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Are we Sex Addicts?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This popped into my head whilst having 1 of my long showers. Are we really just a bunch of sex addicts? I've seen loads of people on come on & off over the year (including myself) & made me wonder. Are normal relations just to boring or do we seek more to satisfy our sexual cravings? Why not just be satisfied in normal relations with 1 person? Why the numerous partners? Yes there are many reasons why each person swings but if was to visit a phychiathist, do u think you cld be diagnosed as a sex addict?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Yes I am but in a constant state of cold turkey

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

It has been suggested to me on more than one occasion.

I'm hoping to gather so many addictions that they cancel each other out in a state of blissful, voluptuous nirvana.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

I'm not. I enjoy sex and haven't wanted a relationship. No need for a psychiatrist here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not... if I'm sleeping with one person then I'm only sleeping with that person. Fab just amuses me.

Odd init.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

No. A sex addict puts themselves into dangerous situations to get their fix. I barely can be bothered to arrange a meet. I just enjoy sex with no strings with lovely men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i've been in an 11 yr relationship and happy enough fucking only him, every day... at least once,omg miss that type of sex life.

some of us will be sex addicts,of course we will. some will have other disorders which means they cannot function without a lot of sex with multiple partners. if you feel you have problems then look into them yourself. if you're not coping then seek help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I am not. I just have it few times a year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a addict just can never seem to get enough well get any as a matter of fact lol ??????

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"No. I am not. I just have it few times a year "
thats regularly

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"No. A sex addict puts themselves into dangerous situations to get their fix. I barely can be bothered to arrange a meet. I just enjoy sex with no strings with lovely men."

Actually, I've changed my mind. I'm not an addict either. I turned down a meet a few weeks ago because it was cold, dark and rainy and I wanted to watch a James Bond film.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. I am not. I just have it few times a year thats regularly "
That is right it is too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm in remission. proud of myself.

so much more focused out things outside of sex because of it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not a addict just can never seem to get enough well get any as a matter of fact lol ??????"

made me chuckle interesting points of view

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By *wcwCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

If you like something. Ya goin to do it as often as you can. Regardless of what it is. Could be anything. Duznt mean your an addict. Does it. As long as noone is getting hurt. Why not do the things ya enjoy. Everyones different. N ppl should not be judged on what they like or not like. Well thats wot i think anyway. Lol. Happy fabbing. Or whatever you do in life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It has been suggested to me on more than one occasion.

I'm hoping to gather so many addictions that they cancel each other out in a state of blissful, voluptuous nirvana.

"

A man after both our hearts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think the number of partners, concurrent or not, or the frequency that we choose to have sex makes us or anyone an addict.

I think an addiction is when it begins to take over your life, and deprioritises the other things in your life that are perhaps less fun, but essential. Like work, exercise, non sexual or platonic or family relations,and of course conducting actions that will put yourself and others in danger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The chance would a fine thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am simply not an addictive personality type, so no. Once a week, and I'm happy, haha...but if not I just survive somehow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. A sex addict puts themselves into dangerous situations to get their fix. I barely can be bothered to arrange a meet. I just enjoy sex with no strings with lovely men.

Actually, I've changed my mind. I'm not an addict either. I turned down a meet a few weeks ago because it was cold, dark and rainy and I wanted to watch a James Bond film. "

That's me, "I'm busy". Definition: lounging on my sofa, unshaven, watching Netflix.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"It has been suggested to me on more than one occasion.

I'm hoping to gather so many addictions that they cancel each other out in a state of blissful, voluptuous nirvana.

A man after both our hearts"

Shame ya blocked single men, eh?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

No I go weeks and sometimes months without unfortunately, not through choice I hasten to add, I just find it hard to meet people I want to have sex with

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dont think the number of partners, concurrent or not, or the frequency that we choose to have sex makes us or anyone an addict.

I think an addiction is when it begins to take over your life, and deprioritises the other things in your life that are perhaps less fun, but essential. Like work, exercise, non sexual or platonic or family relations,and of course conducting actions that will put yourself and others in danger.

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well said mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This popped into my head whilst having 1 of my long showers. Are we really just a bunch of sex addicts? I've seen loads of people on come on & off over the year (including myself) & made me wonder. Are normal relations just to boring or do we seek more to satisfy our sexual cravings? Why not just be satisfied in normal relations with 1 person? Why the numerous partners? Yes there are many reasons why each person swings but if was to visit a phychiathist, do u think you cld be diagnosed as a sex addict? "

I can be happy with just having sex with someone special.

And I dont have numerous partners either.

You dont necessarily have to be any of those things that apply to you to frequent a place like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to think of myself as more of a selective enthusiast..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers for the feedback guys, was just curious to know if 'subconsciously' we might have been just a bunch of sex addicts lol

learn something new everyday like my dad says

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town


"This popped into my head whilst having 1 of my long showers. Are we really just a bunch of sex addicts? I've seen loads of people on come on & off over the year (including myself) & made me wonder. Are normal relations just to boring or do we seek more to satisfy our sexual cravings? Why not just be satisfied in normal relations with 1 person? Why the numerous partners? Yes there are many reasons why each person swings but if was to visit a phychiathist, do u think you cld be diagnosed as a sex addict? "

No I'm not

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