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"I don't go anywhere that has mandatory tips or service charges. I'm from the U.S., so tipping comes pretty natural to me. But it's my choice to do it, not theirs." | |||
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"When I found out Las Iguanos and Turtle Bay took part of the waiting staffs tips I boycotted them (not hard - the food is pants although the cocktails are OK). They stopped doing it not long after it was plastered all over Facebook and the media. Tips, whether included or excluded in the price, should go to the staff. I prefer exclusion because then I can tip what I feel the service was worth. At least we pay a minimum wage in this country. Imagine working in some states in the US where you need the tips to get a decent wage." We may have a minimum wage but it's hardly a decent wage | |||
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"When I found out Las Iguanos and Turtle Bay took part of the waiting staffs tips I boycotted them (not hard - the food is pants although the cocktails are OK). They stopped doing it not long after it was plastered all over Facebook and the media. Tips, whether included or excluded in the price, should go to the staff. I prefer exclusion because then I can tip what I feel the service was worth. At least we pay a minimum wage in this country. Imagine working in some states in the US where you need the tips to get a decent wage. We may have a minimum wage but it's hardly a decent wage " Maybe, but why should anyone else pay someone elses wages ? We pay for the meal which has included in it ......cost of goods, shopping, cooking and serving plus electric , gas and anything else already. | |||
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"I'm very sorry the government taxes their tips, that's fucked up. That ain't my fault. It would seem to me that waitresses are one of the many groups the government fucks in the ass on a regular basis. Look, if you ask me to sign something that says the government shouldn't do that, I'll sign it, put it to a vote, I'll vote for it, but what I won't do is play ball. And as for this non-college bullshit I got two words for that: learn to fuckin' type, 'cause if you're expecting me to help out with the rent you're in for a big fuckin' surprise. " Ditto | |||
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"I work in a cafe/ bar and all the tips are divided amongst all staff FOH,Chefs, kitchen staff etc. Pro rata depending on hours worked . Fairest system I've known in my many years in catering. Why should only waiting staff get tips as many on here are saying?" That's how it worked where I was a barmaid many moons ago. It was fair and everyone got a share at the end of the shift. I'm not a huge fan of a 'service charge' but I believe in tipping good service. | |||
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"I used to work in a hotel bar and restaurant when I was younger and any tips that the rule always was you kept your own tips. I preferred that way of working as some of the staff were just plain rude to customers and didn't deserve to share pulled tips. " This is the system I prefer | |||
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"When I found out Las Iguanos and Turtle Bay took part of the waiting staffs tips I boycotted them (not hard - the food is pants although the cocktails are OK). They stopped doing it not long after it was plastered all over Facebook and the media. Tips, whether included or excluded in the price, should go to the staff. I prefer exclusion because then I can tip what I feel the service was worth. At least we pay a minimum wage in this country. Imagine working in some states in the US where you need the tips to get a decent wage. We may have a minimum wage but it's hardly a decent wage Maybe, but why should anyone else pay someone elses wages ? We pay for the meal which has included in it ......cost of goods, shopping, cooking and serving plus electric , gas and anything else already. " And the surplus they get from it, because if they weren't getting one I very much doubt they'd be open. | |||
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"I used to work in a hotel bar and restaurant when I was younger and any tips that the rule always was you kept your own tips. I preferred that way of working as some of the staff were just plain rude to customers and didn't deserve to share pulled tips. " That's how I believe it should be, my brothers worked in a pub and their tips went in a jar to provide their Christmas do. Another friend worked Christmas Day and got a large amount of tips, however at the end of the day she came out with less than 10% of those tips as it got split between the other members of staff. | |||
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"I used to work in a hotel bar and restaurant when I was younger and any tips that the rule always was you kept your own tips. I preferred that way of working as some of the staff were just plain rude to customers and didn't deserve to share pulled tips. " Yep this is my prefer method, both being the recipient & the customer. I discovered the larger chains if you pay on card including the tip they will pool it with all the staff. | |||
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"I used to work in a hotel bar and restaurant when I was younger and any tips that the rule always was you kept your own tips. I preferred that way of working as some of the staff were just plain rude to customers and didn't deserve to share pulled tips. Yep this is my prefer method, both being the recipient & the customer. I discovered the larger chains if you pay on card including the tip they will pool it with all the staff." But what about the people doing the cooking and the dishes? It's not just the waiting staff who are poorly paid... it feels a bit mean not to share. | |||
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"I don't even tip. People in this country work for an hourly rate or are salaried. As far as I'm concerned they are just doing their job. I don't get tipped in my job and I provode a service to literally thousands of people per day. If I'm I'm America then yes I tip as the staff rely on those to top up the most basic of wages If I'm eating out and the food or service is below standard then I expect a reduced bill. Remember the food you order isn't the price you have to pay it's only a guide. The food hygiene regulation amendments act covers this. Of you think it's only worth a quid then pay a quid even for the finest steak. Alcohol is different tho you must pay the full price for those " a bit tight | |||
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"But what about the people doing the cooking and the dishes? It's not just the waiting staff who are poorly paid... it feels a bit mean not to share. " The chefs are usually better paid and the ones doing the dishes usually do not have the social aptitude to wait on table well. Waiting table takes skills, not rocket science but skills. | |||
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"But what about the people doing the cooking and the dishes? It's not just the waiting staff who are poorly paid... it feels a bit mean not to share. The chefs are usually better paid and the ones doing the dishes usually do not have the social aptitude to wait on table well. Waiting table takes skills, not rocket science but skills." That's possibly true but they need clean plates to do it. Not having the social skills to wait tables shouldn't mean no share of the tips though. | |||
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