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Why don't ladies say hello after viewing your profile?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have, after several months, started to get regular looks at my profile from the beautiful half of the population, a big hooray for that, but I never get any hello's or questions. Why?

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

...because they don't fancy you??

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Baby steps....give it a few months and they will say "hello"....then a few months after you might get a meet etc etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably the lack of pics and the shortness of profile info

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Because there is nothing to see therefore nothing to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing to look at or ask about. Xxx

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Maybe they go to your profile see very little of interest and bugger off to someone else's profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe having one or two public pics might help...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it probably comes up on the local list, if you have a new verify, or you are just in the area.

the reason why they probably dont say hi...is there isnt anything to look at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know about yours OP

But I tend to look at profiles ..read what they have to say ...check out there pics ...fab if I like them and move on to the next profile ...I never message them

No idea why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have, after several months, started to get regular looks at my profile from the beautiful half of the population, a big hooray for that, but I never get any hello's or questions. Why?"

We have to look to see if we like, all because we have looked does not mean we did like, your profiles hardly gripping enough to warrant a message

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I wouldn't because you're profile is uninspiring, I can't say why to offer advice because you haven't specifically asked for it

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

And this is why ninja mode was invented.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Cos they don't want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Views 20-30 per day

Messages lucky if its one a day.

OP How many profiles do you view per day ? Then how many of them do you message?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Because we can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No photos. What's the point? There's nothing to spark interest there.

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By *northernsoulMan
over a year ago

Manchester

For the same reason you probably don't message every profile you look at. It's nothing personal, that's just life.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I wouldn't look at your profile because I'm not keen on shadow profile pics. But if I did I'd see you can't accommodate and have no public pics.

And then I'd move on to another profile......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they are shy

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

I looked at your profile but didn't message you. Why?

Because I saw nothing to interest me in there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have, after several months, started to get regular looks at my profile from the beautiful half of the population, a big hooray for that, but I never get any hello's or questions. Why?"

They wanted to check you out. And they did.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Do you really need to ask this ? I mean honestly ?

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

People look at our profile and don't message. It's their choice, if you don't like what you see, you don't message

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think you'll find that they can but prefer not to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of the above!

Here's a thought OP. Check out some of the many, many, many forum threads asking for profile advice, or 'why can't I get meets' and see what advice has been given to others.

There are guys out there that have put in a lot more effort to their profiles that are still struggling.

What were your expectations of this site?

It's not instashag you know, and us single males massively outnumber the ladies (by around 100 to 1) so you need to stand out and I'm afraid you don't!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"For the same reason you probably don't message every profile you look at. It's nothing personal, that's just life."

Cute face pic btw!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I have, after several months, started to get regular looks at my profile from the beautiful half of the population, a big hooray for that, but I never get any hello's or questions. Why?"

Because they are looking for men your age but when they look you are not what they are looking for. Simple as. Nothing scientific , nothing sinister.

Or they are men looking at the competition.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've kidnapped them all mate,got em all tied up in my dungeon......if it wasn't for that wee detail I'm sure they would've messaged you,every single one of them.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Probably the lack of pics and the shortness of profile info"

Not rocket science is it?

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

Had two views this week. Wrong type

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I would only contact someone if they were of interest to me.

As you have very little info or public pics, I can only surmise that this the reason why they haven't made any contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As another thread has asked how do you know when your ugly - this is how my friends,

Now i'm off for a little cry

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have never had more views of my profile since posting this thread. Awesome and thanks lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never had more views of my profile since posting this thread. Awesome and thanks lol"

But have you had any messages....

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"And this is why ninja mode was invented. "

Not to mention, second, 'snooper' profile

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

This is why we look in stealth mode and probably why lots of others do,so people don't message asking why you have looked etc.

You might not have been for them,but they will only know after looking .

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably the lack of pics and the shortness of profile info

Not rocket science is it? "

Clearly is to some though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is the best thread I've ever posted. Thanks everyone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have, after several months, started to get regular looks at my profile from the beautiful half of the population, a big hooray for that, but I never get any hello's or questions. Why?"

Probably because they looked at your profile and wasn't interested

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