FabSwingers.com forum: Anyone get nasty messages here

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I got asked by a bloke if I want a BJ so i replied no thanks so he says what is you sexual preferences.

So I say heterosexual but nothing against other people as I have friends who are gay bisexual and lesbian I lived in the YMCA in Darlington for six months in 2008.

Now I get told because of my status local women really and he feels sorry for my gay friends.

What the heck he don't stop inboxing me and deleted him he messages me on another profile.

Help what do I say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just block and don't engage

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By *aptivatingWoman
over a year ago

Chester

Report to admin and move on. I had a message today from someone who decided they didn't like my profile and would spew some bile my way. Ultimately I am happy to block, ignore and just be mildly amused, I just figure a report is a good idea so if they are doing this to other users then admin is at least aware of their repeat offender status.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cheers but when new profile lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cheers but when new profile lol"

Just block them and block any future profiles they may make.

Much less hassle that way.

Eve.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Report to admin and move on. I had a message today from someone who decided they didn't like my profile and would spew some bile my way. Ultimately I am happy to block, ignore and just be mildly amused, I just figure a report is a good idea so if they are doing this to other users then admin is at least aware of their repeat offender status."

Cheers you have. A great profile the person may be jealous cause haven't a shot with you

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By *aptivatingWoman
over a year ago

Chester

"Cheers you have. A great profile the person may be jealous cause haven't a shot with you "

Thank you, it's a very marmite profile to be fair, but that works for me as it means it cuts through a lot of the wasted time in messaging. Clearly there's no need for people to be horrid though. In the kink community there's this saying - YKIOK - your kink is okay. As in it's not my thing, but it's consenting adults causing no harm, so go and have your fun! Nothing at all wrong with a bit of live and let live eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't want men messaging you then block them. Makes sense anyway if you're not looking for men. Fuck why does everything have to be a drama with you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you don't want men messaging you then block them. Makes sense anyway if you're not looking for men. Fuck why does everything have to be a drama with you. "

It is not drama just advice I have chatted to some nice guys here why should I block all men just cause of idiots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you don't want men messaging you then block them. Makes sense anyway if you're not looking for men. Fuck why does everything have to be a drama with you.

It is not drama just advice I have chatted to some nice guys here why should I block all men just cause of idiots "

Then don't. You asked how to solve your problem you were told how but you don't want to. Bit pointless really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got asked by a bloke if I want a BJ so i replied no thanks so he says what is you sexual preferences.

So I say heterosexual but nothing against other people as I have friends who are gay bisexual and lesbian I lived in the YMCA in Darlington for six months in 2008.

Now I get told because of my status local women really and he feels sorry for my gay friends.

What the heck he don't stop inboxing me and deleted him he messages me on another profile.

Help what do I say. "

Keep ignoring and blocking him. Only takes a few seconds of your time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I got asked by a bloke if I want a BJ so i replied no thanks so he says what is you sexual preferences.

So I say heterosexual but nothing against other people as I have friends who are gay bisexual and lesbian I lived in the YMCA in Darlington for six months in 2008.

Now I get told because of my status local women really and he feels sorry for my gay friends.

What the heck he don't stop inboxing me and deleted him he messages me on another profile.

Help what do I say.

Keep ignoring and blocking him. Only takes a few seconds of your time. "

Cheers reported and blocked again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell him to fuck off the bore and smile he so interested in u x

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I've been on here for 10 yrs now, had a few daft/confusing messages, but never any abusive or nasty ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had one message in 7 years that called me a time waster and one quote on the forum in over 3 years where I was called a cunt (apart from jokingly). So it's not my experience of this site the vast majority of the time.

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent

"If you don't want men messaging you then block them. Makes sense anyway if you're not looking for men. Fuck why does everything have to be a drama with you. "

Lmao....chill girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope can't say I have ever received a nasty message, have replied to a few saying "no thanks, I am straight" but that has always been accepted well. Never had to block anyone either.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

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By *ambslass48Woman
over a year ago

Peterborough

"I got asked by a bloke if I want a BJ so i replied no thanks so he says what is you sexual preferences.

So I say heterosexual but nothing against other people as I have friends who are gay bisexual and lesbian I lived in the YMCA in Darlington for six months in 2008.

Now I get told because of my status local women really and he feels sorry for my gay friends.

What the heck he don't stop inboxing me and deleted him he messages me on another profile.

Help what do I say. "

I get them all the time. Worst this week was wish my cancer returned as evil and nasty like me. All because I said no. Luckily I lol at it blocked delete and reported.

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

I had to block incoming messages from men because some don't accept a "no, thanks" and argue because of that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you don't want men messaging you then block them. Makes sense anyway if you're not looking for men. Fuck why does everything have to be a drama with you.

Lmao....chill girl

You don't know what this guy is like. Everything is far fetched and dramatic. He's a porn star that shot his first movie last month. He's an mma fighter with his first fight coming up next month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you don't want men messaging you then block them. Makes sense anyway if you're not looking for men. Fuck why does everything have to be a drama with you.

Lmao....chill girl

You don't know what this guy is like. Everything is far fetched and dramatic. He's a porn star that shot his first movie last month. He's an mma fighter with his first fight coming up next month. "

HA HA

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you don't want men messaging you then block them. Makes sense anyway if you're not looking for men. Fuck why does everything have to be a drama with you.

Lmao....chill girl

You don't know what this guy is like. Everything is far fetched and dramatic. He's a porn star that shot his first movie last month. He's an mma fighter with his first fight coming up next month.

HA HA

I think there's a lot of people that the capability of being far fetched & overly dramatic in their postings....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you don't want men messaging you then block them. Makes sense anyway if you're not looking for men. Fuck why does everything have to be a drama with you.

Lmao....chill girl

You don't know what this guy is like. Everything is far fetched and dramatic. He's a porn star that shot his first movie last month. He's an mma fighter with his first fight coming up next month.

HA HA

I think there's a lot of people that the capability of being far fetched & overly dramatic in their postings...."

Nooo... surely not ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you don't want men messaging you then block them. Makes sense anyway if you're not looking for men. Fuck why does everything have to be a drama with you.

Lmao....chill girl

You don't know what this guy is like. Everything is far fetched and dramatic. He's a porn star that shot his first movie last month. He's an mma fighter with his first fight coming up next month.

HA HA

I think there's a lot of people that the capability of being far fetched & overly dramatic in their postings....

Nooo... surely not ?

I felt the obvious needed pointing out.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We very rarely get nasty messages but when we do they always block before we can repond...seems to be the way with keyboard warriors, aggressive cowards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like your profile, shame you are only looking to meet upto 45 and men only xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a nasty message.

But then guys don't usually get messages so thats probably why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had loads.used to bother me but not any more.fuck em

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"I got asked by a bloke if I want a BJ so i replied no thanks so he says what is you sexual preferences.

So I say heterosexual but nothing against other people as I have friends who are gay bisexual and lesbian I lived in the YMCA in Darlington for six months in 2008.

Now I get told because of my status local women really and he feels sorry for my gay friends.

What the heck he don't stop inboxing me and deleted him he messages me on another profile.

Help what do I say. "

Don't reply and block each profile of his. Is that too complicated?

Simpler option is to filter out men from sending messages

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"If you don't want men messaging you then block them. Makes sense anyway if you're not looking for men. Fuck why does everything have to be a drama with you.

It is not drama just advice I have chatted to some nice guys here why should I block all men just cause of idiots "

So, What's the issue here? Block them all and if you find someone you think you can be a blokey mate with you send the first message then they are past the general block. If they turn out iffy, then block them again.

Simples & no drama

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Had loads.used to bother me but not any more.fuck em

Yes, that would sort it...

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