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By *ounglad OP   Man
over a year ago

Burnham

Hey everybody, curious to ask if anyone is still friends or close to their ex, and of so, how close.

To put mine before asking others in still very close to mine to the point we're still comfortable sending vibrators to each other. (OK, me to her but I did ask if she wanted it so not being asshole ex)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm good friends with two ex partners.

Why cut ties just because the spark died?

Even worserer are the ones who get all spiteful and try and divide all the mutual friends up.

Yeah I said worserer I'm from stoke

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By *aynek80Man
over a year ago

Wirral

Im friends with 2 exs. Moved away from the area i chat on social media with them. I have when been back in the area met up with 1 of them for "old times sake"

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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just friends with one of mine. none of the others deserve that.

we was fb after we split but idk, his cock is small so...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends with most of my exes as we haven't got any reason not to remain friends and in contact?

All we did was fall out of love etc.

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By *ounglad OP   Man
over a year ago

Burnham


"Im friends with 2 exs. Moved away from the area i chat on social media with them. I have when been back in the area met up with 1 of them for "old times sake""

Same scenario here, though mine went back to the states and something tells me it might be getting a bit difficult for me to visit her anytime soon

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Nope. But then again he did try to kill me, abused me for years, and basically bullied me to the the point I would have been happy to die and looked forward to the day he'd finally carry it through to the end.

Oh well, onwards and upwards.

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By *ounglad OP   Man
over a year ago

Burnham


"just friends with one of mine. none of the others deserve that.

we was fb after we split but idk, his cock is small so..."

How tragic. I shall keep him in my prayers tonight

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By *educerMan
over a year ago

Brentwood

Nope, no chance

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By *ounglad OP   Man
over a year ago

Burnham


"Nope. But then again he did try to kill me, abused me for years, and basically bullied me to the the point I would have been happy to die and looked forward to the day he'd finally carry it through to the end.

Oh well, onwards and upwards."

Holy shit. Well hopefully he's got his comeuppance, ideally can opener to his dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on good terms with my recent ex for the sake of the children because we go to Parents Evening and School Concerts together, but we are not best buddies, we just get on with it.

My other exes are from years ago and time has moved on and i don't see them, but there is no bad blood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im friends with 2 exs. Moved away from the area i chat on social media with them. I have when been back in the area met up with 1 of them for "old times sake"

Same scenario here, though mine went back to the states and something tells me it might be getting a bit difficult for me to visit her anytime soon"

Just tell em your Irish dumb spams will roll out the red carpet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was married to my ex for 22 years and he still turns up at mine for tea and a chat nothing more but good mates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good friends with 2 ex's. I see both occasionally but we do not play....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess I am the odd one out here.

Ex married the gal who he was cheating with.

Happy to have divorced him.

Everyone is happy I divorced him.

Glad he is on the other side of the pond. That's all I will say.

Not jealous. Don't get me wrong. Happy riddance.

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By *ounglad OP   Man
over a year ago

Burnham


"Guess I am the odd one out here.

Ex married the gal who he was cheating with.

Happy to have divorced him.

Everyone is happy I divorced him.

Glad he is on the other side of the pond. That's all I will say.

Not jealous. Don't get me wrong. Happy riddance. "

Don't see how you could be jealous you are clearly there better half, and also because she ended up with a cheater so she took a load off you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish all my ex's every happiness and success in life. And most of them are still friends to varying levels. I;m not one for bitterness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm really good friends with my ex we've been separated over 4 years now and get on great so much so that we recently went to Oz at the same time to see my eldest daughter who was out there traveling

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

My ex wife worships the ground I'm going to. Think if I said we have spoke 2 words to each other in 15 years it would be an exaggeration but then I have the cheek to catch her out and make a new life after her. My ex gf I have a daughter to is 1 of my best friends and business partner. Don't think there's anyone I trust more.

Think that's both sides of the coin covered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't really say I keep in touch with any of them

However, awkwardly, my mother and sister are good friends with one of them and look after her kid when she's at work (not mine)

And that ex won't even look at me if we bump into each other! I'm all for chatting and not making it awkward but that doesn't make it easy lol

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"just friends with one of mine. none of the others deserve that.

we was fb after we split but idk, his cock is small so...

How tragic. I shall keep him in my prayers tonight"

at least he's a decent guy. that's all that matters, but yeah i don't wanna fuck him.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I wasn't that friendly with her when we were married. If it wasn't for our son, I'd never have spoken to her again.

Cal

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By *ounglad OP   Man
over a year ago

Burnham

Nice to see a lot of people get along with their exes, and for the ones that don't you've got plenty of other people you can talk to instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope =

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say friends as such but friendly . We text happy birthday etc and every few months we have a quick chat by text . We split because he cheated ( as well as other reasons ) but I think life's too short to hold a grudge . He did one prickish thing but it doesn't necessarily make him a prick

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guess I am the odd one out here.

Ex married the gal who he was cheating with.

Happy to have divorced him.

Everyone is happy I divorced him.

Glad he is on the other side of the pond. That's all I will say.

Not jealous. Don't get me wrong. Happy riddance.

Don't see how you could be jealous you are clearly there better half, and also because she ended up with a cheater so she took a load off you"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only ex I don't get on with is the father of my daughter but the other exes I get on great with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex is abusive, so no.

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District

I get along with most of my exes, but in some cases it's taken a long time for it to be possible to be near them without wanting to kill them lol

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I am still in contact with one ex but our life's are so different now- makes it hard to keep a connection going.

I don't think the other ex will stay on touch with me for his own reasons.

the relationships ended because they didn't work out- but there are still many really nice memories and times what I don't want to forget.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My ex is abusive, so no."

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

No, no need to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get on with gaz better now then I ever did when we were together. We used to joke that we needed 3 houses 1 each n one in the middle when we felt like being together. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope not friends with mine. She wanted to friendzone me. Nope I dont do that crap.

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

Yeah I still get on with my exes, sexual attractions gone so we can actually have conversations now which helps

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By *U1966Man
over a year ago

Devon

Makes life easier to be friendly having a daughter but she still pain whe it suits her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still very good friends with mine she was my 1st and only gay relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How does your partner (if you have one) feel about this. Would you be ok with them doing the same?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get on great with my ex, Last Christmas I bought her a butt plug, she did not see the funny side of it, in October she told me her boyfriend turned out to be a right asshole. there is no pleasing some women,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Mine's a cunt tbh

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

no due to that I ended up with full custody of both children.

daughter and son who happens to be my stepson

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

If I die before I speak to her again it would be toooooooo soon

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By *ex LutherMan
over a year ago

Closer than you think

I'm on good terms with the ex but she's the mother of my children otherwise I doubt we'd have much contact if I'm honest

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Not friends but get on ok - we have kids together though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ide imaging most bokes attempt to remain amicable with there exes simply so they can continue to see their kids and not bring on any further financial increases that are absurd.

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By *ounglad OP   Man
over a year ago

Burnham


"How does your partner (if you have one) feel about this. Would you be ok with them doing the same?"
neither one of us has a partner as of this moment so we're both ok with it. Things would obviously change should either of us find a partner

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By *ounglad OP   Man
over a year ago

Burnham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm friends on FB etc with all but 2 exes and talk almost daily to my ex wife! I just don't have messy brake ups it seems and I don't have any reason to ignore them afterward!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

still friends with ex fbs but not ex husband

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We aren't enemies, but we are far from friends.

I think after something intense it's not unreasonable to want distance - I wouldn't want to be close friends and I although we have much in common and many memories, I doubt it would work on an emotional level.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm really good friends with an ex who I spent 5 years with. He's back in Australia now so maybe that's why we're such good friends still!

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