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By *enuinecouple84 OP   Couple
over a year ago

York

any tips on meeting genuine people and spotting the fakes xxx

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By *ndykinkyMan
over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

Meet at a Club, if people are genuine they will turn up and you go from there. If they don't turn up you have a Club of people to get to know

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

It seems you done all you by swapping numbers and chatting on the phone were you meeting a couple ? if so did you chat to both of them ?

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By *anmjmosesMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"any tips on meeting genuine people and spotting the fakes xxx"

From experience I'm weary of:

1.people who have been on here for longer than 6 months and no veris

2.talking to male half of "couple" where female just happens to always be busy

3. May come down to experience, but if you feel someone is wasting your time, go with your gut feelings

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By *anmjmosesMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"Meet at a Club, if people are genuine they will turn up and you go from there. If they don't turn up you have a Club of people to get to know "

That too

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne


"any tips on meeting genuine people and spotting the fakes xxx"

Ppl who have been here over a yr and have no verifications and maybe down the line no exchange of info like phone numbers etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience is the key lol"

shag not seen this for a while

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Meet at a Club, if people are genuine they will turn up and you go from there. If they don't turn up you have a Club of people to get to know "

This is what we tend to do.

Otherwise arrange a social, somewhere mutually convenient. If it goes well you can move on to sex or arrange another meet.

Nita

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Check they are verified and look at the people who verified them , to ensure they are genuine too.

Phone them and chat to both on the phone.

Have a social meet first.

Go with your gut feeling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why have we got three posts about this

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Clubs are a good place to start, there's no fakes or "no shows" in a club.

On here, you can reduce the risk by blocking unverified and new users.

From there, search and find people who you like the look of. Look at there verifications and send them a message.

Often the fakes will want to move the chat onto other platforms, and are keen on making the conversation sexual ( wank fodder)... something to be aware of.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why have we got three posts about this "

This

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By *OOM696969Man
over a year ago

BRIDLINGTON

The classic..if it seems too good to be true ..it normally is..unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience is the key lol

shag not seen this for a while "
Hi light and that is right. I thought I would use it now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience is the key lol

shag not seen this for a while Hi light and that is right. I thought I would use it now "

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By *enuinecouple84 OP   Couple
over a year ago

York


"It seems you done all you by swapping numbers and chatting on the phone were you meeting a couple ? if so did you chat to both of them ? "

We were meeting a female and we both chatted to her x

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By *enuinecouple84 OP   Couple
over a year ago

York


"Clubs are a good place to start, there's no fakes or "no shows" in a club.

On here, you can reduce the risk by blocking unverified and new users.

From there, search and find people who you like the look of. Look at there verifications and send them a message.

See there was no dirty talk etc just general chit chat maybe got scared and chickened out ha

Often the fakes will want to move the chat onto other platforms, and are keen on making the conversation sexual ( wank fodder)... something to be aware of.

Cal"

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By *enuinecouple84 OP   Couple
over a year ago

York


"Why have we got three posts about this "

I wrote a second one because first was in capitals and offended some so I'm been polite and re wrote it without coming across as offensive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why have we got three posts about this

I wrote a second one because first was in capitals and offended some so I'm been polite and re wrote it without coming across as offensive "
sweet

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Always have a plan B if someone stands you up. If you're travelling and booking into a hotel check out the area for local clubs. Also use the 'who's near' function on your phone for last minute meets.

The main thing is, though, don't put yourself in a position where you'll be out of pocket or stranded if someone doesn't turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just trust my gut instinct.

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By *enuinecouple84 OP   Couple
over a year ago

York


"Always have a plan B if someone stands you up. If you're travelling and booking into a hotel check out the area for local clubs. Also use the 'who's near' function on your phone for last minute meets.

The main thing is, though, don't put yourself in a position where you'll be out of pocket or stranded if someone doesn't turn up."

Thank you oh we had a good night anyway we don't get away much so made the most of it ha ha even if the hotel receptionist was ringing our room at 2.30am to say there have been noise complaints he he

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By *enuinecouple84 OP   Couple
over a year ago

York


"Clubs are a good place to start, there's no fakes or "no shows" in a club.

On here, you can reduce the risk by blocking unverified and new users.

From there, search and find people who you like the look of. Look at there verifications and send them a message.

Thankyou I have changed my settings and blocked newbies etc guess it's all about learning ha ha xx

Often the fakes will want to move the chat onto other platforms, and are keen on making the conversation sexual ( wank fodder)... something to be aware of.

Cal"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meet at a Club, if people are genuine they will turn up and you go from there. If they don't turn up you have a Club of people to get to know "

This response should be some sort of pinned post every time someone asks how to meet genuine people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"any tips on meeting genuine people and spotting the fakes xxx"

With an ass like that i wouldnt think you would have a problem

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