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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This site is killing my confidence every time I send a face pic people ignore me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been blocked when I've sent face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens OP - I've had the same. Things usually go south when it comes to face pics.

Keep plugging away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This site is killing my confidence every time I send a face pic people ignore me "

I don't think it is your face pic that's causing the problem.

Chin up, sometimes it takes a while to get a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't mean you are too ugly mate, some people are difficult to please but I am sure you'll find someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As to why I don't have any face pics ...no point ...just show on cam instead then they get the picture

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Comes with the territory... happens to most.

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By *ust4fun555Man
over a year ago

city centre

Are they asking for your face pic or are you sending it as an intro?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon some guys would consider one meet in 8 weeks from a preference limited to only seeking M/F couples was a positive result ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't take it to heart.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I send them when they say pic or no meet just feel horrible lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I send them when they say pic or no meet just feel horrible lol

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I've been blocked for this too. It happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been blocked for this too. It happens "

Get out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This site is killing my confidence every time I send a face pic people ignore me "

That sucks... sorry to hear that

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

"I've been blocked when I've sent face pic

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been blocked after sending face pics too it happens best not to take it personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You not alone buddy someone turned to stone when sent them my face pic

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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago

bellshill

"I've been blocked after sending face pics too it happens best not to take it personally

Obviously your beauty intimidated them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens to us all.

Think of it another way, everyone that blocks you brings you closer to the one who says 'yes please, I'll have me some of that action'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least you aren't relegated to having a wank bud

You have your wife to fall back on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happens to us all.

Think of it another way, everyone that blocks you brings you closer to the one who says 'yes please, I'll have me some of that action'

That's a nice way of looking at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At least you aren't relegated to having a wank bud

You have your wife to fall back on

If I fell on my wife, she'd get crushed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happens to us all.

Think of it another way, everyone that blocks you brings you closer to the one who says 'yes please, I'll have me some of that action'

That's a nice way of looking at it

Glass half full mate, that's how this fugly fatty rolls.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone I feel better now x

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"This site is killing my confidence every time I send a face pic people ignore me "

what can I say fella as one butt ugly guy all I can say is this do you really want to be fuck someone who's only interested in fucking you to boost there own ego ...?

because remember this sallow people are only interested in whether you will look good on their veries or not,

there are people on here op who only fuck those that will make them look more attractive to the next mark when they come along .

do you really want to get involved in that sort of ego race ....?

if i was you I'd view everyone who turns you down purely on one static picture as i ego booster and count yourself lucky you didn't go there after all you only missing out on a ego fuck ,

ego fucks are easily forgotten trust me i should know as I've had a few in my time.

do you really want to be nothing more than a ego fuck easily forgotten easily move on from because that how most shallow people roll .

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

It happens to all of us. It might be because you look like someone they know, don't fit a mental picture they have of a perfect meet, anything. Show who you are through messages before you show who you are visually. It won't always happen but be patient and confident that at some point it will.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I've been blocked for this too. It happens

Get out

Yeah, not before I was called an ugly cunt mind

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

You need to accept that we can't be everyone's cup of tea, this site is also to fulfil fantasies along with other things and I admit some may call me shallow, but I know who I am attracted to and will hold out until I find them.

If that is shallow, then so be it.

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By *ondon-guy68Man
over a year ago

London

I got told my arse was better looking

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"You need to accept that we can't be everyone's cup of tea, this site is also to fulfil fantasies along with other things and I admit some may call me shallow, but I know who I am attracted to and will hold out until I find them.

If that is shallow, then so be it."

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"I've been blocked for this too. It happens

Get out

Yeah, not before I was called an ugly cunt mind

Haven't seen your cunt (yet) so I can't possibly comment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get deeply offended when the chat stops after a face pic

Blocked for it enrages me

People are vile

Someone the other day changed her mind after arranging to meet me

And said it was me with the issue

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"I get deeply offended when the chat stops after a face pic

Blocked for it enrages me

People are vile

Someone the other day changed her mind after arranging to meet me

And said it was me with the issue

Why get offended lovely?

Nobody out there can possibly be everyone's type - and if we all had exactly the same preferences - most people out there would never get a shag!

I've been told several times that I'm not someone's type - doesn't bother me at all! I simply devote my time and attention to those who DO find me attractive! Simple!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it can work both ways I think attraction is a big part of having a connection. I've had it done many times. Even sometimes because I can't grow or don't have a beard.

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By *urchoicenowCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

"I've been blocked after sending face pics too it happens best not to take it personally

That's a joke, you're on our hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant be everyone's cup of tea be a boring world if we was but 2 seconds to reply and thanks but no thanks costs nothing we all have feelings what you have to remember is theres more men on here than women so we have that choice to be picky dont beat urself up about it I'm sure you will find a meet it just takes time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get deeply offended when the chat stops after a face pic

Blocked for it enrages me

People are vile

Someone the other day changed her mind after arranging to meet me

And said it was me with the issue

Why get offended lovely?

Nobody out there can possibly be everyone's type - and if we all had exactly the same preferences - most people out there would never get a shag!

I've been told several times that I'm not someone's type - doesn't bother me at all! I simply devote my time and attention to those who DO find me attractive! Simple!

Yeah I get that

I'm just old school in my principles I guess

Far too polite

Expect the same

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I've been blocked after sending a face pic OP. It happens. I don't think they're missing out or anything like that. I'm just not what they are looking for. Don't let it get to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try not to let something like that dent your confidence. You will be to some tastes but not to others. I have had it happen to me when I sent a face pic ( before they were in my public gallery). It happens to us all. You just have to keep trucking and know that, though one may not be bothered, another will fancy the pants off you.... Literally! Chin up lovely

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"This site is killing my confidence every time I send a face pic people ignore me "

Leave then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got told my arse was better looking

It is a very sexy arse though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been blocked when I've sent face pic

Me too. Everyone has their preference.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"This site is killing my confidence every time I send a face pic people ignore me "

Don't allow this site to dictate the way you feel. Fab shouldn't become your life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been blocked after sending face pics too it happens best not to take it personally

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you blocked they must be blind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block someone else to make yourself feel better and regain equilibrium.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

I get blocked even though I don't send face pics, so you aren't doing too badly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been looking for a single lady to join us for a while. Thought we'd found the perfect match and then saw the face pic. She looked lovely but also the splitting image of a close friend. We explained this and that it wasn't our kink. She then blocked us.

It's not always a bad thing being blocked so don't assume the worst

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've been looking for a single lady to join us for a while. Thought we'd found the perfect match and then saw the face pic. She looked lovely but also the splitting image of a close friend. We explained this and that it wasn't our kink. She then blocked us.

It's not always a bad thing being blocked so don't assume the worst

Lol I wouldn't of bought that story either

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"Try not to let something like that dent your confidence. You will be to some tastes but not to others. I have had it happen to me when I sent a face pic ( before they were in my public gallery). It happens to us all. You just have to keep trucking and know that, though one may not be bothered, another will fancy the pants off you.... Literally! Chin up lovely

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there she is I've missed that smile the last week or two how are you darling xxx

ps fancy a hard long draw out oh my I'm so glad to see you monopoly session

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got told my arse was better looking

It is a very sexy arse though

You've just come up as someone I might know on Facebook !!!!

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

OP. Look on the bright side.

For someone who's only been on here for only 8 weeks and who already has 1 verification, you've done well! Some guys take far longer to reach that stage!

The trick is patience and perseverance. Keep your face pic up on your Profile, any others move to Private. People can be fickle at times but someone somewhere will be drawn.

On your profile, say why you cannot accommodate otherwise people get suspicious and draw their own conclusions.

Remove too, any negativity as to why you can't get meets as that too us off putting.

Get around the forums, go to socials and clubs in your area - get yourself noticed.

But don't think everyone is out to get you; it's just the fickleness of people in general, not just on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there she is I've missed that smile the last week or two how are you darling xxx

ps fancy a hard long draw out oh my I'm so glad to see you monopoly session

Hi lovely

. Just had some stuff to deal with, so took a few days out.

Is that a proposition sir?

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This site is killing my confidence every time I send a face pic people ignore me

what can I say fella as one butt ugly guy all I can say is this do you really want to be fuck someone who's only interested in fucking you to boost there own ego ...?

because remember this sallow people are only interested in whether you will look good on their veries or not,

there are people on here op who only fuck those that will make them look more attractive to the next mark when they come along .

do you really want to get involved in that sort of ego race ....?

if i was you I'd view everyone who turns you down purely on one static picture as i ego booster and count yourself lucky you didn't go there after all you only missing out on a ego fuck ,

ego fucks are easily forgotten trust me i should know as I've had a few in my time.

do you really want to be nothing more than a ego fuck easily forgotten easily move on from because that how most shallow people roll .

What absolute bollocks.