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"met a few like that, doesn't mean they're good for me." You obviously haven't. | |||
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"met a few like that, doesn't mean they're good for me. You obviously haven't. " and why not? just means i haven't decided to hate them yet. | |||
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"Who you know, regardless of how much time and difference there goes between you, and regardless of circumstances, that when you see them again, your feelings for each other will never change. Have you found them yet?" Definitely Ruby | |||
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"met a few like that, doesn't mean they're good for me. You obviously haven't. and why not? just means i haven't decided to hate them yet." That ONE person. Not the entire Queue at the dole centre. | |||
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"met a few like that, doesn't mean they're good for me. You obviously haven't. and why not? just means i haven't decided to hate them yet. That ONE person. Not the entire Queue at the dole centre." i don't go to the dole centre so i wouldn't meet anyone there anyway. think they're called job centres now as well. | |||
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"Who you know, regardless of how much time and difference there goes between you, and regardless of circumstances, that when you see them again, your feelings for each other will never change. Have you found them yet?" Yes, three of the bastards. It's difficult | |||
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"Who you know, regardless of how much time and difference there goes between you, and regardless of circumstances, that when you see them again, your feelings for each other will never change. Have you found them yet?" Yes. Its a glimpse of hell | |||
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"Who you know, regardless of how much time and difference there goes between you, and regardless of circumstances, that when you see them again, your feelings for each other will never change. Have you found them yet?" i have lots of people whom i love utterly in this lifetime, that i feel this way about x | |||
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"Yes and I'm grateful the Universe gave us a brief moment together. There is no sadness or pain just an acceptance that we can't be together. " i have one of those as well | |||
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"Who you know, regardless of how much time and difference there goes between you, and regardless of circumstances, that when you see them again, your feelings for each other will never change. Have you found them yet? Yes, three of the bastards. It's difficult " Mind you, I thought this was about sex... | |||
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"Yes and I'm grateful the Universe gave us a brief moment together. There is no sadness or pain just an acceptance that we can't be together. i have one of those as well" so have I......... Bittersweet | |||
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"Mainly women...men do not give a shit" I've not found that to be true. | |||
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"No, I don't cling to sentiment and "what-ifs", if people really want to be together, nothing will stop them." Circumstances can stop people doing what their heart tells them to do. I followed my head and it's been for the best. | |||
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"No, I don't cling to sentiment and "what-ifs", if people really want to be together, nothing will stop them. Circumstances can stop people doing what their heart tells them to do. I followed my head and it's been for the best." That's a clear choice, and once made, time to move on. If people really want something, nothing stops them, if they don't really want it, they'll find an excuse to not do it. | |||
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"No, I don't cling to sentiment and "what-ifs", if people really want to be together, nothing will stop them. Circumstances can stop people doing what their heart tells them to do. I followed my head and it's been for the best. That's a clear choice, and once made, time to move on. If people really want something, nothing stops them, if they don't really want it, they'll find an excuse to not do it." Sometimes the price is too high and can't be paid. Being selfish doesn't always lead to getting the happiness you sought by making the choice. It can be braver to walk away. | |||
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"No, I don't cling to sentiment and "what-ifs", if people really want to be together, nothing will stop them. Circumstances can stop people doing what their heart tells them to do. I followed my head and it's been for the best. That's a clear choice, and once made, time to move on. If people really want something, nothing stops them, if they don't really want it, they'll find an excuse to not do it. Sometimes the price is too high and can't be paid. Being selfish doesn't always lead to getting the happiness you sought by making the choice. It can be braver to walk away. " Then there was no choice, wallowing in regret is simply an indulgence. | |||
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"Who you know, regardless of how much time and difference there goes between you, and regardless of circumstances, that when you see them again, your feelings for each other will never change. Have you found them yet?" Sadly not | |||
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"No, I don't cling to sentiment and "what-ifs", if people really want to be together, nothing will stop them. Circumstances can stop people doing what their heart tells them to do. I followed my head and it's been for the best. That's a clear choice, and once made, time to move on. If people really want something, nothing stops them, if they don't really want it, they'll find an excuse to not do it." You've obviously never been in a difficult position. It's never black and white like you are making out. | |||
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"No, I don't cling to sentiment and "what-ifs", if people really want to be together, nothing will stop them. Circumstances can stop people doing what their heart tells them to do. I followed my head and it's been for the best. That's a clear choice, and once made, time to move on. If people really want something, nothing stops them, if they don't really want it, they'll find an excuse to not do it. Sometimes the price is too high and can't be paid. Being selfish doesn't always lead to getting the happiness you sought by making the choice. It can be braver to walk away. " | |||
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"No, I don't cling to sentiment and "what-ifs", if people really want to be together, nothing will stop them. Circumstances can stop people doing what their heart tells them to do. I followed my head and it's been for the best. That's a clear choice, and once made, time to move on. If people really want something, nothing stops them, if they don't really want it, they'll find an excuse to not do it. You've obviously never been in a difficult position. It's never black and white like you are making out." Lol. I most certainly have, and I know exactly what it's like to make difficult decisions. | |||
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"No, I don't cling to sentiment and "what-ifs", if people really want to be together, nothing will stop them. Circumstances can stop people doing what their heart tells them to do. I followed my head and it's been for the best. That's a clear choice, and once made, time to move on. If people really want something, nothing stops them, if they don't really want it, they'll find an excuse to not do it. Sometimes the price is too high and can't be paid. Being selfish doesn't always lead to getting the happiness you sought by making the choice. It can be braver to walk away. Then there was no choice, wallowing in regret is simply an indulgence. " Personally, I'm not wallowing in regret. We have lives that move on and we want only the best for each other. We're adults. It doesn't matter how long the gap is between conversations, we pick up as though the conversation had no pause. I didn't read the OP as being about wallowing in anything. | |||
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"Sadly. And I wish I hadn't. " Same for me. Proven very hard to move on! Luckily he lives 150 miles away. | |||
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"Who you know, regardless of how much time and difference there goes between you, and regardless of circumstances, that when you see them again, your feelings for each other will never change. Have you found them yet?" Yes the ex wife !!! Get the same felling as aways if I ever see her !!! Hate ! Resentment and the urge to kill | |||
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"No, I don't cling to sentiment and "what-ifs", if people really want to be together, nothing will stop them. Circumstances can stop people doing what their heart tells them to do. I followed my head and it's been for the best. That's a clear choice, and once made, time to move on. If people really want something, nothing stops them, if they don't really want it, they'll find an excuse to not do it. You've obviously never been in a difficult position. It's never black and white like you are making out. Lol. I most certainly have, and I know exactly what it's like to make difficult decisions. " People have varying levels of dificult though. | |||
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"No, I don't cling to sentiment and "what-ifs", if people really want to be together, nothing will stop them. Circumstances can stop people doing what their heart tells them to do. I followed my head and it's been for the best. That's a clear choice, and once made, time to move on. If people really want something, nothing stops them, if they don't really want it, they'll find an excuse to not do it. You've obviously never been in a difficult position. It's never black and white like you are making out. Lol. I most certainly have, and I know exactly what it's like to make difficult decisions. People have varying levels of dificult though." True, but if someone is really that important to you, then you will put all else aside for them. And if you're not prepared to do it, you know where your real priorities are. | |||
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"No, I don't cling to sentiment and "what-ifs", if people really want to be together, nothing will stop them. Circumstances can stop people doing what their heart tells them to do. I followed my head and it's been for the best. That's a clear choice, and once made, time to move on. If people really want something, nothing stops them, if they don't really want it, they'll find an excuse to not do it. You've obviously never been in a difficult position. It's never black and white like you are making out. Lol. I most certainly have, and I know exactly what it's like to make difficult decisions. People have varying levels of dificult though. True, but if someone is really that important to you, then you will put all else aside for them. And if you're not prepared to do it, you know where your real priorities are." yeah. i understand where i come in peoples priorities. like i'd never expect to be put before someone elses kid or family or someone important. but if people neglect me for lesser stuff they can fuck right off. ah that feels better. | |||
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"No, I don't cling to sentiment and "what-ifs", if people really want to be together, nothing will stop them. Circumstances can stop people doing what their heart tells them to do. I followed my head and it's been for the best. That's a clear choice, and once made, time to move on. If people really want something, nothing stops them, if they don't really want it, they'll find an excuse to not do it. You've obviously never been in a difficult position. It's never black and white like you are making out. Lol. I most certainly have, and I know exactly what it's like to make difficult decisions. People have varying levels of dificult though. True, but if someone is really that important to you, then you will put all else aside for them. And if you're not prepared to do it, you know where your real priorities are. yeah. i understand where i come in peoples priorities. like i'd never expect to be put before someone elses kid or family or someone important. but if people neglect me for lesser stuff they can fuck right off. ah that feels better." Noted laters | |||
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"No, I don't cling to sentiment and "what-ifs", if people really want to be together, nothing will stop them. Circumstances can stop people doing what their heart tells them to do. I followed my head and it's been for the best. That's a clear choice, and once made, time to move on. If people really want something, nothing stops them, if they don't really want it, they'll find an excuse to not do it. You've obviously never been in a difficult position. It's never black and white like you are making out. Lol. I most certainly have, and I know exactly what it's like to make difficult decisions. People have varying levels of dificult though. True, but if someone is really that important to you, then you will put all else aside for them. And if you're not prepared to do it, you know where your real priorities are. yeah. i understand where i come in peoples priorities. like i'd never expect to be put before someone elses kid or family or someone important. but if people neglect me for lesser stuff they can fuck right off. ah that feels better. Noted laters " | |||
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"Yes. One I keep going back to even though I know the outcome won't ever be different. Love is not only blind, its stupid too" Yup - wise words (not so wise actions!) | |||
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"Who you know, regardless of how much time and difference there goes between you, and regardless of circumstances, that when you see them again, your feelings for each other will never change. Have you found them yet?" Yes. | |||
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"No, I don't cling to sentiment and "what-ifs", if people really want to be together, nothing will stop them. Circumstances can stop people doing what their heart tells them to do. I followed my head and it's been for the best. That's a clear choice, and once made, time to move on. If people really want something, nothing stops them, if they don't really want it, they'll find an excuse to not do it. You've obviously never been in a difficult position. It's never black and white like you are making out. Lol. I most certainly have, and I know exactly what it's like to make difficult decisions. People have varying levels of dificult though. True, but if someone is really that important to you, then you will put all else aside for them. And if you're not prepared to do it, you know where your real priorities are." Exactly. My family and friends, surely where everyone's priorities should lie. | |||
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"How do you know your feelings will never change? " You don't. There is no guarantee that anyone can give that their feelings don't change. Very valid point. | |||
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"A couple of guys have taken a little piece of my heart with them when I've been vulnerable. I honestly believe that I'm not worthy of a long-term lover or friend on here... they all fuck off, move on, leave or move away. " No, they're selfish and thinking only of themselves, which is what you should be doing, rather than thinking you're not worthy. | |||
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"A couple of guys have taken a little piece of my heart with them when I've been vulnerable. I honestly believe that I'm not worthy of a long-term lover or friend on here... they all fuck off, move on, leave or move away. " or they're not worthy of you? | |||
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"Who you know, regardless of how much time and difference there goes between you, and regardless of circumstances, that when you see them again, your feelings for each other will never change. Have you found them yet?" It's a nice thought isn't it. This takes a lot of honesty to have someone like that. Or that's how I see it anyway. | |||
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"No, I don't let people get close enough. " Your loss | |||
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"No, I don't let people get close enough. " No deodorant? It's a worry isn't it? | |||
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"No, I don't let people get close enough. Your loss " Sadly, I'm aware of that. | |||
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"A couple of guys have taken a little piece of my heart with them when I've been vulnerable. I honestly believe that I'm not worthy of a long-term lover or friend on here... they all fuck off, move on, leave or move away. No, they're selfish and thinking only of themselves, which is what you should be doing, rather than thinking you're not worthy." It's not how my mind works at the moment but appreciate the comment | |||
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"A couple of guys have taken a little piece of my heart with them when I've been vulnerable. I honestly believe that I'm not worthy of a long-term lover or friend on here... they all fuck off, move on, leave or move away. " Everyone is worthy, don't let it come back on you. | |||
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"Apropos Turin Brakes - Stalker https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G9NFyZbElxU" | |||
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"No, I don't let people get close enough. " Stfu I love you | |||
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"No, I don't let people get close enough. Stfu I love you " | |||
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"No, I don't let people get close enough. Stfu I love you " Slut | |||
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"No, I don't let people get close enough. Stfu I love you Slut" Want me to love you too? | |||
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"No, I don't let people get close enough. Stfu I love you Slut" Moi? | |||
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"Romantically, no. My closest friend fits that statement though " Oh Christ I don't mean on here or anyone I've been with sexually Mine is a friend. | |||
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"No, I don't let people get close enough. Stfu I love you Slut Moi? " Weee | |||
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"No, I don't let people get close enough. Stfu I love you Slut Want me to love you too? " Is that the love between a man and a woman or a man and a fiiine Cuban cigar? | |||
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"No, I don't let people get close enough. Stfu I love you Slut Moi? Weee" Pfft, I'm an angel. | |||
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"No, I don't let people get close enough. Stfu I love you Slut Want me to love you too? Is that the love between a man and a woman or a man and a fiiine Cuban cigar? " Oh see I do love getting my lips around a cigar on special occassions. I'll love you like a cigar, that ok with you? | |||
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"No, I don't let people get close enough. Stfu I love you Slut Want me to love you too? Is that the love between a man and a woman or a man and a fiiine Cuban cigar? Oh see I do love getting my lips around a cigar on special occassions. I'll love you like a cigar, that ok with you? " Where did I put my lighter...? | |||
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"Who you know, regardless of how much time and difference there goes between you, and regardless of circumstances, that when you see them again, your feelings for each other will never change. Have you found them yet?" Yeah he used to bully me at school and I still fuckin hate him. | |||
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"Yes, after a year of being fbs, he got back with his wife...hey ho !" If you just had a FB relationship we're you really expecting anymore? | |||
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"Yes, after a year of being fbs, he got back with his wife...hey ho ! If you just had a FB relationship we're you really expecting anymore? " we had both take about it , so yes maybe | |||
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"No, I don't let people get close enough. " This is me aswell. And it's why I get dumped a LOT. | |||
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