FabSwingers.com forum: How many unread messages

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

are in your inbox right now?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've one, but that appeared as I posted the thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1312....only because i've only opened those that have interested me in the last three weeks and I don't delete anything ...I'm just lazy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"1312....only because i've only opened those that have interested me in the last three weeks and I don't delete anything ...I'm just lazy.

One of those is mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many.bulk deleted loads but still got lots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None....I don't really get many and when I do curiosity always gets the better of me and I can't leave them unread.....

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"None....I don't really get many and when I do curiosity always gets the better of me and I can't leave them unread.....

I can usually get the gist of most of mine from the opening sentence.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There's a definite pattern here.....

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

None

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

233 I'm lucky I don't get that many so I can be lazy and not bother to delete

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By *.1079Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Would love to say I have to bulk delete

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I have a few, but they are either boring or crude and crass, as others have said you can tell from the beginning of the message plus their profiles are boring as shit, if guys want their messages to be read at least make them semi interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

35 at present but some are lost ...as in I need to delete read messages to find them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"233 I'm lucky I don't get that many so I can be lazy and not bother to delete "

Not many! I know men who would kill for many

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By *.1079Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"233 I'm lucky I don't get that many so I can be lazy and not bother to delete "

Probably got something to do with your profile saying don't bother messaging as I'm happy with someone and I won't respond!!

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

And I'm made up!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I have 6 unread messages in my inbox. Just waiting for 4 more before I delete them all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8. We've been lazy about answering messages lately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

none - im on the ball here dontcha know

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

1 though I've just dealt with the rest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have a few unanswered ones though - as in ive read but not replied to them yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it really matter !

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

"I have 6 unread messages in my inbox. Just waiting for 4 more before I delete them all."

7 lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"i have a few unanswered ones though - as in ive read but not replied to them yet "

You'll have the men complaining about us again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not surprised with arse like that wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never look ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did a bulk delete a few days ago and my filters have been on for as while so currently just 2 unread, one of those I don't want to read or delete, the other is one that if I reply I'll get another message and it's all a bit pointless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero

Not complaining though.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

[Removed by poster at 29/01/17 19:16:35]

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I have 6 unread messages in my inbox. Just waiting for 4 more before I delete them all.

7 lol"

3 now.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

0¾

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"None....I don't really get many and when I do curiosity always gets the better of me and I can't leave them unread.....

I can usually get the gist of most of mine from the opening sentence. "

Yeap I agree! It really annoys me though that most of the messages are from people that clearly haven't read my profile.....

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By *ambslass48Woman
over a year ago

Peterborough

None as I delete as I go and no sod wants me anyway lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's a message? "

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Not too many (43), I've been keeping on top of mine recently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i have a few unanswered ones though - as in ive read but not replied to them yet

You'll have the men complaining about us again.

no men message me - theyre filtered out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

None, I don't get that many anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None

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By *SPrincessWoman
over a year ago

Nowhere near you

446 - planning to get rid of some tonight

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"446 - planning to get rid of some tonight "

Let me know when you've bulk deleted them

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

15. But they will be answered/deleted this evening

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

None currently.

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over a year ago

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

None.

Guess I've too many filters set

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

448.

It's been worse

It's been better xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Zero."

Ahh bless xx

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

A few but will tackle them soon.

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By *ilary and DonaldCouple
over a year ago

chingford

12.

We only open messages when we are together so sometimes it's more but it's often less.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2. I know what they say though, so there is no burning curiosity to open.

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By *ilkchocolate87Man
over a year ago

sw london

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"What's a message? "

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I keep deleting but they seem to multiply

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

"233 I'm lucky I don't get that many so I can be lazy and not bother to delete

Probably got something to do with your profile saying don't bother messaging as I'm happy with someone and I won't respond!!"

Yup its a great tactic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None but my sent box has 24002

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By *OOM696969Man
over a year ago

BRIDLINGTON

A big fat..0

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

20. I turned my filters on a few months back and I'm intrigued to see how long it takes them to auto-delete. There are no unread on my front page at the moment anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finally no unread messages...in fact only have 8 messages in total in my inbox right now....just deleted loads...felt kinda good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get about 40 a day depending if I'm on line ..have to bulk delete hate doing it but I can't keep up..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

114

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0 unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Zero.

Ahh bless xx"

Thank you.

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By *rocMan
over a year ago

llandudno junction

None

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a lonesome one.

Just waiting until Cookie is around to have a look at the message and profile before a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've one, but that appeared as I posted the thread

It's from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None. We read them as soon as we see them.

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By *gentlovedayWoman
over a year ago

Tranmere

357 unread I delete each week xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None now.....I had four when I logged on after a seven hour gap. Two new messages, two from continuing conversations.....about par for the course.

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By *oncycleMan
over a year ago

Bristol

None...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Precisely none. Received two messages but that was a few months ago.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. THE MOORLANDS. BARMOUTH.

56, but I keep deleting the wrong ones.

xxxx Suzi

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero unread... Lol

I get the odd message every now and again but unfortunately there from other guys... Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0 but I'm OCD, I have just gone through lots of messages to find 1 unread one from days ago x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

47 but delete daily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

567 unread, generated from recent photo uploads, will bulk delete soon. I do prefer a tidy box.

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By *anaduABCMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"567 unread, generated from recent photo uploads, will bulk delete soon. I do prefer a tidy box."

Between me and Roxi thats 567-

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

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By *anaduABCMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"4"

That all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Errr....a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A big fat 0.

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By *enetrate and CelebrateWoman
over a year ago

Horndean

None .... I'm more of a read and reply later kinda girl haha

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10. We reply to 95% of the messages and delete the others which are usually vile messages that don't warrant a nice reply.

We only have 10 as we haven't gotten around to replying just yet. We like a clean inbox.

Eve. X

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By *ong legs n LingeireWoman
over a year ago

it up to me neck. :-)

0. I've deleted them all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i try to keep inbox empty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

34532678654345678941245676868 at the last count.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"567 unread, generated from recent photo uploads, will bulk delete soon. I do prefer a tidy box.

Between me and Roxi thats 567-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not lucky enough.

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By *anaduABCMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"567 unread, generated from recent photo uploads, will bulk delete soon. I do prefer a tidy box.

Between me and Roxi thats 567-

Sad but true Roxi -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0 - I think that means infinity

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"567 unread, generated from recent photo uploads, will bulk delete soon. I do prefer a tidy box."

Oh I do like a tidy box

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine most guys will have zero simply because they will tend to the low amount of messages they receive rather than leave or let more just mount up.

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