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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good morning,

have you ever had meets going wrong or wasnt as you expected them to be?

How did you deal with it?

Until now we were quite lucky besides one meet where the guy smelled of sweat and another one where a guy wasnt hard enough...

in both cases we tried to get away asap. lol

I'm sure everyone must have had a meet what wasnt as good as you expected.

Sandra x

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By *opeye-OliveCouple
over a year ago

worcester

We had a meet with a lovely couple, but the guy just couldn't get it up. He was also incredibly nervous, whick tends to make things worse.

Olive basically just had Oral etc. and after the night we sent some polite messages, but we don't intend to see them again. There is no need to be nasty.

We've had nobody offensive yet. We always start with a social, which tends to out the dick heads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope the guys don't read this

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By *opeye-OliveCouple
over a year ago

worcester


"Hope the guys don't read this "

If somebody identifies themself from a general posting, with no names, that's not a problem as long as we're not vindictive. In fact it could be a good thing.

We've had guys at clubs who are just too rough - they may not be aware. If my guy was doing something a lady didn't like, I hope she would let him know.

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

Does the bed going through the floor/ceiling count as a meet going wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a guy a few months back that's started crying over his wife leaving him

Have to admit that's wasn't my plan for the night lol

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

had one where the couple argued but it just made us laugh lol evil i know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does the bed going through the floor/ceiling count as a meet going wrong? "

Of course! Tell us more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"had one where the couple argued but it just made us laugh lol evil i know"

We would have been the same

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I've had a fair few single guys who spent most of the time bitching about various exes or previous meets. It does not make me horny knowing that I'll probably be the subject of a rant for one of his future meets. Also, several failing to achieve or maintain erection, but performance anxiety hits every guy eventually.

I'd much rather leave a meet unfulfilled than be stood up though. No contest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"had one where the couple argued but it just made us laugh lol evil i know

We would have been the same "

When I met you two at Chams I had a good laugh.

Does that me ME evil??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"had one where the couple argued but it just made us laugh lol evil i know

We would have been the same

When I met you two at Chams I had a good laugh.

Does that me ME evil?? "

Well, we didn't notice you arguing with one of your other personalities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive met guys who've had performance issues too, as has happened to Chris at clubs before and which has happened to probably every guy swinging at some point. Nerves and an expectation to perform usually cause the anxiety and the more you will it to happen, the worst it will get. Some guys find it hard to perform in front of Chris, so he usually moves away from the situation for a few minutes so they are just left with me. Things like that never bother me, in fact at times its a bonus as they spend more time giving me oral which I love.

We havent had a bad meet, weve had meets which havent been as fantastic as others, thats not the sex though, thats personalities.

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

I've two instances.

#1. I'd a couple with whom I'd been messaging and talking to for a while; they'd verifications etc, and I was comfortable with them.

We met socially in a local pub, we clicked and so it was decided they'd follow me in their car, as they were unsure of the area. That was a farce; they lost me in the traffic, so I ended up at home, giving them a running commentary via Mobile Phones.

They arrived having a full blown row about who was to blame over losing me in the traffic and after 20 minutes of this, I gave up trying to act as peacemaker and showed them the door.

#2. This was a couple on another site with whom I'd met at their place and an return meet was to be held at mine.

It was only whilst I was "entertaining" his missus, that I realised he wasn't there, nor was he in the loo, so I was a bit concerned. When the opportunity arose, I went downstairs and found him rooting through every drawer, cupboard and even my filing cabinet!

He and his wife were kicked out pronto, not before I went through his clothes piled on the floor, where I found items of mine! He was reported to the site Mods, who dumped him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" When the opportunity arose, I went downstairs and found him rooting through every drawer, cupboard and even my filing cabinet!

He and his wife were kicked out pronto, not before I went through his clothes piled on the floor, where I found items of mine! He was reported to the site Mods, who dumped him."

unbelievable that people do that!

just shows how careful one has to be to let people into your home!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

met a couple with a fb of mine, got there and they had already gone through half a bottle of vodka and several ciders. she flinched at every touch of my fb and he was so rough with me he made me bleed.

we both ended up faking it then left quicksharp!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met a guy a few months back that's started crying over his wife leaving him

Have to admit that's wasn't my plan for the night lol"

im crying because we havnt met yet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"had one where the couple argued but it just made us laugh lol evil i know

We would have been the same "

No we wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"had one where the couple argued but it just made us laugh lol evil i know

We would have been the same

No we wouldn't "

Yes we would dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"had one where the couple argued but it just made us laugh lol evil i know

We would have been the same

No we wouldn't

Yes we would dear "

NO WE BLOODY WOUDN'T darling

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"had one where the couple argued but it just made us laugh lol evil i know

We would have been the same

No we wouldn't

Yes we would dear

NO WE BLOODY WOUDN'T darling "
yes you bloody would... now run along and get in the kitchen Mr...where you belong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"had one where the couple argued but it just made us laugh lol evil i know

We would have been the same

No we wouldn't

Yes we would dear

NO WE BLOODY WOUDN'T darling yes you bloody would... now run along and get in the kitchen Mr...where you belong "

Ok, we would. Now......where's the tea towel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

really lively lady on cam and completely passive on the night. Also was obviously dom and did not give permission for her guy to play with me. Selfish bitch wanted to lay back and get all the attention. Cut short that was. Horrible evening.

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

I learnt the hard way in my early days...Travelled to meet a man in another part of the country for the night, the beginning went fine, he collected me from the station and he was everything I expected. We went back to his and had some fun.

As the evening progressed we caught a taxi into town and by this stage he had already had a few beers at home. With each pub we went to in the town, the more d*unk he got and the less I liked him. I was stuck in a strange town, my things were at his and I couldn't get home.

The more he d*unk and nastier and insulting he became. I felt like a whore! I spent the night on his sofa, he had crashed out on his bed by then and I caught a taxi for the first train the next day! Never again!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I had a meet with a guy that made me feel like a bit of meat he was just so rude.. Hence now why I have become more selective however still get it wrong but you soon know once you speak to them on the phone a few times..

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Ive met a cpl at mine a few times not off this site so got on with them really well but the last meet all went wrong ,we ended up in the bedroom playing as you do her partner got up went out the room me thinking hes gone for drink and will be back so i carried on playing with his wife ten mins pasted the door slammed open ,he just kicked off and they went within five mins so guys always ask to carry on lesson learnt

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