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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How much do you need it in your life ?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

None

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

110%

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

I need a routine that way the normal can be broken on a regular basis. 'A change is as good as a rest'

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'm happy with my routine as long as I can let my hair down from time to time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My life revolves around

routine. Every working hour up until April is booked. That is slowly getting booked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My everyday life is routine, like I imagine a lot of people's lives are who work and have children.

However, when it comes to my freetime I don't have set routine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really need routine. I can't cope with spontaneity or not being able to plan, it makes me incredibly uneasy.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

It has it's place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have no routine what so ever.

Everything we do from what we get up to on a day to day basis, what meals we have etc

It's all made up on the day.

Wish we could plan a bit more to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

none im rubbish im so shocking but who needs it anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have no routine what so ever.

Everything we do from what we get up to on a day to day basis, what meals we have etc

It's all made up on the day.

Wish we could plan a bit more to be honest "

You're very fortunate if you don't have work. I'd love to do whatever I wanted each day.

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

I'd never have said it was that important, but this morning I did things a bit differently and ended up leaving the house without my glasses (just dressed in the bathroom rather than my bedroom). Not good!

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

I dont have a set routine as my shifts change from week to week and im rarely working the same shift on consecutive days. But once i know what im working i like to plan what i need to do and when around them

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By * Kiwis and a BananaMan
over a year ago

Part of your 5 a day

I have a routine but my timings have no room for contingencies so I'm always changing it. Can be very spontaneous given the right motive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need it for my children, particularly my youngest who has Dyspraxia and routine is important to him.

Also, i'm not very organised as a person so a routine stops me from feeling overwhelmed and a bit more on top of things

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"It has it's place"

Plans and routines are, per se, good ideas.

BUT, as Napoleon said, "If half your plans come off in battle, count it a success."

Flexibility is key, too.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"It has it's place

Plans and routines are, per se, good ideas.

BUT, as Napoleon said, "If half your plans come off in battle, count it a success."

Flexibility is key, too. "

And kids like routines.

Pfft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have no routine what so ever.

Everything we do from what we get up to on a day to day basis, what meals we have etc

It's all made up on the day.

Wish we could plan a bit more to be honest

You're very fortunate if you don't have work. I'd love to do whatever I wanted each day."

We do both work, but it's just as none routine as everything else. Mrsdpts shifts are just made up every two weeks which just adds to the chaos the days change every week.

The joys of both working unsocial jobs I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go into meltdown if I don't have a routine. I need to be organised otherwise I stress out.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I have a lot of routines as it all helps to keep me sane, functioning and able to go out to work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to have routine because I need to be organised for kids / work.

By nature though I'm a wing it person, which sometimes works well & at times doesn't.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I have a minimum of routine, though lots of organisation

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"I need a routine that way the normal can be broken on a regular basis. 'A change is as good as a rest'"

Never understood this phrase as I've always heard it from people who love routine. I have always taken it as 'change is a good thing' like rest is, but obviously not? How is rest not good?

Honest question.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"I have a minimum of routine, though lots of organisation "

Much better, healthier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all, routine bores the life out of us

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Only for certain things, the rest of my life is so haphazard you wouldn't believe it

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Only for certain things, the rest of my life is so haphazard you wouldn't believe it "

Oh, I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Routine is paramount for my life however it can deviate from day to day occasionally, but being organised and a routine come hand in hand I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Routines are part and parcel of my life, I've gotten so used to them I do things without thinking now, have to with 2 autistic sons.

But I like the times I get to be spontaneous for myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a routine for work days although it varies depending on what shift i work. Once home its the usual routine of housework, cooking etc.

Days off have no set routine though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need a routine that way the normal can be broken on a regular basis. 'A change is as good as a rest'

Never understood this phrase as I've always heard it from people who love routine. I have always taken it as 'change is a good thing' like rest is, but obviously not? How is rest not good?

Honest question. "

It means that a change does you good, the same as a rest does you good. That's how I take it anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love routine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate routine but family and work dictate that I must have it. I also hate being tied to plans especially when it involves other people's versions of events. I don't like having to do something just because it's time to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How much do you need it in your life ?"

Not at all I don't like being told what to do! I feel like a routine is someone telling me what to do and I rebel against it

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How much do you need it in your life ?"

I loath routine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In work there is no routine

Every days is as diverse and manic as the next

The only routine we really have is with the dog. I think its important for them and like how they get used to it.

So, for example, he knows after play in the morning, I go and brush my teeth and he goes and sits in his bed and waits for his dental chew.

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