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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ugh - meh or yeah

For me it's a ugh - just do one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't really do valentines, it's just a bit too commercial and I'm not very romantic; however as I have some lovely new shoes; this year I'm using Valentines as an excuse to go out and wear them.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I havnt participated in Valentines for about 20 years and I can't see this one being any different

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I like valentines day, I like romance, Im still a believer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sucks if you're single and work in an office. Every other woman getting big massive bunches of flowers off their one true love and there is me sat there hugging a pot noodle, fighting back the bitter taste of soy sauce and rejection..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love Valentines day and make an effort to show our love for each other. However we do that everyday anyway

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

I'm sending myself some flowers and a card 'this year so I feel wanted

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I've got a parteeeeh!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'm very pleased that I will be the other side of the world on Feb 14th. With any luck I'll be d*unk on cocktails for it too.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Singles Awareness Day

I got a valentine from a Fabster last yesr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't celebrate it, we never have and probably never will we show each other we love one another every day anyway.

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

We have been a couple for almost 5 years. For the first 2 or 3 years he was away on lads holidays at Valentines & i received a beautiful bouquet each time he was away.

Now... a card! Not to whinge (but i am) but you can buy a lovely bunch from lidl for £3. Stop been tightwads you guys. And before the sexist brigade come on, i have purchased a groupon for a meal at Bella Italia (a cheaper option but as funds are limited i figure offering to drive so he can have a drink makes it fairer)...

Mrs WD40

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its an ugh for me but I'm not into PDA's and firmly believe if someone loves you they don't need to wait to be caught up in the hype of valentines day to show you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It should be renamed Hallmark/ Moonpig profit-surge-day.

We will do cards but make an effort to do little things for each other all year round, it feels meaningless when it's just because it's "expected" of you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am single and I will have my yearly valentine workout in the gym

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a fan of Valentine's day itself, but I like the sentiment. Usually we'll cook eachother dinner of some kind (I just do the starter because I can't be trusted with anything more complicated

We also choose a different weekend and go away on a short trip and use Valentine's day as an excuse. You can never have enough excuses to take weekend holidays

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'm off on my jollies this year so I think Voddy is gonna do the thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never received a Valentine's Day card. True story.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"We love Valentines day and make an effort to show our love for each other. However we do that everyday anyway

We tend to be rather lovey dovey any way.

Nita

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I've never received a Valentine's Day card. True story."

You win.

I've had two, both from the same person and none since 1984.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its an ugh from me to be honest as this will be my first Valentines Day alone in 3 years ever since I got dumped last Christmas

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I am sitting on the fence....it could break at any minute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i see nothing wrong in displays of romance now and again!...one year my ex husband literally filled the house with daffodils! hundreds of them! my mate and i both buy each other flowers now...as no other buggers going to...

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By *ilary and DonaldCouple
over a year ago

chingford

We used to do something when we were courting but not so much now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ermmm...would be nice if Deadpool 2 came out

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By *haneleviMan
over a year ago

Kidderminster

"Ermmm...would be nice if Deadpool 2 came out

Yes ! That would make my valentines

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By *layfull.oneWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

Il be sending 3 this year, and like I have for many in the past, one each to my kids, just so they know someone will always love them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We don't really do valentines, it's just a bit too commercial and I'm not very romantic; however as I have some lovely new shoes; this year I'm using Valentines as an excuse to go out and wear them. "
not like Xmas is it commercialized lol I bet you do Xmas lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We used to do something when we were courting but not so much now. "
glad I'm single then if it ends up like that....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i see nothing wrong in displays of romance now and again!...one year my ex husband literally filled the house with daffodils! hundreds of them! my mate and i both buy each other flowers now...as no other buggers going to..."
who said romance is ded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sucks every year plus it's the worst day of the year for me. It's a cruel joke as it's my bday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not made to intentionally tease singles.

The grass is always greener.

Why not celebrate being single?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being single isn't by choice. It's by constant rejection lol.

I wouldn't celebrate 16-17 years of being single. That's like a bad marriage lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's an excuse for the greedy and the needy to have money spent on them.

There's no love in it any more. It's simply an exercise in expectation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No Valentine for me, just me and the dog by the fire. do you think spanking valentines exist?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not for another 2 weeks lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No Valentine for me, just me and the dog by the fire. do you think spanking valentines exist?

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I'll give you a spanking valentines day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As if Valentines day didn't already suck enough from mostly being single or in a shit relationship, last year it became the anniversary of my beautiful Mums passing. I miss her terribly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As if Valentines day didn't already suck enough from mostly being single or in a shit relationship, last year it became the anniversary of my beautiful Mums passing. I miss her terribly."

Anniversaries are always hard. Do something kind to yourself that day. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As if Valentines day didn't already suck enough from mostly being single or in a shit relationship, last year it became the anniversary of my beautiful Mums passing. I miss her terribly.

Anniversaries are always hard. Do something kind to yourself that day. x"

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's an excuse for the greedy and the needy to have money spent on them.

There's no love in it any more. It's simply an exercise in expectation.

I am neither greedy nor needy and there is plenty of love in our life ! Not everyone is the same. For some people it is a good day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's an excuse for the greedy and the needy to have money spent on them.

There's no love in it any more. It's simply an exercise in expectation.a good day for the finders of the world

I am neither greedy nor needy and there is plenty of love in our life ! Not everyone is the same. For some people it is a good day. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never bothered about this since I was 14yrs old.

I didn't get a card and boycotted it ever since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely ugh

Although I might buy myself some chocolates and a scented candle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely ugh

Although I might buy myself some chocolates and a scented candle

Aww care to share the choc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be in a caravan working away.

Hopefully my wife will come see me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

....overated money making scam encouraged by industry.youve got every single other day in the year to let the most important person in your life know you love them.you dont need an annual day specifically designed for that purpose.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I'm partly looking forward to this one and partly dreading it!

I imagine I will still be cardless though!

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Used to be fun Now it is just another day.

So Meh !

I liked sending random cards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't need a man to celebrate Valentine's Day. I'm going to do what I did last year and use it as an excuse to buy myself flowers, an expensive candle and chocolates. Cook myself a nice meal, watch a film, spoon the cat and then have a lady wank.

Treat yo' selves!

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

"It sucks if you're single and work in an office. Every other woman getting big massive bunches of flowers off their one true love and there is me sat there hugging a pot noodle, fighting back the bitter taste of soy sauce and rejection.."

I believe hungry pig now send pot noodles via their website

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are commuting 'non-valentines' day to the weekend after. Geography sucks.

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We tend to get little bits

Remember valentine was beheaded for marrying people....off his head apparently

Dax will get me a few higher end cigars and I get a mouthful of him...win, win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do love valentines day, it's a day for declaring love. What's not to love?!

We don't do gifts and such but a card with a heartfelt written message, lots of smooches and soppiness. We are always pretty loved up much to the dismay of friends, family and our kids ha ha, valentines day just includes a card too.

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ugh! But even in relationships it's never been a day of hearts and flowers, so you know, if anyone wants to change that, I don't mind! Hehehehe!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do love valentines day, it's a day for declaring love. What's not to love?!

Eve. X"

Same here

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By *at1sevCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Some people say its commercial, but i like valentines.

We love each other every day of the year, but still nice to have this "special" day.

And its my birthday, so we celebrate it together surrounded by hearts, roses and love in the air.

So sweet i just gave myself a toothache haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh ....

It's just another day.

When I was in a relationship it was just another day too.

If I feel like it I'll buy my own flowers and chocolates and arrange for somone to come and fuck me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it but I haven't had a Valentine's card for years! I've not sent any either though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meh ....

It's just another day.

When I was in a relationship it was just another day too.

If I feel like it I'll buy my own flowers and chocolates and arrange for somone to come and fuck me

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you can pull me out your bag Mary

on valentines day

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I gotta admit it would be nice to get something. Doesn't even have to cost money, could just be someone's time, effort. Knowing I was being thought about, and planning and thought had gone into doing something to make me feel special, wanted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be nice just to feel wanted

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By *rank n BettyCouple
over a year ago

Not meeting

Its nice to be all sloppy and romantic so we will be doing something together

Frank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never received a Valentine's Day card. True story.

You win.

I've had two, both from the same person and none since 1984.

I don't think I'm winning.

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

I dont tend to do valentines day unless my partner (if i have one at the time) is bothered. Otherwise a nice night in together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm indifferent. I'll just do what I usually do and cry into a cup of tea while eating chocolate covered strawberries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't need a man to celebrate Valentine's Day. I'm going to do what I did last year and use it as an excuse to buy myself flowers, an expensive candle and chocolates. Cook myself a nice meal, watch a film, spoon the cat and then have a lady wank.how sad!!!

Treat yo' selves! "

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

Not had a partner for Valentine's Day for years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Treat yo' selves! "

Sincerely hope that's a Parks and Rec style 'Treat yo' selves'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Uurgh. It's over tat d. It means much more if someone does something romantic on a different day of the year.

Hang on....romantic.....what is that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not had a partner for Valentine's Day for years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No interest whatsoever. Don't do cards or presents at the best of times and certainly not on Valentine's Day! It's ridiculous.

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Treat yo' selves!

Sincerely hope that's a Parks and Rec style 'Treat yo' selves'"

I'm going to be treating myself to...

Mimosas, massages, fine leather goods

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By *rishman75Man
over a year ago

Chessington/epsom

"Not had a partner for Valentine's Day for years

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what !!! You look fantastic x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Roses are Red

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I'm indifferent. I'll just do what I usually do and cry into a cup of tea while eating chocolate covered strawberries. "

I'll send you a little something via message Hatter my love

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Treat yo' selves!

Sincerely hope that's a Parks and Rec style 'Treat yo' selves'

I'm going to be treating myself to...

Mimosas, massages, fine leather goods

Oh, you get better as every day passes; I always tell myself when I am about to buy a nice bag it's a treat myself day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Treat yo' selves!

Sincerely hope that's a Parks and Rec style 'Treat yo' selves'

I'm going to be treating myself to...

Mimosas, massages, fine leather goods

Oh, you get better as every day passes; I always tell myself when I am about to buy a nice bag it's a treat myself day!"
where are those owd romantic souls?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Treat yo' selves!

Sincerely hope that's a Parks and Rec style 'Treat yo' selves'

I'm going to be treating myself to...

Mimosas, massages, fine leather goods

Oh, you get better as every day passes; I always tell myself when I am about to buy a nice bag it's a treat myself day!"

Haha... it's my default excuse when I buy myself anything!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's worse is being married and your man "forgets" every year, despite the shops/supermarkets/petrol stations being full of valentine cards and suchlike. Your (married/attached) mates gush about what romantic surprise their man gave them that morning and do a check round to see what you got, (or not). Then he gets quizzed at work 'what did you get the missus?', so on his way home, he stops at the nearest petrol station and you get what they had left. Last thing I ever got from him was a plastic red rose in a plastic tube. I wish I'd had a tub of lube, I could have rammed it in his arse and it would have been a Valentine's day for him to remember.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm indifferent. I'll just do what I usually do and cry into a cup of tea while eating chocolate covered strawberries.

I'll send you a little something via message Hatter my love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It just amplifies the down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I gotta admit it would be nice to get something. Doesn't even have to cost money, could just be someone's time, effort. Knowing I was being thought about, and planning and thought had gone into doing something to make me feel special, wanted. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep ...I usually forage a bunch of flowers to who I choose to give to ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not had a partner for Valentine's Day for years

Snap!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm available!!!handsup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be jumpimg on the commercialised bandwagon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ugh! But even in relationships it's never been a day of hearts and flowers, so you know, if anyone wants to change that, I don't mind! Hehehehe! "

You can always pm me your address.

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By *h reallyWoman
over a year ago

llandudno

yes for me .

just have to find the idiot that's gonna give me flowers card and shag me sensless.

I can dream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes for me .

just have to find the idiot that's gonna give me flowers card and shag me sensless.

I can dream"
got flowers..

foraged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want me i'll be in the corner singing this:

https://youtu.be/hbn6o5tiPds

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

I'll just romance the hell out myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm off on my jollies this year so I think Voddy is gonna do the thread.

Best get my thinkin cap on. So many tasty birds on this site.(tho only one true valentine)

So far all I av is

Roses cost loads

Daisies are free

My one true love

Is...

I'm stuck on the last rhyme. Grrrr

(which is kinda ironik fer a cockney geezer aint it?)"
you said it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a load of wasted money.

It's shouldn't be like that memories are more important than a bit of card to be honest.

So if anyone is thinking of getting me a card don't bother water fight on the beach would go down better.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

It's just another random day for our family, we don't celebrate any of these commercially orientated days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's just another random day for our family, we don't celebrate any of these commercially orientated days."
your card in the trash can!!!

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

Valentine's day...pfft!

Everyday should be Valentine's day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best thing about Valentine's is that it's then only four weeks to Steak and Blow Job day and that's certainly worth celebrating

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