FabSwingers.com forum: Rude people

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Most people on here know that there is more men then women. As a result a lot of messages are received each day. Sometimes I have over 100 messages in my inbox and it's impossible to go through each one and reply to every message. I appreciate that someone has taken the time to write a message but out of those 100+ messages say only 10 I'm interested in is it rude not to reply to the others especially as usually they will reply to ask why ur not interested. If someone doesn't reply to me and deletes my message I just leave it as they aren't interested I've never sent a rude message back

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

People have different opinions regarding whether it's rude or not to not reply. The FAQs state it isn't, but there are people who take this very seriously.

I don't reply if I'm not interested. I've only ever had a couple of people messaging me about it, but I post the relevant FAQ section and block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's fine not to reply if you aren't interested but most men on here think it's rude...

However it's in the FAQs so they can just lump it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I didn't know it was in there I often get called rude because I haven't replied I will quote the FAQ next time thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was talking to someone they asked for a facepic once they got it they just logged out now im paranoid.

Healtmelters dot com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you pester someone and be rude if they never replied to your pm. Never understand that.

Embarrassing and sounding desperate isn't going to change someone's mind to meet and have wonderful sex. Not going to happen. Bruised egos can bring the worst out of a person.

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By *lue NarwhalMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

People are a strange bunch at best..

But at worst, they are outright appalling..

Just ignore the rude Bastards and just remember that it's more than likely the reason they are hanging around fab, hoping for a shag as they never keep a relationship long enough to progress to having sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was talking to someone they asked for a facepic once they got it they just logged out now im paranoid.

Healtmelters dot com "

Had that happen lots of times. Must of been hit with the ugly stick when I was a kid.

Does make you think.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why would you pester someone and be rude if they never replied to your pm. Never understand that.

Embarrassing and sounding desperate isn't going to change someone's mind to meet and have wonderful sex. Not going to happen. Bruised egos can bring the worst out of a person.

That's the thing if someone starts being rude to me I don't think "OMG I must have u now" lol

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Use your message filters op ,they can help cut down the amount yyou get too.

Miss

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

If it is a decent message but I have no interest in the sender then I will sometimes reply with a polite no thanks, not always but I may. If it is a bog standard hi or FaF it just gets deleted.

The main reason I don't reply is that once I change or reset my message filters those I have mailed in the past can send me another message. If Fab had a box I could tick that basically said I'm replying but I want no further contact with this profile, I would reply more often.

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Most people on here know that there is more men then women. As a result a lot of messages are received each day. Sometimes I have over 100 messages in my inbox and it's impossible to go through each one and reply to every message. I appreciate that someone has taken the time to write a message but out of those 100+ messages say only 10 I'm interested in is it rude not to reply to the others especially as usually they will reply to ask why ur not interested. If someone doesn't reply to me and deletes my message I just leave it as they aren't interested I've never sent a rude message back "

So pleased you do so well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't be arsed replying to loads of messages, so I just make sure I don't get them in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was talking to someone they asked for a facepic once they got it they just logged out now im paranoid.

Healtmelters dot com

Had that happen lots of times. Must of been hit with the ugly stick when I was a kid.

Does make you think.

Yeah im no model allright im reporting that fucker.

Im allright now but that was a half an hours worth of paranoia there

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