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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So just having had a quick nosey around in my hungover state at the forums it got me to thinking (this could possibly be dangerous to the banging in my head).

When you post or others do you mind knowing full on details of what they have done, are in the midst of doing etc? Or do you prefer a hint, a tease if you like?

Yes I know, this site is for people to use as they like, and yes I know if they want to shout from the rooftops about all sorts they can, but I'm just curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im kinda less concerned with what others are doing, unless they are doing it with me!

I do think that discretion is the better part of valour though.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

No; if les is more, just think how much MORE more will be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally for me what goes on between two people should stay between those two people.

I don't want to read what others have done or are doing to each other. Like I wouldn't boast about the things I have or am doing. To me is attention seeking, but that mu personal _iew. But then I'm a very private person both in fab life and real life.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Prefer a hint and tease. Same in cam chat. Don't want to hear the full details of what-went-where!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex wise or putting the Sunday roast on wise?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I don't want to read about what others are doing with each other and I most definitely don't want anyone talking about what they are doing with me.

I've been specifically turned off people I might otherwise have been interested in by reading their indiscreet forum postings and endless status updates and verifications about who and what they're doing. It's all a bit naff in my eyes.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I do think people share far too much information and especially their vulnerabilities. Of course, their choice.

There are people who will exploit it.

I say very little now, that's a learned approach..

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

I only went in cam chat once. I didn't know you had to speak. So have never been in again since xxxxx Suzi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I don't want to read about what others are doing with each other and I most definitely don't want anyone talking about what they are doing with me.

I've been specifically turned off people I might otherwise have been interested in by reading their indiscreet forum postings and endless status updates and verifications about who and what they're doing. It's all a bit naff in my eyes. "

Same here some things are best kept to oneself I say

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sex wise or putting the Sunday roast on wise?"

Well Sunday roast wise just isn't on, all those people going without! They will be up in arms

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, I don't want to read about what others are doing with each other and I most definitely don't want anyone talking about what they are doing with me.

I've been specifically turned off people I might otherwise have been interested in by reading their indiscreet forum postings and endless status updates and verifications about who and what they're doing. It's all a bit naff in my eyes. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex wise or putting the Sunday roast on wise?

Well Sunday roast wise just isn't on, all those people going without! They will be up in arms "

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Less said the better is probably wise but sometimes a topic gets you talking more than you should.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like teasing and little hints leaning me to guess.

I like guessing, that's how I got my GCSE's .

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Im kinda less concerned with what others are doing, unless they are doing it with me!

I do think that discretion is the better part of valour though. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like teasing and little hints leaning me to guess.

I like guessing, that's how I got my GCSE's .

"

Hahahahaha!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a hint and tease. Graphic verifications and very graphic pictures put me off, less is definetly more appealing to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I don't want to read about what others are doing with each other and I most definitely don't want anyone talking about what they are doing with me.

I've been specifically turned off people I might otherwise have been interested in by reading their indiscreet forum postings and endless status updates and verifications about who and what they're doing. It's all a bit naff in my eyes. "

Completely agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No; if les is more, just think how much MORE more will be "

Is that not the whole point? That more would be too much?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Be yourself, we're all different. I prefer to have less. Except for others that I'm meeting but then only as needed. It's not likely to be marriage next week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I've been specifically turned off people I might otherwise have been interested in by reading their indiscreet forum postings and endless status updates and verifications about who and what they're doing. It's all a bit naff in my eyes. "

this goes for me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do think people share far too much information and especially their vulnerabilities. Of course, their choice.

There are people who will exploit it.

I say very little now, that's a learned approach.."

I do wonder sometimes if they're either incredibly naive or attention seeking.

There does appear to be some correlation between this kind of sharing and a subsequent follow up thread of 'I'm being.........'

Like you say though, their choice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do think people share far too much information and especially their vulnerabilities. Of course, their choice.

There are people who will exploit it.

I say very little now, that's a learned approach..

I do wonder sometimes if they're either incredibly naive or attention seeking.

There does appear to be some correlation between this kind of sharing and a subsequent follow up thread of 'I'm being.........'

Like you say though, their choice."

Having read some stuff this morning, it reminds me of the girls at school who thought that the way to be popular was to boast about stuff (whether it was true or not was another story), when actually most were just wondering why they were saying it.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I do think people share far too much information and especially their vulnerabilities. Of course, their choice.

There are people who will exploit it.

I say very little now, that's a learned approach..

I do wonder sometimes if they're either incredibly naive or attention seeking.

There does appear to be some correlation between this kind of sharing and a subsequent follow up thread of 'I'm being.........'

Like you say though, their choice."

naive at first I think but so many come back do the same over and over again, then the same result and wonder why. Then attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally for me what goes on between two people should stay between those two people.

I don't want to read what others have done or are doing to each other. Like I wouldn't boast about the things I have or am doing. To me is attention seeking, but that mu personal _iew. But then I'm a very private person both in fab life and real life. "

Exactly this... especially when the people bragging about it have met you... very hurtful and shows lack of respect.... in my humble opinion!

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Anyone who has spoken to me knows I love to tease, less is more photos and the pinup era generally

I will naturally be drawn to people and profiles that are the same..

Humble bragging and gushing veris can put me off someone on here.

I totally get how exciting it is to meet someone new but it shows lack of self-awareness and discretion

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