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By *oecurlingkink999 OP Couple
over a year ago

Rhuddan

A kink ...and just 'getting' off on something x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't know there was a difference. I suppose a link might be something more unusual.

Or maybe a kink is the possessive, and getting off is when you use the kink.

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By *oecurlingkink999 OP Couple
over a year ago

Rhuddan

Aaah, so you get off on a kink...

What's your kink xxx

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

" Or maybe a kink is the possessive, and getting off is when you use the kink. "

I like that

A kink is something you like to do that you get off on. For it to be a kink or fetish even it needs to be something considered unvanilla I'd say?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aaah, so you get off on a kink...

What's your kink xxx"

Maybe...

I enjoy brushing, braiding and playing with women's hair.

It's relaxing...

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By *oecurlingkink999 OP Couple
over a year ago

Rhuddan

" Or maybe a kink is the possessive, and getting off is when you use the kink.

I like that

A kink is something you like to do that you get off on. For it to be a kink or fetish even it needs to be something considered unvanilla I'd say?"

Yes!!! ...

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By * Kiwis and a BananaMan
over a year ago

Part of your 5 a day

A kink is a sexual practice (according to google). My understanding of kink is that you want to carry out an act that is outside normal practices of sex.

When someone says getting off I always think wanking whilst watching or using a prop.

Correct me if I'm wrong I'm here to be educated

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By *oecurlingkink999 OP Couple
over a year ago

Rhuddan

Oooh, so you could say that it's graded..

Vanilla

Getting off

Kink

Fetish

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By *oecurlingkink999 OP Couple
over a year ago

Rhuddan

But then, I'd say that a kink is a fetish that you can keep under control...

I'd grade myself at 'kink' level

... Fetish sounds scary/fun xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oooh, so you could say that it's graded..

Vanilla

Getting off

Kink

Fetish "

Probably more levels of intensity with which you enjoy something sexual.

So maybe.

Get off on

Love

Kink

Fetish

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By *oecurlingkink999 OP Couple
over a year ago

Rhuddan

I 'get off' on sending photos...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I 'get off' on sending photos..."

How funny, I get off on recieving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aaah, so you get off on a kink...

What's your kink xxx

Maybe...

I enjoy brushing, braiding and playing with women's hair.

It's relaxing...

dont be blushing - some ofus ladies love having our hair played with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aaah, so you get off on a kink...

What's your kink xxx

Maybe...

I enjoy brushing, braiding and playing with women's hair.

It's relaxing...

I love having my hair played with. Find it very relaxing when someone brushes my hair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no kinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aaah, so you get off on a kink...

What's your kink xxx

Maybe...

I enjoy brushing, braiding and playing with women's hair.

It's relaxing...

dont be blushing - some ofus ladies love having our hair played with "

I'm aware of a few

I usually throw in a massage to sweeten the deal

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By *oecurlingkink999 OP Couple
over a year ago

Rhuddan

"I 'get off' on sending photos...

How funny, I get off on recieving

So does that equate to ..

Get off +Get off = kink

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By *oecurlingkink999 OP Couple
over a year ago

Rhuddan

"no kinks"

Just looked at your photos ... You like trees, don't you xxx

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East

Some say using feathers is a kink .. but using the whole chicken definitely is ..

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By *oecurlingkink999 OP Couple
over a year ago

Rhuddan

Greedy?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Aaah, so you get off on a kink...

What's your kink xxx

Maybe...

I enjoy brushing, braiding and playing with women's hair.

It's relaxing...

I like doing that with a man's hair. I don't think of it as a kink though

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By *oecurlingkink999 OP Couple
over a year ago

Rhuddan

From what I'm learning... It depends whether your getting off on it or not ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A kink is somehow part of your make up, getting off is an occasional action / reaction.

I dunno

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no kinks

Just looked at your photos ... You like trees, don't you xxx"

hahaha, I like licking pussy,shagging,getting bj's,3somes,gangbangs,some pics etc..

none of which can really be a kink in my mind.

lol...backgrounds are irrelevant(inc trees)

thanks for the peek..I must perv now

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By *ex_OnTheBeachCouple
over a year ago

kent ( by the seaside )

"A kink is somehow part of your make up, getting off is an occasional action / reaction.

I dunno

Still trying to figure out what your username used to be!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aaah, so you get off on a kink...

What's your kink xxx

Maybe...

I enjoy brushing, braiding and playing with women's hair.

It's relaxing...

dont be blushing - some ofus ladies love having our hair played with "

I was just going to say this. I love it! Not when my kids do it as they hurt most of the time but if someone did it gently I'd love them forever!

Ruby

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Kinks really get you going

They get you so you can't sleep at night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aaah, so you get off on a kink...

What's your kink xxx

Maybe...

I enjoy brushing, braiding and playing with women's hair.

It's relaxing...

dont be blushing - some ofus ladies love having our hair played with "

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By *oecurlingkink999 OP Couple
over a year ago

Rhuddan

Okay, so if consistently 'get off' on stuff, it's a part of my 'make up' which in turn turns it into a kink ...

This then brings me back to the problem I have with swinging...

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By *oecurlingkink999 OP Couple
over a year ago

Rhuddan

I'd like to swing with other kinksters... Not people getting off, or people with fetishes .... People in the same field ...

Then it would be 'like minded'...

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Kinks can be guessed from the list of likes on someone's profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...semantics

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"A kink ...and just 'getting' off on something x "

Practice and obsession

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By *oecurlingkink999 OP Couple
over a year ago

Rhuddan

"...semantics"

Fab should have a 'drop down menu' ...

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

just to throw it I here- can your kink be vanilla? not that I've ever really understood where the boundries of vanilla are anyway...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A kink ...and just 'getting' off on something x "
only you know what you like and what turn you on ........ So its being true to yourself .

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By *oecurlingkink999 OP Couple
over a year ago

Rhuddan

"just to throw it I here- can your kink be vanilla? not that I've ever really understood where the boundries of vanilla are anyway..."

I'm just trying to get my head round the definitions...

Yeah, from what people are saying - as long as your 'getting off' on vanilla then it's your kink...

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By *oecurlingkink999 OP Couple
over a year ago

Rhuddan

"just to throw it I here- can your kink be vanilla? not that I've ever really understood where the boundries of vanilla are anyway...

I'm just trying to get my head round the definitions...

Yeah, from what people are saying - as long as your 'getting off' on vanilla then it's your kink...

It's the difference between somebody pinching your nipple or squeezing it really hard...I mean, really hard xxx

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

"just to throw it I here- can your kink be vanilla? not that I've ever really understood where the boundries of vanilla are anyway...

I'm just trying to get my head round the definitions...

Yeah, from what people are saying - as long as your 'getting off' on vanilla then it's your kink...

and if my kink for vanilla gets out of controle it becomes my fetish?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aaah, so you get off on a kink...

What's your kink xxx

Maybe...

I enjoy brushing, braiding and playing with women's hair.

It's relaxing...

That's basically perfect because a lot of women love that!

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By *oecurlingkink999 OP Couple
over a year ago

Rhuddan

"just to throw it I here- can your kink be vanilla? not that I've ever really understood where the boundries of vanilla are anyway...

I'm just trying to get my head round the definitions...

Yeah, from what people are saying - as long as your 'getting off' on vanilla then it's your kink...

Tonight's been an education... Hell yeah Lady.... (If I've not missed the point due to a bottle of wine) ... You are crowned officially the 'Vanilla Fetish Queen' ...

(Omg sound good enough to eat...) (or is that my kink??!!!)

and if my kink for vanilla gets out of controle it becomes my fetish?

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

"just to throw it I here- can your kink be vanilla? not that I've ever really understood where the boundries of vanilla are anyway...

I'm just trying to get my head round the definitions...

Yeah, from what people are saying - as long as your 'getting off' on vanilla then it's your kink...

Tonight's been an education... Hell yeah Lady.... (If I've not missed the point due to a bottle of wine) ... You are crowned officially the 'Vanilla Fetish Queen' ...

(Omg sound good enough to eat...) (or is that my kink??!!!)

and if my kink for vanilla gets out of controle it becomes my fetish?

sounds good enough for a new user name... or ice cream...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aaah, so you get off on a kink...

What's your kink xxx

Maybe...

I enjoy brushing, braiding and playing with women's hair.

It's relaxing...

dont be blushing - some ofus ladies love having our hair played with

I was just going to say this. I love it! Not when my kids do it as they hurt most of the time but if someone did it gently I'd love them forever!

Ruby"

i used to bribe my kids to play with my hair - daughter would go for ages - all for a 10p mix

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aaah, so you get off on a kink...

What's your kink xxx

Maybe...

I enjoy brushing, braiding and playing with women's hair.

It's relaxing...

That's basically perfect because a lot of women love that! "

I'm sure we've discussed this before. But women have been resistant before. My ex thought it was annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aaah, so you get off on a kink...

What's your kink xxx

Maybe...

I enjoy brushing, braiding and playing with women's hair.

It's relaxing...

That's basically perfect because a lot of women love that!

I'm sure we've discussed this before. But women have been resistant before. My ex thought it was annoying. "

We have! My idea of heaven is having my hair played with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aaah, so you get off on a kink...

What's your kink xxx

Maybe...

I enjoy brushing, braiding and playing with women's hair.

It's relaxing...

That's basically perfect because a lot of women love that!

I'm sure we've discussed this before. But women have been resistant before. My ex thought it was annoying.

We have! My idea of heaven is having my hair played with. "

Then you're a goddess and should be treated as such

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