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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone else struggling to get a meet, I always get a meet then they bottle it last minute!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get loads,maybe you should have silver hair and drink real ale...just a thought

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get loads,maybe you should have silver hair and drink real ale...just a thought"

Maybe that's the reason! Hahah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, just struggling to find mutual diary windows.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Not really but not really been trying. Guess that's not much help

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By *aul DeUther-OneMan
over a year ago

Sussex

It may well be that the reason you're struggling to get meets is the same reason other single blokes who say that they're "struggling to get meets":

You're "struggling" to get meets! If you come across tense or anxious then that's not attractive.

Being a member of fabs should be a pleasure not an ordeal.

Organise a social at a neutral location near you and invite EVERYONE. Then enjoy a relaxed evening of mixed company with people who you know you have at least one thing in common with. Take time to mingle and avoid the temptation to try to score a second meeting.

Enjoy the social side of fabs and you'll soon be enjoying more intimate meetings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not really but not really been trying. Guess that's not much help "

Thanks for posting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else struggling to get a meet, I always get a meet then they bottle it last minute! "

Have patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else struggling to get a meet, I always get a meet then they bottle it last minute! "

Just go with the flow, if they pull out at the last minute (excuse the pun) it's their loss. Have fun, don't be pushy, enjoy the forums and enjoy the perks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope, just struggling to find mutual diary windows. "

Yeah that the thing I get a lot of people wanting meet no problem just times and people cancel last minute, pm me if you like as well

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"It may well be that the reason you're struggling to get meets is the same reason other single blokes who say that they're "struggling to get meets":

You're "struggling" to get meets! If you come across tense or anxious then that's not attractive.

Being a member of fabs should be a pleasure not an ordeal.

Organise a social at a neutral location near you and invite EVERYONE. Then enjoy a relaxed evening of mixed company with people who you know you have at least one thing in common with. Take time to mingle and avoid the temptation to try to score a second meeting.

Enjoy the social side of fabs and you'll soon be enjoying more intimate meetings.

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Or get to a club...similar principle...good luck.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Is it something about the type of people that you're meeting that makes them more prone to last minute cancellation, or how the meetings are set up etc? In other words, are there common factors other than you op? A few weeks here is still a very short time btw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry about it OP, I struggled for months and got nothing, now I've stopped chasing meets and messaging people, if one comes around then great, if not, no loss!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't worry about it OP, I struggled for months and got nothing, now I've stopped chasing meets and messaging people, if one comes around then great, if not, no loss!"

Hahah literally got some sorted now hopefully no cancellations happen, might start charging hahaha

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