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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok,- I know that this is a bit of a rant, and I apologise in advance!

I know single men get a really bad time on here, and in many cases it's justified, and that single women remain that mystical creature

Never has a truer word been spoken. I'm currently sat in a hotel room in nottingham city centre, having been stood up by a gorgeous lady from here. Pfft!! It's so frustrating when this happens, at least have the courtesy to text/call if something comes up or you chicken out. Don't just not do anything!!

Ah well,- comfy bed for one tonight then. Unless anyone wants to come for a drink in town?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens to women and couples too. Maybe she had a genuine emergency and couldn't let you know. Does she read the forums too ? As it's not very discreet.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Report her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was probably a single man really, single women would never do such a thing

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Ok,- I know that this is a bit of a rant, and I apologise in advance!

I know single men get a really bad time on here, and in many cases it's justified, and that single women remain that mystical creature

Never has a truer word been spoken. I'm currently sat in a hotel room in nottingham city centre, having been stood up by a gorgeous lady from here. Pfft!! It's so frustrating when this happens, at least have the courtesy to text/call if something comes up or you chicken out. Don't just not do anything!!

Ah well,- comfy bed for one tonight then. Unless anyone wants to come for a drink in town?"
im really sorry you have had this experience..whatever the gender..its just rude...its why i meet socially somewhere im going anyway first..still annoys me that you put time aside to meet people and they dont bother letting you know , or they string you along for weeks, till within 1/2 hour and then dont bother to return your text as you are about to go out of the door....then they are on here a couple of hours after, saying they want to meet..its a joke..those people dont get a second chance..but the truth about them comes out eventually xx hope you have a lovely night and some plans come together for you xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No, I met her on here a few years ago, she's not on here anymore. I wouldn't be that indiscrete to type that if she was going to read it!

Maybe, but.......

Anyhow,- *picks up room service menu*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok,- I know that this is a bit of a rant, and I apologise in advance!

I know single men get a really bad time on here, and in many cases it's justified, and that single women remain that mystical creature

Never has a truer word been spoken. I'm currently sat in a hotel room in nottingham city centre, having been stood up by a gorgeous lady from here. Pfft!! It's so frustrating when this happens, at least have the courtesy to text/call if something comes up or you chicken out. Don't just not do anything!!

Ah well,- comfy bed for one tonight then. Unless anyone wants to come for a drink in town?im really sorry you have had this experience..whatever the gender..its just rude...its why i meet socially somewhere im going anyway first..still annoys me that you put time aside to meet people and they dont bother letting you know , or they string you along for weeks, till within 1/2 hour and then dont bother to return your text as you are about to go out of the door....then they are on here a couple of hours after, saying they want to meet..its a joke..those people dont get a second chance..but the truth about them comes out eventually xx hope you have a lovely night and some plans come together for you xx"

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

No one is immune from this happening

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

It is rude but it happens to everyone. That's why a social meet first is my preference. I will not arrange a hotel meet unless we have had a social or met at a club before.

I haven't been stood up since doing this so it works for me.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Don't report her

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"No, I met her on here a few years ago, she's not on here anymore. I wouldn't be that indiscrete to type that if she was going to read it!

Maybe, but.......

Anyhow,- *picks up room service menu*"
so you werent stood up this evening then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Experianced this myself u will probably find shes deleted account too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, I met her on here a few years ago, she's not on here anymore. I wouldn't be that indiscrete to type that if she was going to read it!

Maybe, but.......

Anyhow,- *picks up room service menu*so you werent stood up this evening then?"

Yes, I was. I've known her for a while, we'd arranged the meet outside of Fab this time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not nice when it happens

Been stood up from cpls and singles over the yrs

Even worse when you have forked out for a hotel room!!

I do not buy into the emergency thing...only takes literally 2 secs to txt someone and say they can't make it..

Go down to the hotel bar and either get d*unk or pick someone up lol

Either way have a good night

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not nice when it happens

Been stood up from cpls and singles over the yrs

Even worse when you have forked out for a hotel room!!

I do not buy into the emergency thing...only takes literally 2 secs to txt someone and say they can't make it..

Go down to the hotel bar and either get d*unk or pick someone up lol

Either way have a good night "

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"No, I met her on here a few years ago, she's not on here anymore. I wouldn't be that indiscrete to type that if she was going to read it!

Maybe, but.......

Anyhow,- *picks up room service menu*so you werent stood up this evening then?

Yes, I was. I've known her for a while, we'd arranged the meet outside of Fab this time"
ahhh i get you...maybe shes turned vanilla

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make use of the minibar and the porn channel. Pretend you're in Vegas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I met her on here a few years ago, she's not on here anymore. I wouldn't be that indiscrete to type that if she was going to read it!

Maybe, but.......

Anyhow,- *picks up room service menu*so you werent stood up this evening then?

Yes, I was. I've known her for a while, we'd arranged the meet outside of Fab this time"

She's ignoring your calls and texts?

It's hard to predict that someone's not going to turn up if you've already known them a while.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

She's ignoring your calls and texts?

It's hard to predict that someone's not going to turn up if you've already known them a while. "

If I could I'd be picking the lottery numbers tonight. Ah, I might buy a ticket anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry about happened to you mate, next time meet her at costa coffee before paying for an hotel room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I met her on here a few years ago, she's not on here anymore. I wouldn't be that indiscrete to type that if she was going to read it!

Maybe, but.......

Anyhow,- *picks up room service menu*so you werent stood up this evening then?

Yes, I was. I've known her for a while, we'd arranged the meet outside of Fab this time"

So more someone you know being a dick than any sort of reflection of the women on fab?

Or there's a genuine reason she's ignoring your calls and texts and something has delayed her

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"It was probably a single man really, single women would never do such a thing "

Ermmmmm! Really? I beg to differ.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was probably a single man really, single women would never do such a thing

Ermmmmm! Really? I beg to differ..... "

Yes, I was being completely serious when I wrote that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok,- I know that this is a bit of a rant, and I apologise in advance!

I know single men get a really bad time on here, and in many cases it's justified, and that single women remain that mystical creature

Never has a truer word been spoken. I'm currently sat in a hotel room in nottingham city centre, having been stood up by a gorgeous lady from here. Pfft!! It's so frustrating when this happens, at least have the courtesy to text/call if something comes up or you chicken out. Don't just not do anything!!

Ah well,- comfy bed for one tonight then. Unless anyone wants to come for a drink in town?"

Surely she still has time to appear. Women are allowed to be stylishly late.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok,- I know that this is a bit of a rant, and I apologise in advance!

I know single men get a really bad time on here, and in many cases it's justified, and that single women remain that mystical creature

Never has a truer word been spoken. I'm currently sat in a hotel room in nottingham city centre, having been stood up by a gorgeous lady from here. Pfft!! It's so frustrating when this happens, at least have the courtesy to text/call if something comes up or you chicken out. Don't just not do anything!!

Ah well,- comfy bed for one tonight then. Unless anyone wants to come for a drink in town?"

I know how you feel mate. Its happened to me as well. I was at the premiere inn hotel in Blackpool some years back and was supposed to meet someone. We had agreed to meet up that night and she had sent me a text to say that she was on her way. I waited all night and sadly she never turned up so I spent that night on my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't report her "

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Never but stood up in a hotel fortunately - but I've been stood up on socials before - and at a club only last week!

Shit happens unfortunately and not everyone is reliable/considerate/trustworthy!

Big hugs op and I hope you manage to have a good night in spite of your set-back! Xx

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Her loss

But seriously I hope you make other plans and have a good night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh sorry to hear that, OP... it sucks being stood up!

Put your feet up and try to enjoy your evening!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I crank up the 'who's near' feature if I get stood up at a hotel. You never know.

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

men and women can be equally disappointing

I haven't experienced it in Fab yet, but I have when dating.

I hope you manage to enjoy your evening.

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

We've been stood up on a few occasions. Eager to meet then don't answer/reply to messages. Just rude. You turn down other meets as you have plans then it's too late to arrange any thing else. Hope you get sorted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear this.... enjoy the free breakfast

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By *iscreet UnicornWoman
over a year ago

Windsor-ish


"Sorry to hear this.... enjoy the free breakfast "

Always a silver lining

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By *igris_PardusCouple
over a year ago

Bracknell


"Don't report her "

Start a thread about time wasters

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