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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do you make if this?

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By *eal Deal PartiesWoman
over a year ago

x

Block and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two choices.

You can be adults about and discuss. Or you can block each other.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does this happen regularly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Two choices.

You can be adults about and discuss. Or you can block each other. "

What if said person was out of my preference range and was on my facebook with about 200 mutual friends lol

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Consider your pics...you have a distinctive tattoo, and the background could be identified by someone you know...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yea the tat is quite obvious lol so its safe to say im busted

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By *ong legs n LingeireWoman
over a year ago

it up to me neck. :-)


"What do you make if this? "

Happened to me twice. I blocked both times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Run for the hills.

Someone I worked with was a member and messaged me through Fab. We didn't work very closely so only kind of knew each other, but she then always wanted to chat about Fab when I saw her at work, it all became very awkward and left me feeling exposed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has only happened once, I had an inner WTF for 5 minutes & then blocked him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Two choices.

You can be adults about and discuss. Or you can block each other.

What if said person was out of my preference range and was on my facebook with about 200 mutual friends lol"

Well, consider that that person is also here for carefree sex with strangers. You discuss it like adults and agree to keep each other's secret. We've done it with friends outside of fab who are on here. We steer clear of each other here. We don't mention it when we meet in social circles. If you're good friends then it's not that difficult to talk about it rationally and in a mature way.

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

It's happened to me once. It was an old fb, so wasn't an issue.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Yea the tat is quite obvious lol so its safe to say im busted "

So...learn from this.

Change your pics so there are no identifying features next time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you make if this? "

You got a message? Hi5

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What do you make if this?

You got a message? Hi5

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lol there wasnt a face pic in sight so yea

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By *im le2Man
over a year ago

AYLESTONE

One of my neighbours is also on fab So what . We are Bothe discreet about it . Did laugh when we realised but by then not much we could do . It's only a problem if you make it one .

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By *im le2Man
over a year ago

AYLESTONE

Have a look at who's near online . Prob half a dozen local ppl on fab . They prob sit next to you in your local pub etc .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't sweat it. They're clearly using the site as well so in the same boat as you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's never happened to me, but I'd just block them and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had it on a site I used to use. We are actually distantly related. I just blocked him and eradicated the pics he sent from my mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Old friend from school just got chatting never met don't think they're on here anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had it on a site I used to use. We are actually distantly related. I just blocked him and eradicated the pics he sent from my mind. "

This is where mind bleach is a Fab essential.

M

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

I've messaged a lady, where I fitted her preferences, but never had a reply. Normal situation for a single man.

Later found out that we worked together at that time (different departments, same building)

She's changed jobs and spoken to me since.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One of my neighbours is also on fab So what . We are Bothe discreet about it . Did laugh when we realised but by then not much we could do . It's only a problem if you make it one . "
thats true. I dont want to divulge too much in the forums but its a bit more complicated than that. But as said theres not alot i can do now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been in that suitation. A married guy I know mailed me. I just told him that we knew each other and moved on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has only happened once, I had an inner WTF for 5 minutes & then blocked him."
........un related but dam there you looking lovely n rocking them biker boots n cheerleader get up ......very underrated look lol .....met a couple last minute Friday with my partner she whent on that tip as we were at my place n last minute so it ended up stockings n Basque n biker boots ....hot as foook lol x

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By *urious couple22Couple
over a year ago

Derby

This happened to me, I saw they had viewed us a few times and they eventually sent a message. It was at that point I realised they didn't know so I messed about with them abit letting them know I clearly knew them and kept giving them clues as to who I was. I have known the guy about 9 years and he's on my facebook etc. I just messaged him and said this part of my life is private... He said same but was more shocked that I was actually on here ??

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never happened to me but if it did I would love it not see the problem as that's y we are all on here. Just as long as it's discreet and safe no problem

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