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By *eeg OP Man
over a year ago

taunton

Why do people clearly read message but not open them even when they are long messages does any know lol

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

"Why do people clearly read message but not open them even when they are long messages does any know lol

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Because you can read what they say without fully opening the box.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It very likely that they look at the profile of the sender first. If there's nothing there to interest them they can just delete the message and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They do it to annoy people who sit and watch their sent box.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They do it to annoy people who sit and watch their sent box.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because like a lot of messages people get they are from people who haven't read their profile. So why waste time reading the message when you know there's no point in taking it further. An unanswered message means not interested!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Why do people clearly read message but not open them even when they are long messages does any know lol

Not sure how you know they've clearly read them but we quite often leave messages unread because one or the other of us isn't available to look at them. Other reasons might be they don't have time to look at their messages, they have so many yours dropped off the page or they only open messages from people they're interested in.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

If I was the person who hasn't answered then I'd be able to tell you why I hadn't answered but as i'm not the person who hasn't answered I can only give a million reasons as to why the person who didn't answer didn't but any one of those million reasons could be wrong..... or all of them.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I don't think they could all be right tho.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"They do it to annoy people who sit and watch their sent box.

Don't give our secret away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people clearly read message but not open them even when they are long messages does any know lol

they could read then mark as unread for their partner to read...or if they are site supporters and you've messaged before on the same thread, they can read the thread without opening the message...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women play games son you should know this

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Women play games son you should know this "

I know many women who don't play games and many men who make spurious remarks. Son.

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By *ustthe2ofusXXXCouple
over a year ago

coventry

We are both very busy with work and only tend to reply back when we are both together, so a lot of time we put back as unread so we know to keep it until we are both available to have a perv and reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women play games son you should know this

I know many women who don't play games and many men who make spurious remarks. Son."
calm down granny

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Women play games son you should know this

I know many women who don't play games and many men who make spurious remarks. Son. calm down granny "

I am calm. Son.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women play games son you should know this

I know many women who don't play games and many men who make spurious remarks. Son. calm down granny

I am calm. Son."
that sounds kind of hot you saying that

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Women play games son you should know this

I know many women who don't play games and many men who make spurious remarks. Son. calm down granny

I am calm. Son. that sounds kind of hot you saying that "

I am calm. You pervert.

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

"They do it to annoy people who sit and watch their sent box.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women play games son you should know this

I know many women who don't play games and many men who make spurious remarks. Son. calm down granny

I am calm. Son. that sounds kind of hot you saying that

I am calm. You pervert."
even better

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By *961_lizzieWoman
over a year ago

cheshire

Because the sender cleary hadn't read receivers profile. Mine asks for work to be put in message it rarely is.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Women play games son you should know this

I know many women who don't play games and many men who make spurious remarks. Son. calm down granny

I am calm. Son. that sounds kind of hot you saying that

I am calm. You pervert. even better "

I am calm. Your tax return is due.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women play games son you should know this

I know many women who don't play games and many men who make spurious remarks. Son. calm down granny

I am calm. Son. that sounds kind of hot you saying that

I am calm. You pervert."

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Because the sender cleary hadn't read receivers profile. Mine asks for work to be put in message it rarely is."

Hi, Please lick and stick these 1000 envelopes in the next hour. Thanks.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Women play games son you should know this "

Yes of course, the way we operate our inboxes is just to wind men up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women play games son you should know this

I know many women who don't play games and many men who make spurious remarks. Son. calm down granny

I am calm. Son. that sounds kind of hot you saying that

I am calm. You pervert. even better

I am calm. Your tax return is due. "
saying from the woman who comes from Merseyside

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Women play games son you should know this

I know many women who don't play games and many men who make spurious remarks. Son. calm down granny

I am calm. Son. that sounds kind of hot you saying that

I am calm. You pervert. even better

I am calm. Your tax return is due. saying from the woman who comes from Merseyside "

You'll have to explain that one to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women play games son you should know this

I know many women who don't play games and many men who make spurious remarks. Son. calm down granny

I am calm. Son. that sounds kind of hot you saying that

I am calm. You pervert. even better

I am calm. Your tax return is due. saying from the woman who comes from Merseyside

You'll have to explain that one to me. "
you snooze you lose. Son

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

If you send two or three messages on the trot they can open the first one and read the others as part of the message trail if they're site supporters. Common sense.

If the little yellow box is pissing you off then just delete messages your end as soon as they're sent. No more issues wondering about what other people do with their inboxes.

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By *octor RobMan
over a year ago

urmston

"They do it to annoy people who sit and watch their sent box.

Ha ha brilliant

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"If you send two or three messages on the trot they can open the first one and read the others as part of the message trail if they're site supporters. Common sense.

If the little yellow box is pissing you off then just delete messages your end as soon as they're sent. No more issues wondering about what other people do with their inboxes. "

I don't understand why it causes so much angst for people.

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

Sometimes reading peoples replies in the forums gives me an indication of who I should put on my ignore list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you send two or three messages on the trot they can open the first one and read the others as part of the message trail if they're site supporters. Common sense.

If the little yellow box is pissing you off then just delete messages your end as soon as they're sent. No more issues wondering about what other people do with their inboxes.

I don't understand why it causes so much angst for people."

It is not nice to be ignored, but that is a Fab fact of life for us men, and it doesn't bother me that much now. Not moaning, just saying. My sent box is a sea of yellow.

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

"If you send two or three messages on the trot they can open the first one and read the others as part of the message trail if they're site supporters. Common sense.

If the little yellow box is pissing you off then just delete messages your end as soon as they're sent. No more issues wondering about what other people do with their inboxes.

I don't understand why it causes so much angst for people.

It is not nice to be ignored, but that is a Fab fact of life for us men, and it doesn't bother me that much now. Not moaning, just saying. My sent box is a sea of yellow.

Why do you check you're sent box?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Sometimes reading peoples replies in the forums gives me an indication of who I should put on my ignore list."

I agree, the forums are a great filter

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

I just don't have time to read them all, or is it because I like to see the unread box alight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you send two or three messages on the trot they can open the first one and read the others as part of the message trail if they're site supporters. Common sense.

If the little yellow box is pissing you off then just delete messages your end as soon as they're sent. No more issues wondering about what other people do with their inboxes.

I don't understand why it causes so much angst for people.

It is not nice to be ignored, but that is a Fab fact of life for us men, and it doesn't bother me that much now. Not moaning, just saying. My sent box is a sea of yellow.

Why do you check you're sent box?"

To see if my message has been read?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you send two or three messages on the trot they can open the first one and read the others as part of the message trail if they're site supporters. Common sense.

If the little yellow box is pissing you off then just delete messages your end as soon as they're sent. No more issues wondering about what other people do with their inboxes.

I don't understand why it causes so much angst for people.

It is not nice to be ignored, but that is a Fab fact of life for us men, and it doesn't bother me that much now. Not moaning, just saying. My sent box is a sea of yellow.

Why do you check you're sent box?

To see if my message has been read?

but you can't know for sure anyway,may have been read,then marked as unread....and unless they have actually replied its totally irrelevant surely? seems a bit of a waste of time agonising over it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it really upsets you seeing all the unread yellow boxes, just delete them.......aaaaannnddd relaaaaxxx

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"Women play games son you should know this

I know many women who don't play games and many men who make spurious remarks. Son."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it really upsets you seeing all the unread yellow boxes, just delete them.......aaaaannnddd relaaaaxxx"

So speaks a person who gets replies...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women play games son you should know this "

This woman doesn't play games.

I often don't bother reading messeges from profiles that i have checked out and don't match what we look for.

I just delete them.

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

"If you send two or three messages on the trot they can open the first one and read the others as part of the message trail if they're site supporters. Common sense.

If the little yellow box is pissing you off then just delete messages your end as soon as they're sent. No more issues wondering about what other people do with their inboxes.

I don't understand why it causes so much angst for people.

It is not nice to be ignored, but that is a Fab fact of life for us men, and it doesn't bother me that much now. Not moaning, just saying. My sent box is a sea of yellow.

Why do you check you're sent box?

To see if my message has been read?

What difference dies it make? Monitoring the sent box is silly. Just, because someone reads a message doesn't mean they have to reply back within minutes. Some people like to think about things first before replying back.

What timescale do you think people should take to respond back to you?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I like to leave messages unread when they haven't read my profile, just so they can feel a smidgeon of the frustration I feel that they haven't read my profile. I'll leave them for days, thus giving hope for those who sit refreshing their sentboxes, then I'll delete the lot of them. Very cathartic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people clearly read message but not open them even when they are long messages does any know lol

Because people can do what they want and nobody here owes you anything?

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

You gotta be lucky for your message to be read..

Most women getting inundated with messages and the inbox only displaying around 75 messages, it don't take long for your message to end up lost, an never to be read..

That lonely message, alone.and unloved..

But take heart, your message isn't alone, there are many more with it, keeping it company, those poor unloved messages..

Alternatively, delete it yourself after a couple of days and move on..

Go, be ruthless..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do that if I want to read the message but can't be asked to reply at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you send two or three messages on the trot they can open the first one and read the others as part of the message trail if they're site supporters. Common sense.

If the little yellow box is pissing you off then just delete messages your end as soon as they're sent. No more issues wondering about whawt other people do with their inboxes.

I don't understand why it causes so much angst for people.

It is not nice to be ignored, but that is a Fab fact of life for us men, and it doesn't bother me that much now. Not moaning, just saying. My sent box is a sea of yellow.

Why do you check you're sent box?

To see if my message has been read?

What timescale do you think people should take to respond back to you?"

I grasp at any straw of hope...! If it's been read and not instantly deleted, then there is a glimmer...

I set no time limits...

Didn't realize about the 75 messages limit in Inbox...explains a lot.

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

"If you send two or three messages on the trot they can open the first one and read the others as part of the message trail if they're site supporters. Common sense.

If the little yellow box is pissing you off then just delete messages your end as soon as they're sent. No more issues wondering about whawt other people do with their inboxes.

I don't understand why it causes so much angst for people.

It is not nice to be ignored, but that is a Fab fact of life for us men, and it doesn't bother me that much now. Not moaning, just saying. My sent box is a sea of yellow.

Why do you check you're sent box?

To see if my message has been read?

What timescale do you think people should take to respond back to you?

I grasp at any straw of hope...! If it's been read and not instantly deleted, then there is a glimmer...

I set no time limits...

Didn't realize about the 75 messages limit in Inbox...explains a lot.

Exactly if it's read and not deleted then you have a chance. Read and deleted then you have your answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately most men don't realise women are inudated with messages on this site.. I've seen on friends site when she visits she always get inudated with new messages some will send 3/4 messages just because she is online..

They don't realise women are people and you need to stimulate there mind to stand out rather than mention the words fuck cock tits pussy in your 1st message.... Not directing at all men just 90%!!!

But maybe that's why I'm having so much fun!!!

Have fun all

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By *auradCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

I, Mr tend to leave all the messages for Mrs d to reply to however I tend to log on to here more often than she does so it often looks like we are ignoring messages but in reality they are just left unread for the right person to see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people clearly read message but not open them even when they are long messages does any know lol

Because they can

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By *eeg OP Man
over a year ago

taunton

"You gotta be lucky for your message to be read..

Most women getting inundated with messages and the inbox only displaying around 75 messages, it don't take long for your message to end up lost, an never to be read..

That lonely message, alone.and unloved..

But take heart, your message isn't alone, there are many more with it, keeping it company, those poor unloved messages..

Alternatively, delete it yourself after a couple of days and move on..

Go, be ruthless..

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By *eeg OP Man
over a year ago

taunton

Oh yes I do that but some of the message are for information not meets thanks anyway at t least in the forum it generates conversation and humour lo x

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By *eeg OP Man
over a year ago

taunton

thankyou for your reponse all of you noted and taken onboard lol

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