box. I don't blame the women I think good on them, I blame the men because they usually hurt the women by just using them for stepping Stone verifications etc. And helping to falsely inflate their ego's which causes all the distortion on the site. 'because you aren't the sharpest tool in the box' Resulting to personal insults to help make your case just makes you a rung lower on the ladder than I thought you were currently on: You need to wake up and actually read and let it sink in before rushing to judgement then. Trust me darling, this is not the only thread where you have made it quite clear about your low opinion about the women on here, brave in words, but not brave enough to show how wonderful you are in the photo's you have put up for all to admire Missed this before, in your warped view where you don't seem to read properly maybe so. Like I said further up the thread I don't meet off here. Don't or can't Big difference lol I played with a lot of babes and I could prove it but your not worth it. Please! Your comeback of 'I have played with a lot of babes' is that it? I mean really? You don't even have any public pics, please don't make me think/believe you are some hot male of a hunk I am missing out on, now that I just couldn't cope with " Would you two just get on a bang already jeez | |||
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"Some men on here really do have a low opinion of the women on here and will often shout it out in the forums that they 'are punching above their weight' because they have so much choice. I don't care how much choice I have on here if I don't find someone attractive then I am not going to fuck them, to put it bluntly. However, I have also gone over 9 months without anything on here because nobody excited me enough, so to you men that come across as bitter and twisted enough to show contempt to the women on here in general, you need to take a step back from the keyboard Did you mean moi I am contributing to the debate and offering explanations for the op. If the cap fits then wear it with pride, we all know what your opinion is about the females on here, you make it quite clear on every opportunity going! No you just don't actually get the point I'm making because you aren't the sharpest tool in the box. I don't blame the women I think good on them, I blame the men because they usually hurt the women by just using them for stepping Stone verifications etc. And helping to falsely inflate their ego's which causes all the distortion on the site. 'because you aren't the sharpest tool in the box' Resulting to personal insults to help make your case just makes you a rung lower on the ladder than I thought you were currently on: You need to wake up and actually read and let it sink in before rushing to judgement then. Trust me darling, this is not the only thread where you have made it quite clear about your low opinion about the women on here, brave in words, but not brave enough to show how wonderful you are in the photo's you have put up for all to admire Missed this before, in your warped view where you don't seem to read properly maybe so. Like I said further up the thread I don't meet off here. Don't or can't Big difference lol I played with a lot of babes and I could prove it but your not worth it. Please! Your comeback of 'I have played with a lot of babes' is that it? I mean really? You don't even have any public pics, please don't make me think/believe you are some hot male of a hunk I am missing out on, now that I just couldn't cope with " See you can't even think of any other explanation why I might not meet off here. I've played with women far more attractive than you. I'm not rising anymore it is pointless like banging my head against a brick wall. Just when you see my other posts actually read them properly. | |||
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"takes 2 to make good sex Not too sure about that? I have great sex on my own when I fancy some self loving " ok take out masturbation | |||
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"Some men on here really do have a low opinion of the women on here and will often shout it out in the forums that they 'are punching above their weight' because they have so much choice. I don't care how much choice I have on here if I don't find someone attractive then I am not going to fuck them, to put it bluntly. However, I have also gone over 9 months without anything on here because nobody excited me enough, so to you men that come across as bitter and twisted enough to show contempt to the women on here in general, you need to take a step back from the keyboard Did you mean moi I am contributing to the debate and offering explanations for the op. If the cap fits then wear it with pride, we all know what your opinion is about the females on here, you make it quite clear on every opportunity going! No you just don't actually get the point I'm making because you aren't the sharpest tool in the box. I don't blame the women I think good on them, I blame the men because they usually hurt the women by just using them for stepping Stone verifications etc. And helping to falsely inflate their ego's which causes all the distortion on the site. 'because you aren't the sharpest tool in the box' Resulting to personal insults to help make your case just makes you a rung lower on the ladder than I thought you were currently on: You need to wake up and actually read and let it sink in before rushing to judgement then. Trust me darling, this is not the only thread where you have made it quite clear about your low opinion about the women on here, brave in words, but not brave enough to show how wonderful you are in the photo's you have put up for all to admire Missed this before, in your warped view where you don't seem to read properly maybe so. Like I said further up the thread I don't meet off here. Don't or can't Big difference lol I played with a lot of babes and I could prove it but your not worth it. Please! Your comeback of 'I have played with a lot of babes' is that it? I mean really? You don't even have any public pics, please don't make me think/believe you are some hot male of a hunk I am missing out on, now that I just couldn't cope with See you can't even think of any other explanation why I might not meet off here. I've played with women far more attractive than you. I'm not rising anymore it is pointless like banging my head against a brick wall. Just when you see my other posts actually read them properly." You've seen a face pic of me? To quantify that comment! Tell me when I am begging.......to your prowess of course | |||
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"Yaaaaaawn! This is just another thread to give dick heads the opportunity to talk about how the women on here are beneath them! If you think people are beneath you on here then fuck off then! " Lol | |||
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"Yaaaaaawn! This is just another thread to give dick heads the opportunity to talk about how the women on here are beneath them! If you think people are beneath you on here then fuck off then! " Beneath me on top of me it's all the same to me ACE OF SPADES, ACE OF SPADES nunununununu | |||
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"Yaaaaaawn! This is just another thread to give dick heads the opportunity to talk about how the women on here are beneath them! If you think people are beneath you on here then fuck off then! " Frankly speaking; as a woman, I find that this site has a lot more attractive women than it does men. Considering that it is claimed that the ratio of men to women is in the order of 50:1, it doesn't say much about the men here But then again, I am just an old, stupid, fat cow who should be grateful for any old decrepit specimen which dies in my path | |||
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"Yaaaaaawn! This is just another thread to give dick heads the opportunity to talk about how the women on here are beneath them! If you think people are beneath you on here then fuck off then! Frankly speaking; as a woman, I find that this site has a lot more attractive women than it does men. Considering that it is claimed that the ratio of men to women is in the order of 50:1, it doesn't say much about the men here But then again, I am just an old, stupid, fat cow who should be grateful for any old decrepit specimen which dies in my path" Come on no need for all that jazz | |||
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"Yaaaaaawn! This is just another thread to give dick heads the opportunity to talk about how the women on here are beneath them! If you think people are beneath you on here then fuck off then! Frankly speaking; as a woman, I find that this site has a lot more attractive women than it does men. Considering that it is claimed that the ratio of men to women is in the order of 50:1, it doesn't say much about the men here But then again, I am just an old, stupid, fat cow who should be grateful for any old decrepit specimen which dies in my path" I disagree You're not old | |||
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"Baah fucked that last comment up!!" Well we're waiting? What was it? | |||
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"Yaaaaaawn! This is just another thread to give dick heads the opportunity to talk about how the women on here are beneath them! If you think people are beneath you on here then fuck off then! Frankly speaking; as a woman, I find that this site has a lot more attractive women than it does men. Considering that it is claimed that the ratio of men to women is in the order of 50:1, it doesn't say much about the men here But then again, I am just an old, stupid, fat cow who should be grateful for any old decrepit specimen which dies in my path I disagree You're not old " One out of four isn't bad going | |||
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"Yaaaaaawn! This is just another thread to give dick heads the opportunity to talk about how the women on here are beneath them! If you think people are beneath you on here then fuck off then! Frankly speaking; as a woman, I find that this site has a lot more attractive women than it does men. Considering that it is claimed that the ratio of men to women is in the order of 50:1, it doesn't say much about the men here But then again, I am just an old, stupid, fat cow who should be grateful for any old decrepit specimen which dies in my path" Haha Oh I thought that was just me who was a fat old cow that should be grateful! There's so many of us on here - no wonder all these studs with excellent characters are so offended! I'm so bored of all of it to be honest! | |||
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"Yaaaaaawn! This is just another thread to give dick heads the opportunity to talk about how the women on here are beneath them! If you think people are beneath you on here then fuck off then! Frankly speaking; as a woman, I find that this site has a lot more attractive women than it does men. Considering that it is claimed that the ratio of men to women is in the order of 50:1, it doesn't say much about the men here But then again, I am just an old, stupid, fat cow who should be grateful for any old decrepit specimen which dies in my path Haha Oh I thought that was just me who was a fat old cow that should be grateful! There's so many of us on here - no wonder all these studs with excellent characters are so offended! I'm so bored of all of it to be honest! " Get yourself off to bed and have an early night then | |||
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"If the forums are anything to go by there appears to be only a handful of desirable people regardless of gender & ratios...." Depends how big your hands are I suppose? | |||
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"If the forums are anything to go by there appears to be only a handful of desirable people regardless of gender & ratios...." Thank fuck for the ones who don't use the forums so don't know I'm not one of the desirable ones | |||
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"As women here have great amounts of choice, does it force the standards of sex delivered to users here up? Or is it as random and average as the wider world? Have you upped your game?" Cart before the horse there. Women have lots of choice which may drive up the standars of physical/mental attraction of the men they select. But sex is post selection its not like they know how good you are in bed before they get you in bed | |||
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"Who was the UNLOS?" Somebody called tunnel or something? | |||
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" Who was the UNLOS? Tunnel King What's an UNLOS?" User no longer on site | |||
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"So whats the real profile? I've been away so not sure who its a dupe of?" He was keeping that a closely guarded secret; but admitted several times that this was his 'other profile' Apparently, he is some hunk of a guy | |||
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"So whats the real profile? I've been away so not sure who its a dupe of? He was keeping that a closely guarded secret; but admitted several times that this was his 'other profile' Apparently, he is some hunk of a guy" 'Conventionally attractive' I seem to recall being the terminology. | |||
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"Do moles live in tunnels or holes ? Neither. They live in burrows." Thanks | |||
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"So whats the real profile? I've been away so not sure who its a dupe of? He was keeping that a closely guarded secret; but admitted several times that this was his 'other profile' Apparently, he is some hunk of a guy 'Conventionally attractive' I seem to recall being the terminology." Sorry, I missed that; yes | |||
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"Yaaaaaawn! This is just another thread to give dick heads the opportunity to talk about how the women on here are beneath them! If you think people are beneath you on here then fuck off then! " It wasn't intended that way - I was struck by the possibilities of swingers having improved quality sex more than anything. But it's feasible for some to come in, post a fair bit, that focuses on their issues. You know how fab forum can get | |||
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"So whats the real profile? I've been away so not sure who its a dupe of?" It's not allowed to name and shame, or similar here - so it's not appropriate as a topic. We can just focus on us all being good for and to each other. | |||
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"Yaaaaaawn! This is just another thread to give dick heads the opportunity to talk about how the women on here are beneath them! If you think people are beneath you on here then fuck off then! It wasn't intended that way - I was struck by the possibilities of swingers having improved quality sex more than anything. But it's feasible for some to come in, post a fair bit, that focuses on their issues. You know how fab forum can get " I know I had a bad day yesterday .... I should have posted it on the ranting thread | |||
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