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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

taking yourself and what you read to seriously when it comes to fab ....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no, never..

but if I ever think that it is starting to get to me, I close down my profile and eff off for a few weeks..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

No, never take myself seriously or anything in cyber world....

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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater - Somerset

No, if you can't laugh at yourself someone will do it for you.

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"no, never..

but if I ever think that it is starting to get to me, I close down my profile and eff off for a few weeks..

"

some things push my buttons I cant lie because of that fact i only come on here when I'm in a playful mood

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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No, I realise a lot of the real life stories on here are utter bull crafted from boredom.

I think you can enjoy a debate about something without taking it seriously. On the same token, you can disagree with utter crap without taking it too seriously.

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"No."

that's is true bold I've never seen you post a nasty comment ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I realise a lot of the real life stories on here are utter bull crafted from boredom.

I think you can enjoy a debate about something without taking it seriously. On the same token, you can disagree with utter crap without taking it too seriously. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously? Me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take everything on here deadly seriously

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By *aptivatingWoman
over a year ago

Chester


"No, I realise a lot of the real life stories on here are utter bull crafted from boredom.

I think you can enjoy a debate about something without taking it seriously. On the same token, you can disagree with utter crap without taking it too seriously.

"

Some more for this!

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"No, I realise a lot of the real life stories on here are utter bull crafted from boredom.

I think you can enjoy a debate about something without taking it seriously. On the same token, you can disagree with utter crap without taking it too seriously. "

that opening line is a assumption that I never make as true life is often stranger than fiction and far more interesting .

as for debating i used to debate but i soon realised that it was a waste of time because the medium of the written word without body language to back it up is inadequate for the job xx

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I take everything on here deadly seriously "

lair lair pants on firer

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"No, I realise a lot of the real life stories on here are utter bull crafted from boredom.

I think you can enjoy a debate about something without taking it seriously. On the same token, you can disagree with utter crap without taking it too seriously.

that opening line is a assumption that I never make as true life is often stranger than fiction and far more interesting .

as for debating i used to debate but i soon realised that it was a waste of time because the medium of the written word without body language to back it up is inadequate for the job xx "

I'd call it an observation rather than an assumption.

No, language gets across a purpose fairly well - a debate doesn't require body language in order to get points across. Quite often the body language tools you are referring to are replaced with capital letters, usage of punctuation and reiteration of said points. I find there's clarity in written word that can often be distorted by over analysis of subjective body language.

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"No, I realise a lot of the real life stories on here are utter bull crafted from boredom.

I think you can enjoy a debate about something without taking it seriously. On the same token, you can disagree with utter crap without taking it too seriously.

that opening line is a assumption that I never make as true life is often stranger than fiction and far more interesting .

as for debating i used to debate but i soon realised that it was a waste of time because the medium of the written word without body language to back it up is inadequate for the job xx

I'd call it an observation rather than an assumption.

No, language gets across a purpose fairly well - a debate doesn't require body language in order to get points across. Quite often the body language tools you are referring to are replaced with capital letters, usage of punctuation and reiteration of said points. I find there's clarity in written word that can often be distorted by over analysis of subjective body language.

"

its a assumption because you have no facts or evidence to back up your opinion or assumption .

i don't debate on line anymore for one very simple reason the internet is full of trolls who take a opposite piont of view , not because they have a opposite point of view but because there trolling for reasons of there own and the evidence of that is easy to obtain on here by use of the green arrow .

which then makes the debate meaningless . where as in a face to face debate its so easy to spot a troll from there body language plus people don't troll in real life because in real life your actions have consequences unlike online .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I realise a lot of the real life stories on here are utter bull crafted from boredom.

I think you can enjoy a debate about something without taking it seriously. On the same token, you can disagree with utter crap without taking it too seriously.

that opening line is a assumption that I never make as true life is often stranger than fiction and far more interesting .

as for debating i used to debate but i soon realised that it was a waste of time because the medium of the written word without body language to back it up is inadequate for the job xx

I'd call it an observation rather than an assumption.

No, language gets across a purpose fairly well - a debate doesn't require body language in order to get points across. Quite often the body language tools you are referring to are replaced with capital letters, usage of punctuation and reiteration of said points. I find there's clarity in written word that can often be distorted by over analysis of subjective body language.

its a assumption because you have no facts or evidence to back up your opinion or assumption .

i don't debate on line anymore for one very simple reason the internet is full of trolls who take a opposite piont of view , not because they have a opposite point of view but because there trolling for reasons of there own and the evidence of that is easy to obtain on here by use of the green arrow .

which then makes the debate meaningless . where as in a face to face debate its so easy to spot a troll from there body language plus people don't troll in real life because in real life your actions have consequences unlike online ."

So because people have a differing point of view, they're a troll!?

Haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I realise a lot of the real life stories on here are utter bull crafted from boredom.

I think you can enjoy a debate about something without taking it seriously. On the same token, you can disagree with utter crap without taking it too seriously.

that opening line is a assumption that I never make as true life is often stranger than fiction and far more interesting .

as for debating i used to debate but i soon realised that it was a waste of time because the medium of the written word without body language to back it up is inadequate for the job xx

I'd call it an observation rather than an assumption.

No, language gets across a purpose fairly well - a debate doesn't require body language in order to get points across. Quite often the body language tools you are referring to are replaced with capital letters, usage of punctuation and reiteration of said points. I find there's clarity in written word that can often be distorted by over analysis of subjective body language.

its a assumption because you have no facts or evidence to back up your opinion or assumption .

i don't debate on line anymore for one very simple reason the internet is full of trolls who take a opposite piont of view , not because they have a opposite point of view but because there trolling for reasons of there own and the evidence of that is easy to obtain on here by use of the green arrow .

which then makes the debate meaningless . where as in a face to face debate its so easy to spot a troll from there body language plus people don't troll in real life because in real life your actions have consequences unlike online .

So because people have a differing point of view, they're a troll!?

Haha. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"No, I realise a lot of the real life stories on here are utter bull crafted from boredom.

I think you can enjoy a debate about something without taking it seriously. On the same token, you can disagree with utter crap without taking it too seriously.

that opening line is a assumption that I never make as true life is often stranger than fiction and far more interesting .

as for debating i used to debate but i soon realised that it was a waste of time because the medium of the written word without body language to back it up is inadequate for the job xx

I'd call it an observation rather than an assumption.

No, language gets across a purpose fairly well - a debate doesn't require body language in order to get points across. Quite often the body language tools you are referring to are replaced with capital letters, usage of punctuation and reiteration of said points. I find there's clarity in written word that can often be distorted by over analysis of subjective body language.

its a assumption because you have no facts or evidence to back up your opinion or assumption .

i don't debate on line anymore for one very simple reason the internet is full of trolls who take a opposite piont of view , not because they have a opposite point of view but because there trolling for reasons of there own and the evidence of that is easy to obtain on here by use of the green arrow .

which then makes the debate meaningless . where as in a face to face debate its so easy to spot a troll from there body language plus people don't troll in real life because in real life your actions have consequences unlike online .

So because people have a differing point of view, they're a troll!?

Haha. "

I think that's what it boils down to with the OP, yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pinch of salt springs to mind

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"No, I realise a lot of the real life stories on here are utter bull crafted from boredom.

I think you can enjoy a debate about something without taking it seriously. On the same token, you can disagree with utter crap without taking it too seriously.

that opening line is a assumption that I never make as true life is often stranger than fiction and far more interesting .

as for debating i used to debate but i soon realised that it was a waste of time because the medium of the written word without body language to back it up is inadequate for the job xx

I'd call it an observation rather than an assumption.

No, language gets across a purpose fairly well - a debate doesn't require body language in order to get points across. Quite often the body language tools you are referring to are replaced with capital letters, usage of punctuation and reiteration of said points. I find there's clarity in written word that can often be distorted by over analysis of subjective body language.

its a assumption because you have no facts or evidence to back up your opinion or assumption .

i don't debate on line anymore for one very simple reason the internet is full of trolls who take a opposite piont of view , not because they have a opposite point of view but because there trolling for reasons of there own and the evidence of that is easy to obtain on here by use of the green arrow .

which then makes the debate meaningless . where as in a face to face debate its so easy to spot a troll from there body language plus people don't troll in real life because in real life your actions have consequences unlike online .

So because people have a differing point of view, they're a troll!?

Haha. "

no I don't say that I said online people troll under the guise of debating . I used to engage in debates on here and elsewhere and enjoyed do it in a friendly way . then someone on here showed me when I was debating someone who will remain anonymous a different forum post from months earlier where they were expressing a total opposite point of view .

at that point I made a conscious decision to no longer debate on these sorts of sites because one never knows if one is being trolled or not .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I realise a lot of the real life stories on here are utter bull crafted from boredom.

I think you can enjoy a debate about something without taking it seriously. On the same token, you can disagree with utter crap without taking it too seriously.

that opening line is a assumption that I never make as true life is often stranger than fiction and far more interesting .

as for debating i used to debate but i soon realised that it was a waste of time because the medium of the written word without body language to back it up is inadequate for the job xx

I'd call it an observation rather than an assumption.

No, language gets across a purpose fairly well - a debate doesn't require body language in order to get points across. Quite often the body language tools you are referring to are replaced with capital letters, usage of punctuation and reiteration of said points. I find there's clarity in written word that can often be distorted by over analysis of subjective body language.

its a assumption because you have no facts or evidence to back up your opinion or assumption .

i don't debate on line anymore for one very simple reason the internet is full of trolls who take a opposite piont of view , not because they have a opposite point of view but because there trolling for reasons of there own and the evidence of that is easy to obtain on here by use of the green arrow .

which then makes the debate meaningless . where as in a face to face debate its so easy to spot a troll from there body language plus people don't troll in real life because in real life your actions have consequences unlike online .

So because people have a differing point of view, they're a troll!?

Haha.

no I don't say that I said online people troll under the guise of debating . I used to engage in debates on here and elsewhere and enjoyed do it in a friendly way . then someone on here showed me when I was debating someone who will remain anonymous a different forum post from months earlier where they were expressing a total opposite point of view .

at that point I made a conscious decision to no longer debate on these sorts of sites because one never knows if one is being trolled or not . "

People can change their minds about things, plus some people like to debate, doesn't mean they're a troll. If the debate is done without being personally rude or nasty, then I think it's good to see two differing opinions to something. It helps us see both sides.

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

You're telling me I shouldn't take what I read seriously? So I don't have the most amazing body they've ever seen and they wouldn't really walk over broken glass on their cock for a 5 minute shag

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"no I don't say that I said online people troll under the guise of debating . I used to engage in debates on here and elsewhere and enjoyed do it in a friendly way . then someone on here showed me when I was debating someone who will remain anonymous a different forum post from months earlier where they were expressing a total opposite point of view .

at that point I made a conscious decision to no longer debate on these sorts of sites because one never knows if one is being trolled or not . "

But you have done OP and do - normally by saying it's point scoring or that people are displaying superiority or that they aren't the sort you want to meet because they don't have fun or they have undesirable characteristics as believed?

That aside, I didn't actually want to start a conversation solely with you. I wanted to express my opinion; not for the sake of trolling but because a forum is an exchange of views and opinions. I think you can quite easily take it not too seriously and enjoy reading others posts.

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"No, I realise a lot of the real life stories on here are utter bull crafted from boredom.

I think you can enjoy a debate about something without taking it seriously. On the same token, you can disagree with utter crap without taking it too seriously.

that opening line is a assumption that I never make as true life is often stranger than fiction and far more interesting .

as for debating i used to debate but i soon realised that it was a waste of time because the medium of the written word without body language to back it up is inadequate for the job xx

I'd call it an observation rather than an assumption.

No, language gets across a purpose fairly well - a debate doesn't require body language in order to get points across. Quite often the body language tools you are referring to are replaced with capital letters, usage of punctuation and reiteration of said points. I find there's clarity in written word that can often be distorted by over analysis of subjective body language.

its a assumption because you have no facts or evidence to back up your opinion or assumption .

i don't debate on line anymore for one very simple reason the internet is full of trolls who take a opposite piont of view , not because they have a opposite point of view but because there trolling for reasons of there own and the evidence of that is easy to obtain on here by use of the green arrow .

which then makes the debate meaningless . where as in a face to face debate its so easy to spot a troll from there body language plus people don't troll in real life because in real life your actions have consequences unlike online .

So because people have a differing point of view, they're a troll!?

Haha.

no I don't say that I said online people troll under the guise of debating . I used to engage in debates on here and elsewhere and enjoyed do it in a friendly way . then someone on here showed me when I was debating someone who will remain anonymous a different forum post from months earlier where they were expressing a total opposite point of view .

at that point I made a conscious decision to no longer debate on these sorts of sites because one never knows if one is being trolled or not .

People can change their minds about things, plus some people like to debate, doesn't mean they're a troll. If the debate is done without being personally rude or nasty, then I think it's good to see two differing opinions to something. It helps us see both sides. "

true people can have a change of mind but that was not what was going on in the example I gave it was trolling systematic trolling .

since that day I now regularly use the green arrow and you know what it really is the best tool this site supplies its users with for checking out other site users true personalities better than the veri system any day of the week .

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"You're telling me I shouldn't take what I read seriously? So I don't have the most amazing body they've ever seen and they wouldn't really walk over broken glass on their cock for a 5 minute shag "

desperate times demand desperate measures some men will say and do anything when there hard including pillow fucking as well as all the above in your post

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham


"You're telling me I shouldn't take what I read seriously? So I don't have the most amazing body they've ever seen and they wouldn't really walk over broken glass on their cock for a 5 minute shag

desperate times demand desperate measures some men will say and do anything when there hard including pillow fucking as well as all the above in your post "

Bastards! may their knobs turn green and fall off

Oh and in response to the original question no I don't take myself too seriously on here

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"no I don't say that I said online people troll under the guise of debating . I used to engage in debates on here and elsewhere and enjoyed do it in a friendly way . then someone on here showed me when I was debating someone who will remain anonymous a different forum post from months earlier where they were expressing a total opposite point of view .

at that point I made a conscious decision to no longer debate on these sorts of sites because one never knows if one is being trolled or not .

But you have done OP and do - normally by saying it's point scoring or that people are displaying superiority or that they aren't the sort you want to meet because they don't have fun or they have undesirable characteristics as believed?

That aside, I didn't actually want to start a conversation solely with you. I wanted to express my opinion; not for the sake of trolling but because a forum is an exchange of views and opinions. I think you can quite easily take it not too seriously and enjoy reading others posts."

I cant write a long post in response to this as I have to hop in the shower and get ready for a lunch time date .

but no this I do my research before adding a friend to my friends list or even going on a social by using the green button next to there name , its the one piece of advice i was given by the lady who introduce me to here and its the one piece of advice i would give to any new site member use the green arrow to see the truth about those you are about to interact with .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I realise a lot of the real life stories on here are utter bull crafted from boredom.

I think you can enjoy a debate about something without taking it seriously. On the same token, you can disagree with utter crap without taking it too seriously.

that opening line is a assumption that I never make as true life is often stranger than fiction and far more interesting .

as for debating i used to debate but i soon realised that it was a waste of time because the medium of the written word without body language to back it up is inadequate for the job xx

I'd call it an observation rather than an assumption.

No, language gets across a purpose fairly well - a debate doesn't require body language in order to get points across. Quite often the body language tools you are referring to are replaced with capital letters, usage of punctuation and reiteration of said points. I find there's clarity in written word that can often be distorted by over analysis of subjective body language.

its a assumption because you have no facts or evidence to back up your opinion or assumption .

i don't debate on line anymore for one very simple reason the internet is full of trolls who take a opposite piont of view , not because they have a opposite point of view but because there trolling for reasons of there own and the evidence of that is easy to obtain on here by use of the green arrow .

which then makes the debate meaningless . where as in a face to face debate its so easy to spot a troll from there body language plus people don't troll in real life because in real life your actions have consequences unlike online .

So because people have a differing point of view, they're a troll!?

Haha.

no I don't say that I said online people troll under the guise of debating . I used to engage in debates on here and elsewhere and enjoyed do it in a friendly way . then someone on here showed me when I was debating someone who will remain anonymous a different forum post from months earlier where they were expressing a total opposite point of view .

at that point I made a conscious decision to no longer debate on these sorts of sites because one never knows if one is being trolled or not .

People can change their minds about things, plus some people like to debate, doesn't mean they're a troll. If the debate is done without being personally rude or nasty, then I think it's good to see two differing opinions to something. It helps us see both sides.

true people can have a change of mind but that was not what was going on in the example I gave it was trolling systematic trolling .

since that day I now regularly use the green arrow and you know what it really is the best tool this site supplies its users with for checking out other site users true personalities better than the veri system any day of the week .

"

I would hope someone who's met me in the flesh would have seen more of my true personality than someone reading my words on a screen.

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"You're telling me I shouldn't take what I read seriously? So I don't have the most amazing body they've ever seen and they wouldn't really walk over broken glass on their cock for a 5 minute shag

desperate times demand desperate measures some men will say and do anything when there hard including pillow fucking as well as all the above in your post

Bastards! may their knobs turn green and fall off

Oh and in response to the original question no I don't take myself too seriously on here "

i know you don't i have done research on you and you scored a 8 out of 10 which means out of my league

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I would hope someone who's met me in the flesh would have seen more of my true personality than someone reading my words on a screen. "

Actually, that could be an interesting thread. What does the green arrow reveal about what you are 'really' like?

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By *andVBCouple
over a year ago

Wrexham


"the one piece of advice i would give to any new site member use the green arrow to see the truth about those you are about to interact with . "

Noooo... our well written, hand-crafted, artisanal, super-cereal profile is all for naught if people look at our post history.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I cant write a long post in response to this as I have to hop in the shower and get ready for a lunch time date .

but no this I do my research before adding a friend to my friends list or even going on a social by using the green button next to there name , its the one piece of advice i was given by the lady who introduce me to here and its the one piece of advice i would give to any new site member use the green arrow to see the truth about those you are about to interact with . "

You don't need to OP, the response is there within your green arrow of truth. Enjoy your lunch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"taking yourself and what you read to seriously when it comes to fab ....? "

Yes....no. Sometimes. Hardly ever.

As you can see I've got mixed feeling when I answer questions and post anything.

I do sometimes sit and think carefully and word my posts with feelings and try to invoke thoughtful discussion.

Other times I blurt out the first thing that comes to mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I take the sex and people I meet seriously, that's it.

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"No. I take the sex and people I meet seriously, that's it. "

I totally agree but before one even considers meeting someone off of here who one may introduce to ones fwb and ones swinging social group one does some research .

After all who wants to introduce a trouble maker a bunny boiler a narcissist or even a two faced prat to ones friends .

I take my care of duty to my play friends seriously sorry but I do

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"I would hope someone who's met me in the flesh would have seen more of my true personality than someone reading my words on a screen.

Actually, that could be an interesting thread. What does the green arrow reveal about what you are 'really' like? "

Found out what that pesky green arrow was for yesterday.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. I take the sex and people I meet seriously, that's it.

I totally agree but before one even considers meeting someone off of here who one may introduce to ones fwb and ones swinging social group one does some research .

After all who wants to introduce a trouble maker a bunny boiler a narcissist or even a two faced prat to ones friends .

I take my care of duty to my play friends seriously sorry but I do "

How do you think you're perceived on here just by looking at your posts on the forums?

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"No. I take the sex and people I meet seriously, that's it.

I totally agree but before one even considers meeting someone off of here who one may introduce to ones fwb and ones swinging social group one does some research .

After all who wants to introduce a trouble maker a bunny boiler a narcissist or even a two faced prat to ones friends .

I take my care of duty to my play friends seriously sorry but I do

How do you think you're perceived on here just by looking at your posts on the forums?"

I don't worry about that some will like me some will dislike me some will hate me some will put me on a hit list some will.put me on a hot list some will look.for a opportunity to say something negative to me some will constantly do that other will say something positive in regards to my posts all normal behavior for a forum all I worry about is not getting involved with a bad egg because lets be honest here a quick forum search can pull up a ton of cases where the fun of recreational sex and friendships has been ruined by a bad egg getting past ones filters

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I would hope someone who's met me in the flesh would have seen more of my true personality than someone reading my words on a screen.

Actually, that could be an interesting thread. What does the green arrow reveal about what you are 'really' like?

Found out what that pesky green arrow was for yesterday..... "

Yeah, it's a pain in the arse. It shows my love of food, cocks, fannies and older men and discussions about sausage fests and most fabbed photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. I take the sex and people I meet seriously, that's it.

I totally agree but before one even considers meeting someone off of here who one may introduce to ones fwb and ones swinging social group one does some research .

After all who wants to introduce a trouble maker a bunny boiler a narcissist or even a two faced prat to ones friends .

I take my care of duty to my play friends seriously sorry but I do

How do you think you're perceived on here just by looking at your posts on the forums?

I don't worry about that some will like me some will dislike me some will hate me some will put me on a hit list some will.put me on a hot list some will look.for a opportunity to say something negative to me some will constantly do that other will say something positive in regards to my posts all normal behavior for a forum all I worry about is not getting involved with a bad egg because lets be honest here a quick forum search can pull up a ton of cases where the fun of recreational sex and friendships has been ruined by a bad egg getting past ones filters "

So you only meet people who post in the forums then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would hope someone who's met me in the flesh would have seen more of my true personality than someone reading my words on a screen.

Actually, that could be an interesting thread. What does the green arrow reveal about what you are 'really' like?

Found out what that pesky green arrow was for yesterday..... "

Ahh. It dangerous isn't it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From reading this thread and what the OP has responded with, it would seem that if you ever engage in a debate or tackle an issue that you don't agree with, then you're obviously 'one of those people'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to I was a self righteous prick and was brutally honest but it did me no good. I am more lighthearted now

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"No. I take the sex and people I meet seriously, that's it.

I totally agree but before one even considers meeting someone off of here who one may introduce to ones fwb and ones swinging social group one does some research .

After all who wants to introduce a trouble maker a bunny boiler a narcissist or even a two faced prat to ones friends .

I take my care of duty to my play friends seriously sorry but I do

How do you think you're perceived on here just by looking at your posts on the forums?

I don't worry about that some will like me some will dislike me some will hate me some will put me on a hit list some will.put me on a hot list some will look.for a opportunity to say something negative to me some will constantly do that other will say something positive in regards to my posts all normal behavior for a forum all I worry about is not getting involved with a bad egg because lets be honest here a quick forum search can pull up a ton of cases where the fun of recreational sex and friendships has been ruined by a bad egg getting past ones filters

So you only meet people who post in the forums then? "

Manly yes I don't send random messages as a general rule .plus as a general rule I only respond to those who message me .i can behave in this way because I have a small circle of regular play partners that doesn't mean that fresh personalities are not welcome it just means I don't have to force anything that includes meets .anyone who has interacted with me regularly on here can verify that I'm in no rush to meet I do not pressurize others nor do I react well to those who try to pressurize me into a meet

If someone messages me I always respond but I don't pursue conversations think message for message .

As I general rule i am here for the forums and if new social play partner comes along great if not well it doesn't really matter for reasons already listed

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I used to I was a self righteous prick and was brutally honest but it did me no good. I am more lighthearted now "

At least you possess the self awareness to acknowledge that. I was quite cuntish but I'm better at not being so.

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By *andVBCouple
over a year ago

Wrexham


"I used to I was a self righteous prick and was brutally honest but it did me no good. I am more lighthearted now

At least you possess the self awareness to acknowledge that. I was quite cuntish but I'm better at not being so."

You have a sharp mind and a sharp tongue. I often find you've already replied how I intended just more eloquently than I ever could.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to I was a self righteous prick and was brutally honest but it did me no good. I am more lighthearted now

At least you possess the self awareness to acknowledge that. I was quite cuntish but I'm better at not being so."

You didn't see me before this profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be a bit sensitive. I try not to be but if i've not mastered it by now i'm not sure there's any hope left.

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I can be a bit sensitive. I try not to be but if i've not mastered it by now i'm not sure there's any hope left.

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Not your thought your sensitive nor are you responsible for what others choose to say to you .its there choice to be nasty or not towards those they interact with like me you are only responsible for your own behavior on the forums not the behavior of others .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah especially when women want BBC I mean I got the big right but not the black

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"taking yourself and what you read to seriously when it comes to fab ....? "
sometimes... x

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