FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

Cat behaviour

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My cat is getting old. She's an adorable chubby ragdoll cat. Thing is, she is becoming more and more clingy: following me around and laying with me all the time. ls this just because of her age? ls it healthy? l know l can google it but it's always good to listen to other cat owners.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awwwwww bless her. My baby is clingy too but she's only 18 months xxx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How old exactly, one of our cats lived for 16 years, nearing the end he got very clingy, and very placid.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *nequeenslutWoman
over a year ago

rugeley

this can be a sign of illness is your cat eating properly

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My cat is getting old. She's an adorable chubby ragdoll cat. Thing is, she is becoming more and more clingy: following me around and laying with me all the time. ls this just because of her age? ls it healthy? l know l can google it but it's always good to listen to other cat owners."

mine is 10(i think), she has always been clingy...but not receptive. All of a sudden in the last year, she likes her belly rubbed(something I'd be scratched upon), while sleeping on my chest...FFS she's even kissed me lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

As cats become older they do get the same problems we do, eyes not as good, hearing starts to go.

If she is starting to loose one of her important senses she could be using you more and more as a lifeline.....or it could just be she wants more snuggles

If you are concerned it never hurts getting them checked over and say about behavioural changes

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How old is old, some cats crave more attention as they age. It's also possible that there might be a medical reason and it's always worthwhile getting a check up if her behaviour has changed dramatically in a short space of time.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How old exactly, one of our cats lived for 16 years, nearing the end he got very clingy, and very placid."

11 this year. So not elderly but up there. l hope she lives longer.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ragdolls are placid cuddly types anyway, mine has become more cuddly now the weather is colder, wants to be where the body heat is lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Awwwwww bless her. My baby is clingy too but she's only 18 months xxx"

get another kitten lol x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"this can be a sign of illness is your cat eating properly "

Yes, she loves food. She has that little pad of fat that ragdolls get.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My cat is 18

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My cat is getting old. She's an adorable chubby ragdoll cat. Thing is, she is becoming more and more clingy: following me around and laying with me all the time. ls this just because of her age? ls it healthy? l know l can google it but it's always good to listen to other cat owners.

mine is 10(i think), she has always been clingy...but not receptive. All of a sudden in the last year, she likes her belly rubbed(something I'd be scratched upon), while sleeping on my chest...FFS she's even kissed me lol"

Awwww luna always kisses me. Xxx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 23/01/17 14:30:48]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Awwwwww bless her. My baby is clingy too but she's only 18 months xxx

get another kitten lol x"

I'd love too xxx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"this can be a sign of illness is your cat eating properly

Yes, she loves food. She has that little pad of fat that ragdolls get. "

She literally steals my seat when l get up. :P

Ragdolls are the best.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As cats become older they do get the same problems we do, eyes not as good, hearing starts to go.

If she is starting to loose one of her important senses she could be using you more and more as a lifeline.....or it could just be she wants more snuggles

If you are concerned it never hurts getting them checked over and say about behavioural changes "

my cat still see's space pirates in the corner..plus her tail is still some kind of space tentacle out for revenge...the best IS, she knows I have a mouse...she knows I press a button, she knows this button makes a cool light....she knows she must chase it.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rag dolls are naturally placid and clingy I think anyway. My ragdoll is only five years old and I can't go to the loo or have a bath without her being there by my side.

But I recently had another cat who was very ill just before Christmas. And she is a reclusive cat but found when she was ill she became very clingy

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this can be a sign of illness is your cat eating properly

Yes, she loves food. She has that little pad of fat that ragdolls get.

She literally steals my seat when l get up. :P

Ragdolls are the best."

I think rag dolls are to

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Rag dolls are naturally placid and clingy I think anyway. My ragdoll is only five years old and I can't go to the loo or have a bath without her being there by my side.

But I recently had another cat who was very ill just before Christmas. And she is a reclusive cat but found when she was ill she became very clingy "

l prefer the affection a cat gives. Dogs are great but they like everyone usually. l like that cats are exclusive with their affection.

Hope the cat is on the mend. x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my dog started following me around when she got old. i think it was because she was going blind and kind of losing her confidence with that, she was also somewhat deaf as well but it was when she started going blind that she became clingy.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

....your got it easy lol.1 of ours tries to follow me to work or tries to get in the car when kitty goes to work and he also is a keen climber-we had to get him down from a neighbours house roof-he was chasing a bird up a tree and carried on upwards and stayed there till our neighbour told us where he was!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my dog started following me around when she got old. i think it was because she was going blind and kind of losing her confidence with that, she was also somewhat deaf as well but it was when she started going blind that she became clingy."

thats just made me NOT wanna watch marley n me again

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think it's a mark of trust and reliance upon you - perhaps because she's less confident/competent. If it's not a health related issue, which a vet could assist with: and I'm assuming her health's monitored anyway. Eyesight is an issue for cats as they age - they can use cat braille, as they feel around for known marks etc. But she's a socialised cat, so has put a great deal of trust in you and this brings about a certainty for her life. If you could add more interest into her life, then she may become more involved with other things. Regular play and exercise are good for her too - just as exercise is good for human mental health. Whilst they like routine and the opposite can be stress inducing, some novelty and change will be fine and can support keeping them stimulated, interested and engaged in what's going on around, other than you op.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'm by no means an expert but have had cats most of my life so can share some of my experiences.

I've noticed as my cats have aged their most dominant personality traits have gradually exaggerated. My eldest one is nearly 12 and he has always been very affectionate and cuddly. The last couple of years he has gradually become more and more so. We did have a very elderly cat who died 2 years ago aged 21. She was always very aloof and grumpy. The last few years she was fucking evil lol. If you walked past her sleeping spot she would try to scratch and bite you if you woke her up!

A dog loves you because you tell it to, a cat chooses who it wants to love. If your cat is choosing to be loving and affectionate towards you just enjoy it.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rag dolls are naturally placid and clingy I think anyway. My ragdoll is only five years old and I can't go to the loo or have a bath without her being there by my side.

But I recently had another cat who was very ill just before Christmas. And she is a reclusive cat but found when she was ill she became very clingy

l prefer the affection a cat gives. Dogs are great but they like everyone usually. l like that cats are exclusive with their affection.

Hope the cat is on the mend. x"

She is now Thanku

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a cat with the ex, gorgeous thing, all white fur and blue eyes. Found out she was deaf so always kept her indoors

She was always very cuddly with us all, especially me, as she'd sit on the back of the sofa and lick my head, grooming me as she saw me as the "alpha" of the house.

Since we split and I moved out though she went really cold towards my ex and spends most of her time sleeping on top of the wardrobe and only appears when she wants to eat or use the litter box.

Only recently she's started to sleep on my daughters bed at night but I moved out almost 5 years ago now so it's taken her a long time to start becoming loving again

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could just be using you as a heat source x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ragdolls are laid back cats.

My bengal kitten is flipping a devil

Cat. .......

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

It can be a sign of illness so I would bear that in mind.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It can be a sign of illness so I would bear that in mind. "

One if my cats did this when she was very ill before Christmas. Although she has recovered from her surgery she is still clingy with me and don't let me out of her sight and fends off the other four cats just to get all the attention

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rincessvenusCouple
over a year ago

Hull

if your concern just get her checked it helps you and her then you both can hace a puuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuufect time

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As cats become older they do get the same problems we do, eyes not as good, hearing starts to go.

If she is starting to loose one of her important senses she could be using you more and more as a lifeline.....or it could just be she wants more snuggles

If you are concerned it never hurts getting them checked over and say about behavioural changes

my cat still see's space pirates in the corner..plus her tail is still some kind of space tentacle out for revenge...the best IS, she knows I have a mouse...she knows I press a button, she knows this button makes a cool light....she knows she must chase it."

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top