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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Don't people just irritate you and make you laugh.

I really do hate a lot of people, hate is a strong word, and I mean it. I'm similar to Charles Bukwoski, I just feel better when they're not around!

However, going through profiles on here, makes me want to die, at least some of them, don't they you?

These (nearly always) ladies with pictures of their legs, and then a profile biography greater than the distance between Pluto and the sun.

To those people who do say things such as "Oh experience is a must. Don't do this, don't do that. I must have this, and I'm not this, I'm this.

Oh don't forget you must be triple jointed and move your legs in 9 places and be able to dislocate your skull"

You, nor I, nor anyone are special in any way, so please get over yourself, have fun, and clam down!

You'll be dead in 80 years, then nothing. So live calmy and happily.

Please, I welcome all discussions on this!

Do your worst

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By *orestersCouple
over a year ago

The Forest

People tell me I'm special, but they usually accompany it with a gentle pat on the head and a barley sugar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...or how about you get over yourself and just move on. Don't read the profiles that bother you until you come across someone who does 'float your boat' and try contacting them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...or how about you get over yourself and just move on. Don't read the profiles that bother you until you come across someone who does 'float your boat' and try contacting them"

Life's too short to get wound up by those you don't know, concentrate on those you like

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"Don't people just irritate you and make you laugh.

I really do hate a lot of people, hate is a strong word, and I mean it. I'm similar to Charles Bukwoski, I just feel better when they're not around!

However, going through profiles on here, makes me want to die, at least some of them, don't they you?

These (nearly always) ladies with pictures of their legs, and then a profile biography greater than the distance between Pluto and the sun.

To those people who do say things such as "Oh experience is a must. Don't do this, don't do that. I must have this, and I'm not this, I'm this.

Oh don't forget you must be triple jointed and move your legs in 9 places and be able to dislocate your skull"

You, nor I, nor anyone are special in any way, so please get over yourself, have fun, and clam down!

You'll be dead in 80 years, then nothing. So live calmy and happily.

Please, I welcome all discussions on this!

Do your worst

You dont half sound grumpy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"...or how about you get over yourself and just move on. Don't read the profiles that bother you until you come across someone who does 'float your boat' and try contacting them"

I've nothing to get over, I'm not aarogant, I don't think I'm above anyone, nor below anyone, I believe in equality.

There is nothing special about myself, Or others, I just find it horribly amusing and almost embarrasing how much people make demands of one another and walk around as if their worth £1,000,000,000,000

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't people just irritate you and make you laugh.

I really do hate a lot of people, hate is a strong word, and I mean it. I'm similar to Charles Bukwoski, I just feel better when they're not around!

However, going through profiles on here, makes me want to die, at least some of them, don't they you?

These (nearly always) ladies with pictures of their legs, and then a profile biography greater than the distance between Pluto and the sun.

To those people who do say things such as "Oh experience is a must. Don't do this, don't do that. I must have this, and I'm not this, I'm this.

Oh don't forget you must be triple jointed and move your legs in 9 places and be able to dislocate your skull"

You, nor I, nor anyone are special in any way, so please get over yourself, have fun, and clam down!

You'll be dead in 80 years, then nothing. So live calmy and happily.

Please, I welcome all discussions on this!

Do your worst

You dont half sound grumpy"

i'm 21 going on 99

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blake i like you, please don't think i don't however women get put down for various reasons and sometimes a bit of 'bigging ourselves up' is what we need.

men like women with confidence.. or so i read on about a million profiles :D

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"...or how about you get over yourself and just move on. Don't read the profiles that bother you until you come across someone who does 'float your boat' and try contacting them"

Well said young Miss.....

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

I tell you what irritates me.....people constantly picking at other peoples profiles on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Blake i like you, please don't think i don't however women get put down for various reasons and sometimes a bit of 'bigging ourselves up' is what we need.

men like women with confidence.. or so i read on about a million profiles :D"

Don't get me wrong, it's not just ladies who do this, and I'm not one of these women hating bigamist pigs!

I've just never met a lady in real life who makes demands like they do on here.

men and couples do it too!

Charles Darwin anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the end of the day people use this site for a variety of reasons, they could have a list of 50 'needs' but if you don't apply to those then i shouldn't worry about it, that person isn't for you and toodle along to the next profile.

Id be fussy too. Im on here to find what i want, not whatever comes along. Nothing wrong with knowing with what a person wants.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

I've just never met a lady in real life who makes demands like they do on here.

Give it time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've just never met a lady in real life who makes demands like they do on here.

Give it time

*crumbles into a million bits screaming 'no'"

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"People tell me I'm special, but they usually accompany it with a gentle pat on the head and a barley sugar.

Same here and they then offer me some white pills.. and if I dont take them.. they administer a jab...;-) YEAH I AM SPECIAL

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

I get more irritated by people who demand an imaginative message no one liners please and yet they have a oneline profile!!! What's that about???

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I get more irritated by people who demand an imaginative message no one liners please and yet they have a oneline profile!!! What's that about???"

I agree - I do not get that one either

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

"I get more irritated by people who demand an imaginative message no one liners please and yet they have a oneline profile!!! What's that about???

I agree - I do not get that one either

Its not just me that seems to find em then???

And the no face pic no reply brigade so you send a face pic which I always do and get no reply ..... hang on a minute I need to rethink that bit....

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

oh blake,you've made me so happy.

i thought,i had maybe 45-50 years left,at a push.

now i find i've got 80.

thank you,thank you,thank you.

blake,giver of life,wait till mrs saucy hears.you dont get news,that good everyday.

WOOOOOOO HOOOOOO.

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

oh is it thursday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get more irritated by people who demand an imaginative message no one liners please and yet they have a oneline profile!!! What's that about???"

Impressive if they can let you know in one line that they expect an imaginative message, and polite enough to say please!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...or how about you get over yourself and just move on. Don't read the profiles that bother you until you come across someone who does 'float your boat' and try contacting them"

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I demand nowt...and get nowt. lmao

And as the song says.."dont worry, be happy"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Blake i like you, please don't think i don't however women get put down for various reasons and sometimes a bit of 'bigging ourselves up' is what we need.

men like women with confidence.. or so i read on about a million profiles :D"

yes women do get a lot of abuse on here and the ones i speak to get so down when a guy they have been interested in fails to turn up.

life is short i agree.

but ffs doesnt mean your weak because you offer a hand and hug to someone you care about.

most woman are happy being told the right things and treated like woman.

not sex objects.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The big demanding style profiles tend to develope over time from members who started off with a very short nieve very accessible profile that tended to attract "the daftys", so i guess saying "no thanks" for the millionth time gets tiring and being more particular deters some,therefore making the managing of replies a bit more possible?

A theory, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first started swinging I thought a similar thing to the OP but realise now that I was ignorant and just did not understand.

I don't have a long profile which makes those demands but that's not to say that I don't agree with it. Swinging is my fantasy life therefore I can be whoever I want to be.

If I was dating then in reality I would be attracting men within my own age group, I like intelligent but funny men but those men would probably be your regular, soft tummied men, maybe losing their hair (I always draw the line at teeth though) but middle aged men because I'm obviously in my early 40s myself and I'm not a dolly bird. However in fantasy land I can either play with and enjoy the men I'm attracted to in real life but I can also demand the firm, hard bodied, instant erection, super fit young men just for a change from the norm. So I may appear to be demanding and up my own arse but swinging is not about being nice to everyone, making do etc, its about picking out the sexual fantasy for that night and peoples profiles will reflect what they want.

If you had access to the worlds most exotic, delicious and appetising cake shop, would you always go for the jam donut?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh is it thursday

Nooooo...

DONWANNAGOTAWORKTAMORRA...

*Stamps foots...*

OP...? Err... No...

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By *aturistbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Richmond

I don't mind long or even demanding profiles. Like someone said it helps me to out people, as well as the other way round.

What bugs me is looking for bi people, then getting a message from a straight person that says 'actually I'm bi'.

Ugh.

Sort your profiles out and be a little MORE honest, eh?

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset

"When I first started swinging I thought a similar thing to the OP but realise now that I was ignorant and just did not understand.

I don't have a long profile which makes those demands but that's not to say that I don't agree with it. Swinging is my fantasy life therefore I can be whoever I want to be.

Good post, very well put.

If you had access to the worlds most exotic, delicious and appetising cake shop, would you always go for the jam donut?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"....If you had access to the worlds most exotic, delicious and appetising cake shop, would you always go for the jam donut?"

Yup...! Personal

Preference...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I first started swinging I thought a similar thing to the OP but realise now that I was ignorant and just did not understand.

I don't have a long profile which makes those demands but that's not to say that I don't agree with it. Swinging is my fantasy life therefore I can be whoever I want to be.

If you had access to the worlds most exotic, delicious and appetising cake shop, would you always go for the jam donut?"

Spot on as usual.

This for me was fantasy too. My fantasy wasn't for a ripped, buff young stud, but a ripped, buff, older man, uber intelligent, tall and sub. Basically the bosses I've had over the years but in the compromising positions I like, gagged with things up their arse!

Naturally, shorter, non-submissive, bus driver type men with a secondary education have accused me of being a snob and up my own arse as I've declined their offer to play.

Of course I don't think I'm Tyra Banks, I'm living my fantasy. My alpha male playmates could attract the Cheryl Cole types but that's not their fantasy either: they want to relinquish control of their life, be told what to do by a dominant woman, for some, the fact I'm black is the icing on the cake.

If all you want is to empty your sac of course it will appear that some women are making men jump through hoops.

Personally, I'd see it as sorting the wheat from the chaff from both sides: if a profile seems "too busy" for you, then you can exclude yourself and not waste time and look for the "wanna fuck" all welcome type profiles that might suit better.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Someone said my profile belonged on a dating site... I said maybe it does as I would not sleep with someone that I would not date...

I know what I am looking for on fab and sorry to say I would not settle for second best. We all have choices and we all have wants and needs and if we have to come across as demanding to get that then so be it. I have been told on a few occasions that I am the least demanding woman.

Its my profile its who I am I could write a one lined profile that simply said fancy a fuck but then when it came to a meet they would not know thel true me. To simulate the sexual needs of a person you have to simulate the mental need of that person..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only profiles I get to see are those from the people that email me.

Or those on the forums saying help with my profile.

I hate the short ones that basically tell me to get in touch with questions.

Without any hints as to what they are interested in I find I cant think of a question, other than 'why haven't you bothered to fill your profile in'!?!

My profile reflects me, I dont see where I make any demands, I dont ask for anything, (except safe sex) I tried to tell a little about me, what I like and what I have experienced...

If I see a profile and it isn't to my tastes then I just let it be. I know not everyone is going to be what I like; I am not going to be what everyone else likes.

If it happens it happens, if not then not. I am not going to worry about it

Just my pennies worth.

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

"I get more irritated by people who demand an imaginative message no one liners please and yet they have a oneline profile!!! What's that about???

Impressive if they can let you know in one line that they expect an imaginative message, and polite enough to say please!

Sorry I added the please!

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