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By *rincess peach OP Woman
over a year ago

shits creek

Have you found that the older you get the more of an emotional twat you become at "that time" of the month?

I can't tell if I'm getting worse or its just how I'm feeling generally multiplied.

When I was with my ex I used to get really angry at that time, but that's generally how I felt most of the time I guess. Now, well, I'm finding emotions I was hiding or trying to suppress just rear up and slap me hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope - never suffered pmt at all - get tender boobs day or so before thats it - or maybe i just control my emotions well -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you found that the older you get the more of an emotional twat you become at "that time" of the month?

I can't tell if I'm getting worse or its just how I'm feeling generally multiplied.

That sounds awful. Pms is a curse.

I can't say mine have become worse with age, I can see the signs and try to control it.

I'm a slave to my emotions at time.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I didn't find it any worse as I got older but I did find that how I was feeling generally was magnified.

No PMT is one of the many good things about growing older.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Have you found that the older you get the more of an emotional twat you become at "that time" of the month?

W."

This was the only symptom I had for many years and did find it got worse as I got older. I even used to cry at adverts on the telly. I don't have periods anymore but funnily enough still seem to get emotional at silly things around once a month

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By *rincess peach OP Woman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I didn't find it any worse as I got older but I did find that how I was feeling generally was magnified.

No PMT is one of the many good things about growing older."

This is what I was unsure of. I'm struggling to tell if it's getting worse or just because it's different emotions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a twat all of the time. Still, I do feel for you ladies having to go through this whole period thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last couple of years I've noticed that the build up lasts longer and lingers after my period. Before I'd just get a bit of pain in my lower back a couple of days before and I'd know it was coming. Now I can be irritable for 10 days or more leading up to it, I get hungrier almost ravenous and then after I've come off the irritability starts again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you found that the older you get the more of an emotional twat you become at "that time" of the month?

Same here, I well up over the silliest things for a full week before. Tv ads, silly stuff on Fb and even rugby games.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"I'm a twat all of the time. Still, I do feel for you ladies having to go through this whole period thing. "

It is the men who suffer with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine were worse when I was younger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a lunatic the week before

I cry at the drop of a hat or want to punch everyone's face in

I want to eat everything and fuck everyone!

Then I'm OK for 3 weeks ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you found that the older you get the more of an emotional twat you become at "that time" of the month?

I can't tell if I'm getting worse or its just how I'm feeling generally multiplied.

It's not just women. I get teary and emotionally instable close to payday too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a twat all of the time. Still, I do feel for you ladies having to go through this whole period thing.

It is the men who suffer with it

We suffer as a result of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think mine got worse after I was sterilised 7 years ago.

I get the whole boob aching 2 weeks in, then the week before everything is magnified ten fold, I'm either high as a kite, down and tearful, or angry over absolutely nothing. The minute it starts, normality resumes whatever I'm feeling disappears as quick as it came.

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

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"Have you found that the older you get the more of an emotional twat you become at "that time" of the month?

I can't tell if I'm getting worse or its just how I'm feeling generally multiplied.

Looking for an excuse??

You've had 25 years to learn to live with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine were worse in my teens. Now I just get ovulation pains and really horny a couple of days before I come on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since i hit 40 my periods have caused me to be an emotional nightmare the week before my period. So much so i almost came to blows with a woman at my son's old School.

I had so much rage i actually felt like ripping her car door off and dragging her out of the car by her hair, all because she gave my son a dirty look as he opened our car door.

That feeling of intense anger really scared me, because it had taken every ounce of self control not to act on it, and i'm not like that, i'm a fairly easy going laidback kinda gal.

I got home, rang my mum in tears who dragged me to the Dr's. They thought i was probably peri menopausal but because i have mental health history they chucked me on medication.

Did it help? To a degree, but they were strong and i felt out of it so eventually weaned myself off them.

My homelife at that time was stressful so i sold up and moved and since then although i am moody it is a manageable moodiness.

If you have any concerns get to your Dr!!

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By *rishbabe1000Woman
over a year ago

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I don't have them now I'm going trough the change believe me that's worse I'd have periods any day over these hot sweats and mood swings xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't had a period for almost 5 years and when I did I wasn't often regular..but I do still get the symptoms so I know I'm 'due on'..

Sore boobs

Very emotional

Short fuse

Cramps

Loss of sex drive

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By *rishbabe1000Woman
over a year ago

bury

Yes I do on the change wish I was a bloody man xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't have them now I'm going trough the change believe me that's worse I'd have periods any day over these hot sweats and mood swings xx"

ive gone through a few sweaty phases - i take black cohosh and it seems to help a little - other than that i just joke about it as the rivulets run down

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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my PMT is a lot better, but i sleep more just before i come on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was a late starter when it came to periods, I think I was 16, but I never had any problems with them..

when I was on the pill they came as regular as clockwork and no nasty side effects..

and then I entered the peri menopause and they suddenly went haywire! they could last anywhere from 3 days to 3 weeks, plus flooding which was awful

but now all that has passed and the only way I can tell when it would have been my time of the month is when I get a rather large spot on the back of my neck, and that soon disappears

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By *rincess peach OP Woman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Have you found that the older you get the more of an emotional twat you become at "that time" of the month?

I can't tell if I'm getting worse or its just how I'm feeling generally multiplied.

Looking for an excuse??

You've had 25 years to learn to live with it."

Excuse? Nope, was a genuine question asking other LADIES if they had noticed their emotional side getting worse as they got older at that time of the month. Did I not word it simply enough?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you found that the older you get the more of an emotional twat you become at "that time" of the month?

I can't tell if I'm getting worse or its just how I'm feeling generally multiplied.

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By *rincess peach OP Woman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Since i hit 40 my periods have caused me to be an emotional nightmare the week before my period. So much so i almost came to blows with a woman at my son's old School.

I had so much rage i actually felt like ripping her car door off and dragging her out of the car by her hair, all because she gave my son a dirty look as he opened our car door.

That feeling of intense anger really scared me, because it had taken every ounce of self control not to act on it, and i'm not like that, i'm a fairly easy going laidback kinda gal.

I got home, rang my mum in tears who dragged me to the Dr's. They thought i was probably peri menopausal but because i have mental health history they chucked me on medication.

Did it help? To a degree, but they were strong and i felt out of it so eventually weaned myself off them.

My homelife at that time was stressful so i sold up and moved and since then although i am moody it is a manageable moodiness.

If you have any concerns get to your Dr!!"

I'm 40 this year, I was a wreck yesterday, cried all day and was laughing at myself and annoyed with myself at the same time. Came on this morning and I'm a totally different person, my "normal" self again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you found that the older you get the more of an emotional twat you become at "that time" of the month?

I can't tell if I'm getting worse or its just how I'm feeling generally multiplied.

I'm getting really bad around that time every month. Massivly emotional. It really pisses me off! I've never been like this in my life

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By *rincess peach OP Woman
over a year ago

shits creek

I'm getting really bad around that time every month. Massivly emotional. It really pisses me off! I've never been like this in my life "

I'm proper disappointed in myself with how much of a dick I was yesterday.

it all feels so real at the time.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Thanks to the coil I no longer get periods. However I do get incredibly emotional. I'm like it all the time though.I cry at everything. Even orgasms

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By *rincess peach OP Woman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Thanks to the coil I no longer get periods. However I do get incredibly emotional. I'm like it all the time though.I cry at everything. Even orgasms

I'mtoo scared to have anything for this very reason. I had the injection years ago and turned into the she devil.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, tears one minute then could rip someone's head off the next. And I've also found lately that I'm horny as hell for days before x

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By *rincess peach OP Woman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Yes, tears one minute then could rip someone's head off the next. And I've also found lately that I'm horny as hell for days before x "

It all seems so real at the time though. Well, this time round it did more so because my timing was off and I didn't know for sure it was hormones.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I get hellish emotional. It's ridiculous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have it at the moment, pretty sure the length of time it's lasting is extending as I get older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, tears one minute then could rip someone's head off the next. And I've also found lately that I'm horny as hell for days before x

It all seems so real at the time though. Well, this time round it did more so because my timing was off and I didn't know for sure it was hormones."

Yes it does, I was ready to cry at an advert the other day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm horrible in the lead up to my period. My patience levels all but disappear and I become Debbie downer about frankly stupid shit! It is getting worse for sure!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Have you found that the older you get the more of an emotional twat you become at "that time" of the month?

Not for me. I'm lucky that I rarely get PMT.

The total irregularity is bloody annoying though. I used to be regular as clockwork, now I can go 3 months with no periods at all and then have 3 in 6 weeks

I think things just change as you get older...

Nita

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