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By *airymagic OP   Woman
over a year ago

goblin city

Just wondering what would be the thing you'd not bend on when arranging ne a hook up (obviously not including illegal shit)

Eh kissing, or not swallowing

Mine is refusing to wear a condom and kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hygiene. Cock in a frock. Etc

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By *airymagic OP   Woman
over a year ago

goblin city


"Hygiene. Cock in a frock. Etc"

Hygiene is so basic can't believe I didn't say it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they don't turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thinking about this and theres a lot of things - god im a fussy cow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thinking about this and theres a lot of things - god im a fussy cow"

I appreciate that every sets a bar of what they are looking for. Sometimes you will miss the odd priceless gem. A little calculated risk may uncover something you like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a few things but if I was told no kissing, it would be a non starter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they tell me what to wear.

If their hygiene leaves a lot to be desired.

If they have a ZZ Top Beard.

If they look batshit crazy. This is hard to spot, obviously, but there can be tell-tale signs.

D*unk, High.

Turn up and they look like Mr Bean when their face pic made them look like The Rock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a few things but if I was told no kissing, it would be a non starter."

Me too,i love a good passionate kiss

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By *airymagic OP   Woman
over a year ago

goblin city


"There are a few things but if I was told no kissing, it would be a non starter.

Me too,i love a good passionate kiss"

I can kiss mwahhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a few things but if I was told no kissing, it would be a non starter."

Same as.kissing big thing for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a few things but if I was told no kissing, it would be a non starter.

Me too,i love a good passionate kiss

I can kiss mwahhh"

Puckers up.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a few things but if I was told no kissing, it would be a non starter.

Me too,i love a good passionate kiss

I can kiss mwahhh"

I good snog with tongues,i do miss that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stinking of cigarette or drink both come under hygiene.

I agree about the kissing.

I love to kiss while fucking, gives that fuller connection.

Otherwise it feels like prostitution/rpe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

kissing is one of the best parts about getting with someone!

the only other thing i can think of at the moment that would put me off is bad hygiene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they told me they supported Ipswich Town FC

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

If they are cheating on a partner, won't kiss and if they don't want to me to use a condom.

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By *ilary and DonaldCouple
over a year ago

chingford

We walked from a meet because the fella was wearing trainers.

Is that too fussy ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a few things but if I was told no kissing, it would be a non starter."

This!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor hygiene

No kissing

Unsafe sex

Reading the Daily Mail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often wish potential meets could complete a tiny questionnaire:

1. Showers? Daily or meh

2. Do you kiss?

3. If yes to above - Are you any good at kissing?

4. Describe your underwear.

5. What noise do you make when you climax?

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Kissing.

From slow sensual kisses, to hard passionate lets-get-through-the-door snogging.

It sets the tone.

A single kiss can inflame the senses, or dull them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often wish potential meets could complete a tiny questionnaire:

1. Showers? Daily or meh

2. Do you kiss?

3. If yes to above - Are you any good at kissing?

4. Describe your underwear.

5. What noise do you make when you climax? "

1. Daily

2. Yes

3. Yes

4. Calvin klein boxers

5. I roar like a lion

Lol

M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often wish potential meets could complete a tiny questionnaire:

1. Showers? Daily or meh

2. Do you kiss?

3. If yes to above - Are you any good at kissing?

4. Describe your underwear.

5. What noise do you make when you climax?

1. Daily

2. Yes

3. Yes

4. Calvin klein boxers

5. I roar like a lion

Lol

M "

Have we met? Are you the reason for question #5. I'm still traumatised from the roaring **resumes rocking in the corner**

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By *rank n BettyCouple
over a year ago

Not meeting

People pretending to be single when in fact they are attached , i dont see why people cant just be adult and talk to their other half and discuss the lack of sex rather than sneaking about behind their other halfs back. Makes me sick to the stomach.

Frank

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By *otlips2000Man
over a year ago

swadlincote

Kissing definitely

Able to laugh at yourself

Not take life to seriously it's supposed to be fun

Playing

Touching

Feeling

The actual fucking is way down the list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Condom

Kissing

Social first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't have sex without kissing. And a codom is a must That's my deal breakers x

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By *hunkyThighsMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

Kissing, terrible teeth (if I hadn't already known)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok who wants kissing and where on the body, face, neck or generally all over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Racist and xenophobic behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Racist and xenophobic behaviour. "

The only phobia I have is -

hippopotomonstrosesquippedaliophobia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We walked from a meet because the fella was wearing trainers.

Is that too fussy ? "

Awwwww he might have ran to meet you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often wish potential meets could complete a tiny questionnaire:

1. Showers? Daily or meh

2. Do you kiss?

3. If yes to above - Are you any good at kissing?

4. Describe your underwear.

5. What noise do you make when you climax?

1. Daily

2. Yes

3. Yes

4. Calvin klein boxers

5. I roar like a lion

Lol

M "

1. Bath night Sunday

2. Never

3. Not at all

4. Asda's own + yellow stains

5. That noise when you deflate a balloon..

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By *LFB.Woman
over a year ago

Farnborough.

Most of the above plus a mass of pubic hair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys that are too pushy and impatient

Disrespectful people

Crap at kissing

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

For me its hygiene, kissing and recent pics that turn out not to be recent....


"I often wish potential meets could complete a tiny questionnaire:

1. Showers? Daily or meh

2. Do you kiss?

3. If yes to above - Are you any good at kissing?

4. Describe your underwear.

5. What noise do you make when you climax?

1. Daily

2. Yes

3. Yes

4. Calvin klein boxers

5. I roar like a lion

Lol

M

Have we met? Are you the reason for question #5. I'm still traumatised from the roaring **resumes rocking in the corner**"

Lmfao!!!

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By *ilary and DonaldCouple
over a year ago

chingford


"We walked from a meet because the fella was wearing trainers.

Is that too fussy ?

Awwwww he might have ran to meet you "

When asked why we said we were meeting him to have sex not to have a race.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys that are too pushy and impatient

Disrespectful people

Crap at kissing "

Damn it, that's me out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad teeth is a big NO from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing, manners, hygiene and teeth..

Breath.. bad breath i forgot.. that is a big thing for me.. not attrative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We walked from a meet because the fella was wearing trainers.

Is that too fussy ?

Awwwww he might have ran to meet you

When asked why we said we were meeting him to have sex not to have a race. "

Note to self- leave the 95's at home

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

.

First names with only 1 vowel in,

I cant be doing with them weirdos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often wish potential meets could complete a tiny questionnaire:

1. Showers? Daily or meh

2. Do you kiss?

3. If yes to above - Are you any good at kissing?

4. Describe your underwear.

5. What noise do you make when you climax?

1. Daily

2. Yes

3. Yes

4. Calvin klein boxers

5. I roar like a lion

Lol

M

Have we met? Are you the reason for question #5. I'm still traumatised from the roaring **resumes rocking in the corner**"

Hahaha

Well it's just my animal instincts coming out

Nah we have never met. ..........yet lol

M

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By *ilary and DonaldCouple
over a year ago

chingford

When we meet in hotels I will put together a playlist on my iPod.

One time soul limbo came on and the woman we were with stopped what we were doing and asked me to skip the song.

So obviously Booker T was her deal breaker.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

when they insist they dont need a condom cos they are STI clear yeah right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being pushy, no sense of humour. Bad teeth, no kissing like a lot, love a long, sexy, snog

And smell nice /hygine

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Yeah hygeine is the main one. Especially with my beak.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Limited interest in my needs, just their own.

Unwillingness for flexibility

Mismatched needs

Time restrictions for meet length

Changes to originally discussed personal details, interests plans etc

Poor or no communication

Hygiene etc goes without saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be a fussy bugger cos there's loads!

No kissing

Unsafe sex

Poor comms after arranging a meet

Refusal of a social

Expectation of play at a social

Bad Teeth

Lack of respect for the fact that I can't meet easily

Mismatched expectations

Lying about their height

Lack of a spark at a social...

It goes on and on.

But I won't appologise for being fussy. I am not here to fuck out of charity!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Jeeze. Reading this thread, I'm either a total slut or very easy going.

*shrugs*

Just don't cum inside 15 mins. That pisses me off.

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By *armel and FrancisCouple
over a year ago

North wex

Don't do beards sorry guys

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By *Cocksucker84Man
over a year ago

washington

Hygiene, unsafe anal, meeting someone who has either used photos that are ancient that don't represent who they are now or photos that blatantly aren't them. I'm not shallow but it's dishonest to represent yourself in such a way, and it's worse when you choose to share your own photos and you're being honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often wish potential meets could complete a tiny questionnaire:

1. Showers? Daily or meh

2. Do you kiss?

3. If yes to above - Are you any good at kissing?

4. Describe your underwear.

5. What noise do you make when you climax? "

Haha number 5! Add to list 6) What facial expression do you pull as you climax? Good to know in case you need to face away from them to avoid laughing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone with a U.K. Passport

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor hygiene

Arrogance

Domineering

Bad breath

...and lots more

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Anyone with a U.K. Passport "

Errrm!!

Marr-the-far-car!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone with a U.K. Passport

Errrm!!

Marr-the-far-car!

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone with a U.K. Passport "

That's ok- Trump has already fucked You!

(Wasn't his mum British? )

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Anyone with a U.K. Passport

Errrm!!

Marr-the-far-car!

"

Says the talking penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

- An unwillingness to share pics

- Immediate questions like 'what you looking for ?'

- Pushiness

- Being interested in just one of the couple and directing all conversation to that one person

-Hundreds of cock shots

-Gaping arseholes

-Chems

-Refusal to wear a condom or trying to open a debate about it

-Smelling of alcohol, cigarettes or food (that deep fat fryer smell)

-Role players or dirty talkers (can't keep our faces straight)

- Those the want to get in, shag and be out before Coronation Street starts (or a variety of other excuses)

There are probably others, but it's late

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone with a U.K. Passport

That's ok- Trump has already fucked You!

(Wasn't his mum British? )"

I'll trade you Trump for Boris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone with a U.K. Passport

That's ok- Trump has already fucked You!

(Wasn't his mum British? )

I'll trade you Trump for Boris "

No way- Boris is less harmful (although they both went to the same hairdressers!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone with a U.K. Passport

That's ok- Trump has already fucked You!

(Wasn't his mum British? )

I'll trade you Trump for Boris

No way- Boris is less harmful (although they both went to the same hairdressers!) "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good manners. Patience. Non pushy.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Mine are on my profile; taller than me, single, non-smoker. Sadly, not many read my pathetically short profile. The hygiene thing should be a given.

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