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"I feel so bad for pervin over u sexy lot now iv found my girl, I'm not meeting since iv been with her but miss the mucky fabbers." It's good to perv ....nothing wrong with it  | |||
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"Nothing wrong with a spot of window shopping  "I window shop till I drop haha | |||
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"It's fine to look at the menu as long as you don't order " Well I haven't yet and she's a good girl..... do get hungry sometimes tho lol | |||
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"me & my partner play this game we call it " would ya" wherever we are ie in town out drinking even the supermarket if one of us spots a hottie we would say lady green dress would ya? was always ladies with him been straight, i think its good to look x" Sound like a good solid relationship | |||
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"How does she feel about it?  "I chose not to tell her lol | |||
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"How does she feel about it?
I chose not to tell her lol"Why you even in a relationship?? Lying from the start is not good for relationship foundations Mr | |||
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"I feel so bad for pervin over u sexy lot now iv found my girl, I'm not meeting since iv been with her but miss the mucky fabbers. It's good to perv ....nothing wrong with it " | |||
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"How does she feel about it?
I chose not to tell her lol
Why you even in a relationship??
Lying from the start is not good for relationship foundations
Mr"It's not lying. She just hasn't told her. Just because you are with someone doesn't automatically mean you have to tell them absolutely everything. You are still your own person. | |||
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"How does she feel about it?
I chose not to tell her lol
Why you even in a relationship??
Lying from the start is not good for relationship foundations
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It's not lying. She just hasn't told her. Just because you are with someone doesn't automatically mean you have to tell them absolutely everything. You are still your own person."*he hasn't told | |||
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"How does she feel about it?
I chose not to tell her lol
Why you even in a relationship??
Lying from the start is not good for relationship foundations
Mr
It's not lying. She just hasn't told her. Just because you are with someone doesn't automatically mean you have to tell them absolutely everything. You are still your own person."Thank you,it's hard having a high sex drive and turning down lovely ladies in real life.as I said I'm not meeting but it's good to chat n drool over like minded ppl | |||
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"How does she feel about it?
I chose not to tell her lol
Why you even in a relationship??
Lying from the start is not good for relationship foundations
Mr
It's not lying. She just hasn't told her. Just because you are with someone doesn't automatically mean you have to tell them absolutely everything. You are still your own person."Yes you are your own person but the second you start hiding things your no longer openly communicating ..... having been in this situation that is a red flag, it started with hiding things then came the cheating. How can you have trust without honesty?!  | |||
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"How does she feel about it?
I chose not to tell her lol
Why you even in a relationship??
Lying from the start is not good for relationship foundations
Mr
It's not lying. She just hasn't told her. Just because you are with someone doesn't automatically mean you have to tell them absolutely everything. You are still your own person.
Yes you are your own person but the second you start hiding things your no longer openly communicating ..... having been in this situation that is a red flag, it started with hiding things then came the cheating.
How can you have trust without honesty?! "Do you honestly tell your partner every single thought of the day you have ? | |||
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"How does she feel about it?
I chose not to tell her lol
Why you even in a relationship??
Lying from the start is not good for relationship foundations
Mr
It's not lying. She just hasn't told her. Just because you are with someone doesn't automatically mean you have to tell them absolutely everything. You are still your own person.
Yes you are your own person but the second you start hiding things your no longer openly communicating ..... having been in this situation that is a red flag, it started with hiding things then came the cheating.
How can you have trust without honesty?!
Do you honestly tell your partner every single thought of the day you have ?"No but I'd imagine you'd tell a partner about being on a site like this while in a relationship. Whatever your reasons were for being here You have more than yourself to think about when you get with someone That seems to be a concept you can't get your bean around | |||
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"I feel so bad for pervin over u sexy lot now iv found my girl, I'm not meeting since iv been with her but miss the mucky fabbers." Just because you're on a diet doesn't mean you can't look at the menu | |||
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"How does she feel about it?
I chose not to tell her lol
Why you even in a relationship??
Lying from the start is not good for relationship foundations
Mr
It's not lying. She just hasn't told her. Just because you are with someone doesn't automatically mean you have to tell them absolutely everything. You are still your own person.
Yes you are your own person but the second you start hiding things your no longer openly communicating ..... having been in this situation that is a red flag, it started with hiding things then came the cheating.
How can you have trust without honesty?!
Do you honestly tell your partner every single thought of the day you have ?
No but I'd imagine you'd tell a partner about being on a site like this while in a relationship. Whatever your reasons were for being here
You have more than yourself to think about when you get with someone
That seems to be a concept you can't get your bean around"
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"How does she feel about it?
I chose not to tell her lol
Why you even in a relationship??
Lying from the start is not good for relationship foundations
Mr
It's not lying. She just hasn't told her. Just because you are with someone doesn't automatically mean you have to tell them absolutely everything. You are still your own person.
Yes you are your own person but the second you start hiding things your no longer openly communicating ..... having been in this situation that is a red flag, it started with hiding things then came the cheating.
How can you have trust without honesty?!
Do you honestly tell your partner every single thought of the day you have ?
No but I'd imagine you'd tell a partner about being on a site like this while in a relationship. Whatever your reasons were for being here
You have more than yourself to think about when you get with someone
That seems to be a concept you can't get your bean around"What he chooses to do or not to do is up to him. Don't start ordering someone about mush. | |||
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"How does she feel about it?
I chose not to tell her lol
Why you even in a relationship??
Lying from the start is not good for relationship foundations
Mr
It's not lying. She just hasn't told her. Just because you are with someone doesn't automatically mean you have to tell them absolutely everything. You are still your own person.
Yes you are your own person but the second you start hiding things your no longer openly communicating ..... having been in this situation that is a red flag, it started with hiding things then came the cheating.
How can you have trust without honesty?! "
Exactly
Wanting to look at other naked women and doing it too, is an order of magnitude different from random thoughts like, "did I lock the door", or "oh, he (or she) looks nice" | |||
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"How does she feel about it?
I chose not to tell her lol
Why you even in a relationship??
Lying from the start is not good for relationship foundations
Mr
It's not lying. She just hasn't told her. Just because you are with someone doesn't automatically mean you have to tell them absolutely everything. You are still your own person.
Yes you are your own person but the second you start hiding things your no longer openly communicating ..... having been in this situation that is a red flag, it started with hiding things then came the cheating.
How can you have trust without honesty?!
Do you honestly tell your partner every single thought of the day you have ?
No but I'd imagine you'd tell a partner about being on a site like this while in a relationship. Whatever your reasons were for being here
You have more than yourself to think about when you get with someone
That seems to be a concept you can't get your bean aroundWhat he chooses to do or not to do is up to him. Don't start ordering someone about mush."I don't think he did,plus the op did start a thread on a forum about it... Miss | |||
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"How does she feel about it?
I chose not to tell her lol
Why you even in a relationship??
Lying from the start is not good for relationship foundations
Mr
It's not lying. She just hasn't told her. Just because you are with someone doesn't automatically mean you have to tell them absolutely everything. You are still your own person.
Thank you,it's hard having a high sex drive and turning down lovely ladies in real life.as I said I'm not meeting but it's good to chat n drool over like minded ppl"That's fine.. In the view of people on a swinging site. Just putting this thought out there but im the eyes of a 'normal' (for lack of a more suitable word) person is looking at/ drooling other women's naked pictures fine? People have different ideas of whats being unfaithful so it may be an idea to tell her. If she finds out for herself and she does consider it to be an act of betrayal, it's not going to end well. Or maybe im over thinking it all completely but it might be something you could consider. | |||
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"How does she feel about it?
I chose not to tell her lol
Why you even in a relationship??
Lying from the start is not good for relationship foundations
Mr
It's not lying. She just hasn't told her. Just because you are with someone doesn't automatically mean you have to tell them absolutely everything. You are still your own person.
Yes you are your own person but the second you start hiding things your no longer openly communicating ..... having been in this situation that is a red flag, it started with hiding things then came the cheating.
How can you have trust without honesty?!
Do you honestly tell your partner every single thought of the day you have ?
No but I'd imagine you'd tell a partner about being on a site like this while in a relationship. Whatever your reasons were for being here
You have more than yourself to think about when you get with someone
That seems to be a concept you can't get your bean aroundWhat he chooses to do or not to do is up to him. Don't start ordering someone about mush.
I don't think he did,plus the op did start a thread on a forum about it...
Miss"Ok insult, belittle, take the high road, act superior to someone who has a different idea to your own. Difference is a good thing. | |||
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"How does she feel about it?
I chose not to tell her lol
Why you even in a relationship??
Lying from the start is not good for relationship foundations
Mr
It's not lying. She just hasn't told her. Just because you are with someone doesn't automatically mean you have to tell them absolutely everything. You are still your own person.
Yes you are your own person but the second you start hiding things your no longer openly communicating ..... having been in this situation that is a red flag, it started with hiding things then came the cheating.
How can you have trust without honesty?!
Do you honestly tell your partner every single thought of the day you have ?
No but I'd imagine you'd tell a partner about being on a site like this while in a relationship. Whatever your reasons were for being here
You have more than yourself to think about when you get with someone
That seems to be a concept you can't get your bean aroundWhat he chooses to do or not to do is up to him. Don't start ordering someone about mush.
I don't think he did,plus the op did start a thread on a forum about it...
MissOk insult, belittle, take the high road, act superior to someone who has a different idea to your own. Difference is a good thing. "I agree,but we are allowed our own opinions and many will disagree ,this is the nature of the forums.Many feel strongly about some subjects,so if people don't want to hear opinions,maybe best not starting threads. | |||
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"How does she feel about it?
I chose not to tell her lol
Why you even in a relationship??
Lying from the start is not good for relationship foundations
Mr
It's not lying. She just hasn't told her. Just because you are with someone doesn't automatically mean you have to tell them absolutely everything. You are still your own person.
Yes you are your own person but the second you start hiding things your no longer openly communicating ..... having been in this situation that is a red flag, it started with hiding things then came the cheating.
How can you have trust without honesty?! "There's such a thing as discretion and timing...why do you have to tell someone everything about yourself immediately? It's something that if he wishes to disclose he can do slowly over time rather than instantly like ripping off a plaster. It's not deceitful or dishonest, maybe it's simply caution? There's still a lot of controversy over what swinging is on this site, let alone the vanilla world after all...everyone has their own ideas, and if it's new to someone then they're quite likely to have a distorted view due to society / media...just my thoughts | |||
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"How does she feel about it?
I chose not to tell her lol
Why you even in a relationship??
Lying from the start is not good for relationship foundations
Mr
It's not lying. She just hasn't told her. Just because you are with someone doesn't automatically mean you have to tell them absolutely everything. You are still your own person.
Yes you are your own person but the second you start hiding things your no longer openly communicating ..... having been in this situation that is a red flag, it started with hiding things then came the cheating.
How can you have trust without honesty?!
Do you honestly tell your partner every single thought of the day you have ?
No but I'd imagine you'd tell a partner about being on a site like this while in a relationship. Whatever your reasons were for being here
You have more than yourself to think about when you get with someone
That seems to be a concept you can't get your bean aroundWhat he chooses to do or not to do is up to him. Don't start ordering someone about mush."I'm not ordering anyone around.. 
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"How does she feel about it?
I chose not to tell her lol
Why you even in a relationship??
Lying from the start is not good for relationship foundations
Mr
It's not lying. She just hasn't told her. Just because you are with someone doesn't automatically mean you have to tell them absolutely everything. You are still your own person.
Yes you are your own person but the second you start hiding things your no longer openly communicating ..... having been in this situation that is a red flag, it started with hiding things then came the cheating.
How can you have trust without honesty?!
Do you honestly tell your partner every single thought of the day you have ?
No but I'd imagine you'd tell a partner about being on a site like this while in a relationship. Whatever your reasons were for being here
You have more than yourself to think about when you get with someone
That seems to be a concept you can't get your bean aroundWhat he chooses to do or not to do is up to him. Don't start ordering someone about mush.
I don't think he did,plus the op did start a thread on a forum about it...
MissOk insult, belittle, take the high road, act superior to someone who has a different idea to your own. Difference is a good thing.
I agree,but we are allowed our own opinions and many will disagree ,this is the nature of the forums.Many feel strongly about some subjects,so if people don't want to hear opinions,maybe best not starting threads."It just grinds my fucking gears "oh maybe you can't your bean around it lalala" cock womble! | |||
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"How does she feel about it?
I chose not to tell her lol
Why you even in a relationship??
Lying from the start is not good for relationship foundations
Mr
It's not lying. She just hasn't told her. Just because you are with someone doesn't automatically mean you have to tell them absolutely everything. You are still your own person.
Yes you are your own person but the second you start hiding things your no longer openly communicating ..... having been in this situation that is a red flag, it started with hiding things then came the cheating.
How can you have trust without honesty?!
Do you honestly tell your partner every single thought of the day you have ?
No but I'd imagine you'd tell a partner about being on a site like this while in a relationship. Whatever your reasons were for being here
You have more than yourself to think about when you get with someone
That seems to be a concept you can't get your bean around"I just don't understand why he needs to tell her. Will she tell him every website she looks at? I single doubt it. Couples are made up of 2 separate people, with separate minds. Not joined at the hip. | |||
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"How does she feel about it?
I chose not to tell her lol
Why you even in a relationship??
Lying from the start is not good for relationship foundations
Mr
It's not lying. She just hasn't told her. Just because you are with someone doesn't automatically mean you have to tell them absolutely everything. You are still your own person.
Yes you are your own person but the second you start hiding things your no longer openly communicating ..... having been in this situation that is a red flag, it started with hiding things then came the cheating.
How can you have trust without honesty?!
Exactly
Wanting to look at other naked women and doing it too, is an order of magnitude different from random thoughts like, "did I lock the door", or "oh, he (or she) looks nice""So are you saying if your in a relationship then you're not allowed to look at any other naked people  | |||
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"How does she feel about it?
I chose not to tell her lol
Why you even in a relationship??
Lying from the start is not good for relationship foundations
Mr
It's not lying. She just hasn't told her. Just because you are with someone doesn't automatically mean you have to tell them absolutely everything. You are still your own person.
Yes you are your own person but the second you start hiding things your no longer openly communicating ..... having been in this situation that is a red flag, it started with hiding things then came the cheating.
How can you have trust without honesty?!
Exactly
Wanting to look at other naked women and doing it too, is an order of magnitude different from random thoughts like, "did I lock the door", or "oh, he (or she) looks nice"
So are you saying if your in a relationship then you're not allowed to look at any other naked people "No; but I would tell my boyfriend that is what I wanted to do; why would I want to hide it from him? We have gone a teensy weensy bit further; we have told each other that we want sex with other people | |||
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"How does she feel about it?
I chose not to tell her lol
Why you even in a relationship??
Lying from the start is not good for relationship foundations
Mr
It's not lying. She just hasn't told her. Just because you are with someone doesn't automatically mean you have to tell them absolutely everything. You are still your own person.
Yes you are your own person but the second you start hiding things your no longer openly communicating ..... having been in this situation that is a red flag, it started with hiding things then came the cheating.
How can you have trust without honesty?!
Exactly
Wanting to look at other naked women and doing it too, is an order of magnitude different from random thoughts like, "did I lock the door", or "oh, he (or she) looks nice"
So are you saying if your in a relationship then you're not allowed to look at any other naked people
No; but I would tell my boyfriend that is what I wanted to do; why would I want to hide it from him?
We have gone a teensy weensy bit further; we have told each other that we want sex with other people "Careful lol I don't feel the need to explain all of my thoughts and actions to anyone, some yes, not all. I'm not owned. | |||
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"Couples who perv together, stay together. " Same as many couples who do it separately. | |||
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"What the difference between him perving on Hera to watching porn surely same thing if he not meeting others, so would he have tell her if was sitting watching porn" Obviously | |||
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"How does she feel about it?
I chose not to tell her lol
Why you even in a relationship??
Lying from the start is not good for relationship foundations
Mr
It's not lying. She just hasn't told her. Just because you are with someone doesn't automatically mean you have to tell them absolutely everything. You are still your own person.
Yes you are your own person but the second you start hiding things your no longer openly communicating ..... having been in this situation that is a red flag, it started with hiding things then came the cheating.
How can you have trust without honesty?!
Exactly
Wanting to look at other naked women and doing it too, is an order of magnitude different from random thoughts like, "did I lock the door", or "oh, he (or she) looks nice"
So are you saying if your in a relationship then you're not allowed to look at any other naked people
No; but I would tell my boyfriend that is what I wanted to do; why would I want to hide it from him?
We have gone a teensy weensy bit further; we have told each other that we want sex with other people
Careful lol I don't feel the need to explain all of my thoughts and actions to anyone, some yes, not all. I'm not owned. "Neither one of us owns the other nor do we explain anything to each other; we keep each other informed of what we want and do | |||
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"How does she feel about it?
I chose not to tell her lol
Why you even in a relationship??
Lying from the start is not good for relationship foundations
Mr
It's not lying. She just hasn't told her. Just because you are with someone doesn't automatically mean you have to tell them absolutely everything. You are still your own person.
Yes you are your own person but the second you start hiding things your no longer openly communicating ..... having been in this situation that is a red flag, it started with hiding things then came the cheating.
How can you have trust without honesty?!
Exactly
Wanting to look at other naked women and doing it too, is an order of magnitude different from random thoughts like, "did I lock the door", or "oh, he (or she) looks nice"
So are you saying if your in a relationship then you're not allowed to look at any other naked people
No; but I would tell my boyfriend that is what I wanted to do; why would I want to hide it from him?
We have gone a teensy weensy bit further; we have told each other that we want sex with other people
Careful lol I don't feel the need to explain all of my thoughts and actions to anyone, some yes, not all. I'm not owned.
Neither one of us owns the other nor do we explain anything to each other; we keep each other informed of what we want and do"Precisely my point. You're not owned. So each person is entitled to live their life as they wish. You choose to kero your partner informed. | |||
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"How does she feel about it?
I chose not to tell her lol
Why you even in a relationship??
Lying from the start is not good for relationship foundations
Mr
It's not lying. She just hasn't told her. Just because you are with someone doesn't automatically mean you have to tell them absolutely everything. You are still your own person.
Yes you are your own person but the second you start hiding things your no longer openly communicating ..... having been in this situation that is a red flag, it started with hiding things then came the cheating.
How can you have trust without honesty?!
Exactly
Wanting to look at other naked women and doing it too, is an order of magnitude different from random thoughts like, "did I lock the door", or "oh, he (or she) looks nice"
So are you saying if your in a relationship then you're not allowed to look at any other naked people
No; but I would tell my boyfriend that is what I wanted to do; why would I want to hide it from him?
We have gone a teensy weensy bit further; we have told each other that we want sex with other people
Careful lol I don't feel the need to explain all of my thoughts and actions to anyone, some yes, not all. I'm not owned.
Neither one of us owns the other nor do we explain anything to each other; we keep each other informed of what we want and do
Precisely my point. You're not owned. So each person is entitled to live their life as they wish. You choose to kero your partner informed. "*keep | |||
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