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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *s ParisWoman
over a year ago

My Dungeon Room

I took the last 2 posts on the last one lol

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By *eeky goodnessMan
over a year ago

Worcester


"I took the last 2 posts on the last one lol"

So you broke the thread naughty naughty

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I took the last 2 posts on the last one lol"

In reply of your last post, I'm doing good thanks

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By *s ParisWoman
over a year ago

My Dungeon Room


"I took the last 2 posts on the last one lol

So you broke the thread naughty naughty "

Guilty as charged I broke it

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Well best get on and decorate the house ready for tomorrow otherwise I'll be up till stupid o'clock doing it

So I'll say good night to you all now

Sweet sexy dreams peeps x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good night everyone

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By *eeky goodnessMan
over a year ago

Worcester


"Well best get on and decorate the house ready for tomorrow otherwise I'll be up till stupid o'clock doing it

So I'll say good night to you all now

Sweet sexy dreams peeps x "

Good night curvy hope you sleep well

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By *eeky goodnessMan
over a year ago

Worcester


"good night everyone "

Good night miss sultry hope you sleep tight and have sweet dreams

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"good night everyone

Good night miss sultry hope you sleep tight and have sweet dreams "

hope so got another early one

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By *eeky goodnessMan
over a year ago

Worcester


"I took the last 2 posts on the last one lol

So you broke the thread naughty naughty

Guilty as charged I broke it "

Usually a spanking is in order for that but I'll leave that upto the OP to decide

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"good night everyone "

Nighty night Sultry. Mwah. Sleep well

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well best get on and decorate the house ready for tomorrow otherwise I'll be up till stupid o'clock doing it

So I'll say good night to you all now

Sweet sexy dreams peeps x "

Nighty night Curvy. Sleep well

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I took the last 2 posts on the last one lol

So you broke the thread naughty naughty

Guilty as charged I broke it

Usually a spanking is in order for that but I'll leave that upto the OP to decide "

I think we should both spank her don't you think

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By *eeky goodnessMan
over a year ago

Worcester


"I took the last 2 posts on the last one lol

So you broke the thread naughty naughty

Guilty as charged I broke it

Usually a spanking is in order for that but I'll leave that upto the OP to decide

I think we should both spank her don't you think "

I think the lovely lady should decide on her spanking preferences

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I took the last 2 posts on the last one lol

So you broke the thread naughty naughty

Guilty as charged I broke it

Usually a spanking is in order for that but I'll leave that upto the OP to decide

I think we should both spank her don't you think

I think the lovely lady should decide on her spanking preferences "

Yes indeed

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By *s ParisWoman
over a year ago

My Dungeon Room

I have a question to ask the lovely guys and gals on this bbw chat forum please if i may? more advice really it's on my profile I don't meet, the reason for this is I had a bad meet 3yrs ago that left me seriously hurt and hospitalised. anyway ive not found the confidence to meet or swing since, the fear stops me in my tracks each time I try, the many abusive messages I get on a regular basis from guys that are into fat shaming makes it all the more difficult for me. any thoughts and or ideas how I might find the confidence to get going again I'd appreciate any advice thank you everyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a question to ask the lovely guys and gals on this bbw chat forum please if i may? more advice really it's on my profile I don't meet, the reason for this is I had a bad meet 3yrs ago that left me seriously hurt and hospitalised. anyway ive not found the confidence to meet or swing since, the fear stops me in my tracks each time I try, the many abusive messages I get on a regular basis from guys that are into fat shaming makes it all the more difficult for me. any thoughts and or ideas how I might find the confidence to get going again I'd appreciate any advice thank you everyone "

I'm so sorry to hear what has happened to you those years ago. If I could give you a big hug, I would. It is very brave of you to tell us about this. It is always good to be among friends who care about you and will be there to help you out

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By *eeky goodnessMan
over a year ago

Worcester

In answer to you're question miss Paris is a very hard one because in a simple way is the only way is for you to find the confidence but I know only to well that is easier said than done but I know you can do it maybe club meets as its an organised event and lots of people so you are safe and to those blokes fat shaming you don't take any notice of those arseholes excuse my language but they are and they are projecting there own insecurities on to others

all I see when I look at you is a gorgeous beautiful sexy lovely woman keep smiling and you're chin up

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By *s ParisWoman
over a year ago

My Dungeon Room


"I have a question to ask the lovely guys and gals on this bbw chat forum please if i may? more advice really it's on my profile I don't meet, the reason for this is I had a bad meet 3yrs ago that left me seriously hurt and hospitalised. anyway ive not found the confidence to meet or swing since, the fear stops me in my tracks each time I try, the many abusive messages I get on a regular basis from guys that are into fat shaming makes it all the more difficult for me. any thoughts and or ideas how I might find the confidence to get going again I'd appreciate any advice thank you everyone

I'm so sorry to hear what has happened to you those years ago. If I could give you a big hug, I would. It is very brave of you to tell us about this. It is always good to be among friends who care about you and will be there to help you out"

Thank you spindler

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By *s ParisWoman
over a year ago

My Dungeon Room


"In answer to you're question miss Paris is a very hard one because in a simple way is the only way is for you to find the confidence but I know only to well that is easier said than done but I know you can do it maybe club meets as its an organised event and lots of people so you are safe and to those blokes fat shaming you don't take any notice of those arseholes excuse my language but they are and they are projecting there own insecurities on to others

all I see when I look at you is a gorgeous beautiful sexy lovely woman keep smiling and you're chin up "

Thank you geeky we don't really have clubs here in ireland and the ones in the UK are all stairs which I can no longer manage since my meet incident so I'm stuck as they say

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a question to ask the lovely guys and gals on this bbw chat forum please if i may? more advice really it's on my profile I don't meet, the reason for this is I had a bad meet 3yrs ago that left me seriously hurt and hospitalised. anyway ive not found the confidence to meet or swing since, the fear stops me in my tracks each time I try, the many abusive messages I get on a regular basis from guys that are into fat shaming makes it all the more difficult for me. any thoughts and or ideas how I might find the confidence to get going again I'd appreciate any advice thank you everyone

I'm so sorry to hear what has happened to you those years ago. If I could give you a big hug, I would. It is very brave of you to tell us about this. It is always good to be among friends who care about you and will be there to help you out

Thank you spindler"

You're very welcome. Like what Geeky said. Take no notice of those scumbags as they are immature and insecure of themselves.

You are a gorgeous beautiful woman. Trust in yourself and you can achieve anything

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By *eeky goodnessMan
over a year ago

Worcester


"In answer to you're question miss Paris is a very hard one because in a simple way is the only way is for you to find the confidence but I know only to well that is easier said than done but I know you can do it maybe club meets as its an organised event and lots of people so you are safe and to those blokes fat shaming you don't take any notice of those arseholes excuse my language but they are and they are projecting there own insecurities on to others

all I see when I look at you is a gorgeous beautiful sexy lovely woman keep smiling and you're chin up

Thank you geeky we don't really have clubs here in ireland and the ones in the UK are all stairs which I can no longer manage since my meet incident so I'm stuck as they say"

You're very welcome just the truth and oh I see oh I'm so sorry for what that person did they don't even deserve to be called a person I'm not a violent person but I don't like people who hurt women

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By *eeky goodnessMan
over a year ago

Worcester


"I have a question to ask the lovely guys and gals on this bbw chat forum please if i may? more advice really it's on my profile I don't meet, the reason for this is I had a bad meet 3yrs ago that left me seriously hurt and hospitalised. anyway ive not found the confidence to meet or swing since, the fear stops me in my tracks each time I try, the many abusive messages I get on a regular basis from guys that are into fat shaming makes it all the more difficult for me. any thoughts and or ideas how I might find the confidence to get going again I'd appreciate any advice thank you everyone

I'm so sorry to hear what has happened to you those years ago. If I could give you a big hug, I would. It is very brave of you to tell us about this. It is always good to be among friends who care about you and will be there to help you out

Thank you spindler

You're very welcome. Like what Geeky said. Take no notice of those scumbags as they are immature and insecure of themselves.

You are a gorgeous beautiful woman. Trust in yourself and you can achieve anything "

Well said mr spin

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By *s ParisWoman
over a year ago

My Dungeon Room

Thank you both for your replies i very much appreciate it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a question to ask the lovely guys and gals on this bbw chat forum please if i may? more advice really it's on my profile I don't meet, the reason for this is I had a bad meet 3yrs ago that left me seriously hurt and hospitalised. anyway ive not found the confidence to meet or swing since, the fear stops me in my tracks each time I try, the many abusive messages I get on a regular basis from guys that are into fat shaming makes it all the more difficult for me. any thoughts and or ideas how I might find the confidence to get going again I'd appreciate any advice thank you everyone

I'm so sorry to hear what has happened to you those years ago. If I could give you a big hug, I would. It is very brave of you to tell us about this. It is always good to be among friends who care about you and will be there to help you out

Thank you spindler

You're very welcome. Like what Geeky said. Take no notice of those scumbags as they are immature and insecure of themselves.

You are a gorgeous beautiful woman. Trust in yourself and you can achieve anything

Well said mr spin "

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thank you both for your replies i very much appreciate it"

You're very welcome again Ms Paris

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By *eeky goodnessMan
over a year ago

Worcester


"Thank you both for your replies i very much appreciate it"

You're very welcome always here if you need someone

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By *eeky goodnessMan
over a year ago

Worcester

So are there any lovely bbw's wanting a spanking?

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over a year ago

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By *eeky goodnessMan
over a year ago

Worcester


"[Removed by poster at 05/02/17 00:02:42]"

Welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a question to ask the lovely guys and gals on this bbw chat forum please if i may? more advice really it's on my profile I don't meet, the reason for this is I had a bad meet 3yrs ago that left me seriously hurt and hospitalised. anyway ive not found the confidence to meet or swing since, the fear stops me in my tracks each time I try, the many abusive messages I get on a regular basis from guys that are into fat shaming makes it all the more difficult for me. any thoughts and or ideas how I might find the confidence to get going again I'd appreciate any advice thank you everyone "

Hi miss Paris, you were obviously subjected to a nasty experience. Once way of getting your confidence back would be to make friends with other BBW''s and to attend BBW club nights with them, meeting other beautiful ladies and their admirers. It will involve you having to be brave and get out there. But hopefully meeting people in a public arena with friends will help. By the way we love your pictures. Hope this helps? Amber and Colin. X

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By *eeky goodnessMan
over a year ago

Worcester


"I have a question to ask the lovely guys and gals on this bbw chat forum please if i may? more advice really it's on my profile I don't meet, the reason for this is I had a bad meet 3yrs ago that left me seriously hurt and hospitalised. anyway ive not found the confidence to meet or swing since, the fear stops me in my tracks each time I try, the many abusive messages I get on a regular basis from guys that are into fat shaming makes it all the more difficult for me. any thoughts and or ideas how I might find the confidence to get going again I'd appreciate any advice thank you everyone

Hi miss Paris, you were obviously subjected to a nasty experience. Once way of getting your confidence back would be to make friends with other BBW''s and to attend BBW club nights with them, meeting other beautiful ladies and their admirers. It will involve you having to be brave and get out there. But hopefully meeting people in a public arena with friends will help. By the way we love your pictures. Hope this helps? Amber and Colin. X"

Sounds like very good advice to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a question to ask the lovely guys and gals on this bbw chat forum please if i may? more advice really it's on my profile I don't meet, the reason for this is I had a bad meet 3yrs ago that left me seriously hurt and hospitalised. anyway ive not found the confidence to meet or swing since, the fear stops me in my tracks each time I try, the many abusive messages I get on a regular basis from guys that are into fat shaming makes it all the more difficult for me. any thoughts and or ideas how I might find the confidence to get going again I'd appreciate any advice thank you everyone

Hi miss Paris, you were obviously subjected to a nasty experience. Once way of getting your confidence back would be to make friends with other BBW''s and to attend BBW club nights with them, meeting other beautiful ladies and their admirers. It will involve you having to be brave and get out there. But hopefully meeting people in a public arena with friends will help. By the way we love your pictures. Hope this helps? Amber and Colin. X

Sounds like very good advice to me "

I agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I'm heading off now to get some sleep. Goodnight everybody. Sleep well

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By *eeky goodnessMan
over a year ago

Worcester


"Well I'm heading off now to get some sleep. Goodnight everybody. Sleep well "

Good night mate I think I'll be going soon myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey all my phone's not back yet but iv stolen pixies phone for now hehee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm heading off now to get some sleep. Goodnight everybody. Sleep well "

Aww noo mate you off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm heading off now to get some sleep. Goodnight everybody. Sleep well

Good night mate I think I'll be going soon myself "

Wassup geeky

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By *eeky goodnessMan
over a year ago

Worcester


"Hey all my phone's not back yet but iv stolen pixies phone for now hehee "

Naughty naughty lol

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By *eeky goodnessMan
over a year ago

Worcester


"Well I'm heading off now to get some sleep. Goodnight everybody. Sleep well

Good night mate I think I'll be going soon myself

Wassup geeky "

Nothing unfortunately lol haven't got a lady here with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey all my phone's not back yet but iv stolen pixies phone for now hehee

Naughty naughty lol "

Pixie says hey

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By *eeky goodnessMan
over a year ago

Worcester


"Hey all my phone's not back yet but iv stolen pixies phone for now hehee

Naughty naughty lol

Pixie says hey "

Say hey back for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey all my phone's not back yet but iv stolen pixies phone for now hehee

Naughty naughty lol

Pixie says hey

Say hey back for me "
she says I'm busy good vibrations

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By *eeky goodnessMan
over a year ago

Worcester


"Hey all my phone's not back yet but iv stolen pixies phone for now hehee

Naughty naughty lol

Pixie says hey

Say hey back for me she says I'm busy good vibrations "

Oh I see lol I won't bother her then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey all my phone's not back yet but iv stolen pixies phone for now hehee

Naughty naughty lol

Pixie says hey

Say hey back for me she says I'm busy good vibrations

Oh I see lol I won't bother her then lol "

Its all good hehee I already am

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By *eeky goodnessMan
over a year ago

Worcester


"Hey all my phone's not back yet but iv stolen pixies phone for now hehee

Naughty naughty lol

Pixie says hey

Say hey back for me she says I'm busy good vibrations

Oh I see lol I won't bother her then lol

Its all good hehee I already am "

You are a very lucky man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *eeky goodnessMan
over a year ago

Worcester


"Hey all my phone's not back yet but iv stolen pixies phone for now hehee

Naughty naughty lol

Pixie says hey

Say hey back for me she says I'm busy good vibrations

Oh I see lol I won't bother her then lol

Its all good hehee I already am

You are a very lucky man

Mmmmmm if only you knew hehee lucky indeed "

Good good remember to lavish her with attention and lots of pleasure but don't let me distract you

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By *eeky goodnessMan
over a year ago

Worcester


"[Removed by poster at 05/02/17 00:56:05]"

That lucky huh haha

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By *eeky goodnessMan
over a year ago

Worcester

Right I'm off to bed night if anyone is still awake lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey all my phone's not back yet but iv stolen pixies phone for now hehee

Naughty naughty lol

Pixie says hey

Say hey back for me she says I'm busy good vibrations

Oh I see lol I won't bother her then lol

Its all good hehee I already am

You are a very lucky man

Mmmmmm if only you knew hehee lucky indeed

Good good remember to lavish her with attention and lots of pleasure but don't let me distract you "

Hehehe sorry dude was distracted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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That lucky huh haha "

Indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right I'm off to bed night if anyone is still awake lol "

Night buddy

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By *eeky goodnessMan
over a year ago

Worcester


"Right I'm off to bed night if anyone is still awake lol

Night buddy "

I couldn't sleep and haha i bet you were distracted naughty naughty

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By *eeky goodnessMan
over a year ago

Worcester


"Hey all my phone's not back yet but iv stolen pixies phone for now hehee

Naughty naughty lol

Pixie says hey

Say hey back for me she says I'm busy good vibrations

Oh I see lol I won't bother her then lol

Its all good hehee I already am

You are a very lucky man

Mmmmmm if only you knew hehee lucky indeed

Good good remember to lavish her with attention and lots of pleasure but don't let me distract you

Hehehe sorry dude was distracted "

Have you been distracted again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right I'm off to bed night if anyone is still awake lol

Night buddy "

awww nice to see your still alive lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well good morning everyone. I had a bit more sleep last night lol, after an exiting fri evening. I wont say with who as they havent said anything and not fair if they keeping mum lol. Hopefully I will catch up with the sleep later

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By *asked_Rider17Man
over a year ago

London/Liverpool

Hi Ms Paris just read your post so sorry to here about your bad meet. As geek said take no notice these scumbags who think it's ok to abuse people for their own ends. There is no easy way to get back in to meets etc... It's like falling of a bike you just have get back on it. I would say plan a social first and see how that goes before moving to the next step. If you have female friends that are into swinging or on the scene. Then perhaps plan a weekend somewhere with a club that doesn't have stairs etc... I know a few clubs in London and the surrounding where everything's is all on the one level PM and I will let let you know. It's sounds like you have a friends and support on the scenes they may be the key to helping you getting over this. I hope this helps x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Ms Paris just read your post so sorry to here about your bad meet. As geek said take no notice these scumbags who think it's ok to abuse people for their own ends. There is no easy way to get back in to meets etc... It's like falling of a bike you just have get back on it. I would say plan a social first and see how that goes before moving to the next step. If you have female friends that are into swinging or on the scene. Then perhaps plan a weekend somewhere with a club that doesn't have stairs etc... I know a few clubs in London and the surrounding where everything's is all on the one level PM and I will let let you know. It's sounds like you have a friends and support on the scenes they may be the key to helping you getting over this. I hope this helps x"

This is really good advice Ms Paris

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By *ixftthreeukMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Good morning x


"well good morning everyone. I had a bit more sleep last night lol, after an exiting fri evening. I wont say with who as they havent said anything and not fair if they keeping mum lol. Hopefully I will catch up with the sleep later "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good morning x

well good morning everyone. I had a bit more sleep last night lol, after an exiting fri evening. I wont say with who as they havent said anything and not fair if they keeping mum lol. Hopefully I will catch up with

the sleep later "

Morning how are you?

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By *ixftthreeukMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I'm good thanks How's it going? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm good thanks How's it going? X"

im good thank you.

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over a year ago


"well good morning everyone. I had a bit more sleep last night lol, after an exiting fri evening. I wont say with who as they havent said anything and not fair if they keeping mum lol. Hopefully I will catch up with the sleep later "

Good morning we had a fantastic night together Friday but it wasn't mentioned on thread while together as you requested that the phones were not in use I'm being cheeky and pixies letting me use her phone to check up on things and see your ok too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Morning perverts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

morning gang good morning fett you male tart you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

chef you know us sooooooo well and good morning I have a sore throat xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not the only one to be fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well good morning everyone. I had a bit more sleep last night lol, after an exiting fri evening. I wont say with who as they havent said anything and not fair if they keeping mum lol. Hopefully I will catch up with the sleep later

Good morning we had a fantastic night together Friday but it wasn't mentioned on thread while together as you requested that the phones were not in use I'm being cheeky and pixies letting me use her phone to check up on things and see your ok too xx "

I did offer to let you use my phone but you refused lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"chef you know us sooooooo well and good morning I have a sore throat xx"

told you why lol

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"I have a question to ask the lovely guys and gals on this bbw chat forum please if i may? more advice really it's on my profile I don't meet, the reason for this is I had a bad meet 3yrs ago that left me seriously hurt and hospitalised. anyway ive not found the confidence to meet or swing since, the fear stops me in my tracks each time I try, the many abusive messages I get on a regular basis from guys that are into fat shaming makes it all the more difficult for me. any thoughts and or ideas how I might find the confidence to get going again I'd appreciate any advice thank you everyone "

Tough one. I guess the best advice would be to meet someone of a thread such as this one who you've gotten to know a bit. Someone who's verified by a meet. Someone who knows you might want to take it slow.

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Isn't morning sex nice

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"Isn't morning sex nice "

yeah its great

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

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"Not the only one to be fair"
you had a meet? xx

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

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Morning you beautiful curvalicious creations.

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over a year ago

hi there hows you xx

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chef im sure sex would be very nice with you anytime of the day xx

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over a year ago

not long now Kat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a question to ask the lovely guys and gals on this bbw chat forum please if i may? more advice really it's on my profile I don't meet, the reason for this is I had a bad meet 3yrs ago that left me seriously hurt and hospitalised. anyway ive not found the confidence to meet or swing since, the fear stops me in my tracks each time I try, the many abusive messages I get on a regular basis from guys that are into fat shaming makes it all the more difficult for me. any thoughts and or ideas how I might find the confidence to get going again I'd appreciate any advice thank you everyone "

Good morning Paris there's a few seperate issues I can identify here although the full story isn't disclosed, which isn't for the thread as is highly sensitive and personal and obviously still emotional for you, abuse is a far reaching destructive entity that takes a life of its own and can sap away the self image, self worth and cause untold internal damage, personally I would suggest speaking with someone who's been through it and come out the other side, pixie has offered to speak with you privately if you would like to

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By *az1Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Morning guys. Hope you all have a great day and get up to something very naughty

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"well good morning everyone. I had a bit more sleep last night lol, after an exiting fri evening. I wont say with who as they havent said anything and not fair if they keeping mum lol. Hopefully I will catch up with the sleep later

Good morning we had a fantastic night together Friday but it wasn't mentioned on thread while together as you requested that the phones were not in use I'm being cheeky and pixies letting me use her phone to check up on things and see your ok too xx

I did offer to let you use my phone but you refused lol. "

Aww I thought your request of not using the phones was more important to adhere to as it seemed an issue for you darlin no harm done speak away about it

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"not long now Kat"
nope xx

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"well good morning everyone. I had a bit more sleep last night lol, after an exiting fri evening. I wont say with who as they havent said anything and not fair if they keeping mum lol. Hopefully I will catch up with the sleep later

Good morning we had a fantastic night together Friday but it wasn't mentioned on thread while together as you requested that the phones were not in use I'm being cheeky and pixies letting me use her phone to check up on things and see your ok too xx

I did offer to let you use my phone but you refused lol.

Aww I thought your request of not using the phones was more important to adhere to as it seemed an issue for you darlin no harm done speak away about it "

jist remember I do have pm to see how I am

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hi waz I hope to be getting very naughty again this afternoon but there will be no spanking xx

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"hi waz I hope to be getting very naughty again this afternoon but there will be no spanking xx"

your bruised enough lol

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"morning gang good morning fett you male tart you xx"

Tart or Manwhore as pixie calls me sultry smiles and says I'm encourageable or also a tart hehehe

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"hi waz I hope to be getting very naughty again this afternoon but there will be no spanking xx

your bruised enough lol"
I know lol dread to think what people at the club will be thinking xx

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"morning gang good morning fett you male tart you xx

Tart or Manwhore as pixie calls me sultry smiles and says I'm encourageable or also a tart hehehe "
you are all of the above and then some xx

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"hi waz I hope to be getting very naughty again this afternoon but there will be no spanking xx

your bruised enough lol I know lol dread to think what people at the club will be thinking xx"

that u like spanking

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"morning gang good morning fett you male tart you xx

Tart or Manwhore as pixie calls me sultry smiles and says I'm encourageable or also a tart hehehe "

im keeping quiet

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"Morning guys. Hope you all have a great day and get up to something very naughty "

Morning....im pure innocence

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Morning all xx

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By (user no longer on site)
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well im off guys. i have stuff to do. boring stuff at that.

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"hi waz I hope to be getting very naughty again this afternoon but there will be no spanking xx

your bruised enough lol I know lol dread to think what people at the club will be thinking xx

that u like spanking"
bahahahaaaaaaaa xx

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morning pixie glad your having fun xx

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bye for now vixen xx

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"bye for now vixen xx"

pm you later lovey

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"morning pixie glad your having fun xx"

Apparently I'm infuriating and trouble hahahaha xx

I'm actually playing gooseberry today....mini me is in charge

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"bye for now vixen xx

pm you later lovey "

Hi & bye...have a good day x

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"bye for now vixen xx

pm you later lovey "
ok hun xx

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"morning pixie glad your having fun xx

Apparently I'm infuriating and trouble hahahaha xx

I'm actually playing gooseberry today....mini me is in charge "
lol and oh well im sure fetts worn out anyway 2 lovely ladies in a many days xx

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"bye for now vixen xx

pm you later lovey

Hi & bye...have a good day x"

will try.

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By *az1Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"hi waz I hope to be getting very naughty again this afternoon but there will be no spanking xx"

A spank a day keeps the doctor away xx

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

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over a year ago

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"hi waz I hope to be getting very naughty again this afternoon but there will be no spanking xx

A spank a day keeps the doctor away xx "
my arse is a wee bit bruised xx

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we off to chams this afternoon xx

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By (user no longer on site)
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Hi if _s paris sees this id kindly like to help you get your confidence back

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"morning gang good morning fett you male tart you xx

Tart or Manwhore as pixie calls me sultry smiles and says I'm encourageable or also a tart hehehe

im keeping quiet"

Well manwhore you'll have to pick who's the best soon!! Very much looking forward to our fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
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omg not you too lemon hes working his way through the thread lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
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"omg not you too lemon hes working his way through the thread lol x"

Yup and me and pixie get to have a bj off together with him. Then he really will have to pick!

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"omg not you too lemon hes working his way through the thread lol x

Yup and me and pixie get to have a bj off together with him. Then he really will have to pick! "
ohhhhhh so your all having a fmf

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"omg not you too lemon hes working his way through the thread lol x

Yup and me and pixie get to have a bj off together with him. Then he really will have to pick! "

His egos never getting back in this thread hahahah

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By *BW star and DocCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Morning all x

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"Morning all x"
morning you having a good weekend xx

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By *BW star and DocCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Morning all x morning you having a good weekend xx"

Not bad thanks but he's not well so haven't seen each other for few days now. I see you are x x

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I have a question to ask the lovely guys and gals on this bbw chat forum please if i may? more advice really it's on my profile I don't meet, the reason for this is I had a bad meet 3yrs ago that left me seriously hurt and hospitalised. anyway ive not found the confidence to meet or swing since, the fear stops me in my tracks each time I try, the many abusive messages I get on a regular basis from guys that are into fat shaming makes it all the more difficult for me. any thoughts and or ideas how I might find the confidence to get going again I'd appreciate any advice thank you everyone "

Sorry - taken me three times to post this because I was so upset by your first message!

This is awful - both the fact that you were attacked and that random strangers see fit to contact you and insult you!

I have a quick peek at these threads from time to time - partly because I like _urvymama and they were her idea, as it were!

With regard to your attack I hope that you've had the loving support of friends and family. If not - if you feel isolated - I'm sure many fabbers near you would offer the hand of friendship!

With regard to the awful messages - all I can suggest is that the second you see the first insulting word - block, report, delete and try to forget (hard I know!) the fact that you're on BBW chat thread no 168 (or thereabouts) is evidence enough that there is a huge network on fab both of BBW's and their admirers - take heart from this!

Thirdly - moving forward re swinging!

I assume it will be some time before you are ready for a private meet - and fear of unpleasantness (if your confidence is low) would make going to a general club night an issue!

I therefore have two suggestions:

1) go to a social (there are plenty posted regularly on the forums. If you consider a general social too risky (though I doubt you'd get insulted face to face - bullies seem to hide behind keyboards these days!) - then are there bbw and admirers socials? (If there aren't - surely that's the next step to what is proving a very successful set of threads?)

2) - almost every swinging club has BBW and admirers events! These are safe environments which are monitored by staff, and where those attending either have your body type or are attracted to those with your body type. If you're looking to socialise and, if it feels right, play - then one of these would be perfect for you!

If you don't have someone to go with then feel free to come visit me and I'll take you to a bbw admirers night at my local club - I believe they do rather well!

Huge, huge hugs - and remember there are many more nice people in the world than tossers (that came out as toasters three times in spellcheck! ) - the tossers just have louder voices!

Peachy xxx

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"Morning all x morning you having a good weekend xx"

Back later...not having fun still playing gooseberry to Fett Feet and Mini me hahaha

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By *BW star and DocCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Morning all x morning you having a good weekend xx

Back later...not having fun still playing gooseberry to Fett Feet and Mini me hahaha"

Lol aww OK x x

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"Morning all x morning you having a good weekend xx

Not bad thanks but he's not well so haven't seen each other for few days now. I see you are x x"
ohhhh that's not good hope hes better soon and yes its been good xx

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By *BW star and DocCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Morning all x morning you having a good weekend xx

Not bad thanks but he's not well so haven't seen each other for few days now. I see you are x x ohhhh that's not good hope hes better soon and yes its been good xx"

He is getting there. Thanks. In better news I lost 2.5lb this week. 11lb to date now. So happy x x

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"Morning all x morning you having a good weekend xx

Not bad thanks but he's not well so haven't seen each other for few days now. I see you are x x ohhhh that's not good hope hes better soon and yes its been good xx

He is getting there. Thanks. In better news I lost 2.5lb this week. 11lb to date now. So happy x x"
hey that's great well done I only stayed the same xx

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By *BW star and DocCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Morning all x morning you having a good weekend xx

Not bad thanks but he's not well so haven't seen each other for few days now. I see you are x x ohhhh that's not good hope hes better soon and yes its been good xx

He is getting there. Thanks. In better news I lost 2.5lb this week. 11lb to date now. So happy x x hey that's great well done I only stayed the same xx"

Thank-you. That's good hun. Better than a gain. X x

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"Morning all x morning you having a good weekend xx

Not bad thanks but he's not well so haven't seen each other for few days now. I see you are x x ohhhh that's not good hope hes better soon and yes its been good xx

He is getting there. Thanks. In better news I lost 2.5lb this week. 11lb to date now. So happy x x hey that's great well done I only stayed the same xx

Thank-you. That's good hun. Better than a gain. X x"
your welcome and yep that's true specially as im jut doing my own thing xx

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By *BW star and DocCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Morning all x morning you having a good weekend xx

Not bad thanks but he's not well so haven't seen each other for few days now. I see you are x x ohhhh that's not good hope hes better soon and yes its been good xx

He is getting there. Thanks. In better news I lost 2.5lb this week. 11lb to date now. So happy x x hey that's great well done I only stayed the same xx

Thank-you. That's good hun. Better than a gain. X x your welcome and yep that's true specially as im jut doing my own thing xx"

Exactly. Well done x x

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"Morning all x morning you having a good weekend xx

Not bad thanks but he's not well so haven't seen each other for few days now. I see you are x x ohhhh that's not good hope hes better soon and yes its been good xx

He is getting there. Thanks. In better news I lost 2.5lb this week. 11lb to date now. So happy x x hey that's great well done I only stayed the same xx

Thank-you. That's good hun. Better than a gain. X x your welcome and yep that's true specially as im jut doing my own thing xx

Exactly. Well done x x"
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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I have a question to ask the lovely guys and gals on this bbw chat forum please if i may? more advice really it's on my profile I don't meet, the reason for this is I had a bad meet 3yrs ago that left me seriously hurt and hospitalised. anyway ive not found the confidence to meet or swing since, the fear stops me in my tracks each time I try, the many abusive messages I get on a regular basis from guys that are into fat shaming makes it all the more difficult for me. any thoughts and or ideas how I might find the confidence to get going again I'd appreciate any advice thank you everyone

Sorry - taken me three times to post this because I was so upset by your first message!

This is awful - both the fact that you were attacked and that random strangers see fit to contact you and insult you!

I have a quick peek at these threads from time to time - partly because I like _urvymama and they were her idea, as it were!

With regard to your attack I hope that you've had the loving support of friends and family. If not - if you feel isolated - I'm sure many fabbers near you would offer the hand of friendship!

With regard to the awful messages - all I can suggest is that the second you see the first insulting word - block, report, delete and try to forget (hard I know!) the fact that you're on BBW chat thread no 168 (or thereabouts) is evidence enough that there is a huge network on fab both of BBW's and their admirers - take heart from this!

Thirdly - moving forward re swinging!

I assume it will be some time before you are ready for a private meet - and fear of unpleasantness (if your confidence is low) would make going to a general club night an issue!

I therefore have two suggestions:

1) go to a social (there are plenty posted regularly on the forums. If you consider a general social too risky (though I doubt you'd get insulted face to face - bullies seem to hide behind keyboards these days!) - then are there bbw and admirers socials? (If there aren't - surely that's the next step to what is proving a very successful set of threads?)

2) - almost every swinging club has BBW and admirers events! These are safe environments which are monitored by staff, and where those attending either have your body type or are attracted to those with your body type. If you're looking to socialise and, if it feels right, play - then one of these would be perfect for you!

If you don't have someone to go with then feel free to come visit me and I'll take you to a bbw admirers night at my local club - I believe they do rather well!

Huge, huge hugs - and remember there are many more nice people in the world than tossers (that came out as toasters three times in spellcheck! ) - the tossers just have louder voices!

Peachy xxx"

Well I didn't really have much time online yesterday getting everything sorted for my twincesses birthday today, but I couldn't have said this better myself.

We all have knocks to our confidence every now and again, you've been extremely unfortunate to take such an harsh one Ms Paris and I'm sorry to hear it's happened. Some people are just arseholes and to block and report them is the way forward, although going with the sickly sweet nice approach when responding to them is good, in my experience tends to actually piss them off more than a block would and you've probably witnessed me take that approach to some individuals that have tried to roll on these threads, ones that haven't really bothered posting again since (see it really works )

I know Ireland is short on the swing club front but they're usually are plenty of socials to attend to mingle and help boost confidence

Would a hotel meet be ideal for a private meet (when you're ready) all hotels have staff just a quick call away, most will have an emergency produced where you pick up the phone and press just one specific number to call for emergency assistence or a emergency silent alarm button away for if things go wrong.

Once you start to put yourself back out there your confidence will grow again.

Best of luck to you xx

Ps Thanks for complement peach xx

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK


"I have a question to ask the lovely guys and gals on this bbw chat forum please if i may? more advice really it's on my profile I don't meet, the reason for this is I had a bad meet 3yrs ago that left me seriously hurt and hospitalised. anyway ive not found the confidence to meet or swing since, the fear stops me in my tracks each time I try, the many abusive messages I get on a regular basis from guys that are into fat shaming makes it all the more difficult for me. any thoughts and or ideas how I might find the confidence to get going again I'd appreciate any advice thank you everyone "

Firstly I'm so sorry that happened to you. I'd like to compliment you on your pictures and profile, it puts my own to shame x

I think its more about baby steps, so chatting and flirting really Ms Paris. Take as long as you need, seek out those respectful folks and gently build that confidence. It's still there, it just needs time and the right stimulae x

I'm probably lots of miles away from you but if there is any support I can give or if you'd like a natter, that's fine.

Best wishes x

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I have a question to ask the lovely guys and gals on this bbw chat forum please if i may? more advice really it's on my profile I don't meet, the reason for this is I had a bad meet 3yrs ago that left me seriously hurt and hospitalised. anyway ive not found the confidence to meet or swing since, the fear stops me in my tracks each time I try, the many abusive messages I get on a regular basis from guys that are into fat shaming makes it all the more difficult for me. any thoughts and or ideas how I might find the confidence to get going again I'd appreciate any advice thank you everyone

Sorry - taken me three times to post this because I was so upset by your first message!

This is awful - both the fact that you were attacked and that random strangers see fit to contact you and insult you!

I have a quick peek at these threads from time to time - partly because I like _urvymama and they were her idea, as it were!

With regard to your attack I hope that you've had the loving support of friends and family. If not - if you feel isolated - I'm sure many fabbers near you would offer the hand of friendship!

With regard to the awful messages - all I can suggest is that the second you see the first insulting word - block, report, delete and try to forget (hard I know!) the fact that you're on BBW chat thread no 168 (or thereabouts) is evidence enough that there is a huge network on fab both of BBW's and their admirers - take heart from this!

Thirdly - moving forward re swinging!

I assume it will be some time before you are ready for a private meet - and fear of unpleasantness (if your confidence is low) would make going to a general club night an issue!

I therefore have two suggestions:

1) go to a social (there are plenty posted regularly on the forums. If you consider a general social too risky (though I doubt you'd get insulted face to face - bullies seem to hide behind keyboards these days!) - then are there bbw and admirers socials? (If there aren't - surely that's the next step to what is proving a very successful set of threads?)

2) - almost every swinging club has BBW and admirers events! These are safe environments which are monitored by staff, and where those attending either have your body type or are attracted to those with your body type. If you're looking to socialise and, if it feels right, play - then one of these would be perfect for you!

If you don't have someone to go with then feel free to come visit me and I'll take you to a bbw admirers night at my local club - I believe they do rather well!

Huge, huge hugs - and remember there are many more nice people in the world than tossers (that came out as toasters three times in spellcheck! ) - the tossers just have louder voices!

Peachy xxx

Well I didn't really have much time online yesterday getting everything sorted for my twincesses birthday today, but I couldn't have said this better myself.

We all have knocks to our confidence every now and again, you've been extremely unfortunate to take such an harsh one Ms Paris and I'm sorry to hear it's happened. Some people are just arseholes and to block and report them is the way forward, although going with the sickly sweet nice approach when responding to them is good, in my experience tends to actually piss them off more than a block would and you've probably witnessed me take that approach to some individuals that have tried to roll on these threads, ones that haven't really bothered posting again since (see it really works )

I know Ireland is short on the swing club front but they're usually are plenty of socials to attend to mingle and help boost confidence

Would a hotel meet be ideal for a private meet (when you're ready) all hotels have staff just a quick call away, most will have an emergency produced where you pick up the phone and press just one specific number to call for emergency assistence or a emergency silent alarm button away for if things go wrong.

Once you start to put yourself back out there your confidence will grow again.

Best of luck to you xx

Ps Thanks for complement peach xx"

You're welcome lovely! Hope the girls' party goes well!!

I DO think arranging BBW/admirers socials is the obvious next step from this thread though - particularly if other ladies are experiencing these kind of nasty messages regularly too! Giggles, drinks and mutual support is probably exactly what's needed!

Big hugs Curvy

Peachy xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would anyone be interested in joining a nice bbw kik group ?

I could get one started up for us xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would anyone be interested in joining a nice bbw kik group ?

I could get one started up for us xxxx "

I dont use kik

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would anyone be interested in joining a nice bbw kik group ?

I could get one started up for us xxxx "

Possibly, depends who uses it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would anyone be interested in joining a nice bbw kik group ?

I could get one started up for us xxxx

Possibly, depends who uses it "

Up to now it's me and you lol

We'd have to make a few rules up to keep the weirdos out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would anyone be interested in joining a nice bbw kik group ?

I could get one started up for us xxxx

Possibly, depends who uses it

Up to now it's me and you lol

We'd have to make a few rules up to keep the weirdos out lol "

Hahahaha!! Perfect!

First rule, I'm the only female allowed! Lol!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would anyone be interested in joining a nice bbw kik group ?

I could get one started up for us xxxx

Possibly, depends who uses it

Up to now it's me and you lol

We'd have to make a few rules up to keep the weirdos out lol

Hahahaha!! Perfect!

First rule, I'm the only female allowed! Lol!! "

good response lemon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would anyone be interested in joining a nice bbw kik group ?

I could get one started up for us xxxx

Possibly, depends who uses it

Up to now it's me and you lol

We'd have to make a few rules up to keep the weirdos out lol

Hahahaha!! Perfect!

First rule, I'm the only female allowed! Lol!!

good response lemon "

I get my pick of all the men then!!! I don't like to share

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would anyone be interested in joining a nice bbw kik group ?

I could get one started up for us xxxx

Possibly, depends who uses it

Up to now it's me and you lol

We'd have to make a few rules up to keep the weirdos out lol

Hahahaha!! Perfect!

First rule, I'm the only female allowed! Lol!! "

Lol lemon xx

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I'll be one of the men then. Pick away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would anyone be interested in joining a nice bbw kik group ?

I could get one started up for us xxxx

Possibly, depends who uses it

Up to now it's me and you lol

We'd have to make a few rules up to keep the weirdos out lol

Hahahaha!! Perfect!

First rule, I'm the only female allowed! Lol!!

good response lemon

I get my pick of all the men then!!! I don't like to share "

unfortunatley you have to on this site lol. but yeah i like a one to one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would anyone be interested in joining a nice bbw kik group ?

I could get one started up for us xxxx

Possibly, depends who uses it

Up to now it's me and you lol

We'd have to make a few rules up to keep the weirdos out lol

Hahahaha!! Perfect!

First rule, I'm the only female allowed! Lol!!

good response lemon

I get my pick of all the men then!!! I don't like to share

unfortunatley you have to on this site lol. but yeah i like a one to one "

Move up north sultry and you could have me all to yourself X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would anyone be interested in joining a nice bbw kik group ?

I could get one started up for us xxxx

Possibly, depends who uses it

Up to now it's me and you lol

We'd have to make a few rules up to keep the weirdos out lol

Hahahaha!! Perfect!

First rule, I'm the only female allowed! Lol!!

good response lemon

I get my pick of all the men then!!! I don't like to share

unfortunatley you have to on this site lol. but yeah i like a one to one

Move up north sultry and you could have me all to yourself X "

haha thats nice of you

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By *BW star and DocCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Would anyone be interested in joining a nice bbw kik group ?

I could get one started up for us xxxx "

I would be interested x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would anyone be interested in joining a nice bbw kik group ?

I could get one started up for us xxxx

Possibly, depends who uses it

Up to now it's me and you lol

We'd have to make a few rules up to keep the weirdos out lol

Hahahaha!! Perfect!

First rule, I'm the only female allowed! Lol!!

good response lemon

I get my pick of all the men then!!! I don't like to share

unfortunatley you have to on this site lol. but yeah i like a one to one "

Believe me, once I've been tried, I won't have to share lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would anyone be interested in joining a nice bbw kik group ?

I could get one started up for us xxxx

Possibly, depends who uses it

Up to now it's me and you lol

We'd have to make a few rules up to keep the weirdos out lol

Hahahaha!! Perfect!

First rule, I'm the only female allowed! Lol!!

good response lemon

I get my pick of all the men then!!! I don't like to share

unfortunatley you have to on this site lol. but yeah i like a one to one "

Pmsfl

Laughing at this comment because if you meet someone you get accused of stealing someone else's men

I've had that said to me on more than one occasion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would anyone be interested in joining a nice bbw kik group ?

I could get one started up for us xxxx

I would be interested x x"

That's 3 of us

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By *BW star and DocCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Would anyone be interested in joining a nice bbw kik group ?

I could get one started up for us xxxx

I would be interested x x

That's 3 of us "

I believe that's enough. . .yes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would anyone be interested in joining a nice bbw kik group ?

I could get one started up for us xxxx

Possibly, depends who uses it

Up to now it's me and you lol

We'd have to make a few rules up to keep the weirdos out lol

Hahahaha!! Perfect!

First rule, I'm the only female allowed! Lol!!

good response lemon

I get my pick of all the men then!!! I don't like to share

unfortunatley you have to on this site lol. but yeah i like a one to one

Pmsfl

Laughing at this comment because if you meet someone you get accused of stealing someone else's men

I've had that said to me on more than one occasion "

Really?! Good lord!! Why would someone do that? Unless you find someone who is looking to be "exclusive" no one has the right to do that.

But then this place has got some odd ones on here! So I'm not sure why I'm surprised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would anyone be interested in joining a nice bbw kik group ?

I could get one started up for us xxxx

Possibly, depends who uses it

Up to now it's me and you lol

We'd have to make a few rules up to keep the weirdos out lol

Hahahaha!! Perfect!

First rule, I'm the only female allowed! Lol!!

good response lemon

I get my pick of all the men then!!! I don't like to share

unfortunatley you have to on this site lol. but yeah i like a one to one

Pmsfl

Laughing at this comment because if you meet someone you get accused of stealing someone else's men

I've had that said to me on more than one occasion

Really?! Good lord!! Why would someone do that? Unless you find someone who is looking to be "exclusive" no one has the right to do that.

But then this place has got some odd ones on here! So I'm not sure why I'm surprised. "

Oh you will be suprised how much lamp post pissing goes on on this site

And the bitching that goes on if a guy meets you before someone else or they decide to meet you rather than someone else

I've experienced it a lot

But hey ho I put it down to my outstanding personality as to why they choose me and the fact I'm normal and don't hassle people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would anyone be interested in joining a nice bbw kik group ?

I could get one started up for us xxxx

Possibly, depends who uses it

Up to now it's me and you lol

We'd have to make a few rules up to keep the weirdos out lol

Hahahaha!! Perfect!

First rule, I'm the only female allowed! Lol!!

good response lemon

I get my pick of all the men then!!! I don't like to share

unfortunatley you have to on this site lol. but yeah i like a one to one

Pmsfl

Laughing at this comment because if you meet someone you get accused of stealing someone else's men

I've had that said to me on more than one occasion

Really?! Good lord!! Why would someone do that? Unless you find someone who is looking to be "exclusive" no one has the right to do that.

But then this place has got some odd ones on here! So I'm not sure why I'm surprised.

Oh you will be suprised how much lamp post pissing goes on on this site

And the bitching that goes on if a guy meets you before someone else or they decide to meet you rather than someone else

I've experienced it a lot

But hey ho I put it down to my outstanding personality as to why they choose me and the fact I'm normal and don't hassle people "

I've seen a little bit of it!

Totally agree, if guys want to chat etc then I'm happy to do that but I don't chase after them if they stop, screams desperation and stalker tendencies. Total put off of a guy does it to me so i would imagine it's just as bad for them for women to do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would anyone be interested in joining a nice bbw kik group ?

I could get one started up for us xxxx

Possibly, depends who uses it

Up to now it's me and you lol

We'd have to make a few rules up to keep the weirdos out lol

Hahahaha!! Perfect!

First rule, I'm the only female allowed! Lol!!

good response lemon

I get my pick of all the men then!!! I don't like to share

unfortunatley you have to on this site lol. but yeah i like a one to one

Pmsfl

Laughing at this comment because if you meet someone you get accused of stealing someone else's men

I've had that said to me on more than one occasion

Really?! Good lord!! Why would someone do that? Unless you find someone who is looking to be "exclusive" no one has the right to do that.

But then this place has got some odd ones on here! So I'm not sure why I'm surprised.

Oh you will be suprised how much lamp post pissing goes on on this site

And the bitching that goes on if a guy meets you before someone else or they decide to meet you rather than someone else

I've experienced it a lot

But hey ho I put it down to my outstanding personality as to why they choose me and the fact I'm normal and don't hassle people

I've seen a little bit of it!

Totally agree, if guys want to chat etc then I'm happy to do that but I don't chase after them if they stop, screams desperation and stalker tendencies. Total put off of a guy does it to me so i would imagine it's just as bad for them for women to do it."

Ooo im game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well that shower was lovely and we don't do kik sorry xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would anyone be interested in joining a nice bbw kik group ?

I could get one started up for us xxxx

Possibly, depends who uses it

Up to now it's me and you lol

We'd have to make a few rules up to keep the weirdos out lol

Hahahaha!! Perfect!

First rule, I'm the only female allowed! Lol!!

good response lemon

I get my pick of all the men then!!! I don't like to share

unfortunatley you have to on this site lol. but yeah i like a one to one

Pmsfl

Laughing at this comment because if you meet someone you get accused of stealing someone else's men

I've had that said to me on more than one occasion

Really?! Good lord!! Why would someone do that? Unless you find someone who is looking to be "exclusive" no one has the right to do that.

But then this place has got some odd ones on here! So I'm not sure why I'm surprised.

Oh you will be suprised how much lamp post pissing goes on on this site

And the bitching that goes on if a guy meets you before someone else or they decide to meet you rather than someone else

I've experienced it a lot

But hey ho I put it down to my outstanding personality as to why they choose me and the fact I'm normal and don't hassle people

I've seen a little bit of it!

Totally agree, if guys want to chat etc then I'm happy to do that but I don't chase after them if they stop, screams desperation and stalker tendencies. Total put off of a guy does it to me so i would imagine it's just as bad for them for women to do it."

I just don't get it either

If someone wants to meet you they will

I've been on the recieving end of someone who in sheer desperation just constantly messaged me when I didn't answer their messages

Also I've seen in from the other side as well

I was on a meet and the guy I was with revised so many messages off someone on his phone because he hadn't messaged them back

Pissed us both off when his phone was constantly beeping all from the same person and they knew he was on a meet as spotted his location

That scream desperation and stalking

Something I would never lower myself to do

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"I have a question to ask the lovely guys and gals on this bbw chat forum please if i may? more advice really it's on my profile I don't meet, the reason for this is I had a bad meet 3yrs ago that left me seriously hurt and hospitalised. anyway ive not found the confidence to meet or swing since, the fear stops me in my tracks each time I try, the many abusive messages I get on a regular basis from guys that are into fat shaming makes it all the more difficult for me. any thoughts and or ideas how I might find the confidence to get going again I'd appreciate any advice thank you everyone "

Msparis you sound like you have had an awful time. I would say go to clubs/organised events. Maybe find another single female swinger in your area who would like to go to clubs & could do with the moral support of another single woman?

You are a beautiful woman so as far as the fat shamers? F*** em!

Mrs _d40

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By *s ParisWoman
over a year ago

My Dungeon Room

Hi everyone I just want to thank everyone that replied to my post your all very kind and I very much appreciate all the replies that you sent me and the pms thank you. The suggestions you've made are very helpful and have given me options to think about. I have tried a few coffee meets since, most were disasters so that put me off yet again,i have been fat shamed in public on coffee meets as well so just get up and leave, but I very much remain optimistic and don't let it get to me as much anymore. There are some lovely people on here and thankfully you outweigh the not so nice, it restores my faith a little knowing this. I will take on board all the ideas and suggestions and see where it takes me, I'll look around and see what clubs are accessible in the UK for me to go to, it perhaps is my best option to travel across to the uk with one or 2 friends and see how I get on thank you again for all the replies I appreciate all your kind words and advice you've been very helpful xxx

Paris xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Paris you look like a lovely lady and I really hope the fool got punished don't be ashamed of who you are hold your had up high and stick to fingers up to the haters any man that treats a lady like that is a waste of space (kat) and if you were closer we would of loved to go for coffee xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would anyone be interested in joining a nice bbw kik group ?

I could get one started up for us xxxx

Possibly, depends who uses it

Up to now it's me and you lol

We'd have to make a few rules up to keep the weirdos out lol

Hahahaha!! Perfect!

First rule, I'm the only female allowed! Lol!! "

Errmmm no hahahaha not until you admit you'd screw Channing Tatum lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone I just want to thank everyone that replied to my post your all very kind and I very much appreciate all the replies that you sent me and the pms thank you. The suggestions you've made are very helpful and have given me options to think about. I have tried a few coffee meets since, most were disasters so that put me off yet again,i have been fat shamed in public on coffee meets as well so just get up and leave, but I very much remain optimistic and don't let it get to me as much anymore. There are some lovely people on here and thankfully you outweigh the not so nice, it restores my faith a little knowing this. I will take on board all the ideas and suggestions and see where it takes me, I'll look around and see what clubs are accessible in the UK for me to go to, it perhaps is my best option to travel across to the uk with one or 2 friends and see how I get on thank you again for all the replies I appreciate all your kind words and advice you've been very helpful xxx

Paris xx"

I've had some similar issues on meets....I now insist that it's a daytime meet in public first xx

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Hi everyone I just want to thank everyone that replied to my post your all very kind and I very much appreciate all the replies that you sent me and the pms thank you. The suggestions you've made are very helpful and have given me options to think about. I have tried a few coffee meets since, most were disasters so that put me off yet again,i have been fat shamed in public on coffee meets as well so just get up and leave, but I very much remain optimistic and don't let it get to me as much anymore. There are some lovely people on here and thankfully you outweigh the not so nice, it restores my faith a little knowing this. I will take on board all the ideas and suggestions and see where it takes me, I'll look around and see what clubs are accessible in the UK for me to go to, it perhaps is my best option to travel across to the uk with one or 2 friends and see how I get on thank you again for all the replies I appreciate all your kind words and advice you've been very helpful xxx

Paris xx"

Glad you feel we've been of some help x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bbw kik group up and running

Message me with your kik id and I will add you !

A live selfie is needed to me or another admin when you join - it keeps the weirdos away

Cheers X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would anyone be interested in joining a nice bbw kik group ?

I could get one started up for us xxxx

Possibly, depends who uses it

Up to now it's me and you lol

We'd have to make a few rules up to keep the weirdos out lol

Hahahaha!! Perfect!

First rule, I'm the only female allowed! Lol!!

Errmmm no hahahaha not until you admit you'd screw Channing Tatum lol xx"

Possibly if he was the last man on earth!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would anyone be interested in joining a nice bbw kik group ?

I could get one started up for us xxxx

Possibly, depends who uses it

Up to now it's me and you lol

We'd have to make a few rules up to keep the weirdos out lol

Hahahaha!! Perfect!

First rule, I'm the only female allowed! Lol!!

good response lemon

I get my pick of all the men then!!! I don't like to share

unfortunatley you have to on this site lol. but yeah i like a one to one

Pmsfl

Laughing at this comment because if you meet someone you get accused of stealing someone else's men

I've had that said to me on more than one occasion

Really?! Good lord!! Why would someone do that? Unless you find someone who is looking to be "exclusive" no one has the right to do that.

But then this place has got some odd ones on here! So I'm not sure why I'm surprised.

Oh you will be suprised how much lamp post pissing goes on on this site

And the bitching that goes on if a guy meets you before someone else or they decide to meet you rather than someone else

I've experienced it a lot

But hey ho I put it down to my outstanding personality as to why they choose me and the fact I'm normal and don't hassle people

I've seen a little bit of it!

Totally agree, if guys want to chat etc then I'm happy to do that but I don't chase after them if they stop, screams desperation and stalker tendencies. Total put off of a guy does it to me so i would imagine it's just as bad for them for women to do it."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Afternoon everyone. How are you all today?

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"Afternoon everyone. How are you all today? "

good thanks !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Afternoon everyone. How are you all today?

good thanks ! "

Glad to hear it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey all... I'm not one for this kinda thing but here goes....No one knows me or my life. I'm very guarded and have my reasons. MsParis and her honesty made me want to do the same....not looking for attention or pity. But sick of everyone thinking they know me, my type, my life. You don't!!

I'm here to make genuine friends with like minded people. End of...if you don't like or understand why I've done this....just block me...makes life a lot easier!!!

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By *ew_adventures2000Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

hi room. what does everyone think of my GF. I see this chat is aboutique bbw she always thinks she big but I don't think she is. what does the room think about her?

message who ever can intrigued to find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey all... I'm not one for this kinda thing but here goes....No one knows me or my life. I'm very guarded and have my reasons. MsParis and her honesty made me want to do the same....not looking for attention or pity. But sick of everyone thinking they know me, my type, my life. You don't!!

I'm here to make genuine friends with like minded people. End of...if you don't like or understand why I've done this....just block me...makes life a lot easier!!!

"

Well said xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey all... I'm not one for this kinda thing but here goes....No one knows me or my life. I'm very guarded and have my reasons. MsParis and her honesty made me want to do the same....not looking for attention or pity. But sick of everyone thinking they know me, my type, my life. You don't!!

I'm here to make genuine friends with like minded people. End of...if you don't like or understand why I've done this....just block me...makes life a lot easier!!!

Well said xx"

Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey all... I'm not one for this kinda thing but here goes....No one knows me or my life. I'm very guarded and have my reasons. MsParis and her honesty made me want to do the same....not looking for attention or pity. But sick of everyone thinking they know me, my type, my life. You don't!!

I'm here to make genuine friends with like minded people. End of...if you don't like or understand why I've done this....just block me...makes life a lot easier!!!

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey all... I'm not one for this kinda thing but here goes....No one knows me or my life. I'm very guarded and have my reasons. MsParis and her honesty made me want to do the same....not looking for attention or pity. But sick of everyone thinking they know me, my type, my life. You don't!!

I'm here to make genuine friends with like minded people. End of...if you don't like or understand why I've done this....just block me...makes life a lot easier!!!

"

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Afternoon all.

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By *northernsoulMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Afternoon all. "

Aye up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Afternoon all. "

Afternoon

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Afternoon all.

Aye up!"

Bit quiet around here today. I think most are off having too much fun elsewhere.

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