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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Started chatting to a lovely women over the weekend, everything was going swimmingly, we're both up for a meet, and the suddenly she went quiet!! Asked her what the problem was and replied back finding it hard to work out if your genuine or not!! As I've only 1 verification, my reply is it like to keep my activities private, how do we feel about this should we publish or antics or keep them private, dose to many verification look off putting !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't have to show your veris ..you can hide them or just show a couple ..it's up to the person themselves on what they want to show

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You don't have to show your veris ..you can hide them or just show a couple ..it's up to the person themselves on what they want to show "
thank you darlin how are you today gorgeous x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You don't have to show your veris ..you can hide them or just show a couple ..it's up to the person themselves on what they want to show thank you darlin how are you today gorgeous x "

Very well thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't blame someone for being cautious of strangers on the internet, perhaps suggest a coffee meet first - if that's not what you were trying to do?

Ultimately though, just as you are free to display your verifications or not, you have no control over the conclusions others will draw about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That seems an odd reason to suddenly go quiet over. ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You can't blame someone for being cautious of strangers on the internet, perhaps suggest a coffee meet first - if that's not what you were trying to do?

Ultimately though, just as you are free to display your verifications or not, you have no control over the conclusions others will draw about it."
well I did ask her if she'd like meet up for a few drinks maybe a meal and take things from there, as she wanted some male company to attend chams in a couple of weeks with her, I was fully up for that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You don't have to show your veris ..you can hide them or just show a couple ..it's up to the person themselves on what they want to show thank you darlin how are you today gorgeous x

Very well thankyou "
very good darlin glad to see

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That seems an odd reason to suddenly go quiet over. .."
yea we was getting on really well, when she replied back in was like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't show mine. Because I don't display them, I haven't received any from most of the people I've met. If someone thinks this makes me less genuine than their problem, I'm not going to be displaying them to provide them with reassurance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can't blame someone for being cautious of strangers on the internet, perhaps suggest a coffee meet first - if that's not what you were trying to do?

Ultimately though, just as you are free to display your verifications or not, you have no control over the conclusions others will draw about it.well I did ask her if she'd like meet up for a few drinks maybe a meal and take things from there, as she wanted some male company to attend chams in a couple of weeks with her, I was fully up for that "

Fair enough, personally, I wouldn't bend over backwards for anyone here (other directions maybe!), ultimately we're all taking a chance with meeting someone, and she could just be a fake or messing you around.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You can't blame someone for being cautious of strangers on the internet, perhaps suggest a coffee meet first - if that's not what you were trying to do?

Ultimately though, just as you are free to display your verifications or not, you have no control over the conclusions others will draw about it.well I did ask her if she'd like meet up for a few drinks maybe a meal and take things from there, as she wanted some male company to attend chams in a couple of weeks with her, I was fully up for that

Fair enough, personally, I wouldn't bend over backwards for anyone here (other directions maybe!), ultimately we're all taking a chance with meeting someone, and she could just be a fake or messing you around.

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yea that very true, maybe short just got cold feet, but I'm a happy chappy anyway as I'm on a definite meet this weekend and see how it flutters out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can't blame someone for being cautious of strangers on the internet, perhaps suggest a coffee meet first - if that's not what you were trying to do?

Ultimately though, just as you are free to display your verifications or not, you have no control over the conclusions others will draw about it.well I did ask her if she'd like meet up for a few drinks maybe a meal and take things from there, as she wanted some male company to attend chams in a couple of weeks with her, I was fully up for that

Fair enough, personally, I wouldn't bend over backwards for anyone here (other directions maybe!), ultimately we're all taking a chance with meeting someone, and she could just be a fake or messing you around.

yea that very true, maybe short just got cold feet, but I'm a happy chappy anyway as I'm on a definite meet this weekend and see how it flutters out "

Onwards and upwards!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't show mine. Because I don't display them, I haven't received any from most of the people I've met. If someone thinks this makes me less genuine than their problem, I'm not going to be displaying them to provide them with reassurance. "
I don't show mine just out of respect, my antics are between me and the second party involved, however if she asks I will gladly verify her

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You can't blame someone for being cautious of strangers on the internet, perhaps suggest a coffee meet first - if that's not what you were trying to do?

Ultimately though, just as you are free to display your verifications or not, you have no control over the conclusions others will draw about it.well I did ask her if she'd like meet up for a few drinks maybe a meal and take things from there, as she wanted some male company to attend chams in a couple of weeks with her, I was fully up for that

Fair enough, personally, I wouldn't bend over backwards for anyone here (other directions maybe!), ultimately we're all taking a chance with meeting someone, and she could just be a fake or messing you around.

yea that very true, maybe short just got cold feet, but I'm a happy chappy anyway as I'm on a definite meet this weekend and see how it flutters out

Onwards and upwards!! "
Defiantly hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Show the best ones. Keep them to a minimum don't wanna look like a slut

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I show mine but I know some couples won't veri me as they don't meet singles on their profile but have played with me In a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never shown my veris and I never will. Ultimately I don't want the whole world knowing who I've slept with, when I did it and how it went; I'm a tad more private than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Show the summary that's enough.

It baffles me why some people feel the need to write a word for word account of what happened.

It wouldn't be so bad if they weren't full of cliches too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never shown my veris and I never will. Ultimately I don't want the whole world knowing who I've slept with, when I did it and how it went; I'm a tad more private than that."

So you don't have a cock to die for then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Show the summary that's enough.

It baffles me why some people feel the need to write a word for word account of what happened.

It wouldn't be so bad if they weren't full of cliches too "
haha yeah isn't story telling

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

I hide them. My sexual activity is my business and my lovers's ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Show the best ones. Keep them to a minimum don't wanna look like a slut"
true cheers woody

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Show the best ones. Keep them to a minimum don't wanna look like a sluttrue cheers woody "
by the way is that your motor?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Started chatting to a lovely women over the weekend, everything was going swimmingly, we're both up for a meet, and the suddenly she went quiet!! Asked her what the problem was and replied back finding it hard to work out if your genuine or not!! As I've only 1 verification, my reply is it like to keep my activities private, how do we feel about this should we publish or antics or keep them private, dose to many verification look off putting !!"

We show most ot our veris, we ask for polite ones, some of our veris are from social meets. We don't use veris to try to prove how many times we have sex - they are there to show that we are genuine, swingers, happy sociable people and we turn up!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've never shown my veris and I never will. Ultimately I don't want the whole world knowing who I've slept with, when I did it and how it went; I'm a tad more private than that."
same here very well said

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Show the best ones. Keep them to a minimum don't wanna look like a sluttrue cheers woody by the way is that your motor?"
I wish lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Started chatting to a lovely women over the weekend, everything was going swimmingly, we're both up for a meet, and the suddenly she went quiet!! Asked her what the problem was and replied back finding it hard to work out if your genuine or not!! As I've only 1 verification, my reply is it like to keep my activities private, how do we feel about this should we publish or antics or keep them private, dose to many verification look off putting !!

We show most ot our veris, we ask for polite ones, some of our veris are from social meets. We don't use veris to try to prove how many times we have sex - they are there to show that we are genuine, swingers, happy sociable people and we turn up! "

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I don't show mine and I doubt I will unless it's from a group social. I couldn't care less if it makes me appear fake; I don't want people messaging those I have met (yes, this has happened before) and I dislike leaving a sex trail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep them private. I don't need them to tell everyone I'm a twat, they can see that quite easily from my posts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't show mine and I doubt I will unless it's from a group social. I couldn't care less if it makes me appear fake; I don't want people messaging those I have met (yes, this has happened before) and I dislike leaving a sex trail."
love to follow your trail....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't show mine and I doubt I will unless it's from a group social. I couldn't care less if it makes me appear fake; I don't want people messaging those I have met (yes, this has happened before) and I dislike leaving a sex trail."
very good point darlin

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By *ntriguedx2Couple
over a year ago

wigan

It's up to you ..everyone doesn't need to know your business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Started chatting to a lovely women over the weekend, everything was going swimmingly, we're both up for a meet, and the suddenly she went quiet!! Asked her what the problem was and replied back finding it hard to work out if your genuine or not!! As I've only 1 verification, my reply is it like to keep my activities private, how do we feel about this should we publish or antics or keep them private, dose to many verification look off putting !!"

Maybe she thinks youve hidden your veri because its from another man or a fake profile veri ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never shown my veris and I never will. Ultimately I don't want the whole world knowing who I've slept with, when I did it and how it went; I'm a tad more private than that.

So you don't have a cock to die for then? "

Oh I didn't say that wasn't the case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never shown my veris and I never will. Ultimately I don't want the whole world knowing who I've slept with, when I did it and how it went; I'm a tad more private than that.

So you don't have a cock to die for then?

Oh I didn't say that wasn't the case "

Ah but where's the independent assessment?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I keep them private. I don't need them to tell everyone I'm a twat, they can see that quite easily from my posts "
.....pmsl suffer same affliction here lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's up to you ..everyone doesn't need to know your business "
well I'm a private person my business is my own at the end of the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's up to you ..everyone doesn't need to know your business well I'm a private person my business is my own at the end of the day "

That's right. Your business is not there's. And vice-versa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't win, people's profiles will state," I won't meet you unless your verified " or 'lf your not displaying your veris your hiding something"

Show them of with pride is what I say, if people don't like them, then what the hell are they doing on fab?

Rant over happy Tuesday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I keep them private. I don't need them to tell everyone I'm a twat, they can see that quite easily from my posts .....pmsl suffer same affliction here lol "

Are you Mark, who's also a ninja?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can't win, people's profiles will state," I won't meet you unless your verified " or 'lf your not displaying your veris your hiding something"

Show them of with pride is what I say, if people don't like them, then what the hell are they doing on fab?

Rant over happy Tuesday "

I don't like reading other people's endless naff blow by blow accounts of how they soaked the bed or suck like a Dyson. There is most definitely a place on Fab for people like me who prefer to actually meet and have sex with people than to shout about it in public.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide mine as it's my business and it has no relevance over future or current meets..if u had a new partner outside fab would you turn up with a portfolio of past loves? No..anyway how many " treat them with respect" veris can you read without your eyes glazing over?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can't win, people's profiles will state," I won't meet you unless your verified " or 'lf your not displaying your veris your hiding something"

Show them of with pride is what I say, if people don't like them, then what the hell are they doing on fab?

Rant over happy Tuesday

I don't like reading other people's endless naff blow by blow accounts of how they soaked the bed or suck like a Dyson. There is most definitely a place on Fab for people like me who prefer to actually meet and have sex with people than to shout about it in public. "

Majority of my meets wish to see them.... whatever flicks your switch I suppose.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You can't win, people's profiles will state," I won't meet you unless your verified " or 'lf your not displaying your veris your hiding something"

Show them of with pride is what I say, if people don't like them, then what the hell are they doing on fab?

Rant over happy Tuesday

I don't like reading other people's endless naff blow by blow accounts of how they soaked the bed or suck like a Dyson. There is most definitely a place on Fab for people like me who prefer to actually meet and have sex with people than to shout about it in public. "
damn right darlin got it spot on it's true, don't know about anyone else but telling the hole world what you get up to how good she is bjs how tight her arse is it think disrespectful and degrading

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hide mine as it's my business and it has no relevance over future or current meets..if u had a new partner outside fab would you turn up with a portfolio of past loves? No..anyway how many " treat them with respect" veris can you read without your eyes glazing over?"
very true hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Veris are definitely cringey!

I like to keep mine for myself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can't win, people's profiles will state," I won't meet you unless your verified " or 'lf your not displaying your veris your hiding something"

Show them of with pride is what I say, if people don't like them, then what the hell are they doing on fab?

Rant over happy Tuesday

I don't like reading other people's endless naff blow by blow accounts of how they soaked the bed or suck like a Dyson. There is most definitely a place on Fab for people like me who prefer to actually meet and have sex with people than to shout about it in public.

Majority of my meets wish to see them.... whatever flicks your switch I suppose....."

Oh that's the difference then, I run my profile for me and what I want, not what I think other people want to see

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Veris are definitely cringey!

I like to keep mine for myself x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can't win, people's profiles will state," I won't meet you unless your verified " or 'lf your not displaying your veris your hiding something"

Show them of with pride is what I say, if people don't like them, then what the hell are they doing on fab?

Rant over happy Tuesday

I don't like reading other people's endless naff blow by blow accounts of how they soaked the bed or suck like a Dyson. There is most definitely a place on Fab for people like me who prefer to actually meet and have sex with people than to shout about it in public.

Majority of my meets wish to see them.... whatever flicks your switch I suppose.....

Oh that's the difference then, I run my profile for me and what I want, not what I think other people want to see "

Somebody get out of the wrong side of bed?

Like wise, my profile is for me.... and to show how amazing I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I flick between showing & hiding for no other reason than how I feel at any particular time.

Of course by showing them I want you all to know how amazing I am in the sack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can't win, people's profiles will state," I won't meet you unless your verified " or 'lf your not displaying your veris your hiding something"

Show them of with pride is what I say, if people don't like them, then what the hell are they doing on fab?

Rant over happy Tuesday

I don't like reading other people's endless naff blow by blow accounts of how they soaked the bed or suck like a Dyson. There is most definitely a place on Fab for people like me who prefer to actually meet and have sex with people than to shout about it in public.

Majority of my meets wish to see them.... whatever flicks your switch I suppose.....

Oh that's the difference then, I run my profile for me and what I want, not what I think other people want to see

Somebody get out of the wrong side of bed?

Like wise, my profile is for me.... and to show how amazing I am. "

Nope, I always post like this. I don't do fawning, sorry.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I flick between showing & hiding for no other reason than how I feel at any particular time.

Of course by showing them I want you all to know how amazing I am in the sack "
your pic show that darlin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can't win, people's profiles will state," I won't meet you unless your verified " or 'lf your not displaying your veris your hiding something"

Show them of with pride is what I say, if people don't like them, then what the hell are they doing on fab?

Rant over happy Tuesday

I don't like reading other people's endless naff blow by blow accounts of how they soaked the bed or suck like a Dyson. There is most definitely a place on Fab for people like me who prefer to actually meet and have sex with people than to shout about it in public.

Majority of my meets wish to see them.... whatever flicks your switch I suppose.....

Oh that's the difference then, I run my profile for me and what I want, not what I think other people want to see

Somebody get out of the wrong side of bed?

Like wise, my profile is for me.... and to show how amazing I am.

Nope, I always post like this. I don't do fawning, sorry."

Apology excepted

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You can't win, people's profiles will state," I won't meet you unless your verified " or 'lf your not displaying your veris your hiding something"

Show them of with pride is what I say, if people don't like them, then what the hell are they doing on fab?

Rant over happy Tuesday

I don't like reading other people's endless naff blow by blow accounts of how they soaked the bed or suck like a Dyson. There is most definitely a place on Fab for people like me who prefer to actually meet and have sex with people than to shout about it in public.

Majority of my meets wish to see them.... whatever flicks your switch I suppose.....

Oh that's the difference then, I run my profile for me and what I want, not what I think other people want to see

Somebody get out of the wrong side of bed?

Like wise, my profile is for me.... and to show how amazing I am.

Nope, I always post like this. I don't do fawning, sorry.

Apology excepted "
Defiantly

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I show some of my veris but I am sick of being judged by them in truth. I have a lot as been on here a long time but people see a number and assume I'll just fuck owt!

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By *unguy78Man
over a year ago

landudno

Million dollar question, this is like chicken and egg. You can't get a meet Coz you're not verified so hmmmm, how do u get one? Anyway you get a bit of momentum Behind you and suddenly you have 3 or 4 over a week. Suddenly you can't get a meet Coz you're a male slag.... Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I show some of my veris but I am sick of being judged by them in truth. I have a lot as been on here a long time but people see a number and assume I'll just fuck owt! "
exactly ppl just assume and judge you for it

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I usually look at the verification summary.

If they display the verifications, I don't mind reading them but I never ask for people to display their summary or the verification proper though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I usually look at the verification summary.

If they display the verifications, I don't mind reading them but I never ask for people to display their summary or the verification proper though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well well well

I'm that young lady.

I've been chatting to the OP for over a week everyday. We arranged to meet this Friday for a social.

Yesterday I got a message from a woman telling me that he didn't get permission to meet me so she's told him to block me witch he did.

I had alarm bells going off in my head from the start and that's why I didn't think he was genuine.

Was i wrong to think that????

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"You can't win, people's profiles will state," I won't meet you unless your verified " or 'lf your not displaying your veris your hiding something"

Show them of with pride is what I say, if people don't like them, then what the hell are they doing on fab?

Rant over happy Tuesday

I don't like reading other people's endless naff blow by blow accounts of how they soaked the bed or suck like a Dyson. There is most definitely a place on Fab for people like me who prefer to actually meet and have sex with people than to shout about it in public. damn right darlin got it spot on it's true, don't know about anyone else but telling the hole world what you get up to how good she is bjs how tight her arse is it think disrespectful and degrading "

I wouldn't publish a veri like that, but I love showing a few, they say some lovely things

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Verification should be to show that the person

A) turned up

B) looked and acted like their profile.

If it describes every part, and says it was the best ever, that's nice, but sets a high standard

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By *at1sevCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Personally i like to read verifications, see what others says,to make sure this persone/couple is geniue. I know some dont care about verifications,but i like to read them, some of them are really interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well well well

I'm that young lady.

I've been chatting to the OP for over a week everyday. We arranged to meet this Friday for a social.

Yesterday I got a message from a woman telling me that he didn't get permission to meet me so she's told him to block me witch he did.

I had alarm bells going off in my head from the start and that's why I didn't think he was genuine.

Was i wrong to think that????"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you are never going to please everybody so do what you like - i show a few but in the past have had people chatting to people ive met via the verifications listings and its caused a bit of ggrrr so sometimes hide them all - same with friends list - never show that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know guys that contact other guys off the veris on a womans or couples profile to get back ground info as to what they can get away with.

IE bareback

Fuck and go

Blow job and go

If they can get away with car sex

If they are willing to foot bill on accommodation.

Basically what they can and cant get away with with that person/couple.

Is the male of the other half an idiot.

The list of info gained from people theve met on veries etc like the above is endless.

Not sure if anyone was aware that this actually goes on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont show them I.don't whats the point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know guys that contact other guys off the veris on a womans or couples profile to get back ground info as to what they can get away with.

IE bareback

Fuck and go

Blow job and go

If they can get away with car sex

If they are willing to foot bill on accommodation.

Basically what they can and cant get away with with that person/couple.

Is the male of the other half an idiot.

The list of info gained from people theve met on veries etc like the above is endless.

Not sure if anyone was aware that this actually goes on?"

nice guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know guys that contact other guys off the veris on a womans or couples profile to get back ground info as to what they can get away with.

IE bareback

Fuck and go

Blow job and go

If they can get away with car sex

If they are willing to foot bill on accommodation.

Basically what they can and cant get away with with that person/couple.

Is the male of the other half an idiot.

The list of info gained from people theve met on veries etc like the above is endless.

Not sure if anyone was aware that this actually goes on?"

Women do the same

Can I get a meal at a fancy restaurant out of him

How long does he last

Does he perform oral sex

Is he boring to talk to or should I bring a ball gag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know guys that contact other guys off the veris on a womans or couples profile to get back ground info as to what they can get away with.

IE bareback

Fuck and go

Blow job and go

If they can get away with car sex

If they are willing to foot bill on accommodation.

Basically what they can and cant get away with with that person/couple.

Is the male of the other half an idiot.

The list of info gained from people theve met on veries etc like the above is endless.

Not sure if anyone was aware that this actually goes on?

Women do the same

Can I get a meal at a fancy restaurant out of him

How long does he last

Does he perform oral sex

Is he boring to talk to or should I bring a ball gag

"

I really am that naive. . This is educational. Thanks for the heads up.

By the way. I am boring just so you all know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no problem displaying new verifications from social events. They are a nice little reminder of that Weekend.

Play verifications tho I find tough for a few reasons. People can be very judgemental on here. And our sex life is our business. I don't need to humble brag about how good (or bad) I am in the sack.

Mr A

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over a year ago


"Well well well

I'm that young lady.

I've been chatting to the OP for over a week everyday. We arranged to meet this Friday for a social.

Yesterday I got a message from a woman telling me that he didn't get permission to meet me so she's told him to block me witch he did.

I had alarm bells going off in my head from the start and that's why I didn't think he was genuine.

Was i wrong to think that????

"

I thought the same !

Permission from who ?

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I used to show them but now I have my own little sad stalker that enjoys contacting my veri's and making shit up so I keep them hidden

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over a year ago

I thought my initial lack of success was down to my lack of verifications. So, when I finally got a few I published some. However, one couple I had never met started messaging them, being rude about me. Then I also found potential meets were put off by knowing who I had met...

My compromise is to publish one or two occasionally, just to show I am genuine and know what I am doing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well well well

I'm that young lady.

I've been chatting to the OP for over a week everyday. We arranged to meet this Friday for a social.

Yesterday I got a message from a woman telling me that he didn't get permission to meet me so she's told him to block me witch he did.

I had alarm bells going off in my head from the start and that's why I didn't think he was genuine.

Was i wrong to think that????

I thought the same !

Permission from who ?

"

Permission from his mistress witch he failed to mention lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles which demand you show all your verifications or they won't meet.

Makes me laugh.

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over a year ago


"I know guys that contact other guys off the veris on a womans or couples profile to get back ground info as to what they can get away with.

IE bareback

Fuck and go

Blow job and go

If they can get away with car sex

If they are willing to foot bill on accommodation.

Basically what they can and cant get away with with that person/couple.

Is the male of the other half an idiot.

The list of info gained from people theve met on veries etc like the above is endless.

Not sure if anyone was aware that this actually goes on?"

Omg really!?? Lol

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over a year ago

I go through phases of showing mine. I only verify a meet if they do me first. I'm not that bothered about receiving them tbh tho.

I do like to see a guys to see that they're genuine and also see what kinda women they've met. I like a guy with standards

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over a year ago


"I go through phases of showing mine. I only verify a meet if they do me first. I'm not that bothered about receiving them tbh tho.

I do like to see a guys to see that they're genuine and also see what kinda women they've met. I like a guy with standards "

Yes but they wont display the mingers veris they have banged will they?

So its pointless if thats what you are looking for?

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over a year ago


"I go through phases of showing mine. I only verify a meet if they do me first. I'm not that bothered about receiving them tbh tho.

I do like to see a guys to see that they're genuine and also see what kinda women they've met. I like a guy with standards

Yes but they wont display the mingers veris they have banged will they?

Yes some actually do!! Lol. Or they say they don't want to due to respect/privacy of their meets, but the way I see it is why bother writing one if u want it to be private!

So its pointless if thats what you are looking for? "

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