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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A lot of profiles both on fab and other sex dating sites seem to want men with 7/8/9 inches long pensises as a minimum.

Whilst some women may be a little larger than average and can take such an amount, surely on the whole this is a superficial requirement and other criteria should be more important?

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By * inch DanMan
over a year ago

Chinnor

Be interesting to find out what the ladies views are!!

I'm 9 inches and actually had women say I'm too big

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of profiles both on fab and other sex dating sites seem to want men with 7/8/9 inches long pensises as a minimum.

Whilst some women may be a little larger than average and can take such an amount, surely on the whole this is a superficial requirement and other criteria should be more important?"

Their most important criteria is height. Far more than penis size imo. Some like to deny that certain traits are universally attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think its a majority that just go for cock size.

Some women like to cherry pick.

Some women don't.

I wouldn't worry about things too much, just flash your pecker around and hopefully somebody will jump on it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh obviously height in general.. And it's something I've had to work around and made me a stronger person. Too many tallish, even tall men feel insecure and still want to exaggerate their height anyway. Some are down to earth though and some aren't.. Cherry picking for tall rich men can be their indulgence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not the size of a mans penis,that does it for me,its the man he is.Some men like small women,some like large,Some like tall some like short.Never bothered me if a man has a long or short,thick or thin penis.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

First female reply.. And definitely the attitude I welcome. I just think some profiles come across like they think porn star packages are the be all and end all. I do salute male porn stars for keeping it up at will though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not the size of a mans penis,that does it for me,its the man he is.Some men like small women,some like large,Some like tall some like short.Never bothered me if a man has a long or short,thick or thin penis."

I like this type of outlook.

I think some People can be quite shallow when stating criteria before they even consider talking to someone.

It's everyone's prerogative on here to do things how they want, i know before you all shout.

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"Its not the size of a mans penis,that does it for me,its the man he is.Some men like small women,some like large,Some like tall some like short.Never bothered me if a man has a long or short,thick or thin penis."

agree. I do think though that this is more the case for singles. if I was part of a coupleand wanted to have some extra fun I might have a more specific type I'd be looking for

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I do get that.. Very few in a couple ask for average or small though. I have noticed also a preference for 'bbc' as if it's some kind of novelty. No doubt in my mind some newbie swingers fancy emulating a typical porn cuckold video..

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"I do get that.. Very few in a couple ask for average or small though. I have noticed also a preference for 'bbc' as if it's some kind of novelty. No doubt in my mind some newbie swingers fancy emulating a typical porn cuckold video.."

I don't do too big. I think I'm too small for that stuff, just hurts!

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By *is_Collared_SubWoman
over a year ago

London

When supply out strips demand you can have it all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of profiles both on fab and other sex dating sites seem to want men with 7/8/9 inches long pensises as a minimum.

Whilst some women may be a little larger than average and can take such an amount, surely on the whole this is a superficial requirement and other criteria should be more important?"

This is a site for casual sexual encounters and fulfilment of fantasies, and you expect people to not be superficial in their preferences?

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Size doesn't matter ..it's what you do with it that matters

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Firstly the physical size of a woman as no bearing on how we'll see can take a monster cock or not

Secondly, I generally find it's men that are more concerned with cock size than women are, we ladies generally care more about the person that's attached to the cock. If a guy uses his big cock as his only selling point, I won't be remotely interested in him

Where dick size is concerned my preference is average with good girth but it's not an hard rule one of my best meets was with a guy that was only 2" in the trouser department.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Size doesn't matter ..it's what you do with it that matters "

You say that like some men here have a choice of what they can do with it.

Look at the post 2 above.

Supply out strips demand. makes me feel all warm and special.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of profiles both on fab and other sex dating sites seem to want men with 7/8/9 inches long pensises as a minimum.

Whilst some women may be a little larger than average and can take such an amount, surely on the whole this is a superficial requirement and other criteria should be more important?

This is a site for casual sexual encounters and fulfilment of fantasies, and you expect people to not be superficial in their preferences?

Lol"

Women and couples don't like it back - so it's not just men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of profiles both on fab and other sex dating sites seem to want men with 7/8/9 inches long pensises as a minimum.

Whilst some women may be a little larger than average and can take such an amount, surely on the whole this is a superficial requirement and other criteria should be more important?

This is a site for casual sexual encounters and fulfilment of fantasies, and you expect people to not be superficial in their preferences?

Lol

Women and couples don't like it back - so it's not just men. "

Where did I say it was?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"A lot of profiles both on fab and other sex dating sites seem to want men with 7/8/9 inches long pensises as a minimum.

Whilst some women may be a little larger than average and can take such an amount, surely on the whole this is a superficial requirement and other criteria should be more important?"

If it's important to a woman or a couple it's important regardless of how superficial you see it as being. Perhaps they've had experiences previously which has reinforced this 'superficial requirement'. Perhaps it's a fantasy and they want to be sure of what they are getting? Most physicality requirements can be seen as superficial to someone or other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, if a guy's penis is really big, I just can't take it and it's uncomfortable. There are so many other factors to great sex...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Size doesn't matter ..it's what you do with it that matters

You say that like some men here have a choice of what they can do with it.

Look at the post 2 above.

Supply out strips demand. makes me feel all warm and special. "

I didn't read the 2 posts above ..I just put what I thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of men want slim women. Or petite women. Size matters to them. I want tall men, size matters to me. People find different things attractive, which may include cock size, and when it comes to sex attraction is important for lots of us. If you don't fit that, move on to the other thousands of profiles which don't even mention size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of men want slim women. Or petite women. Size matters to them. I want tall men, size matters to me. People find different things attractive, which may include cock size, and when it comes to sex attraction is important for lots of us. If you don't fit that, move on to the other thousands of profiles which don't even mention size. "

Exactly OP, stop focusing on the ones who may trigger your personal insecurities.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"A lot of profiles both on fab and other sex dating sites seem to want men with 7/8/9 inches long pensises as a minimum.

Whilst some women may be a little larger than average and can take such an amount, surely on the whole this is a superficial requirement and other criteria should be more important?"

'Superficial' is an easy way to label something that's not important or relevant to oneself. If something is important to someone, then it's arrogant to perceive them as wrong. It's their preference.

Profiles are written for a purpose - to inform others, potentially saving all parties a lot of wasted time. Focus your attention on those who are more likely to be well matched.

Few will not put personality and overall physical looks above cock size - otherwise average and smaller cocked guys would never shag. This site has plenty of choice for most people - use your efforts wisely, so that you're not flogging a dead horse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's horses for courses. Everyone is on here for their own needs and wants. Stating what your after just cuts out out unwanted messages, most of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of profiles both on fab and other sex dating sites seem to want men with 7/8/9 inches long pensises as a minimum.

Whilst some women may be a little larger than average and can take such an amount, surely on the whole this is a superficial requirement and other criteria should be more important?"

Just work with what you've got. What else can you do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Firstly the physical size of a woman as no bearing on how we'll see can take a monster cock or not

Secondly, I generally find it's men that are more concerned with cock size than women are, we ladies generally care more about the person that's attached to the cock. If a guy uses his big cock as his only selling point, I won't be remotely interested in him

Where dick size is concerned my preference is average with good girth but it's not an hard rule one of my best meets was with a guy that was only 2" in the trouser department. "

I wonder if in couples it's as much a male fantasy to see his partner take a massive cock as it is for the partner?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not fussed about the size in all honesty..well..average and above ha ha.

I would sleep with someone with a slightly smaller than average too.

Bigger ones do intrigue me admittedly but they certainly aren't a requirement.

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not fussed about the size in all honesty..well..average and above ha ha.

I would sleep with someone with a slightly smaller than average too.

Bigger ones do intrigue me admittedly but they certainly aren't a requirement.

Eve. X"

Fab average is 8" though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone explain this supposedly correlation between a woman's physical size and why they'd prefer a bigger cock please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone explain this supposedly correlation between a woman's physical size and why they'd prefer a bigger cock please? "

Some moronic assumption that a large lady will possess a bucket where her vagina should be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not fussed about the size in all honesty..well..average and above ha ha.

I would sleep with someone with a slightly smaller than average too.

Bigger ones do intrigue me admittedly but they certainly aren't a requirement.

Eve. X

Fab average is 8" though "

Ha ha true fact?

OK well I meant real world average ha ha.

Eve. X

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I have small to average size dick I never had any complaints about it. I don't think most women make a judgment on a man over his dick size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone explain this supposedly correlation between a woman's physical size and why they'd prefer a bigger cock please?

Some moronic assumption that a large lady will possess a bucket where her vagina should be? "

Oh yeah

Well OP, FYI I'm 5'8" and I'm a big size 12, and too big - 8"+ - can hurt me, so bang goes your assumption and 'knowledge' of the female body.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I didn't mean that. I meant a given woman's private parts irrespective of size/height.

I prefer size 12s to below and don't have an issue with a girl being taller than me in heels..

I did read one post on another site which insisted that 5 inches was useless for penetration/climax.

I also don't judge people when using the word superficial. Some replies over fantasy and male partner wish fulfillment answered what I was getting at.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

The Doors - People Are Strange

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GJY8jJkDoMY

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Nothing superficial about willies - they're deep!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not the size of the tool it's how the craftsman uses it

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Look, unless it's particularly magnificent or deformed, you see one cock you've seen 'em all.

imo

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By *dinMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Nothing superficial about willies - they're deep! "

an expert speaks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Again I say it's not the size of the tool it's how the craftsman uses it!! Lol

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Nothing superficial about willies - they're deep!

an expert speaks "

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By *dinMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Nothing superficial about willies - they're deep!

an expert speaks

"

chuck me your rugby ball please

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Nothing superficial about willies - they're deep!

an expert speaks

chuck me your rugby ball please "

Nooo, not giving that one up lightly!!

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By *dinMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Nothing superficial about willies - they're deep!

an expert speaks

chuck me your rugby ball please

Nooo, not giving that one up lightly!!"

but I am exposed lol

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Nothing superficial about willies - they're deep!

an expert speaks

chuck me your rugby ball please

Nooo, not giving that one up lightly!!

but I am exposed lol"

A normal size ball will do for you, get yer own, I need the giant one! !

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By *arksMan
over a year ago

in the centre


"Nothing superficial about willies - they're deep!

an expert speaks

chuck me your rugby ball please

Nooo, not giving that one up lightly!!

but I am exposed lol

A normal size ball will do for you, get yer own, I need the giant one! ! "

It's a giant one I just thought you were really small

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