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By *rMrs Cumalot OP   Couple
over a year ago

East Mids

Wonder how many singles are on here! That are actually in a relationship??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am and I don't hide the fact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one else's business but their own really

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

quite a few.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder how many couples that meet behind their partners back lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm married, technically. officially in single. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads. I'm pretty certain my wife wouldn't be impressed with the amount.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Probably lots, however its no one elses business but theirs

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

We both have single profiles too

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"No one else's business but their own really "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never really give it a second thought or care, its their business why they're on here.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Wonder how many singles are on here! That are actually in a relationship??

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How many couples are there where one has coerced the other into swinging?

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By *ilary and DonaldCouple
over a year ago

chingford

Couldn't give a monkeys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder how many cheaters threads we could have in one week

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By *rMrs Cumalot OP   Couple
over a year ago

East Mids


"I wonder how many couples that meet behind their partners back lol."

Fair one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wonder how many singles are on here! That are actually in a relationship??

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Does is matter how many ? Crack on and look after your own business and let others do as they please

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By *rMrs Cumalot OP   Couple
over a year ago

East Mids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couldn't give a monkeys. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never really give it a second thought or care, its their business why they're on here."

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By *rMrs Cumalot OP   Couple
over a year ago

East Mids


"We both have single profiles too"

Not cheating if each other knows about it

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I'm openly not single.... But i'm not cheating. My Mrs knows all and may join one day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i tell people very early on i am married and would not arrange a meet without being open

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By *rMrs Cumalot OP   Couple
over a year ago

East Mids

Why be in a relationship if your gonna cheat ?

Isn't it better to be single and be yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and here's me thinking groundhog day had been and gone

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By *armel and FrancisCouple
over a year ago

North wex

Well we meet separately but only use one profile this one and we are married ......to each other.... Shock horror lol

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By *.1079Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

There are loads of cheats on here.

If I told my wife how many cheats there were on here she would be discussed.

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By *rMrs Cumalot OP   Couple
over a year ago

East Mids

It's only cheating if your partner dose not know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why be in a relationship if your gonna cheat ?

Isn't it better to be single and be yourself"

Indeed it is but I'm sure its not that simple.

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By *rMrs Cumalot OP   Couple
over a year ago

East Mids


"There are loads of cheats on here.

If I told my wife how many cheats there were on here she would be discussed."

Hahaha

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By *rMrs Cumalot OP   Couple
over a year ago

East Mids


"Why be in a relationship if your gonna cheat ?

Isn't it better to be single and be yourself

Indeed it is but I'm sure its not that simple."

Course it is! You only live once and if your not happy! You need to change things! Surely?

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own


"Why be in a relationship if your gonna cheat ?

Isn't it better to be single and be yourself

Indeed it is but I'm sure its not that simple.

Course it is! You only live once and if your not happy! You need to change things! Surely?"

If only it was that easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wonder how many singles are on here! That are actually in a relationship??

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.......most lol ......me n partner tend to find its in the 80%plus when arranging things lol just be honest people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why be in a relationship if your gonna cheat ?

Isn't it better to be single and be yourself

Indeed it is but I'm sure its not that simple.

Course it is! You only live once and if your not happy! You need to change things! Surely?"

You never know what is going on in someone's life. I used to take this view but I know it really isn't as easy for some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i tell people very early on i am married and would not arrange a meet without being open"

Snap.

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By *cutebum9Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

Slit has her own account and meets guys alone all the time. Then I get to hear all the naughty details. Works for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are plenty and in my experience most will answer truthfully if asked, so it's very easy for you to avoid people if you don't want to meet them. I'm sure that's not as much fun as making trite statements about what everyone's relationship MUST BE LIKE, but it's very easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This escalated quick lol

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"It's only cheating if your partner dose not know"

Nope. Cheating is cheating .... if you've agreed to forsake all others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why be in a relationship if your gonna cheat ?

Isn't it better to be single and be yourself"

Why come on here judge people on there life choices?

Why does somebody's marital status influence the way YOU choose to swing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder how many couples that meet behind their partners back lol."

Oh, god. Has Marc been at it again?!

I apologize for all his faf messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thousands

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Slit has her own account and meets guys alone all the time. Then I get to hear all the naughty details. Works for us "

That's not cheating

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Plenty and from experience I've had messages from single profiles of a good majority, of males from the highly self professed "devotedly committed couples" on these very forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its very easy to be judgemental about others and their relationships, but if you don't know the full facts then its best to ignore it and move on if not for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wonder how many singles are on here! That are actually in a relationship??

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16294

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its very easy to be judgemental about others and their relationships, but if you don't know the full facts then its best to ignore it and move on if not for you "

Exactly this. I don't meet married/attached guys, its not for me but I don't judge them for being on here, as I said before, its none of my business.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"and here's me thinking groundhog day had been and gone "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wonder how many singles are on here! That are actually in a relationship??

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Ooh a hate thread... what a change.

There's loads and it's their business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't care less tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I wonder why so many people on here get so bothered about other people's business...

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"its very easy to be judgemental about others and their relationships, but if you don't know the full facts then its best to ignore it and move on if not for you "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its very easy to be judgemental about others and their relationships, but if you don't know the full facts then its best to ignore it and move on if not for you "

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couldn't care less tbh "

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I don't think it's anyone else's business how people use the site wether they are married or single, we all have choices to meet said person or not.

I also think it's not good to make such a sweeping generalisation on the fact that people cheat because they aren't happy at home, some are very happy but still need the extra sex or the "kinks" they can't get at home, some love their partners and don't want to leave them, either way it's each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wonder how many singles are on here! That are actually in a relationship??

16294"

Nah 394 xxx

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I don't think it's anyone else's business how people use the site wether they are married or single, we all have choices to meet said person or not.

I also think it's not good to make such a sweeping generalisation on the fact that people cheat because they aren't happy at home, some are very happy but still need the extra sex or the "kinks" they can't get at home, some love their partners and don't want to leave them, either way it's each to their own "

We all know love and sex are two different things

But you can't say they're happy, but go elsewhere for a kink they don't get, If they need to do that, though happy in general/for the most part, they aren't happy with at the very least missing that aspect of the relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a cheater, always slip myself an extra £500 when divvy'ng up the Monopoly money at the start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who gives a fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently it's only cheating if you get caught

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Loads op,but just avoid them

At least many will tell you they are ,or have it in their profile.

Miss

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

I'm officially 100% single even though I have a tgirlfriend. We play together, together with others and with others separately. If I was in a relationship I would never cheat as I wouldn't like it to happen to myself.

I think that's called karma.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

There are loads of people on here who aren't actually single.

I'm not that bothered unless they try and involve me or ask for my approval while telling me not to judge them . I do sometimes wonder how the unknowing partner would feel if they saw some of the 'action shots' or the requests for friends with benefits that some display but again, it's not my concern.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder how many couples that meet behind their partners back lol."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wonder how many singles are on here! That are actually in a relationship??

How many couples are there where one has coerced the other into swinging?"

Oooh many!

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By *VBethTV/TS
over a year ago

Chester

Happily single but if I found the right person I'd be gone from here. Not going to happen though!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I just live life for now, focusing on what's important for me. I'm long term single as it suits me and there are plenty around.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"I don't think it's anyone else's business how people use the site wether they are married or single, we all have choices to meet said person or not.

I also think it's not good to make such a sweeping generalisation on the fact that people cheat because they aren't happy at home, some are very happy but still need the extra sex or the "kinks" they can't get at home, some love their partners and don't want to leave them, either way it's each to their own

We all know love and sex are two different things

But you can't say they're happy, but go elsewhere for a kink they don't get, If they need to do that, though happy in general/for the most part, they aren't happy with at the very least missing that aspect of the relationship.

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That one thing isn't worth breaking a marriage up for as most say they love their partners and that's why they wont leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This escalated quick lol"

I'm Ron Burgundy.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•


"Why be in a relationship if your gonna cheat ?

Isn't it better to be single and be yourself"

they are being themselves, and themselves is a cheat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 x !! in the title, you must be outraged OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wonder how many singles are on here! That are actually in a relationship??

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My wife can not have sex with me due to a medical condition but she told me to go for it as long as it discreet and not in her face she knows I love her and would never intentionally hurt her she knows I have sex with other ladies and I tell them I'm married there is a good few tell not with married men and know what they are in a relationship married boyfriend the cheek but who care ??

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"It's only cheating if your partner dose not know"
thats what you couples tell yourselves so you can comment with judgement on others...you've called it swinging..its still adultery.

not that i give a shit, just interesting how changing a word, makes everyone feel so much better about themselves.

im single btw, not my problem ill meet who i like

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"It's only cheating if your partner dose not knowthats what you couples tell yourselves so you can comment with judgement on others...you've called it swinging..its still adultery.

not that i give a shit, just interesting how changing a word, makes everyone feel so much better about themselves.

im single btw, not my problem ill meet who i like"

Totally agree with this. But get lots of stick for it. Why don't swingers call it what it is? Just to feel better about themselves?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I,m not in a relationship of any kind atm XXX

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"It's only cheating if your partner dose not knowthats what you couples tell yourselves so you can comment with judgement on others...you've called it swinging..its still adultery.

not that i give a shit, just interesting how changing a word, makes everyone feel so much better about themselves.

im single btw, not my problem ill meet who i like

Totally agree with this. But get lots of stick for it. Why don't swingers call it what it is? Just to feel better about themselves? "
its the control factor of couples telling me which married man im allowed to play with that gets me..its alright for me to be thier threesome accessory, but, i'm not allowed to go play with another married man..get over yourselves...good job im immoral, otherwise no mff threesomes would happen..right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's only cheating if your partner dose not knowthats what you couples tell yourselves so you can comment with judgement on others...you've called it swinging..its still adultery.

not that i give a shit, just interesting how changing a word, makes everyone feel so much better about themselves.

im single btw, not my problem ill meet who i like"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine quite a large amount. Men, women and couples, incl couples on here who think they are completely trustworthy, open and honest yet their partner is meeting others behind their back.

I would much rather meet a cheater than someone who is feeling pressured into swinging, or just doing it to keep their partner happy. That to me is worse than cheating.

Some are happy meeting cheaters, others aren't. Each to their own.

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By *ddit...Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I imagine quite a large amount. Men, women and couples, incl couples on here who think they are completely trustworthy, open and honest yet their partner is meeting others behind their back.

I would much rather meet a cheater than someone who is feeling pressured into swinging, or just doing it to keep their partner happy. That to me is worse than cheating.

Some are happy meeting cheaters, others aren't. Each to their own.

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I own the copyright to the phrase 'each to their own'. You owe me royalties for using it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why be in a relationship if your gonna cheat ?

Isn't it better to be single and be yourself"

I'm a cheat (lovely label) and being myself. It works and I'm happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think it's anyone else's business how people use the site wether they are married or single, we all have choices to meet said person or not.

I also think it's not good to make such a sweeping generalisation on the fact that people cheat because they aren't happy at home, some are very happy but still need the extra sex or the "kinks" they can't get at home, some love their partners and don't want to leave them, either way it's each to their own "

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By *uteLittleGeekWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"Why be in a relationship if your gonna cheat ?

Isn't it better to be single and be yourself"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why be in a relationship if your gonna cheat ?

Isn't it better to be single and be yourself

Indeed it is but I'm sure its not that simple.

Course it is! You only live once and if your not happy! You need to change things! Surely?"
I made a change, I joined Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wonder how many singles are on here! That are actually in a relationship??

How many couples are there where one has coerced the other into swinging?"

No one will admit to coercing though, but it does happen, and it's easy to tell with some couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheaters but with only two !!'s are not worth worrying about

It's the ones with five !!!!!'s that piss me off x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why be in a relationship if your gonna cheat ?

Isn't it better to be single and be yourself

I'm a cheat (lovely label) and being myself. It works and I'm happy. "

But but but it's all black and white isn't it?

Isn't it?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Does it really matter what anyone else is doing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why be in a relationship if your gonna cheat ?

Isn't it better to be single and be yourself

I'm a cheat (lovely label) and being myself. It works and I'm happy.

But but but it's all black and white isn't it?

Isn't it?

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Totally black and white, the same as there is only right and wrong. Wouldnt life be simple

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Does it really matter what anyone else is doing?"

This. Honestly, people need to get over themselves at times. It happens. If you don't like it, don't meet those who do and are. If you do it, don't expect everyone to agree with it.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Does it really matter what anyone else is doing?

This. Honestly, people need to get over themselves at times. It happens. If you don't like it, don't meet those who do and are. If you do it, don't expect everyone to agree with it. "

For a place where people meet relative strangers for sex there is a fuck load of judgement.

Do what you like and let others do the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single woman I'm slowly changing my mind about the cheaters .....

I've decided 2017 is the year to fuck everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day, if someone is doing stuff that doesn't break the law, affect you, or anyone you care about, then it's not really any of your concern, is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single woman I'm slowly changing my mind about the cheaters .....

I've decided 2017 is the year to fuck everyone

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#FuckEmAll2017 get this trending!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"As a single woman I'm slowly changing my mind about the cheaters .....

I've decided 2017 is the year to fuck everyone

#FuckEmAll2017 get this trending! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always been single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the end of the day, if someone is doing stuff that doesn't break the law, affect you, or anyone you care about, then it's not really any of your concern, is it?"

Hallelujah.......someone talks sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the end of the day, if someone is doing stuff that doesn't break the law, affect you, or anyone you care about, then it's not really any of your concern, is it?

Hallelujah.......someone talks sense "

Excuse me? This isn't something I hear very often at all. I'm usually told to shut the hell up and get back under the sink....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit annoying to here about thoupi, when your me! Do what you like, live and let live or something like that. But don't talk to me about it or bring it up. When I don't have one relationship I will just look at you like a greedy pig that's outgrown it's stables and wants putting on the table.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single woman I'm slowly changing my mind about the cheaters .....

I've decided 2017 is the year to fuck everyone

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Bit annoying to here about thoupi, when your me! Do what you like, live and let live or something like that. But don't talk to me about it or bring it up. When I don't have one relationship I will just look at you like a greedy pig that's outgrown it's stables and wants putting on the table. "
kissy kissy xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single but if I get in a relationship and it's exclusive then I won't be here anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the end of the day, if someone is doing stuff that doesn't break the law, affect you, or anyone you care about, then it's not really any of your concern, is it?

Hallelujah.......someone talks sense

Excuse me? This isn't something I hear very often at all. I'm usually told to shut the hell up and get back under the sink...."

I'll let you stay out for a little while,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's only cheating if your partner dose not knowthats what you couples tell yourselves so you can comment with judgement on others...you've called it swinging..its still adultery.

not that i give a shit, just interesting how changing a word, makes everyone feel so much better about themselves.

im single btw, not my problem ill meet who i like

Totally agree with this. But get lots of stick for it. Why don't swingers call it what it is? Just to feel better about themselves? its the control factor of couples telling me which married man im allowed to play with that gets me..its alright for me to be thier threesome accessory, but, i'm not allowed to go play with another married man..get over yourselves...good job im immoral, otherwise no mff threesomes would happen..right?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bit annoying to here about thoupi, when your me! Do what you like, live and let live or something like that. But don't talk to me about it or bring it up. When I don't have one relationship I will just look at you like a greedy pig that's outgrown it's stables and wants putting on the table. kissy kissy xxx"
Well if you insist xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the end of the day, if someone is doing stuff that doesn't break the law, affect you, or anyone you care about, then it's not really any of your concern, is it?

Hallelujah.......someone talks sense

Excuse me? This isn't something I hear very often at all. I'm usually told to shut the hell up and get back under the sink....

I'll let you stay out for a little while,"

Can you put on some flat shoes when you do kick me back under it as those new heels of yours fucking hurt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably lots, however its no one elses business but theirs"

Untill the angry spouse turns up at your house

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Bit annoying to here about thoupi, when your me! Do what you like, live and let live or something like that. But don't talk to me about it or bring it up. When I don't have one relationship I will just look at you like a greedy pig that's outgrown it's stables and wants putting on the table. kissy kissy xxxWell if you insist xxx "
im not that bossy but if you like x

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"Bit annoying to here about thoupi, when your me! Do what you like, live and let live or something like that. But don't talk to me about it or bring it up. When I don't have one relationship I will just look at you like a greedy pig that's outgrown it's stables and wants putting on the table. "

Its a sty.

Bloody townies....

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Probably lots, however its no one elses business but theirs

Untill the angry spouse turns up at your house"
you still say its not your business...its a choice, you want this relationship or not..simple..no good getting angry with me..its your relationship.....over to you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably lots, however its no one elses business but theirs

Untill the angry spouse turns up at your house"

Does this really happen very often?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Bit annoying to here about thoupi, when your me! Do what you like, live and let live or something like that. But don't talk to me about it or bring it up. When I don't have one relationship I will just look at you like a greedy pig that's outgrown it's stables and wants putting on the table.

Its a sty.

Bloody townies.... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bit annoying to here about thoupi, when your me! Do what you like, live and let live or something like that. But don't talk to me about it or bring it up. When I don't have one relationship I will just look at you like a greedy pig that's outgrown it's stables and wants putting on the table. kissy kissy xxxWell if you insist xxx im not that bossy but if you like x"
You can bossy if you like as long as you keep kissing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably lots, however its no one elses business but theirs

Untill the angry spouse turns up at your houseyou still say its not your business...its a choice, you want this relationship or not..simple..no good getting angry with me..its your relationship.....over to you..."

Its your husiness when its your neighbours staring at the screaming nutter/your car getting keyd/your nudes from his phone being sent around your facebook etc.

Yep seen all of them happen to women when the guy theyve been shaggings wife had found out.

Heres the tip when the cheater gets caught youre getting thrown under the bus by them to try and save thier marrige

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Bit annoying to here about thoupi, when your me! Do what you like, live and let live or something like that. But don't talk to me about it or bring it up. When I don't have one relationship I will just look at you like a greedy pig that's outgrown it's stables and wants putting on the table. kissy kissy xxxWell if you insist xxx im not that bossy but if you like xYou can bossy if you like as long as you keep kissing x"
no i hate having to nag..thats why im single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bit annoying to here about thoupi, when your me! Do what you like, live and let live or something like that. But don't talk to me about it or bring it up. When I don't have one relationship I will just look at you like a greedy pig that's outgrown it's stables and wants putting on the table.

Its a sty.

Bloody townies.... "
I knew the word mouthy I just forgot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder how many couples there are on here that think they are so virtuous because they like to commit adultery together?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bit annoying to here about thoupi, when your me! Do what you like, live and let live or something like that. But don't talk to me about it or bring it up. When I don't have one relationship I will just look at you like a greedy pig that's outgrown it's stables and wants putting on the table. kissy kissy xxxWell if you insist xxx im not that bossy but if you like xYou can bossy if you like as long as you keep kissing xno i hate having to nag..thats why im single "
Well I wouldn't need nagging to do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably lots, however its no one elses business but theirs

Untill the angry spouse turns up at your houseyou still say its not your business...its a choice, you want this relationship or not..simple..no good getting angry with me..its your relationship.....over to you...

Its your husiness when its your neighbours staring at the screaming nutter/your car getting keyd/your nudes from his phone being sent around your facebook etc.

Yep seen all of them happen to women when the guy theyve been shaggings wife had found out.

Heres the tip when the cheater gets caught youre getting thrown under the bus by them to try and save thier marrige"

Well I've never experienced this, or met anyone who has ever experienced this. Most cheaters I've met are discrete. Some obviously must be very careless to get caught out.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Probably lots, however its no one elses business but theirs

Untill the angry spouse turns up at your houseyou still say its not your business...its a choice, you want this relationship or not..simple..no good getting angry with me..its your relationship.....over to you...

Its your husiness when its your neighbours staring at the screaming nutter/your car getting keyd/your nudes from his phone being sent around your facebook etc.

Yep seen all of them happen to women when the guy theyve been shaggings wife had found out.

Heres the tip when the cheater gets caught youre getting thrown under the bus by them to try and save thier marriage"
ive had it as i said i handle it differently to most...mostly, i can totally see why, they've been cheated on..dont forget im not out to nick someone else's husband/wife...i dont want a full time relationship.

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Wonder how many singles are on here! That are actually in a relationship??

"

Probably a fair few men and women.

As long as they are honest with their partners i don't see what the problem is..

Mrs WD40

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I don't think it's anyone else's business how people use the site wether they are married or single, we all have choices to meet said person or not.

I also think it's not good to make such a sweeping generalisation on the fact that people cheat because they aren't happy at home, some are very happy but still need the extra sex or the "kinks" they can't get at home, some love their partners and don't want to leave them, either way it's each to their own

We all know love and sex are two different things

But you can't say they're happy, but go elsewhere for a kink they don't get, If they need to do that, though happy in general/for the most part, they aren't happy with at the very least missing that aspect of the relationship.

That one thing isn't worth breaking a marriage up for as most say they love their partners and that's why they wont leave "

Never said that one thing was

The cheating is just often a compromise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wonder how many singles are on here! That are actually in a relationship??

Probably a fair few men and women.

As long as they are honest with their partners i don't see what the problem is..

Mrs WD40"

Quite a few who aren't honest though, their partners think they are on here playing together only. Sadly not always the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably lots, however its no one elses business but theirs

Untill the angry spouse turns up at your houseyou still say its not your business...its a choice, you want this relationship or not..simple..no good getting angry with me..its your relationship.....over to you...

Its your husiness when its your neighbours staring at the screaming nutter/your car getting keyd/your nudes from his phone being sent around your facebook etc.

Yep seen all of them happen to women when the guy theyve been shaggings wife had found out.

Heres the tip when the cheater gets caught youre getting thrown under the bus by them to try and save thier marrige

Well I've never experienced this, or met anyone who has ever experienced this. Most cheaters I've met are discrete. Some obviously must be very careless to get caught out."

The vast majority get caught.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheater here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably lots, however its no one elses business but theirs

Untill the angry spouse turns up at your houseyou still say its not your business...its a choice, you want this relationship or not..simple..no good getting angry with me..its your relationship.....over to you...

Its your husiness when its your neighbours staring at the screaming nutter/your car getting keyd/your nudes from his phone being sent around your facebook etc.

Yep seen all of them happen to women when the guy theyve been shaggings wife had found out.

Heres the tip when the cheater gets caught youre getting thrown under the bus by them to try and save thier marrige

Well I've never experienced this, or met anyone who has ever experienced this. Most cheaters I've met are discrete. Some obviously must be very careless to get caught out.

The vast majority get caught.

"

Not the ones I've met, and I've met a few. Some have been cheating for years. Ways and means of doing it without gettting caught. It depends how good you are at being discrete.

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By *cutebum9Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

Spoke to loads of single account females who are married but need something extra or different. Turn us on and think it's great and very naughty lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably lots, however its no one elses business but theirs

Untill the angry spouse turns up at your houseyou still say its not your business...its a choice, you want this relationship or not..simple..no good getting angry with me..its your relationship.....over to you...

Its your husiness when its your neighbours staring at the screaming nutter/your car getting keyd/your nudes from his phone being sent around your facebook etc.

Yep seen all of them happen to women when the guy theyve been shaggings wife had found out.

Heres the tip when the cheater gets caught youre getting thrown under the bus by them to try and save thier marrige

Well I've never experienced this, or met anyone who has ever experienced this. Most cheaters I've met are discrete. Some obviously must be very careless to get caught out.

The vast majority get caught.

"

What timescale are you working too on this one?

If you're meet savvy & smart there's no reason why the stereotypical scenario you describe should ever happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably lots, however its no one elses business but theirs

Untill the angry spouse turns up at your houseyou still say its not your business...its a choice, you want this relationship or not..simple..no good getting angry with me..its your relationship.....over to you...

Its your husiness when its your neighbours staring at the screaming nutter/your car getting keyd/your nudes from his phone being sent around your facebook etc.

Yep seen all of them happen to women when the guy theyve been shaggings wife had found out.

Heres the tip when the cheater gets caught youre getting thrown under the bus by them to try and save thier marrige

Well I've never experienced this, or met anyone who has ever experienced this. Most cheaters I've met are discrete. Some obviously must be very careless to get caught out.

The vast majority get caught.

Not the ones I've met, and I've met a few. Some have been cheating for years. Ways and means of doing it without gettting caught. It depends how good you are at being discrete."

Well its good to know you and the people youve met are skilled at lying to your loved ones.

But sadly or happily depending on your view most people are shit liars.

Go speak to an escort how often they get a "why is your number in my husbands phone" message.

.it's hilarious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably lots, however its no one elses business but theirs

Untill the angry spouse turns up at your houseyou still say its not your business...its a choice, you want this relationship or not..simple..no good getting angry with me..its your relationship.....over to you...

Its your husiness when its your neighbours staring at the screaming nutter/your car getting keyd/your nudes from his phone being sent around your facebook etc.

Yep seen all of them happen to women when the guy theyve been shaggings wife had found out.

Heres the tip when the cheater gets caught youre getting thrown under the bus by them to try and save thier marrige

Well I've never experienced this, or met anyone who has ever experienced this. Most cheaters I've met are discrete. Some obviously must be very careless to get caught out.

The vast majority get caught.

What timescale are you working too on this one?

If you're meet savvy & smart there's no reason why the stereotypical scenario you describe should ever happen."

Most people arent savy or smart.

Most are simple, most keep numbers in thier phone, thier partner knows thier code etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bah hit send early, plus for many its the thrill of cheating s they take bigger risks, texting ehile in the same room, on the sofa/in bed etc over time.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Probably lots, however its no one elses business but theirs

Untill the angry spouse turns up at your houseyou still say its not your business...its a choice, you want this relationship or not..simple..no good getting angry with me..its your relationship.....over to you...

Its your husiness when its your neighbours staring at the screaming nutter/your car getting keyd/your nudes from his phone being sent around your facebook etc.

Yep seen all of them happen to women when the guy theyve been shaggings wife had found out.

Heres the tip when the cheater gets caught youre getting thrown under the bus by them to try and save thier marrige

Well I've never experienced this, or met anyone who has ever experienced this. Most cheaters I've met are discrete. Some obviously must be very careless to get caught out.

The vast majority get caught.

What timescale are you working too on this one?

If you're meet savvy & smart there's no reason why the stereotypical scenario you describe should ever happen."

I'm fucked then

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I don't wonder about such things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wonder how many singles are on here! That are actually in a relationship??

How many couples are there where one has coerced the other into swinging?"

I started off on here after my then bf bullied me into joining. I'm now single and enjoy it more now then I ever did with him lol

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I don't wonder about such things "

Should I be worrying about the wife hunting me down?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably lots, however its no one elses business but theirs

Untill the angry spouse turns up at your houseyou still say its not your business...its a choice, you want this relationship or not..simple..no good getting angry with me..its your relationship.....over to you...

Its your husiness when its your neighbours staring at the screaming nutter/your car getting keyd/your nudes from his phone being sent around your facebook etc.

Yep seen all of them happen to women when the guy theyve been shaggings wife had found out.

Heres the tip when the cheater gets caught youre getting thrown under the bus by them to try and save thier marrige

Well I've never experienced this, or met anyone who has ever experienced this. Most cheaters I've met are discrete. Some obviously must be very careless to get caught out.

The vast majority get caught.

What timescale are you working too on this one?

If you're meet savvy & smart there's no reason why the stereotypical scenario you describe should ever happen.

Most people arent savy or smart.

Most are simple, most keep numbers in thier phone, thier partner knows thier code etc etc"

Maybe it's the company you keep then. I only ever meet smart and savvy people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex and love aren't one and the same for some people. I've never cheated, but I don't know what goes on behind closed doors to make others. So it's something I don't knowingly get involved with but it's not up to me to be judge and jury.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Probably lots, however its no one elses business but theirs

Untill the angry spouse turns up at your houseyou still say its not your business...its a choice, you want this relationship or not..simple..no good getting angry with me..its your relationship.....over to you...

Its your husiness when its your neighbours staring at the screaming nutter/your car getting keyd/your nudes from his phone being sent around your facebook etc.

Yep seen all of them happen to women when the guy theyve been shaggings wife had found out.

Heres the tip when the cheater gets caught youre getting thrown under the bus by them to try and save thier marrige

Well I've never experienced this, or met anyone who has ever experienced this. Most cheaters I've met are discrete. Some obviously must be very careless to get caught out.

The vast majority get caught.

What timescale are you working too on this one?

If you're meet savvy & smart there's no reason why the stereotypical scenario you describe should ever happen.

Most people arent savy or smart.

Most are simple, most keep numbers in thier phone, thier partner knows thier code etc etc

Maybe it's the company you keep then. I only ever meet smart and savvy people."

Smart phones are easily hackable nowadays you can but the kits to do it for £19.99 all you need to know is that your spouse as a smart phone and know their mobile number and bingo full access to their phone

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Probably lots, however its no one elses business but theirs

Untill the angry spouse turns up at your houseyou still say its not your business...its a choice, you want this relationship or not..simple..no good getting angry with me..its your relationship.....over to you...

Its your husiness when its your neighbours staring at the screaming nutter/your car getting keyd/your nudes from his phone being sent around your facebook etc.

Yep seen all of them happen to women when the guy theyve been shaggings wife had found out.

Heres the tip when the cheater gets caught youre getting thrown under the bus by them to try and save thier marrige

Well I've never experienced this, or met anyone who has ever experienced this. Most cheaters I've met are discrete. Some obviously must be very careless to get caught out.

The vast majority get caught.

What timescale are you working too on this one?

If you're meet savvy & smart there's no reason why the stereotypical scenario you describe should ever happen.

Most people arent savy or smart.

Most are simple, most keep numbers in thier phone, thier partner knows thier code etc etc

Maybe it's the company you keep then. I only ever meet smart and savvy people.

Smart phones are easily hackable nowadays you can but the kits to do it for £19.99 all you need to know is that your spouse as a smart phone and know their mobile number and bingo full access to their phone "

I'm definitely fucked....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably lots, however its no one elses business but theirs

Untill the angry spouse turns up at your houseyou still say its not your business...its a choice, you want this relationship or not..simple..no good getting angry with me..its your relationship.....over to you...

Its your husiness when its your neighbours staring at the screaming nutter/your car getting keyd/your nudes from his phone being sent around your facebook etc.

Yep seen all of them happen to women when the guy theyve been shaggings wife had found out.

Heres the tip when the cheater gets caught youre getting thrown under the bus by them to try and save thier marrige

Well I've never experienced this, or met anyone who has ever experienced this. Most cheaters I've met are discrete. Some obviously must be very careless to get caught out.

The vast majority get caught.

What timescale are you working too on this one?

If you're meet savvy & smart there's no reason why the stereotypical scenario you describe should ever happen.

Most people arent savy or smart.

Most are simple, most keep numbers in thier phone, thier partner knows thier code etc etc

Maybe it's the company you keep then. I only ever meet smart and savvy people.

Smart phones are easily hackable nowadays you can but the kits to do it for £19.99 all you need to know is that your spouse as a smart phone and know their mobile number and bingo full access to their phone "

They've been around for ages. A lot of people who cheat have second phones that their partner knows nothing about. Problem solved. Ways and means.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"Probably lots, however its no one elses business but theirs

Untill the angry spouse turns up at your houseyou still say its not your business...its a choice, you want this relationship or not..simple..no good getting angry with me..its your relationship.....over to you...

Its your husiness when its your neighbours staring at the screaming nutter/your car getting keyd/your nudes from his phone being sent around your facebook etc.

Yep seen all of them happen to women when the guy theyve been shaggings wife had found out.

Heres the tip when the cheater gets caught youre getting thrown under the bus by them to try and save thier marrige

Well I've never experienced this, or met anyone who has ever experienced this. Most cheaters I've met are discrete. Some obviously must be very careless to get caught out.

The vast majority get caught.

What timescale are you working too on this one?

If you're meet savvy & smart there's no reason why the stereotypical scenario you describe should ever happen.

Most people arent savy or smart.

Most are simple, most keep numbers in thier phone, thier partner knows thier code etc etc

Maybe it's the company you keep then. I only ever meet smart and savvy people.

Smart phones are easily hackable nowadays you can but the kits to do it for £19.99 all you need to know is that your spouse as a smart phone and know their mobile number and bingo full access to their phone

They've been around for ages. A lot of people who cheat have second phones that their partner knows nothing about. Problem solved. Ways and means."

the last piece of crap i was seeing did this. he even showed me his password for his phone so i'd trust him (i never looked at it anyway). but he had another phone anyway that he left at his mums so i'd never see it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably lots, however its no one elses business but theirs

Untill the angry spouse turns up at your houseyou still say its not your business...its a choice, you want this relationship or not..simple..no good getting angry with me..its your relationship.....over to you...

Its your husiness when its your neighbours staring at the screaming nutter/your car getting keyd/your nudes from his phone being sent around your facebook etc.

Yep seen all of them happen to women when the guy theyve been shaggings wife had found out.

Heres the tip when the cheater gets caught youre getting thrown under the bus by them to try and save thier marrige

Well I've never experienced this, or met anyone who has ever experienced this. Most cheaters I've met are discrete. Some obviously must be very careless to get caught out.

The vast majority get caught.

What timescale are you working too on this one?

If you're meet savvy & smart there's no reason why the stereotypical scenario you describe should ever happen.

Most people arent savy or smart.

Most are simple, most keep numbers in thier phone, thier partner knows thier code etc etc

Maybe it's the company you keep then. I only ever meet smart and savvy people.

Smart phones are easily hackable nowadays you can but the kits to do it for £19.99 all you need to know is that your spouse as a smart phone and know their mobile number and bingo full access to their phone

They've been around for ages. A lot of people who cheat have second phones that their partner knows nothing about. Problem solved. Ways and means."

Tell that to Mr white.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably lots, however its no one elses business but theirs

Untill the angry spouse turns up at your houseyou still say its not your business...its a choice, you want this relationship or not..simple..no good getting angry with me..its your relationship.....over to you...

Its your husiness when its your neighbours staring at the screaming nutter/your car getting keyd/your nudes from his phone being sent around your facebook etc.

Yep seen all of them happen to women when the guy theyve been shaggings wife had found out.

Heres the tip when the cheater gets caught youre getting thrown under the bus by them to try and save thier marrige

Well I've never experienced this, or met anyone who has ever experienced this. Most cheaters I've met are discrete. Some obviously must be very careless to get caught out.

The vast majority get caught.

What timescale are you working too on this one?

If you're meet savvy & smart there's no reason why the stereotypical scenario you describe should ever happen.

Most people arent savy or smart.

Most are simple, most keep numbers in thier phone, thier partner knows thier code etc etc

Maybe it's the company you keep then. I only ever meet smart and savvy people.

Smart phones are easily hackable nowadays you can but the kits to do it for £19.99 all you need to know is that your spouse as a smart phone and know their mobile number and bingo full access to their phone "

Personally if they thought along those lines I'd rather my OH not go to those their lengths & confront me instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't wonder about such things

Should I be worrying about the wife hunting me down? "

No because that doesn't actually happen outside of cheating scum forum threads.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Probably lots, however its no one elses business but theirs

Untill the angry spouse turns up at your houseyou still say its not your business...its a choice, you want this relationship or not..simple..no good getting angry with me..its your relationship.....over to you...

Its your husiness when its your neighbours staring at the screaming nutter/your car getting keyd/your nudes from his phone being sent around your facebook etc.

Yep seen all of them happen to women when the guy theyve been shaggings wife had found out.

Heres the tip when the cheater gets caught youre getting thrown under the bus by them to try and save thier marrige

Well I've never experienced this, or met anyone who has ever experienced this. Most cheaters I've met are discrete. Some obviously must be very careless to get caught out.

The vast majority get caught.

What timescale are you working too on this one?

If you're meet savvy & smart there's no reason why the stereotypical scenario you describe should ever happen.

Most people arent savy or smart.

Most are simple, most keep numbers in thier phone, thier partner knows thier code etc etc

Maybe it's the company you keep then. I only ever meet smart and savvy people.

Smart phones are easily hackable nowadays you can but the kits to do it for £19.99 all you need to know is that your spouse as a smart phone and know their mobile number and bingo full access to their phone

Personally if they thought along those lines I'd rather my OH not go to those their lengths & confront me instead."

Some in those circumstances would want proof before confronting someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't wonder about such things

Should I be worrying about the wife hunting me down? "

Maybe but you never know, move this scenario on in traditional seventies book fashion and she might end up jumping in to bed with you after a brief cat fight

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I don't wonder about such things

Should I be worrying about the wife hunting me down?

No because that doesn't actually happen outside of cheating scum forum threads."

Phew. I was fearing for my life then.

I should tell him to say hi next time he texts me from next to her on the sofa then.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Probably lots, however its no one elses business but theirs

Untill the angry spouse turns up at your houseyou still say its not your business...its a choice, you want this relationship or not..simple..no good getting angry with me..its your relationship.....over to you...

Its your husiness when its your neighbours staring at the screaming nutter/your car getting keyd/your nudes from his phone being sent around your facebook etc.

Yep seen all of them happen to women when the guy theyve been shaggings wife had found out.

Heres the tip when the cheater gets caught youre getting thrown under the bus by them to try and save thier marrige

Well I've never experienced this, or met anyone who has ever experienced this. Most cheaters I've met are discrete. Some obviously must be very careless to get caught out.

The vast majority get caught.

What timescale are you working too on this one?

If you're meet savvy & smart there's no reason why the stereotypical scenario you describe should ever happen.

Most people arent savy or smart.

Most are simple, most keep numbers in thier phone, thier partner knows thier code etc etc

Maybe it's the company you keep then. I only ever meet smart and savvy people.

Smart phones are easily hackable nowadays you can but the kits to do it for £19.99 all you need to know is that your spouse as a smart phone and know their mobile number and bingo full access to their phone

They've been around for ages. A lot of people who cheat have second phones that their partner knows nothing about. Problem solved. Ways and means.

the last piece of crap i was seeing did this. he even showed me his password for his phone so i'd trust him (i never looked at it anyway). but he had another phone anyway that he left at his mums so i'd never see it."

And you found out about it.

Lies have a way of catching up with people in time, could be years before they do but they always do eventually

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I don't wonder about such things

Should I be worrying about the wife hunting me down?

Maybe but you never know, move this scenario on in traditional seventies book fashion and she might end up jumping in to bed with you after a brief cat fight "

I don't think she will you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't wonder about such things

Should I be worrying about the wife hunting me down?

No because that doesn't actually happen outside of cheating scum forum threads.

Phew. I was fearing for my life then.

I should tell him to say hi next time he texts me from next to her on the sofa then.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably lots, however its no one elses business but theirs

Untill the angry spouse turns up at your houseyou still say its not your business...its a choice, you want this relationship or not..simple..no good getting angry with me..its your relationship.....over to you...

Its your husiness when its your neighbours staring at the screaming nutter/your car getting keyd/your nudes from his phone being sent around your facebook etc.

Yep seen all of them happen to women when the guy theyve been shaggings wife had found out.

Heres the tip when the cheater gets caught youre getting thrown under the bus by them to try and save thier marrige

Well I've never experienced this, or met anyone who has ever experienced this. Most cheaters I've met are discrete. Some obviously must be very careless to get caught out.

The vast majority get caught.

What timescale are you working too on this one?

If you're meet savvy & smart there's no reason why the stereotypical scenario you describe should ever happen.

Most people arent savy or smart.

Most are simple, most keep numbers in thier phone, thier partner knows thier code etc etc

Maybe it's the company you keep then. I only ever meet smart and savvy people.

Smart phones are easily hackable nowadays you can but the kits to do it for £19.99 all you need to know is that your spouse as a smart phone and know their mobile number and bingo full access to their phone

They've been around for ages. A lot of people who cheat have second phones that their partner knows nothing about. Problem solved. Ways and means.

the last piece of crap i was seeing did this. he even showed me his password for his phone so i'd trust him (i never looked at it anyway). but he had another phone anyway that he left at his mums so i'd never see it.

And you found out about it.

Lies have a way of catching up with people in time, could be years before they do but they always do eventually "

No they don't. Ways and means.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"Probably lots, however its no one elses business but theirs

Untill the angry spouse turns up at your houseyou still say its not your business...its a choice, you want this relationship or not..simple..no good getting angry with me..its your relationship.....over to you...

Its your husiness when its your neighbours staring at the screaming nutter/your car getting keyd/your nudes from his phone being sent around your facebook etc.

Yep seen all of them happen to women when the guy theyve been shaggings wife had found out.

Heres the tip when the cheater gets caught youre getting thrown under the bus by them to try and save thier marrige

Well I've never experienced this, or met anyone who has ever experienced this. Most cheaters I've met are discrete. Some obviously must be very careless to get caught out.

The vast majority get caught.

What timescale are you working too on this one?

If you're meet savvy & smart there's no reason why the stereotypical scenario you describe should ever happen.

Most people arent savy or smart.

Most are simple, most keep numbers in thier phone, thier partner knows thier code etc etc

Maybe it's the company you keep then. I only ever meet smart and savvy people.

Smart phones are easily hackable nowadays you can but the kits to do it for £19.99 all you need to know is that your spouse as a smart phone and know their mobile number and bingo full access to their phone

They've been around for ages. A lot of people who cheat have second phones that their partner knows nothing about. Problem solved. Ways and means.

the last piece of crap i was seeing did this. he even showed me his password for his phone so i'd trust him (i never looked at it anyway). but he had another phone anyway that he left at his mums so i'd never see it.

And you found out about it.

Lies have a way of catching up with people in time, could be years before they do but they always do eventually "

i found out everything coz he wouldn't tell me anything. fucking hate him for what he put me through and what he turned me into.

i don't even believe in karma, so he's not gonna get what's due to him and i won't get any revenge, but all i needed was closure and i got that myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't wonder about such things

Should I be worrying about the wife hunting me down? "

Maybe we should go halves on a safe house?

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i also needed to know he was a liar coz if he wasn't then all the thoughts i was having were insane and i was probably insane for having them. and that's the worst part of lies, not the loss of trust, and not the actions they're doing but the fact they make you question your own thoughts and reality.

and that is why i hate him, mostly that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i also needed to know he was a liar coz if he wasn't then all the thoughts i was having were insane and i was probably insane for having them. and that's the worst part of lies, not the loss of trust, and not the actions they're doing but the fact they make you question your own thoughts and reality.

and that is why i hate him, mostly that."

You should have more faith in yourself and your own thoughts.

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By *retty FolliesCouple (FF)
over a year ago

south

Lots of smug posters on here who are happy to boast they are cheats.....wow what terrible people some are

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Probably lots, however its no one elses business but theirs

Untill the angry spouse turns up at your house"

^^^ this.

If they lie they arent giving you an i informed choice and that in itself is shitty behaviour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i also needed to know he was a liar coz if he wasn't then all the thoughts i was having were insane and i was probably insane for having them. and that's the worst part of lies, not the loss of trust, and not the actions they're doing but the fact they make you question your own thoughts and reality.

and that is why i hate him, mostly that.

You should have more faith in yourself and your own thoughts. "

I mean that in a nice way by the way. You seem like you have your head screwed on.

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By *teemy adventuresCouple
over a year ago

somewhere nearby


"No one else's business but their own really "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably lots, however its no one elses business but theirs

Untill the angry spouse turns up at your house

^^^ this.

If they lie they arent giving you an i informed choice and that in itself is shitty behaviour "

This thread is going round in circles

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I met a gitl on a dating site who was pretending to be single.

Her partner then went through her phone and I had some very interesting texts...

And then a fb message from her apologising that she'd left her phone unattended, but I definitley looked hot in my fb pics....

And this is now why I can't be arsed with people in reletionships. I realise that some are careful, but it's just potential hassle that I can't be bothered with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It must be exhausting to be a cheater!

I'm not a lover of drama - and I want to have something real without lies!

I guess I'll be single forever then

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"i also needed to know he was a liar coz if he wasn't then all the thoughts i was having were insane and i was probably insane for having them. and that's the worst part of lies, not the loss of trust, and not the actions they're doing but the fact they make you question your own thoughts and reality.

and that is why i hate him, mostly that.

You should have more faith in yourself and your own thoughts. "

i did. that is why i ignored what he said and set out to prove i was right instead of listening to his bullshit.

but the fact that he thinks he can tell me my own thoughts aren't real, when they fucking well were, is what makes me hate him.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I don't wonder about such things

Should I be worrying about the wife hunting me down? "

Whose wife? Yours or mine?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"And this is now why I can't be arsed with people in reletionships. I realise that some are careful, but it's just potential hassle that I can't be bothered with. "

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met a gitl on a dating site who was pretending to be single.

Her partner then went through her phone and I had some very interesting texts...

And then a fb message from her apologising that she'd left her phone unattended, but I definitley looked hot in my fb pics....

And this is now why I can't be arsed with people in reletionships. I realise that some are careful, but it's just potential hassle that I can't be bothered with. "

She was rather careless then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It must be exhausting to be a cheater "

Why exhausting ?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I don't wonder about such things

Should I be worrying about the wife hunting me down?

Maybe we should go halves on a safe house? "

Good idea.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I don't wonder about such things

Should I be worrying about the wife hunting me down?

Whose wife? Yours or mine? "

All the wives. I'm making myself a bunker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It must be exhausting to be a cheater

Why exhausting ? "

Lots of sex?

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Probably lots, however its no one elses business but theirs

Untill the angry spouse turns up at your houseyou still say its not your business...its a choice, you want this relationship or not..simple..no good getting angry with me..its your relationship.....over to you...

Its your husiness when its your neighbours staring at the screaming nutter/your car getting keyd/your nudes from his phone being sent around your facebook etc.

Yep seen all of them happen to women when the guy theyve been shaggings wife had found out.

Heres the tip when the cheater gets caught youre getting thrown under the bus by them to try and save thier marrige

Well I've never experienced this, or met anyone who has ever experienced this. Most cheaters I've met are discrete. Some obviously must be very careless to get caught out.

The vast majority get caught.

What timescale are you working too on this one?

If you're meet savvy & smart there's no reason why the stereotypical scenario you describe should ever happen.

Most people arent savy or smart.

Most are simple, most keep numbers in thier phone, thier partner knows thier code etc etc

Maybe it's the company you keep then. I only ever meet smart and savvy people.

Smart phones are easily hackable nowadays you can but the kits to do it for £19.99 all you need to know is that your spouse as a smart phone and know their mobile number and bingo full access to their phone

They've been around for ages. A lot of people who cheat have second phones that their partner knows nothing about. Problem solved. Ways and means.

the last piece of crap i was seeing did this. he even showed me his password for his phone so i'd trust him (i never looked at it anyway). but he had another phone anyway that he left at his mums so i'd never see it.

And you found out about it.

Lies have a way of catching up with people in time, could be years before they do but they always do eventually

No they don't. Ways and means."

I'm talking lies in general here

So Yes they do it's a matter of time. Usually happens once the liar starts getting cocky and begining to think they will always get away with it as they're so smart

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"I met a gitl on a dating site who was pretending to be single.

Her partner then went through her phone and I had some very interesting texts...

And then a fb message from her apologising that she'd left her phone unattended, but I definitley looked hot in my fb pics....

And this is now why I can't be arsed with people in reletionships. I realise that some are careful, but it's just potential hassle that I can't be bothered with.

She was rather careless then"

Yes and no - she was quite clever, but if you live with someone, they can always wander off with your phone whilst you sleep or are distracted with the kids or something.

I like a drama-free life so it's just simpler not to meet people in relationships.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I don't wonder about such things

Should I be worrying about the wife hunting me down?

Whose wife? Yours or mine?

All the wives. I'm making myself a bunker "

Ohhhh, gotcha. I don't need one

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I don't wonder about such things

Should I be worrying about the wife hunting me down?

Whose wife? Yours or mine?

All the wives. I'm making myself a bunker

Ohhhh, gotcha. I don't need one "

I don't think I do really. But maybe if I build one it will give me something better to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met a gitl on a dating site who was pretending to be single.

Her partner then went through her phone and I had some very interesting texts...

And then a fb message from her apologising that she'd left her phone unattended, but I definitley looked hot in my fb pics....

And this is now why I can't be arsed with people in reletionships. I realise that some are careful, but it's just potential hassle that I can't be bothered with.

She was rather careless then

Yes and no - she was quite clever, but if you live with someone, they can always wander off with your phone whilst you sleep or are distracted with the kids or something.

I like a drama-free life so it's just simpler not to meet people in relationships. "

Passcode on phone? Simple solution.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Checking each others phones? Bye bye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably lots, however its no one elses business but theirs

Untill the angry spouse turns up at your houseyou still say its not your business...its a choice, you want this relationship or not..simple..no good getting angry with me..its your relationship.....over to you...

Its your husiness when its your neighbours staring at the screaming nutter/your car getting keyd/your nudes from his phone being sent around your facebook etc.

Yep seen all of them happen to women when the guy theyve been shaggings wife had found out.

Heres the tip when the cheater gets caught youre getting thrown under the bus by them to try and save thier marrige

Well I've never experienced this, or met anyone who has ever experienced this. Most cheaters I've met are discrete. Some obviously must be very careless to get caught out.

The vast majority get caught.

What timescale are you working too on this one?

If you're meet savvy & smart there's no reason why the stereotypical scenario you describe should ever happen.

Most people arent savy or smart.

Most are simple, most keep numbers in thier phone, thier partner knows thier code etc etc

Maybe it's the company you keep then. I only ever meet smart and savvy people.

Smart phones are easily hackable nowadays you can but the kits to do it for £19.99 all you need to know is that your spouse as a smart phone and know their mobile number and bingo full access to their phone

They've been around for ages. A lot of people who cheat have second phones that their partner knows nothing about. Problem solved. Ways and means.

the last piece of crap i was seeing did this. he even showed me his password for his phone so i'd trust him (i never looked at it anyway). but he had another phone anyway that he left at his mums so i'd never see it.

And you found out about it.

Lies have a way of catching up with people in time, could be years before they do but they always do eventually

No they don't. Ways and means.

I'm talking lies in general here

So Yes they do it's a matter of time. Usually happens once the liar starts getting cocky and begining to think they will always get away with it as they're so smart"

We shall agree to disagree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're cheating and you leave your phone open for your partner to find and look at, then you want them to find out because it's so bloody easy to lock your phone

Give yourselves a pat on the back, those with oh so perfect lives and look down smugly on those who are having sex behind their partners backs,from your high horses or alternatively, don't meet attached people and mind your own fucking business what others get up to on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are still plenty of actually single people on here to meet.

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