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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

when was the last time you cried?

i've had a bizzare week where i've cried at a lot of various things. Hormones are all over the place

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Just now watching Waterloo road..

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Thursday 27 May 2004 around 20.30 ish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The other week when my friend tried to tell me I was living my life wrong.

silly sausage!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8yrs ago when I had my dog put to sleep. He'd been my best mate for nearly 18yrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Thursday 27 May 2004 around 20.30 ish"

Was that when you last bought a round of drinks ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"8yrs ago when I had my dog put to sleep. He'd been my best mate for nearly 18yrs "

ive never had a pet, but would imagine it to be a very hard thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last night watching a documentry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last week.I went to my parents grave and it had subsided.

Nothing I could have done but you still feel guilty for some reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yesterday after my surgery when I was told I didnt have cancer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I saw a mare and it's foal lying dead in the road after an horrific accident a few weeks ago

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"

Thursday 27 May 2004 around 20.30 ish

Was that when you last bought a round of drinks ?"

lol No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yesterday after my surgery when I was told I didnt have cancer "

Awesome

Brilliant news xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"8yrs ago when I had my dog put to sleep. He'd been my best mate for nearly 18yrs "

Totally relate to that, mine waited on me gettin home before he passed away, was a delayed thing, took him to vet etc, got home and just the thought that he held on till dad got home had me balling my eyes out later.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

earlier this evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yesterday at the funeral of dear friend x

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"When I saw a mare and it's foal lying dead in the road after an horrific accident a few weeks ago "

My mum was riding and a car went straight into the back end of a horse... my mum said it was the most horrfic thing she had every had to go through..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yesterday at the funeral of dear friend x "

Thoughts are with you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i Filled The Car "Up" with Diesel - i nearly cried

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

What is it with men and dogs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 9 years ago never cryed since no one or nothing worth crying over.....

* creEps rOunD grAveYaRd * -|-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yesterday after my surgery when I was told I didnt have cancer

Awesome

Brilliant news xx"

thanks xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I saw a mare and it's foal lying dead in the road after an horrific accident a few weeks ago

My mum was riding and a car went straight into the back end of a horse... my mum said it was the most horrfic thing she had every had to go through.. "

so sad.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"earlier this evening"

Don't say him indoors made you cry..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm walking home stPatricks day 2008, d*unk as fuck 10mins from home and got beat up by two guys for fuck all-ninja skills fail when d*unk lol-was actually crying o my way home rather than from the beating...cried when I looked next day in mirror at the state of my face...fractured cheek and a red eye that even the devil would be proud of!!!

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"

Thursday 27 May 2004 around 20.30 ish

Was that when you last bought a round of drinks ?

lol No. "

ffs no,last time mushy bought a round.

he could get 2 pints,and a fish supper,on his way home.for 5 bob.

for another shilling,he could buy a sheepskin rug.(unstained)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"earlier this evening

Don't say him indoors made you cry.. "

She must of got some soap in her eyes

Seriously though Wendy... hope you are ok xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cry most nights when I look at my late wife's picture before I go to sleep.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I cry most nights when I look at my late wife's picture before I go to sleep.

"

Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yesterday morning (the first time in a very long time) when I received a text from someone very important to me saying they had been neglecting me for a long time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Thursday 27 May 2004 around 20.30 ish"

27 May every year since 1991!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yesterday at the funeral of dear friend x

Thoughts are with you xx"

Thanks Frock x

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset

Shed a few tears taking the dog to Vets to be put to sleep just before last xmas, and burying him in our garden, were he use to lay in the sun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awwwwwwww how sad

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

An hour ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An hour ago."

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Thursday 27 May 2004 around 20.30 ish

27 May every year since 1991! "

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cry most nights when I look at my late wife's picture before I go to sleep.

"

((((((hugs)))))) xx

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"An hour ago."

awwwww xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ooo best not show Siren this thread as she cries at the drop of a hat. I'm not one for crying at all and don't understand those that do let their emotions run riot - which causes tension between Siren and I sometimes and now when she feels like a cry (what's all that about then, how can you feel like a cry for no apparent reason? Don't get that at all) - she buggers off to another room with a box of kleenex.

I guess that explains why we get through a lot of tissue in our house and here was me thinking she'd been having a sly fiddle all this time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this morning when my boss had ago at me

saying my work isnt up to standard.

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"I cry most nights when I look at my late wife's picture before I go to sleep.

"

Thats a real pisser mate ,i hope things eventually come good for you and wish you all the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cry most nights when I look at my late wife's picture before I go to sleep.

"

big hugs xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sunday morning when I Sprained my ankle whilst taking the washing outside. Ouch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats brill news hun, so pleased 4 ya,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ooo best not show Siren this thread as she cries at the drop of a hat. I'm not one for crying at all and don't understand those that do let their emotions run riot - which causes tension between Siren and I sometimes and now when she feels like a cry (what's all that about then, how can you feel like a cry for no apparent reason? Don't get that at all) - she buggers off to another room with a box of kleenex.

I guess that explains why we get through a lot of tissue in our house and here was me thinking she'd been having a sly fiddle all this time. "

It's not about letting your emotions run riot when you cry (unless it's bloody PMT!!!).

Crying is natural and is a fantastic way of off-loading emotions when facing painful/difficult times.

Those that control crying but can't control their temper are the ones that are usually the ones that are often found running riot emotionally in my honest opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching Panorama earlier this week.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Not sure, wasnt today though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely ages ago, can't even remember. Oh yes I can, had a bout of sciatica, the pain made me cry.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

last friday...someone said no to me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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27 May every year since 1991! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In fact, three types of tears exist, all with different purposes. Basal tears are omnipresent in our eyes. These constant tears are what keep our eyes from drying out completely. The human body produces an average of 5 to 10 ounces of basal tears each day. They drain through the nasal cavity, which is the reason so many of us develop runny noses after a good sobfest.

The second type is reflex tears, which serve to protect the human eye from harsh irritants such as smoke, onions or even a very strong, dusty wind. To accomplish this feat, the sensory nerves in your cornea communicate this irritation to your brain stem, which in turn sends hormones to the glands in the eyelids. These hormones cause the eyes to produce tears, effectively ridding them of the irritating substance.

The third type of tears is emotional tears. It all starts in the cerebrum where sadness is registered. The endocrine system is then triggered to release hormones to the ocular area, which then causes tears to form. Emotional tears are common among people who see Bambi's mother die or who suffer personal losses.

The phrase "having a good cry" suggests that crying can actually make you feel physically and emotionally better, which many people believe. Some scientists agree with this theory, asserting that chemicals build up in the body during times of elevated stress. These researchers believe that emotional crying is the body's way of ridding itself of these toxins and waste products.

http://health.howstuffworks.com/mental-health/human-nature/other-emotions/crying1.htm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brilliant post@Be Nice

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

On Monday of this week, when I attended the funeral of a really close friend and ex colleague of mine, who died two weeks ago on my birthday.

Then again that evening as I heard one of her favourite songs on the radio, which had been played at the church on a CD to the waiting mourners before the service began.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"8yrs ago when I had my dog put to sleep. He'd been my best mate for nearly 18yrs "
that made me cry as I can relate to that. The horse accident did too. I never hack out on the road as too many idiots about. I'll take my chances on the farm bridle path with being startled by horse eating hares lol. Anything to do with animals turns me into a complete blubbering wreck.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I cry most nights when I look at my late wife's picture before I go to sleep.

"

Oh that's so sad

I cry all the time. My boss plays it as a sport. How quick can we make Leanne cry lol

I have a go to film that I watch when I need to cry to make myself feel better called 'before women had wings' with oprah winfrey in

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

watching 24hrs in A&E when the old man's wife died and said his wife was simply perfection, im such a wuss lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can alwaya guarantee that Glee with get me blubbing like a big gurl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can cry at the daftest thins, someones wedding, summat on the telly. And when sitting remembering good times with loved ones who have past .

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

Two weeks ago when my oldest cat Max died...he was given to my darling dad for his 60th birthday but he'd lived with me for 18 years. Ooooooop...change that to 5 seconds ago....my face just got very wet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cry most nights when I look at my late wife's picture before I go to sleep.

"

It'll get easier.

I have a picture of my son on the wall at the bottom of my bed. It's the last thing I see at night and the first thing I see in the morning.

I used to cry just looking at it, as it's a picture with my eldest holding her brother and my middle daughter asleep in the background. The happiest period of my life...two days later he was dead.

You'll look at your wife's picture and smile without the tears one day. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

last weekend watching a talking heads film with thora hird in it called 'waiting for the telegram'

so moving

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By *razydriver8Couple
over a year ago

plymouth

at the weekend, during my PMT episode, but that was a sort of angry/sad cry.

i get teary whatching some programes such as the panaroma programe on that care home.

last time i had a proper, heart retching,full on cry was last april 24th ,after being with my dad in hospitial as he took his last breath and passed away as i held his hand,, i couldnt stand up for all the emotion that was flowing through me.

(huggs) to every one xxx

HSM

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

January 6th 2007 on hearing the news that our nephew, Robert had been killed in a car crash! Then on Friday 19th January 2007 at his funeral!

A year before we had to have our cat, Tinkerbell put to sleep! Broke my heart and I blubbed like a baby. Also June 2010 when I visited a different vet about a stray cat and they told me that Tinker could have had a good quality of life for years! First vet was wrong!!!

Last but not least, inside every day! I think of my parents and have realised that at 87 and 85 they will not be here much longer. Their passing will be sad, but more sad at the moment is they live 350 miles away and we just can't afford to visit them more than once a year!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"January 6th 2007 on hearing the news that our nephew, Robert had been killed in a car crash! Then on Friday 19th January 2007 at his funeral!

A year before we had to have our cat, Tinkerbell put to sleep! Broke my heart and I blubbed like a baby. Also June 2010 when I visited a different vet about a stray cat and they told me that Tinker could have had a good quality of life for years! First vet was wrong!!!

Last but not least, inside every day! I think of my parents and have realised that at 87 and 85 they will not be here much longer. Their passing will be sad, but more sad at the moment is they live 350 miles away and we just can't afford to visit them more than once a year! "

yes, the parents thing is on of those i just have to put at the back of my mind.

mum had swine flu over new year which caused her transplanted kidney to fail.

that was a truly scary & upsetting time and i still think now that if i hadn't have flipped my biscuit with her GP she wouldn't have been with us now.

listening to my mum tell me that she didn't want to go on living because she felt so ill was the most heart wrenching thing i have dealt with to date.

then having been told she was 'simply depressed' by a locum doc during a night-time visit, i lost the plot with the GP the following morning, who ordered some blood tests and within 8 hours she was in intensive care

thankfully, 6 months later she is back on her feet again. not in perfect health but the best I have seen her since the transplant 18 months ago.

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"thankfully, 6 months later she is back on her feet again. not in perfect health but the best I have seen her since the transplant 18 months ago. "

Result! Hope she continues to keep well for years to come. I do consider myself luck to have my parents at this point in my life, but not being able to see them is really upsetting! Still, off down there in a few weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thankfully, 6 months later she is back on her feet again. not in perfect health but the best I have seen her since the transplant 18 months ago.

Result! Hope she continues to keep well for years to come. I do consider myself luck to have my parents at this point in my life, but not being able to see them is really upsetting! Still, off down there in a few weeks "

thank you

hope you have a fab time with your 'olds' too

am sure it will be a massive treat for them.

if they're anything like mine it will be anyway.

they get excited seeing my ugly mush pressed up against the living room window and i only live 6 miles away lol

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