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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK I'm curious about going to a sauna... can any of you bi males give any info?

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Well...

There's places you can chill and places you can play. Lube and condoms are provided. What you want to know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good way to pass a dreary afternoon.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Want to know of any close to where I am, but not suite 69.... they don't allow men in knickers in there

What is the general expectations from people, can I just go and chill... no pressure to play... or is it expected in there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Want to know of any close to where I am, but not suite 69.... they don't allow men in knickers in there

What is the general expectations from people, can I just go and chill... no pressure to play... or is it expected in there? "

Yeah you can just chill ,,,,, if anyone starts showing attention you don't want it's not impolite to turn it down ...... it's not a predatory environment ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well it seems to be the only way I may get to play with a like minded male!

Most on here in this area seem to be dreamers

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

The place I used to go to burnt down, had many a good weekend in there

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

It is not exactly a gay sauna but have you considered the gay/bi night at Eureka Sun Club (which is very near Brands Hatch and I guess is about 35 minutes from you on a good day). Normally this is naturist spa but has a selection of specialist parties hosted there.

I have only attended one of these parties but it was a very inclusive environment and I can't see anyone there have a problem with any choice of attire on that evening. It was also somewhere that it would be quiet acceptable not to play if no-one is taking your interest. If your interested it would be sensible to checkout the club review section.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it. I love the one in Southampton. The sex swing and private rooms are epic

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport


"Go for it. I love the one in Southampton. The sex swing and private rooms are epic "

I would second that Pink Broadway in Southampton is very good and well managed as is Touch Sauna in Swindon (although I have only been to this one when it was hosting Swindon Swingers, remix party) but I guess both are a bit too much of a trek over from Basildon. Unfortunately the same can't be said for some of the other saunas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of saunas now offer TV/TS nights

Those nights might be better suited if you want to wear knickers etc

You don't have to dress fully - there is always a good cross section at the ones I have stumbled across

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I only wear the knickers... no other female clothing.

Suppose it's a case of just going to one and seeing what it's all about... it's different from a swingers club though as that's a lot more social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK I'm curious about going to a sauna... can any of you bi males give any info?

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Yeah, there's one in Chelmsford that's quite popular, I understand, but never been there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OK I'm curious about going to a sauna... can any of you bi males give any info?

Yeah, there's one in Chelmsford that's quite popular, I understand, but never been there. "

That one doesn't allow men wearing knickers... and as I don't own any man pants it's not somewhere I would want to attend.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Saunas and swingers clubs have a universal rule, no =no - as you'll know from your club experience.

Some people can be predatory and persistent, so I wouldn't encourage anyone who isn't ultra confident to visit and leave themselves open to it.

As with clubs they can be places where you can watch others - how they operate, them having sex if in the open. I go to some on tgirl special days, but they won't be 100% typical of other days.

I get bi and curious guys together, for relaxed, supervised some of the time, exploratory sessions. You could consider something like this, where a matchmaker makes the connections and pairings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only wear the knickers... no other female clothing.

Suppose it's a case of just going to one and seeing what it's all about... it's different from a swingers club though as that's a lot more social "

Most saunas don't allow underwear of any sort. It's towels or nothing, which is why I suggested a TV night.

I have only ever seen one guy in panties on a non TV day and he was laughed at, pointed at and generally made to feel a bit of a joke.

Disgraceful behaviour, that no one deserves.

You'd be surprised at how ultra bullishly macho guys can be when on cock patrol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well that has just made my mind up even more NOT to go to one then.

In don't laugh at others for what they wear, and I wouldn't want to be laughed at for my choice of underwear either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know your area but when I travel around I just internet search for saunas in the area I'm visiting, check the pics and reviews and give them a call.

Some saunas can be a bit seedy others really classy.

There's no pressure to play and I find if you want play just speak up or make a tentative move. If he's not interested he'll say. Although I'm yet to find a guy who says no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

green house darlaston just don't park out side my house !!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"green house darlaston just don't park out side my house !!!!"

Have you seen where I am from.... That's not even in the same time zone as me it's that far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"green house darlaston just don't park out side my house !!!!

Have you seen where I am from.... That's not even in the same time zone as me it's that far away "

I be been to it and I'm flippin mile away too. It's worth the drive but park outside FMAOs house. I parked in the car park and some twat drove into my wing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I walk past a male sauna poster... The men on that poster seem very happy.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

CS2 in Notts is the only place I go to if I fancy any man on man action

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I walk past a male sauna poster... The men on that poster seem very happy."

They rarely look like they do in the posters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I walk past a male sauna poster... The men on that poster seem very happy.

They rarely look like they do in the posters "

Unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pink broadway southampton is great i met guys in there wearing stockings nd panties you are not allowed tonwer heels though

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