FabSwingers.com forum: Blocked after chatting

By *avid147 OP Man
over a year ago

Northern Ireland

Was blocked after exchanging a few messages. She asked to be my friend which I accepted.

Then she blocked me, hate this......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens to me all the time.... it was probably a guy

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Lucky escape rather than the charade of arranging a meet xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You do get some strange ones here

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By *ilary and DonaldCouple
over a year ago

chingford

She won't see your status as you are blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was blocked after exchanging a few messages. She asked to be my friend which I accepted.

Then she blocked me, hate this......"
she didn't like what she saw or you said something that put her off and probably after getting abuse in the past from other guys she blocked rather than say sorry not for me..

But to be fair a block is a not for me

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

Maybe she wanted to see your pics hence the friend request. When she saw them she decided she wasn't interested. It's shit but it happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She was definitely a guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also watch out...I think you can get in bother for naming answer shaming on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She was definitely a guy"
why... we are not a guy but have done the same on numerous occasions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She was definitely a guywhy... we are not a guy but have done the same on numerous occasions "

A real woman would not be so ignorant and block this nice guy.... it was definitely a guy looking for wank fodder

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By *avid147 OP Man
over a year ago

Northern Ireland

Thanks for the advice.

I have removed my status.

Struggle with people's attitudes on here sometimes.

Need to grow skin like an elephant....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the advice.

I have removed my status.

Struggle with people's attitudes on here sometimes.

Need to grow skin like an elephant...."

No just be yourself...... and good things will happen for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She was definitely a guywhy... we are not a guy but have done the same on numerous occasions

A real woman would not be so ignorant and block this nice guy.... it was definitely a guy looking for wank fodder "
how do you know. Trust me after years on here as a single girl.. we will look..think not for us and block. Because a sorry not for me often leads to a barrage of abuse.

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By *avid147 OP Man
over a year ago

Northern Ireland

Maybe she didn't like my pics.

Sneaky, but better not to waste my time.

Onwards and upwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She was definitely a guywhy... we are not a guy but have done the same on numerous occasions

A real woman would not be so ignorant and block this nice guy.... it was definitely a guy looking for wank fodder how do you know. Trust me after years on here as a single girl.. we will look..think not for us and block. Because a sorry not for me often leads to a barrage of abuse."

Not from this nice guy... he is a pussy cat... I find it crazy to let past experience dictate future decisions.....

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By *avid147 OP Man
over a year ago

Northern Ireland

Littlemisscall I take your point.

Single genuine guys like myself are looking for a meet. Not here to waste anyone's time.

Sorry that you were abused.

Some guys are pricks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it makes you feel better I regularly get insulted and blocked. By people who can't spell or read profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was blocked after exchanging a few messages. She asked to be my friend which I accepted.

Then she blocked me, hate this......"

Hate leads to the dark side. Don't hate.

Sometimes your not privileged to know why they block you. Let it go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lucky escape rather than the charade of arranging a meet xx"

sadly that happens too often, bloody timewasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Niggles when it happens but just got to move on

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Was blocked after exchanging a few messages. She asked to be my friend which I accepted.

Then she blocked me, hate this...... she didn't like what she saw or you said something that put her off and probably after getting abuse in the past from other guys she blocked rather than say sorry not for me..

But to be fair a block is a not for me "

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Most chats won't lead to meets, so you have to be prepared for things to end at any point, however good it may have seemed to be going. It's really that simple - coupled with blocking as the fab way of bringing things to s close.

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By *kgeminiMan
over a year ago

Southampton

"She was definitely a guywhy... we are not a guy but have done the same on numerous occasions

Yeah it was a dude

Don't read this bit op

Sometimes when someone is hurt you say a white lie to make them feel better e.g. "the dog has gone to live on a farm" or "you were to good for her" or "no your bum doesn't look bug in that dress" or "yeah they were probably a guy anyway"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some guys are pricks."

As a point of balance, being a prick is not a trait limited to guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well people block because they lost interest where I've been blocked by people who I've never chatted too so it how it goes here most people love the block button i think loll

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Was blocked after exchanging a few messages. She asked to be my friend which I accepted.

Then she blocked me, hate this......"

Sometimes the little things in life get to people.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

"She was definitely a guywhy... we are not a guy but have done the same on numerous occasions

A real woman would not be so ignorant and block this nice guy.... it was definitely a guy looking for wank fodder "

What utter tosh!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many women use this as a sorting method. Means they never have to waste time looking at you again. Don't take it personally. I had this last week...she said 'I am seeking after better looking guys than you'...and blocked me! I do hate not having the last word...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lucky escape rather than the charade of arranging a meet xx"

Agreed. If they behave like that you're better off without them.

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

"She was definitely a guywhy... we are not a guy but have done the same on numerous occasions

A real woman would not be so ignorant and block this nice guy.... it was definitely a guy looking for wank fodder "

I regularly hit the block button for various reasons

However I can assure you I am a woman!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She was definitely a guywhy... we are not a guy but have done the same on numerous occasions

He was already speaking to her. lt wasn't a first message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was blocked after exchanging a few messages. She asked to be my friend which I accepted.

Then she blocked me, hate this......"

my advice would be 'don't accept friend requests until you have actually met someone' ..

seems its happened to you before OP so why did you fall for it again?

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By *avid147 OP Man
over a year ago

Northern Ireland

I fell for it again, because I'm hoping that there are genuine nice people out there.

Probably a bit naive on my part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get blocked if I send a face pic. I've got the face that launched a thousand blocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get blocked if I send a face pic. I've got the face that launched a thousand blocks

Doc and the Blockheads.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I get blocked if I send a face pic. I've got the face that launched a thousand blocks

Doc and the Blockheads."

Doc and the Fugglies from Cloud Cuckoo Land

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

I had to block someone because he kept talking shite and he didnt understand the meaning of no.

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