FabSwingers.com forum: no win situation.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have found this a lot. When i was married (twice) i let my exes do what they wanted to do. I was a pushover and accepted it. However am not like that now,am much tougher and find that men dont like that and keep their distance. So i cant win can l ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop worrying about what men expect of you and just do your own thing.

Live your life for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have found this a lot. When i was married (twice) i let my exes do what they wanted to do. I was a pushover and accepted it. However am not like that now,am much tougher and find that men dont like that and keep their distance. So i cant win can l ?? "

The problem is with the men not you, i like feisty women.

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By *huckzMan
over a year ago

spalding

"Stop worrying about what men expect of you and just do your own thing.

Live your life for you."
.......well said myfanwy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a pushover and I don't find that men keep their distance.

Indeed, I find that the kind of men I am interested in are attracted to me, because I'm not interested in the kind of men who want to date a pushover.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make better choices x

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By *eggysallyTV/TS
over a year ago

manchester

"Stop worrying about what men expect of you and just do your own thing.

Live your life for you."

Well said , i couldn't agree more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not a pushover and I don't find that men keep their distance.

Indeed, I find that the kind of men I am interested in are attracted to me, because I'm not interested in the kind of men who want to date a pushover."

Mind you - I'd never tell *them* what they could do either. So, you know. It depends if you want to dictate their lives, or just both live your own lives independently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stop worrying about what men expect of you and just do your own thing.

Live your life for you........well said myfanwy lol"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for your responses.

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