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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've just been told I come across as arrogant, do some people mistake confidence for arrogance, I know I'm not the best thing since sliced bread. What do you think?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I think I couldn't possibly form a judgement based on one side of an argument...

And anyway, life's too short.

Really.

There's better things to do.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It's a fine line between confidence and arrogance.

I believe we are as much what others see us as as we see ourselves. If arrogance is the term used for you by more than a couple of people you might want to reappraise your view of confidence. Or, just ignore it and carry on being happy and confident in yourself.

I'm often accused of being up my own arse so at times I must be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is your confidence real or is faux : to hide your insecurities ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the replies, I think you are all possibly right, life is short, its a fine line between the two and we all have insecurities.

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

Don't like sliced bread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just been told I come across as arrogant, do some people mistake confidence for arrogance, I know I'm not the best thing since sliced bread. What do you think? "

without knowing you I couldn't possibly make such an informed opinion...

but generally speaking, I think men who think they are dominant are often just overbearing or arrogant..

obviously that's just my opinion

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I've just been told I come across as arrogant, do some people mistake confidence for arrogance, I know I'm not the best thing since sliced bread. What do you think? "

Yes some people do mistake confidence for arrogance but its quite easy to tell the difference.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"but generally speaking, I think men who think they are dominant are often just overbearing or arrogant..

obviously that's just my opinion"

I agree though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just been told I come across as arrogant, do some people mistake confidence for arrogance, I know I'm not the best thing since sliced bread. What do you think? "

I think it depends on what your idea of confident is

Yes i do think some people mistake confidance with arrogancy, some people are to arrogant to realise they are arrogant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but generally speaking, I think men who think they are dominant are often just overbearing or arrogant..

obviously that's just my opinion

I agree though "

oh god me too

Most Dom men have no idea what being Dom is

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales


"I've just been told I come across as arrogant, do some people mistake confidence for arrogance, I know I'm not the best thing since sliced bread. What do you think? "

Confidence can sometimes be interpreted as arrogance, it all depends on how it's delivered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not arrogant, I'm just better than everyone else

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By *igerclawsCouple
over a year ago

cork

If you feel comfortable with who you are then live life as you see fit!!

If others can't see you for who you are then that's their loss happy fabbing xx

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo


"I've just been told I come across as arrogant, do some people mistake confidence for arrogance, I know I'm not the best thing since sliced bread. What do you think?

Yes some people do mistake confidence for arrogance but its quite easy to tell the difference."

I usually think confident people just get on quietly with things allowing others to form an unbiased opinion about them whereas arrogant types draw a lot of attention to themselves and make sure everyone else is left in no doubt about what they're doing, how 'good' they are at it etc.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Ask your friends or family..How can we make such judgements on here, without knowing you?

Wish you well in making changes if necessary..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you think? "

Lots. I couldn't list everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who thinks I'm cute even if I'm bratty and arrogant ?

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By *oiretblancCouple
over a year ago

London

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By *lue Eyed SwingMan
over a year ago

W London

Barack Obama – confident

Donald J Trump – arrogant

Jason Bourne – confident

James Bond – arrogant

Steve McQueen – confident

Sean Penn , Christian Bale, Vin Diesel, Idris Elba - arrogant

Madonna - confident

Lady Gaga – arrogant

Stevie Wonder – confident

Snoop Dog – arrogant

Scarlett Moffatt (Goggle Box) – confident

Kim Kardashian – arrogant

Lionel Messi - confident

Cristiano Renaldo - arrogant

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If we're expressing ourselves and behaving in a style that others perceive to be something like arrogance, then it's potentially great to get such feedback.

There's no right and wrong but it's valuable to get it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just been told I come across as arrogant, do some people mistake confidence for arrogance, I know I'm not the best thing since sliced bread. What do you think? "

I'm awesome.

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By *mber GamblerCouple
over a year ago

rugby


"Barack Obama – confident

Donald J Trump – arrogant

Jason Bourne – confident

James Bond – arrogant

Steve McQueen – confident

Sean Penn , Christian Bale, Vin Diesel, Idris Elba - arrogant

Madonna - confident

Lady Gaga – arrogant

Stevie Wonder – confident

Snoop Dog – arrogant

Scarlett Moffatt (Goggle Box) – confident

Kim Kardashian – arrogant

Lionel Messi - confident

Cristiano Renaldo - arrogant

"

Haha. That's ace.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Barack Obama – confident

Donald J Trump – arrogant

Jason Bourne – confident

James Bond – arrogant

Steve McQueen – confident

Sean Penn , Christian Bale, Vin Diesel, Idris Elba - arrogant

Madonna - confident

Lady Gaga – arrogant

Stevie Wonder – confident

Snoop Dog – arrogant

Scarlett Moffatt (Goggle Box) – confident

Kim Kardashian – arrogant

Lionel Messi - confident

Cristiano Renaldo - arrogant

Haha. That's ace.

"

It's pretty good but Lady GaGa is far from arrogant and Scarlett Moffat ( Gogglebox ) isn't exactly confident more ignorant of her own ignorance.

Tickles me how gogglebox people get gogglebox after their name. Happens often. Granny-Crumpet (FabSwingers )

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I've just been told I come across as arrogant, do some people mistake confidence for arrogance, I know I'm not the best thing since sliced bread. What do you think? "

I think this PaFiveCal..........

If you've 'just been told' I mean JUST been told, i'm assuming it's by a total stranger on a swingers site via the message system.

No context, no knowledge of either of you and too many possibilities.

Why worry?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just been told I come across as arrogant, do some people mistake confidence for arrogance, I know I'm not the best thing since sliced bread. What do you think?

without knowing you I couldn't possibly make such an informed opinion...

but generally speaking, I think men who think they are dominant are often just overbearing or arrogant..

obviously that's just my opinion"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why worry what strangers on a sex site think?

Be yourself, some will love you, some will hate you, as they do me, but don't change just to suit others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why worry what strangers on a sex site think?

Be yourself, some will love you, some will hate you, as they do me, but don't change just to suit others."

Better being loved by a some and hated by others than having everyone think you're just alright.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why worry what strangers on a sex site think?

Be yourself, some will love you, some will hate you, as they do me, but don't change just to suit others.

Better being loved by a some and hated by others than having everyone think you're just alright. "

Damn right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure the op meant what do you think in general terms but we were arrogant enough to think he was alluding to himself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Water of a ducks back

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By *mber GamblerCouple
over a year ago

rugby


"Barack Obama – confident

Donald J Trump – arrogant

Jason Bourne – confident

James Bond – arrogant

Steve McQueen – confident

Sean Penn , Christian Bale, Vin Diesel, Idris Elba - arrogant

Madonna - confident

Lady Gaga – arrogant

Stevie Wonder – confident

Snoop Dog – arrogant

Scarlett Moffatt (Goggle Box) – confident

Kim Kardashian – arrogant

Lionel Messi - confident

Cristiano Renaldo - arrogant

Haha. That's ace.

It's pretty good but Lady GaGa is far from arrogant and Scarlett Moffat ( Gogglebox ) isn't exactly confident more ignorant of her own ignorance.

Tickles me how gogglebox people get gogglebox after their name. Happens often. Granny-Crumpet (FabSwingers ) "

That was what i thought about scarlet. She's very insecure. As for lady gaga. I saw an interview with her once and she was sooooo arrogant. Not answering normal questions. Really taking her time to answer some, to point i was cringing. The things she was saying made me think who the hell does she think she is. So I'd have to disagree with that one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm sure the op meant what do you think in general terms but we were arrogant enough to think he was alluding to himself "

Yes, I'm generalising, it was just something that occurred to me, I am happy as I am and know that when people take the time to know me, that actually, I'm a nice guy, I think its good to get peoples perspective, debating is good, mass debating not so good lol

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